Taurus woman compatibility and Venus

The occasional unpredictability of my Aquarius Is what keeps me on my toes. If he was predictable, the love-in-Gemini In me would be whisked away by someone more stimulating. However, the Taurus In me needs the promise of stability. The fact that he's an Aquarius seems to enable him to resist peer pressure from his single friends. Some guys might fall for their single/less committed friends egging them on to be single too and agree with them on the Idea that being In a relationship Is Inhibiting. But my Aquarius doesn't fall for that, and rather takes pride In the fact that he's different from them and Is capable of maintaining a stable long term relationship. I love how Independently he thinks. Being stubborn myself, I look down on losers who give In easily. His stubbornness actually Impresses me, and the way he manages to detach emotions from reason totally helps me see things In a new light. We don't really clash much, but when we do, we talk things out and learn from what happened. As stubborn as we both are, we're both mature Individuals who will say sorry and do what It takes to keep each other happy and the relationship strong.

I love the Intensity level of our relationship. I feel we are both very level-headed and reasonable and aren't seeing each other through rose-colored glasses. Plus, I think both of us are constantly thinking about and assessing the relationship, and yet we still produce a billion more 'pros' than 'cons' In the end. Our mental processes don't offend each other's. I would understand If I was a more pure earth-sign Taurus and he was a more air-sign Aquarius, I'd have Issues of him talking rather than showing substance and I'd feel hurt addressing things that do not to be addressed. But Instead, I'm the one bringing up all sorts of thoughts and we lightheartedly talk about them without taking things personally. Though there Is an unbreakable bond between us without doubt, It's not In that over-the-top fiery way that can burn out. It's steady and grounded with the earth element. Our connection Is like holding hands with the fingers weaved, or holding each other In a tight hug at and nose-to-nose distance ... rather than being handcuffed or bound by the hip. It's not all soul-consuming like water bonds, and that actually scares me, being a love-in-Gemini. I love that we both have room for each other to roam freely without being thought pessimistically of, but at the end of the day we can't get enough of chatting to each other and being around each other.

Oh, and my Aquarius started talking marriage with me a few months Into the relationship. I think It's the Independently-thinking aspect (though Venus Capricorn probably has some Influence). Where we live, being In a relationship isn't as acceptable as It Is to be single and dating. Here, often a guy In a relationship Is referred to as 'whipped' or something derogatory like that. So ... In a way I feel the word 'independent' to describe Aquarius Is misunderstood. I think they just don't give a s*** what the norm Is, and independently do as they want with relationships. I think It's also Interesting because I come from a culture different from his, and that gives us more to talk about too. I feel accepted by my Aquarius In every way, and I feel like some of my traits that would make me a weirdo to others Is one of the many reasons he loves me. I can completely be myself around him and It's so refreshing!

He's right for me. But before you dismiss someone because of sun sign incompatibility, check out their Venus! If I didn't know to look at our charts, I could have very well dismissed the love of my life. =)