Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience is the key

I am 42 and in a relationship with a 30 year old Aquarian man. It took me some time to finally get past the age thing. After his reassurance I noticed he would be so loving, caring and such a gentleman making me feel like a queen. Then when we were apart, we were apart. I wouldn't hear from him for a couple days.

Of course being a Scorpio woman I was not going to call. If he is no longer interested then forget it. Turns out that once I let go of my jealousy and studied the Aquarius man and gave myself time to 'mature' so to speak in my feelings, it's been the best thing I have ever done. We talk almost every day but when we are together it is like there has not been any time between our encounters.

Now that I finally understand him and stopped taking his distance personal, our relationship has bloomed into the most stable and respectable relationship I have ever had. He does things most Aquarian men don't. He buys me flowers and tells me I am beautiful on a daily basis. He even crosses his comfort zone and is affectionate often. It is work, don't get me wrong. It's hard being away from him at times, wanting him there for me constantly, but he has been so worth the wait! He makes me a better woman.

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Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Anonymous

I am the 42 year old Scorpio with the 30 year old Aquarian beau. Let me tell you, my relationship is the most rewarding relationship I have ever had. Thanks to this message board and other sites about the Aquarian man I was able to get my emotions in check and really understand my guy. The key for success with this combination is patience for sure. at times it killed me to exercise so much patients. I would often feel as though I was being ignored or there was someone else. As his trust for me started to grow his need to be with me and around me did to. It's still a bit awkward at times when I want to just hug and kiss al over him, but it's not an issue. the affection we give to each other when we are spending quality time alone is so worth the wait. I kept my jealousy hidden inside and by no means would ever argue with him. If we have a disagreement it is talked about calmly and settled then forgotten. I think that is what really hooked him. I love the new no confrontational me, and because of the wonderful way he treats me I have no reason to be. Yes he still makes me mad at times as he has a bad habit of coming up with a date idea and then canceling the plans at the last minute. It drives me crazy but he soon makes up for it either the next day or the weekend. I have noticed that I will tell him things that I like or places I like to go and he has no reaction or comment. When I least expect it BAM! He either springs it on me or takes me where I like to go. Once he felt secure that my love was real it all became fantastic. He is loyal and attentive to me FINALLY! So Scorpio ladies if he is good to you then be patient and I mean patient. It's been a long time coming but this man has made me a better women. there are times I wanted to run and never turn back, but learning to understand him is what unlocked a new world for the both of us. I guess I got a great one and I will treat him with all the respect in the world.

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Hope

Thanks for sharing that and for the encouragement. I'm also a Scorp woman. I've never had challenges with jealousy in any relationship, and he never creates situations where jealousy would be a factor.

We are new at this and have not actually even met in person. I was concerned about his online communication style with me--lots of fun and closeness for a few days, then comments about me needing to meet others. I didn't get the feeling it was because he wanted to see other women, but it did confuse me. I never mentioned it to him, but now that I see a pattern of behavior I am less concerned. Still confused, but not worried, if that makes sense.

~Hope

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Anonymous

Hope, what you said makes a lot of sense. Knowing the Aquarian man, him saying to you should see other people is a test. he may also have some un-finished business with another woman. As Aquarian men don't like to hurt feelings and say it's over. they want to be friends with their ex's for life. After they are sure the women they are with is what they want then the just disappear from the earth to the ex. They often fear attachment and they darn sure fear commitment. But they want it from us. As I said before patience is key.

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Anonymous

ok so I'm keep it real I deal wit an Aquarius man and I'm a Scorpio! everything that I have read about the Aquarius is right on point that's just how they are very distance don't like there backs against the wall my thing is different because he is an entertainer and you already know the woman are there and he is there only thing about him is we will go months with jus texting or whatever and then it's like he knows when I'm in him of his sex ! sex is unbelievable but I think I got him beat I got him where I want him in that department because I know just what to do to make his eyes roll and he often tells me I'm to demanding and he wish I wasn't but it's in my nature to be that way and it's hard to help it , he always comes back no matter what! but he is a very distance person u got to jus be cool and let them come around only thing I don't like is I like to control and be the boss and you can't do that with them you have to hold your tongue for sure damn they drive me crazy!

