Virgo men relationships with Libra women

I am a Libra woman with Virgo rising and Aries moon and I'm a fire snake. So, I give deep thought to my idealistic thinking, am flexible while in a relationship with my partner, can be pretty intense at times, can be really narrow-minded and stubborn, very private, insecure, passionate, affectionate, sexual, caring, although not all that compassionate (Aries side) incredibly warm-hearted, but cool calculating/shrewd when I feel threatened, playful, and most of all, I'm a home-body who is clingy and protective of the man I want and adore. Basically, there is always a lot going on in my head and heart. I guess typical of a Libra, but to the third degree. :P

When I saw this section of the site, I was indeed interested. I have also sniffed the trail of a Virgo man. While I've been reading up on the compatibility between a Virgo man and Libra woman, all I've encountered are negative experiences. Surely, not ALL of those experiences could have been completely negative, or there would not have been a relationship, or marriage, or even dating for that matter. And, no offense, I'm just plain old tired of Virgos playing the "good" guy and the victim when it comes to being in a relationship with a Libra. Thus, slinging enough mud to build a condo. And, I'm sick of Libras saying that Virgos are a huge pain in their asses. Get it together folks. lol There is so much to be learned and gained from each other as you are BOTH changeable signs.

Personally, I think it IS possible for Libra woman and Virgo man to at least leave an intimate situation, without duking each other out for the winning ticket, or slandering each other. Virgo men-Know that mental/emotional power games ran on your partner as tests will not prove you're trustworthy to Libra women. It has nothing to do with her personal strength or weakness, or even the fact that you have the audacity to try and pick her apart. Simply put, your findings may not be accurate because the Libra woman is now withdrawing from you...she just can no longer trust you. Sounds familiar? And, that's unfortunate, since Libras are one of the most trusting signs. She has the power to turn every one of your suspicions of her into suspicions against you. Just be yourself and respect her for who she is-not what you would like her to be. You're practical, but be realistic when dealing with Libra women.

Libra women (clingy or not)-Know that your Virgo man is just as fickle in his emotions as you. He is not a love god. You're not given enough credit, but secretly you're very realistic. Justice takes a sharp realistic approach. Sometimes you scare yourself with realism. Try being practical instead. They're just men who needs you too. The only difference is that his mutable nature affords him the ability to hide his thoughts and emotions better than you. Doesn't make you less for your openness in any way. If anything, your Virgo man admires the fact that you can freely express your feelings and thoughts. The honesty definitely helps build loyalty between you two.