What Aquarius men look for in a woman?

by GR
(Philipsburg St.Maarten)

I am currently in a relationship with an aquarius man for the past 3 weeks. We had sex on our second date and right after he hands me his house keys. 3 days later I partially moved in with him and things are going great between us. He was very shy when I met him but now I am starting to ask myself if I should see this as a period to play? short term or long term? Whenever I tell him I am going home to my own house he asks me why. He's now planning for us to move in together in a villa. I'm not sure what to think. I know he enjoys the sex with me and my fabulous cooking but what are the other things he could be looking for. On top of it all we communicate in three different languages as he is french and the language barrier is at times quite irritating. Help a Capricorn woman understand what are the qualities of woman an Aquarius man is looking for?

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SHIFT YOUR PARADIGM
by: Anonymous

my bet is, theres nothing to do with your cooking and your sex ability (well, maybe theyre just bonuses for him). as aquarius likes to explore a new interesting-mysterious-challenging things in the world especially in humanity area, i think it is YOU YOURSELF what he likes.. including your both awkward way to communicate to each other.

while you're too much paying attention to physical things to know what it is (your cooking, your sex, your body? etc), try to find it inside you, like what is your believe, your value, and your thinking (everything inside your head) that he likes.

A little advice
by: Coyote

As an Aquarian male, it's awesome to have someone who is uninhibited in the bedroom and can cook. We love learning things and like to have a huge repertoire at our command. I personally may have sex with a woman, but if she can't satisfy my intellectual needs that's all it is, sex. I've only had one woman that has been able to do that, and that was on a camping trip for our friend's birthday. After hours of passionate sex (that i had been lusting after for the better part of a year) her and i lay there and talked about philosophy about the universe, a favorite past time of mine actually, and she pointed out errors in my theories. That is what i truly look for in a partner, someone that can understand my level of thinking and point out errors in it to better my understanding of what i consider to be real. Sex is good, food is great, the mind is everything.

what a aquarious men looks on a woman
by: Anonymous

an aquirious man really looks for some who can understand them .

nice shot brother
by: uron

hey coyote nice story.whats your camping-girl's sign anyway?i believe shes not capricorn due to caps lack of imagination

What Aquarius men look for in a woman?
by: Anonymous

After trying the relationship with my aquarian man for two months and a half I ended up breaking it off and we both parted on good terms. Niether of us was in love. Seeing that we both had a language barriere it was difficult to feed or stimulate each others minds. I found that I was in a stand still in the relationship and he felt that we were not progressing as a couple. Though I am a capricorn I also love to induldge in intellectual conversations as I love to learn and uncover mysteries myself. It is sad when people believe that capricorns are rigid, for I personally don't experience myself being rigid or only focussed on carriere. I love life and induldge myself in energies and the mystics of the universe, politics sports whaat ever you may have as I am also a buddhist and stand open for anything new or strange where as the human mind can have difficulties to comprehend. I believe that our relationship could have worked only if we could have spoken the same language which I have met another aquarius man who we have deep conversations with eachother in dutch as I am dutch and he is too. I do not think I can ever deal with the french again.

thanks for update
by: Cap wAries rising

dear Cappy with French Aquarian,

thank you so much for update on your Aqua situation...I am Cap involved with Aqua, too.

I also agree, not all Cap's are so narrow-minded...we can be very spiritual & mystic & creative as well! I guess the rest of the chart matters on that point.

Best of luck with your new Aquarius!

Well...
by: Mielita

Yeah, the rumors are everywhere on the Capricorn girls :) Ehem, -

As a young Capricorn with Aries rising and a moon in Libra, i'm an unconventional cap in some aspects, but it seems aquarian males appreciate ambiguity. Mi current boyfriend is an Aquarius, and I often have him trying to keep up with me! I'm passionate but i keep my emotions from him until provoked ("relationship" is a scary enough word without the word "serious" in front). I love to communicate, though I rarely contact him first after absences, fights, etc. (mi focuses shift quickly) And i do have an imagination, surprise lol, as he gets a kick when i share some of mi "daydreams" with him (and promptly follow through) ;) Just keep an aquarian male on his toes, but never give him too much to work with (aka smother him). if you do, he'll basically freak/overload - they're still men, just more extreme.

W/Aquarian man for life
by: Lioness

I am a Leo. Leo's and Aquarius are supposedly not that compatible, but one of my best friends in the world is an Aqua (male). We have been friends for 22 years. We have so much fun together and talk all night until the sun rises. We have always just been friends. People would ask us all the time why we never hooked up. We just have that brother sister love for each other. I love him to death, but he has the worse luck in the love department. He has been married and divorced twice (also had many GF in between) as I have only been married once and still am. With him, I notice he always falls for woman who don't seem to intellectually or emotionally fulfil him. I wish he would let me pick one out for him. lol!! But I am not the type to pry.

Aquarius
by: RORO

As a Aquarius man, speaking for myself I would have to say being a freind to me and my lover plays a key role on if the relationship will be fruitful. Someone who can climb trees, wear holes in her jeans, drink a beer with me while talking trash respectfully to each other. Just being my pal in a sense, while maintaining her sex appeal as a classey women when needed. When it's time to clean up and go out, she's a beuty queen. She's honest, loyal, smart, creative, friendly, careing,fun and very original in everything she does. She's willing to do what's needed to maintain a healthy environment for our relationship.

love is what you make of it
by: Anonymous

I believe if 2 people really love each other It can work .as an older Capricorn woman with an older Aquarius man..only known each other for four month and he love to travel as his job take him different Cities..he alway keep in touch each day...yes they love they space..and so do I.if you really love a person you will be patient and wait on them if that person is willingly except you for who you r then you should except what they like..any relationship is bast on what you make of it...what you willing to put into it

Libra woman...
by: Anonymous

Been dating a Dutch Aquarius for 2months now. We met in a pub in Africa, both out there on a job. Neither thought the other was their type. From conversations paradigms changed, am an African English, and we were locked in an undeniable connection. We met the following day and been together since.

We have deep conversations, and tease each other with me being the one to have the ultimate play. It's easy, fun, and quite loving. We are not inlove but communicate like two people planning a life together but neither actually is ready for it. I guess it's cos we are quite honest and open with one another. I understand the whole space thing and currently it works for me too as am a bit scared of longterm commitments. Lastnight he said I was like one of the guys except with a sex appeal. I take that as a high compliment.

Am just living in two situations the present which is pretty great and the past which tells me I will mess things up soon.

I communicate my feelings and try to make him feel special everyday. I don't want to overwhelm him eventhough he tells me he loves it and always look forward to it. I guess I just don't want him to get bored or take that for granted cos it takes major trust everyday for me to do that. Should I hold back?

We have no issues and appear to be a good fit. I don't want to rock the boat with being too affectionate if it isn't a good fit for an Aquarius guy.

Caps are imaginative
by: Anonymous

Alright so to the guy saying capricorns aren't creative, let's take these people into perspective, David Bowie Elvis Presley and please look up the guy who creates everything for studio ghibli , you will be amazed at the creativity if this particular capricorn.

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