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Hope

Thanks to everyone who responded. It's hard to keep of track posters since there are no screen names here. I get the sense that he says that I should see others as a way of creating distance between us. I have a tendency to share how I am feeling about him and when it gets mutual, I notice for the next couple of days he starts in with the being too old for me and he suggests I find local relationships. I have been ignoring his comments, but refraining from contacting him. After a few days he is back to his old self - fun, imaginative, interesting, thoughtful, and yes, definitely sexy.

Interesting insight about him still being emotionally connected to a previous relationship. We have talked in generalities about previous relationships, but without specific details on either of our parts. It will be interesting to see how that develops.

I am falling for him. I have not shared that with him, but that is the reality.

~Hope

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Scorp42

Hi 42 here. Okay for you Hope, the one thing the two of you need to do is to meet in person. This will unlock a lot of the questions that you have. He needs to see your eyes and connect with what you feel that way. For the one that is in a friendship/relationship with her Aquarian. I know the feeling of thinking you will say or do the wrong thing. My advice to you is to first off be yourself. Don't crowd him and don't argue with him. Aquarians are obsessed with the friendship thing. However to them it means something completely different than what it means to everyone else. He is friends so to speak with everyone, but friends with a woman is something all together different. He wants the affection and caring but he also wants to feel comfortable being himself around you without judgment. If you start to treat him like he is one of the girls so to speak and just be yourself as you would with your friends, this draws them in. Aquarians don't dwell on the past hurts of other women. One thing he will appreciate is if you talk to him about what happened with that relationship. Talk to him as if you are not interested in him but you want to know about his hurt as a friend. He will tell you lots and it will open your eyes on how not to be. My guys past girl was very argumentative and jealous. She didn't take the time to try and understand him. I made sure that I looked at him as a friend first and gave him the same compassion and caring I would have as if he were one of my other friends. This assured him that I had no jealousy and that I cared as a friend. What it really did was open my eyes to how not to be and what he really didn't like in a women. Give him time to build trust in you and be there for him, but not in the way you would a boyfriend but a friend. They don't like it when women do things with an ulterior motive. Do it because you care and the rest will fall into place if it is meant to be. Don't worry though, he will always be your friend, that's what Aquarians do.

~Scorp42

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Hope

Hi Scorp42. Thanks so much for your comments. We chat live, but won't get to meet until late spring. We're 3,500 miles apart. I like what you said about needing a real life connection and prolonged eye contact. He has mentioned a couple of times about wanting to look directly in my eyes.

To the 30 yr old Scorpio woman with the 3-year friendship with your Aquarius - Best wishes. I can feel the heat from here. I hear you and agree that I am learning patience, and actually am beginning to like it. It's nice building a friendship without the interference of physical intimacy. Well okay, except at 3:00am!

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Anonymous

I haven't posted here before, but just wanted to say thank you to Scorp42 for the advice. It's encouraging to hear what you have to say and I'm sure there are others like me who don't normally post but read often and appreciate your help! :)

God bless

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Scorp42

You are welcome for those that thanked me for sharing my experiences. I must say that this site and a few others is the only reason that me and my Aquarian are still together. For the Scorpio that thinks he put a spell on her, boy oh boy that's exactly what it feels like. Don't get me wrong it was one hard road, and I mean hard. My Aquarian and I had been seeing each other on and off for about a year before our relationship really developed. I always had in my mind that we were friends with great benefits. He would only come around every now and then in the beginning. Well once the two of us decided to make a go of it that's when it really got hard. I fell for him and hard. He opened up and showed a side of him I had never seen before. I was at the point of no return. Once my heart was all in, it seemed as if he had changed his mind. He came around less often and would go for days without contact. Then he would come around and it would be as if nothing had changed. Here is why I didn't run for the hills then. I read on a few sites that if they act like they don't like you or they don't care then they are almost completely hooked. I found that hard to believe when I read it and all I did was cry and pout or shout at myself. Low and behold all of a sudden BAM! It all changed and sure enough he was truly hooked. He started spending more and more time with me. Called me everyday and spend every night with me for weeks. I was shocked and in a love daze. Oh how true the sites were. I couldn't believe how spot on they were. I just don't understand it but I must say that all of the hurt and sadness I had was so worth it. There isn't one thing I want for now with this man that I don't get. I must say that I made a few mistakes lately by not allowing him to help me when he offered. I just wasn't used to a man being there for me so much. You know us Scorpio's, we are independent and strong. Well it made him a little mad and may have even hurt his feelings. I gave in and once I started asking him for things and to do things for me, WOW that's when the romance exploded! I guess he just wanted to feel needed by me. Little did he know how needed he was. I got to tell you ladies, yes it is a rollercoaster ride. However I love rollercoaster's. The rollercoaster ride never ends, it just gets more on the fun side and less on the stress side. Keep in mind that you have to tell him bluntly what is on your mind and give him time to process it. And this is something you will have to do for life if you want him to know how you feel. As smart as they are, they will never just get it unless you express it.

