Taurus man pulling away

I have been talking to a Taurus man for about 2 1/2 months now. He is everything I want; sweet, gentle, caring, strong, funny and we have the same interests. But in this time, he has disappeared on me a so many times; he also has pulled no call and no shows. All of my friends don’t understand why I keep putting up with this type of behavior. I am a strong Leo woman who would usually drop a man for attempting this once! But there is something about him that keeps me around.

I have told him how his actions affect me. He has apologized and said he would try and correct this. He has some medical issues that he needs to deal with and I’ve tried to be there for him, and I also take into consideration that this could be part of the reason he disappears. We have only been intimate twice, and reading what I have read about Taurus’s needing constant touching, I believe he is seeing someone else.

When he disappears and reappears a couple of weeks later, he will apologize for his absence and make and excuse to why he was gone (which I know is a lie) and ask me out, I agree but he flakes most of the time. I have never thrown a fit about how he treats me; I’ve always talked to him about it. He tells me how he wants to see where this is going to go, and he wants to take things slow, and I agreed with him; But, I’m getting to the point where I’m going to walk away from this, because he is emotionally draining. Also the fact that I feel he is seeing another woman. I have men constantly asking me to go out, but my response is always no, because I know he will be back.

My questions are for all of you Taurus’s, is it normal for you to disappear for so long,  and flake so much, and not have another woman or am I fooling myself into thinking that I am the only one?

Should I walk away from this or continue to be patient? I really do like him a lot, maybe more than I should. I guess I just want to know that there could be light at the end of the tunnel.