Scorpio man and Cancer woman

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Best match ever...! These two signs have such a deep understanding of each other. My Scorpio man and I have been together for a little under 2 years and I believe we were destined to be together. I am a Cancer women and although we (cancer women) find it difficult to trust people immediately, we tend to let our guards down with Scorpio. The passion, ooooh, he truly is very passionate and it radiates from his mere physique. Sex will probably never be as good with anyone else as with a Scorpio man.

I met a Scorpio man just 5 days ago for our first date (I'm a Cancer female). We've spent nearly every moment together since and we are both convinced we've found our soul mate. Today we got engaged and I couldn't be happier. If it were anyone else this would seem crazy and hasty, but I feel like I've known this man for years. I'm going to make sure the engagement lasts at least a year, but there's no doubt in my mind that we will be very happily married.

Im a Cancer Women and in love with a Scorpio man, we have been together since 50 years from now. We are a passionate couple made in heaven. Our love is so Powerful!!! that we can communicate with each other without speaking. And during sex, our Love combines well, We can feel each other feelings from one another. I admire his passion, his love, his strength, and by his understanding.

I am a Cancer woman in love with a Scorpio man! I had met him as we were at the same professional place for 2 months. He stared at me and praised me from the second day of our cooperation. He has told me several positive things but on the other hand sometimes pretended to be more like a friend. Now that our cooperation ended he asked me out. The good thing is that during that time he estimated me a lot and played hot and cold.

I'm dying for him!

Hope he likes me a lot....

I don't know how to say this but I am a married Cancer woman who is having an affair with a married Scorpio man. I love my husband and I love this man I don't know what to do I try to end the relationship with the Scorpio man yesterday by telling him I feel he have a lot going on in his life and I understand if he needed his space and this will be the last time I will text him. He text me back and asked me to bare with him. I really don't know how he feel about me, but I am crazy in love with him. It not just a physical attraction it an emotional attraction. When he make love to me it's like he is making love to my soul. Can someone help me understand what is going on I never looked at another man and I never cheated on my husband until now . what should I do I really don't want to end this affair, but I know I 'm in too deep.

To the lady above: I don't have the answer, but I would say that a big question to ask yourself, is how likely is it that you will get caught? If it's very unlikely then you can give him time and see what develops, whereas if there's a high risk you might not want to wait. Not sure if that helps, but in a similar situation that's what I used to decide.

A Scorpio used to flirt me intensely as we were at the same job for 2 months but now nothing. He did something I didn't like and he maybe understood I was disappointed. He hasn't called yet...unfortunately. I am really into him, why did he stop it? It seemed to be so intense....I don't know. Hope he still remembers me, he played with my feelings.

Hypnotic eyes!

I am a Cancerian woman who is deeply in love with a sag man. We first met 15 years ago... Were together for a little over a year. It was passionate, wild, and beautiful . Why I let him go is still unknown . We both got married and had kids. He walked back into my life about 9 months ago... Never in all my life have I felt so much want and passion for a man. He is my match, my heart, and my soul.... But we r both married now with families... We can never be reunited fully. It is a tragedy. I will make sure my child does not make the same mistake ... I will make sure that when she meets him, she fights for him, and does not let him go.

I used to have a male friend who was a Scorpio... and I can't recommend much of that friendship. Yes, we clicked and had empathy, plenty of it, and I used to appreciate his support and company when he offered it, but he grew very possessive and weird over the time.

I personally didn't find that much endearing in anyway.

Because of his manipulations I ended up having serious problems with the guy I was seeing at that moment. No need to say, it ended awful for all of us and I stopped talking to my friend after I found out about his scheme to interfere with MY other relationships.

I have other Scorpio friends too, all of them female. Good chemistry and no problems, I'd say.

I am a Cancer woman, been married and divorced twice (1st Aries 2nd Taurus. After my second divorce I had no desire to be in any relationship, oh but to my surprise my destiny had something else in mind for me.. there he was a chance meeting, we had went to school together from elementary to high school, however we didn't know each other. He being a Scorpio. On our first date, we were having great conversation, right in the middle of me speaking he grabbed my face and kissed me like I have never been kissed before.. It truly dazed me.. It took me a minute to speak, but I knew it then, he was the missing link in my life. We have been together for 1 year, we have the same dreams and desires, we have a blast together, we talk about everything, and sex is out of this world wonderful, we know that we were meant to be together, soul mates. we will grow old together no doubt... cancer-Scorpio meant to be together, life mates..

I am in a relationship with a Scorpio man. We're hot & cold about small things, but we got over it so fast cos we are so madly in love that others could see us as psychotics if they ever knew what we argue about.lol

but yes, although I am still insecure, he is the only person in my life that could be the closest to what I thought I could never do: Trusting and loving a man.

I have a boyfriend who is a Scorpio man, and he is almost everything they say Scorpios are like. I myself am a Cancer, and I can say he truly loves me. At first I was in a love spell with him, at least for me that's how it felt. He cares for me in so many ways. He worries about my health, and always wants me happy. Although me and him do not have trust issues, when his jealousy comes poking its head, he is off and can not stop asking questions and making statements. But when I calmly tell him that I love him (which of course I do) he looks at me, and gently sighs, looks me in the eyes sweetly and tells me he is sorry.