~Scorp42

Scorpio woman Aquarius man patience
by: Hope

Hi Scorp42,

Thanks for describing what I was noticing online with my Scorp. It seems after an online session with lots of personal disclosure, he seems to back away. Not disappear, but sends one-line responses and won't initiate contact. After 2-3 days he is back to his old self.

Something new this week: In the middle of our online

conversation he simply disappeared off-line with no explanation. Usually we tell one another when we have to log out or do something else. I opted to no mention it, as I realize as busy adults, we both have very full lives. However, the following night was a repeat, except in the middle of the conversation he abruptly wrote that he couldn't chat this evening and was going to bed.

Again, it's not alarming, except both instances were different than his normal good night routine.

Nothing in either conversation should have irritated or upset him - just our usual evening check-in. So I don't think that is the case. The only thing that keeps popping in my head were the number of times (6) he either wished me a Happy Valentine's Day, and later 'hoped I had a nice Valentine's Day. His birthday was that same weekend, so I focused on making that special for him. I wasn't evening thinking about Valentine's Day, but maybe due to the distance he was concerned. I shared what I did that day - nothing secretive.

Hi and welcome to our newest posters and thanks for adding your observations and experiences. Thanks to the Scorpio woman in the 2.5 year relationship. I will be interesting to read your thoughts. I'll probably be around for awhile - at least until our first face-to-face meeting.

~Hope

To Hope
by: Scorp42

Hope, after reading what you said about his abruptly leaving the conversation to go to bed. That is so normal for Aquarius. My guy still does
that with our phone conversations. Not only that but, he will be here at my place sitting in a chair and me on the bed having a conversation. He will suddenly jump up and start taking off his clothes and say he's tired and get in bed. For a long time I thought that was the weirdest thing. I am used to it now. I also think that you will still post once you two meet in person, you
will have a lot to say.

For the 'Aquarius Guy' that said us trying to figure things out about you is flattering. I appreciate your comments. Just goes to show us scorpio women another example of how special you guys are. In the past I would have never put
this much effort into helping others by sharing with any other sign. There is just something magical about an aquarian man that captivates us scorpios. I didn't want the scorpio women out there to misunderstand their aquarian and
give up on him, because the scorpio/ aquarian attraction is so intense and so real. I get a natural high spending time with my aquarian. When he is not around I am like a junkie waiting for my next fix. I think you aquarian men know that too. It's all part of the game you play for fun. I must say that it is fun when we get together. I am so dramatic in my head that when we are intimate it's like a love scene in a movie. It makes me so high that it takes me a long time to go to sleep afterwards. I just lay there in bed watching him sleep, looking at every detail of his body, face, hands etc... It's kind of like you aquarian men when your mind is in space. Mine is in space as well, just all thoughts focused on him and how he makes me feel. Yeah... I am
extremely intense. (smiling right now)

~Scorp42

The Dawning of Aquarius
by: Hope

*Runs over the Scorp42 and gives her a huge hug*

Yeah, you get it! I have read your post twice and can't stop smiling. Yes Aqua men are a heady mixture of magic and crack cocaine to Scorpio women. I swear I don't know what it is about mine but I have never been this mesmerized!

