Virgo woman wanting an Aries man

by Alexandria
(hackensack nj usa)

So I've known this Aries man for about three years. I'm a Virgo woman he's about 4 years older than me.. we hit it off great we hang out all the time we have great sex we joke around it's awesome but then he pulls back.. it'll be a month or two of us having fun but then something happens and he doesn't talk to me for a while.. we just started talking again after 7 months of no communication and now he's picked things back up like we never stopped talking.. we've gone back and forth about a relationship but he keeps saying he's not ready.. he was dating someone for a while before we meet but they had broken up before we meet.. and he won't talk to me about it.. i feel like I'm going crazy cause i like him a lot and he says he likes me too but won't do anything to change the situation we are in... i'm like at a loss of what to do.. i've tried to ignore him but he seems to like that more and pursues me more and then when i'm hanging out with him he seems to pull back.. idk what to do can anyone help?

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THE JURY IS OUT I'M AFRAID!!!
by: Anonymous

Hi - Aries men love the chase but dont like being pursued themselves, so you ignoring him is a turn on. However, 7 months is a long time fr him to stay away and what would worry me is that he wont talk about his ex. Why?? After all, if he is over her it shouldnt be a probelm so that would worry me. Does he just clam up totally or has he spoken a bit about her but just wont provide details? So what is he up to relationshipwise in those 7 months? Is he fooling around - sounds a bit like he is not ready for another relationship at this time. Personally I would let him have his space because if he likes you he will be back, although you have to decide whether the long gaps of nothing are whatyou want or whether you want a more consistent relationship. Aries are by no means an easy sign but I would suggest you read up about their nature and characteristics cos they can really play with your mind if you dont understand how they tick. They come across as fickle and childist sometimes and are well known for their nasty or tactless comments. They just dont think about what comes out of their mouths and are more a physical thinking sign of the zodiac. Goood luck!

Move on if it's been a while
by: Aries

If he is still around then he's interested. Once they have feelings for you, they will try to keep you happy. If the feelings are not there and he's been gone for a while then he is gone. Actually, I'm surprised that as a Virgo you've managed to snag an Aries. Catching an Aries isn't really difficult though, it's keeping them that's the challenge.

**to the person who says he doesn't talk about his ex, why would he? That person is in the past--this is the present. They're an ex for a reason. It's so pointless to talk about/ pine over someone long gone from your life

thanks
by: alexandria

we have talked about his ex a bit he's given the the reasons they aren't together which makes me believe there isn't anything between them... he's told me time after time i'm the only girl in his "cool peoples" list. and just about the only girl he hangs out with.. (we hang out almost every day and we work together)..
the whole if he likes me he's around if he doesn't he's not that confuses me a bit cause he's always around so is that just him being afraid of that commitment cause he's scared what happened between his ex and him will happen again?? aries are confusing i've looked and looked at so much info about aries men and yet i;m still at a loss lol thanks you two for showerin some advice my way it's definatly appreciated

You really should just ask him
by: Aries

An Aries man likes a confident woman.
It might be a little intimidating; nobody wants to get hurt. Maybe you can ask him jokingly if he wants to take you on a date or even suggest going for drinks or something. Worse he'll say is no and then you'll both be out of your misery

i have
by: alexandria

we've gone out together a bunch just us and with other people... that's the confusing part... we see each other alot and we act like a couple but there is no solid thing there and trying to understand if this is real is whats so confusing?

So you've gone out but you haven't asked?
by: Aries

Maybe that's the thing you need to do. You need to have "the talk". You know, "where is this going?" yadda yadda

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by: alexandria

just the thought of possibly being rejected scares the virgo in me like whoa...i know it's something i have to do i've been mulling over it for a while.. i guess it's just confirmed now that it's something i must do...

I understand
by: Anonymous

I was in the same situation. It ended in heart break. I too am a virgo. Just leave before you get hurt.

aries???
by: taurusgirl

soo they like the chase but they dont like to be pursued.... hmmmm so how do they settle in life?
loll. i dont understand aries people, but virgo woman i really think that u shudnt go for it. anyways virgos are not compatible with then. do u really wana keep ignoring a man in order for him to always be with u? or do u wana be able to have a boyfriend where you could always be comfortable around him and not just for the sex, and the chase. i just think its really stupid. and i really have to say this but Aries men are so FREAKIN weird. i have dealt with an aries guy before, and all he did was sweet talk, and aways talk about sex, and got upset after i rejected him. but i also think that if A man and i mean a REAL man wants to be with you, he wudnt be ignoring u for 7 months, he wud make it happend and try to settle down with you.

thanks
by: alexandria

i want to thank you all for the advice.. as a virgo i always ask for advice but rarely take it haha something i must learn to change... i am no longer speakign to the aries man we got pregnant and things went down hil and he disappeared which shows to me that you all were right.. i sadly lost the baby but i guess i see now that i should hold myself higher than just a FWB or whatever he considered me.. again thank you for the advise if i wasn't so blinded by what i thought was love i might have been wise enough to have left.. i guesss you gotta wait until the shit hits the fan to see who really is going to stay by your side!!

Virgo woman wants Aries Man to like her
by: Anonymous

I'm a virgo woman and fell for an Aries man years ago which never worked out. I moved on lived with a Capricorn, then we split. I've now met another Aries who I really like. Problem is we've spent a little time together had a really great time. I want more..how can I get him to like me? He says he wants to see me on times, then doesn't speak to me for a while. I know he likes someone else, but she's not interested. I've ignored him and asked him out. Should I just give up?

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