What does my Aquarius man want from me

by Jasmine
(Cape Town)

I have known an aquarius guy for quite a while.He manages a restaurant and I used to go often to that restaurant to eat.While he was working,he would come say hi to me and we would sometimes chat.After a few months I applied for a job in that same restaurant to work as a waitress.He was the one interviewing me and he said he will call me back to start.He did not call back and I was disappointed.I stopped going to the restaurant as I was embarrassed to run into him. Sometimes friends offered to go eat there but I always came up with excuses as to why I didnt want to go there and when they would beg me to join them for a meal, I had to plan to go there at certain times when he wasn't on shift which was during the day. I went there a couple of times during the day and it worked. Then I didn't go to the restaurant for 6 months until one day I decided to have coffee there in the afternoon before leaving for work. I went in to the restaurant and without even noticing my surroundings, I bumped into him. He was so happy to see me and it looked like he missed me. Instead of saying hi to him, I gave him a cold shoulder and went to sit at table. Then he came to serve me, and in my mind all I was thinking was "please dont serve me, please let some other waiter serve me".After he served my meal,he came to sit at my table and started chatting with me. I was still ignoring him but eventually we had a nice chat.Then I had to leave.As I was leaving, he asked if I am single, I said yes,then he said "good,let it stay that way".He asked me to come visit him often to say hi.I was contemplating if I should visit him so I decided to go there again.I visited a few times, and every time he would flirt with me infront of his employees, showering me with attention.I thought he was just showing off and seeking attention...
Then he gave me his number once. At first it was strange for me that he gave his number to call instead of asking for my number. It took me 2 weeks to decide to text him, there was no reply first, then after a week he called to check who called him, I reminded him he gave his number to me, all he could say was: "you must come visit and call me often" ,then I told him he has my number as well and he is welcome to call me too". After 4 days he didnt call, I felt like such a fool and I called him to ask him on a date, we set a time and place. Funny enough he didnt offer to pick me up from where I live. We met and the date was nice, He mostly was talking about himself and barely asked anything about me. He seemd to like me and sayed Im different from all the other girls. Afterwards he said he had to go, I had to ask him to give me a lift home. So he did.Then he said he hopes to see me again and that he appreciates me asking him out on a date.
A week after that date, there was still no call from him, then I decided to call again, we planned another date but then it was cancelled, 2 days after, he texts me asking if Im available for drinks, we set an indefinite time and place and I suggested on a nice place to go. I was about to get dressed and waited for his call, and as the indefinite time passed, there was no sign of him, I texted him asking what time do we meet,no answer. After an hour, I called him , he ignored my call. So I decided to move on and forget about him.
After 2 weeks, I get 2 missed calls on my phone, surprisingly from him on 2 different numbers with 30 minutes difference between each of them. One was his work number, the second one was his cell number. I decided not to reply, then maybe he will text me or call again. It seems everyday now I am recieving 1 missed call from a private number but I dont know if its him.
Is he playing games with me or testing me?
Was I being too clingy that night when he ignored my call?
I dont know what to think of him anymore. He is an enigma to me...