Only I disagree after reading between the lines on numerous posts. I honestly don't think that Aquarian men really understand the power they have over us. Sometimes when we are video chatting I get super excited about a comment he has made or or idea of his and start gushing about putting his thoughts into action. He starts blushing and says I'm scaring him again, lol!

I loved Peter Falk in the television series Colombo. Although Peter Falk is a Virgo, there is something very Aquarian about the Colombo character. Bright, often wrapped tightly in his own thoughts, tender, kind, excellent problem solving skills, highly observant, great memory for details (of things that interest him), and a 'stealth sexuality' that drives me wild. I don't know about others, but mine is very respectful of women in general and always a gentleman with me. He's never vulgar, but make no mistake, he has an incredible imagination!

What more could I possibly want? I'm still laughing about your, "continuing to post after I actually meet him comment". Too funny, but true!

I need to settle down, but this guy really makes me smile.

I'm Smiling Too Hope
by: Scorp42

I tell ya Hope, I spend hours just thinking about the things my aquarian says & does. My aquarian too is such a gentleman. Opening the car door for me, pulling out my chair and even helping in and out of my seat at the movies. I have told him a couple times that the things that he does and says truly takes my breath away. He thought I was just blowing smoke at first until I broke it down to him. I had to explain to him how most men are and how I had been treated in the past. He looked into my eyes and said to me, "I'm sorry for how horrible men can be and what you had to go through." I almost cried right there. I love the fact that no matter who is around watching, he never waivers from his gentlemanly ways. He doesn't care what others think of what he does for me and that blows my mind.

Hope I can't wait to hear how it goes when you and your aquarian finally meet. I bet it is going to be the most intense experience of your life! Hugs right back to you!

~Scorp42

Hope and Scorpio42
by: Life is Good

I have visited this site several times, once when I realized I was beginning to have feelings for my aquarian, a few times in between, and now that I know what I feel for him is real. I too smile and laugh everytime I visit this post because it seems like you are talking about us. I have shared with him my feelings and told him that whatever the outcome we will always be friends. At the present time he is beginning to be more attentive and I am being less controlled and more patient. I love him and want him in my life but we have decided to take it one day at a time and enjoy the ride. Boy he makes me crazy on the inside, but its a good way! I too desire to be a better woman and love the feeling! :)

To: Life is Good
by: Hope

I'm not sure when you posted this, as I have not had time until yesterday to check back on this site.

My Aquarian man and I are coming up on 8 months and I am still falling deeper for him. I've never been the jealous type and do enjoy doing my own thing, and encouraging my partner to maintain interests that do not involve me. However, this is different.

I am realizing what I want and need from a serious relationship. At the same time I am trying to figure out what he wants and needs in a partner (since he won't say). This is definitely an exciting relationship, with plenty of fodder for trying to figure him out. He seems perfectly content with things as they are. Fascinatingly frustrating is a good description.

I hope you are still smiling as well, Life is Good.

To Hope
by: Life Is Good

Yes I am still smiling and still falling deeper in love with him. It has been really hard at times letting him have his space, but I am learning. I look at it giving us both time to really learn each other in depth. We have not taken the friendship to a sexual level even though that is what he wants. He has begun to share the deepest of things from previous relationships (hurts and frustrations as well as the good) and that has given me some insights to how he thinks and feels. One day I told him I was beginning to understand him and he responded how could I when at times he didn't understand himself. That threw me but I didn't respond. I think I am very different from the other women in his past life and he isn't use to that. Whether that is good or bad remains to be seen. It's been 2 years since we started communicating, but it's been within the last 6 months that we have grown closer. His straight to the point and direct answers are so refreshing. I always tell him not to hold things back because he may hurt my feelings...I think he now trust that he can do that. I am so much better having had him in my life so far. Waiting patiently to see what happens next. Yes, I am still smiling! :)

Hope and Scorpio42
by: Life Is Good

Advice needed... I have probably made one of the biggest mistakes with my aqua man... I told him that I loved him and things have been very quiet since then. I had been trying to hold in my feelings for a few months now but had to tell him a few weeks ago because he became upset with me when I had cancel ours plans for spending some quality time together. I have tried to apologize but right now he is still very quiet. I know that he did get an email I sent but right now its the wait and see game. What did I do wrong? I just couldn't take falling deeper and deeper and not share with him exactly how I was feeling. He kept asking me if something was wrong and why I didn't trust him. I finally had to tell him that I did trust him and I was afraid to tell him because I didn't want to complicate things. Well it looks like things are complicated, but I feel so much better telling him.

