Seducing Aries

Seducing Aries is usually fairly easy compared to some of the other zodiac signs. These are hunters and absolutely can't resist the thrill of the chase. They're very impulsive, have nerves of steel, and don't have a problem taking risks to get what they want. Best of all they don't over analyze a situation before acting. They're also naturally flirtatious, and not overly intuitive. All in all, a perfect combination (for you!)

The key to seducing an Aries is to make them come to you. Don't let them realize you're pursuing them, as that will turn them off. Think of them as a cat, and you're a piece of string. Play hard to get. Alternate between flirting outrageously with them, and then appearing indifferent, timid or shy. They need to feel like the initiator here, and not you.

Flirting with an Aries

These folks like passion. Subtlety, philosophical debate and mind games aren't their thing. So you don't want to impress their mind; you want to get their blood pumping.

Be as blunt and sexy as you dare. Lots of eye contact, sexual innuendo, flash some skin if you've got it, and each time you do a bad/sexy/inappropriate thing apologize and back off timidly for a while. Remember that cat and the string.

"Here, kitty-kitty..."

When you're ready to catch them in your net, tell them how much you want them and be as fiery and passionate as possible. Once you have their full attention, give them a weak reason why a relationship would be a bad idea. Appear to be too shy/indecisive/afraid to be able to do anything about it.

Now sit back and wait (don't worry, we're talking minutes here, not days!) Aries will cross a snow covered mountain, barefoot, to get something they want. This may be counterintuitive, but they don't want to compromise, or negotiate, or intellectualize; they want the sport of getting what they can't have!

Aries seduction. An example:

I've had several emails on this topic now asking for clarification, so I'll include an example below, and then answer the points which seem to be causing confusion:

The main point to remember is that Aries men hate to be smothered. They like vulnerable women, but not needy ones. That's a subtle but huge difference. To use your example to illustrate:

If he asks you out you can agree or you can put him off, whichever you prefer. There's no harm in doing either. The key thing not to do is to ask him out (or call him too much, or to discuss your future together, your plans to marry him etc).

On the sexual side, you want to flirt and tease a lot. You can't flirt too much with an Aries. Just keep in mind though that the thrill of the chase is half the fun for him... so don't give out any rewards too soon or too easily. The trick though is that you need to let him know he is making progress.

So as an example, on the first date kiss him on the cheek, second date kiss him on the mouth, third date a french kiss etc. It doesn't matter where you create these boundaries, just make sure to increase them steadily. Trust me, he is keeping track of such things!

The times Aries move on are when you give everything up on a first date. They aren't attached to you by that point, and there's no longer any sport in chasing you. That's a lose:lose with them.

Aries seduction using real astrology

The above is written for the "typical Aries". In practice however each Aries is different due to their other planet placements (moon, mars, venus etc) and some extreme examples may not resemble an Aries much at all. This general information therefore isn't nearly as specific or accurate as a real astrology reading.

I specialize in fast and accurate relationship reports delivered by email. Using the techniques outlined in the astrology and seduction article these enable you to easily become more attractive to a specific partner, by understanding what they are looking for, what turns them on, what turns them off etc.

Aries compatibility

For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs I have a separate index of articles on Aries compatibility

Aries and Aries compatibility
Aries and Taurus compatibility
Aries and Gemini compatibility
Aries and Cancer compatibility
Aries and Leo compatibility
Aries and Virgo compatibility
Aries and Libra compatibility
Aries and Scorpio compatibility
Aries and Sagittarius compatibility
Aries and Capricorn compatibility
Aries and Aquarius compatibility
Aries and Pisces compatibility

Further reading

If you're looking for ideas on where to go for a date, there's an excellent ebook 300 Creative Dates, which lists romantic, unique, fun and affordable suggestions. For seduction advice the most popular and arguably best value courses available currently are How to be irresistable to men and How to be irresistable to women. You can read reviews of these and other dating and seduction related resources on my relationship e-book reviews page.

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