Patience is the Key
by: Anonymous

Thanks for all the postings here. It helps.

patience definitely is key!
by: withaqua

Hi everyone!

I've read your comments and this site has helped me tremendously when understanding my man. We have been in each other's lives for over 9 months now and have tried dating officially twice. After we name the relationship, he pulled back every time. When it was over, he came back a couple of days later with a silly comment on twitter or msn. Now is his pulling back period again.

I know he's going to pull back for some time when we spend a perfect night together or when things get a little deeper than normal. For example, the last night we spent together he held me in his arms and we kissed and talked for a long time. After that, he stopped contact. I contacted him twice since than (it's been over two weeks) but now I decided to give him the space.

Sometimes it does get very hard, practicing patience and doubting that there's another woman or just feeling ignored by the person you love. However, every single time I think that he's not ever coming back, he makes a move. So now I'm hoping for that move again.

Hopefully, we can reach what you guys have, to the point where he would want to be with me night after night and he would call me more often.

Despite all the anger, resentment, sadness and bipolar love of his, I love him and would want to be with him forever.

I am a Gemini but I found that what's written on these posts are much more similar to what I'm going through with my man.

HELP
by: Anonymous

Hello All,
This site has given me a little piece of mind. I am a scorpio woman and have fallen completely head over heals for this aqua man. Long story short...He caught my eye in Feb. when he gave me "the look" I literally couldnt hear anyone around me and felt like my whole body was weak. A few months later he got my number from a friend. We randomly would text back and forth, see each other out, and I became friends wh his friends. His best friend/roomate has feelings for me and has kind of expressed them. I told him from the get go that I wasnt interested but we could be friends. My aqua and his best friend and I were out one night. My aqua was acting very cold and rude towards me. I brushed it off. By the end of the night we were having a very intense conversation. He was reading me like a book and asking why I wouldnt date his friend who treated me so sweetly. When I asked if the conversation was about him or his friend he was stumped. He later told me I reminded him of his ex. The conversation got so intense that he left me alone. I waited and than took off to my car. As I was walking I looked up and he was walking towards me and said "I couldnt stop thinking about you" He later that night told me if I had the confidence I should he would be more in love with me than he already was. Since than he has been a little distant. Doesnt really respond to a lot of txts, but tells me not to stop. He knows I am interested but just not how much. He sent me this the other day "No matter the catch, if your still unhooking the fish, you cant send out your line" I feel I am the catch and he cant give me anything bc of his ex. He left for vacation today for a month. I am just stuck. I have lost sleep, bc all I can think about is him. I crave him. I am trying to be patient, but what other advice do you all have?

Confused Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am a scorpio woman who is falling for an aquarius too and finding him to be exactly the same as how everyone has described so far. We have chatted on and off over 3 years online as friends. Two weeks ago we met for the first time in a club.When I saw him,he made my whole body weak as if my world stopped. There was an unexplainable connection all through the night. We held hands and had some cuddles that was it. After that he did get in contact the next morning and since then we have chatted by texts and online,he never calls. We made a date and he cancelled last minute. Pulled away fro a couple of days and then came back chatting to me as if nothing has happened.He asks me a lot of questions regarding how I feel about him,in many different ways.It is almost as though he is dissecting me like a scientist. I would answer him bluntly how I feel as I am a scorpio and dont play games.I like you or i dont.Then it would take him a little time to then agree that yes he feels exactly the same as me. I saw him again in a club last night,and he felt more like a friend,a little cold and distant like he couldnt care less if i was there or not. But then as I touched him or went up to give him a hug,he would warm up. He still did not kiss me but we had a long intense embrace when we said goodbye. I was very surprised by the long hug as by then I had given up.

I am still waiting for a proper date with him. Before I got in the taxi, he said to me text me tomorrow. Today I txted him at night and no reply at all. I have noticed a pattern of push and pull.He pushes for info or opens up about himself in depth,and then he disappears.Sometimes i dont hear from him for a couple of days. Then i get anxious and contacts him.When i contact him,he replies and is warm but does not initiate contact.

Being a scorpio woman,i am normally very good at psychology but i cannot work this guy out. He does the complete opposite to what i think he will do,but this is also what i find intriguing about him. It is frustrating. I cant say that he is into me or he isnt as he changes all the time.But I am holding on,and keeping my intensity contained,cos i know deep down that if i can just be patient,he will be a really nice and caring boyfriend.

How long will I be waiting? I come back to update.

Aqua and gemini similar experiences
by: Gemini

I realize this is a forum about Scorpio and Aqua but I can't get over the similarities to my experience with an Aqua male.

I am currently in a bad marriage with another Gemini. About 8 months ago I met my Aqua. I'm 38 and he is 30. There was an instant spark when we met. I couldn't stop thinking about him. He's a bartender, and lives 2 hours from me, but my work brings me there once or twice a month. The next time I was in town I saw him again and this time we talked at length and went home together.

Another poster mentioned how she craved her Aqua, that's the word I use for the way I feel all the time. My aqua and I text, but due to my marriage it's difficult to stay in touch. He acts just like everyone says, he's warm and kind in person, but often blows me off when I'm in town. It's been twice now that I've been in town that I haven't seen him. However when we text he acts like its nothing and is always kind and caring. I always have to initiate the text because of my situation at home. What complicates things further is that his mother has brain cancer and he is her main caregiver. It's one of the things that drew me to him from the beginning. My husband is a very selfish and angry person, and I feel so much guilt about this relationship, but I can't imagine feeling more love for anyone than the way I feel when I'm with my Aqua. Neither of us have said anything about our feelings and have acted thus far as if it's just fun, but our conversations are so much deeper than that of two people just having fun. I'm so scared to tell him how I feel. I don't handle rejection well, and given the fact that I don't have anything more than about 5 in person hookups to go on and a few texts it's really scary. Has anyone here had anything good come out of expressing how they felt? I wonder if one of the reasons he stays aloof is because I haven't said it.

Any info is greatly appreciated.

Roller coaster ride!
by: Anonymous

I normally don't post things but when I read some of these comments I was amazed at how much everyone described the same thing. Mine drives me wild! He is passionate, witty, charming, funny, and incredibly handsome. But he can also be the most distant, unemotional, detached man I've ever met! Patience is the key I'm learning. But there are days when I wonder why I bother. And when this happens he usually blows me away with some sweet gesture like surprising me or saying how much he loves and misses me. He is definitely a puzzle I'm trying to figure out. And the harder I try, I think the more he pulls away. I am 42 and he is 31. The age difference doesn't seem to bother him. It bothers me tho. I have to analyze everything he says because he really never talks about us. There used to be talk about future plans but not so much anymore. I finally exploded today and asked him some things that were bothering me. He kind of answered them. Not sure where we are headed but it has been one Helleva a roller coaster ride so far!

Typical scorpio vs typical aquarious
by: Totally in love scorpio

I am so so glad that I've found this site!

I've only been with my boyfriend for a few months... And let me tell you.. It's already been sooo intense.

Like many of the above comments.. At the beginning he would contact me all day and every day!!! We had our first date.. He was very much hooked during the date but then a little aloof after. Me being a typical scorpio couldn't handle how intense he was during our date and how much he used to contact me to now not having heard from him for a couple of days. Typical scorpio had an 'episode' which he fortunately forgave!!

After a week He would show up near on daily at my house.. Which I loved.. (Although still wouldn't call when I didn't see him (never helping my insecurities) and after a couple of months he admitted he was in love with me!!! Thank god for that.. Because the feeling was mutual!

I've found however.. That he can blow hot and cold still even now after several months! I need to feel loved.. I'm also a very jealous person and his frequent aloof personality does nothing for my insecurities!! But.. I do genuinely believe his feelings are true and I'm hoping that after reading god knows how many threads about aquarious men.. That this is just one of their traits and I hope that I can find a way to have patience to not kick off each and every time he is acting distant!

God, I really hope that this works out!! They weren't lying when they said scorpio and aquarious relationships need extra work!!

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