I say this paring is VERY good. As long as you both communicate well, I know first hand that us cancers don't always say what we really are wanting to. Be honest, real, caring and above all LISTEN, with and to him, and he will be yours forever.

I am seeing a scorp guy , well I have not seen him for almost a month , he told me he has a lot of things going on.

Anyway we have had sex several times and some of the moments were more memorable than others.

And it leaves me always wanting more !!!

I'm a Scorpio male with a Cancer woman. We have been together for 8 years now since we met in high school. We did have our fair share of arguments and dramas but looking back at it now it is just a joke and water under the bridge. I never really looked into astrology until recently and I believe that the Scorpio and Cancer match is very solid.

As a Scorpio male I would always use to find something I disliked about a person and then use them and toss them after I was done. I did this with my Cancer woman a few times as well but now looking back I think it is Scorpio's test to see how enduring their mate is. Cancers are pretty enduring when it comes to love and with their ability to not let go of the right mate it really benefits both partners. Sex is amazing, passionate and unforgettable every single time. Be patient and understanding, communication is key to everything really...

I started dating a Scorpio man :) about 3 months ago..

We have known each other about 5 years, and used to come to each other talking about emotional turmoil with our past partners.

I had never thought of him in this way, until a completely random lunch date, and a small... interesting get together.

Since then he's been a light in my life unlike any other. His concern for my well being, romantic gestures, and undying love that is even visibly displayed, is something that makes me very very happy. Looking in his eyes, has done things to me that no other eyes have. His touch is magnetic to my skin. His kisses taste sweet and seduce/ put me in a love coma. When we make love, it is so sensual , and so loving. I cannot see myself with another man, as long as he loves me this way, I am his. And I can see in his eyes, he means business

I am a Cancer woman and have been talking to a Scorpio man but he is always busy. He just opened a tattoo shop and its understandable but we met about 5-6 months ago and just recently have been hanging out. I like him a lot and HE TELLS ME HE LIKES ME but then I feel like he is distant then comes around its back and forth or hot and cold with him, he's not telling me much and its driving me insane. He is very sweet to me when we do talk. I really do feel a connection with him though and I can not stop thinking about him. I just wish he would spend more time with me and talking to me to get to know me more. DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT????

If you have sex with a Scorpio man too soon will he venture off?

Thank you guys...I have enjoyed reading this...I'm a Cancer Female about to have a first date with a Scorpio Male on Friday! very nervous but very excited...we have been texting and seem to have great communication...I guess we shall see!

"If you have sex with a Scorpio man too soon will he venture off?"

Scorpio man here. To answer your question simply, the answer is yes. Take it slow with a Scorpio and you will earn much more respect. Give it up easily and you will most likely not get the call back. A Scorpio needs a deep emotional connection from his mate and that takes a long time to build.

Be patient with the Scorpio man, if he is patient with you. A Scorpio always takes the most opportune moment to create something special.

I am a Cancer woman in love with a Scorpio man. I'm in college and met him here. He was dating on and off with another Cancer woman but at the same time he was playing with my emotions like a push and pull game. He always acts like he wants something from me then he just wants a friendship. Him and his ex have broken up for 3 weeks now. I don't know what to do and I care for him so much and never felt like this with no other man. He said he's confused about what's up with himself but I just don't want to miss my chance with him.

I'm a Cancer woman. I met my Scorpio in my senior year of high school two years ago. He worked at a cafe right next to my high school, and I used to go there everyday with some friends, and that's how I met him.

It soon evolved to me going there alone everyday after school, and sitting at the bar talking to him while he worked [it was a very small/quiet cafe]. We'd talk for hours, until he got off his shift then he would drive me home.

He is in a 6 year relationship with a Taurus. Nothing physical was ever breached with us. We would just talk for hours about our feelings, and opinions. Then he went off touring with a band, and we lost contact for 2 years. Then yesterday all f a sudden I had a friend request from him on Facebook.

We picked up right where we left off! He's still with that Taurus, and I'm in a long term relationship with an Aquarius, but I simply CAN'T STOP thinking about him! What do I do?

Sometimes I feel like he is flirting with me, but other times he seems completely uninterested! How do I keep his interest? We have an unspoken chemistry that can't be denied, and I know he feels it. I just have no idea what's going on in his head, if I stand a chance, and I would really appreciate some insight. I want him to realize we are made for each other.

I've read so many compatibility profiles, and I can't help but daydream about him. Please help!

I am a Cancer girl' and it does take a lot of patience to be with Scorpio man. they like challenge and not easy p...y they want to truly trust you first before they give their heart to you. they want to be your friend first!!!! for a reason. be that friend and they will at their own time give it to you cause they are so emotional deep they fall in love deep! but be very patient and survive their test and they will give in to you! I know all my loyalty, trust, patience is how my new love (Scorpio man) choose me and they will tell you they want you!! that's how deep they are! they want to test the waters before they dive in deep! ******warning!!!!!! don't ever lie to them... it will be over before it start! wouldn't it be wonderful to fall in love with your best friend? I went through the hot and cold. be patient and you will be rewarded! it took me 20 months to win his heart! may 23, 2010 is our anniversary date!

well guys I read this whole things and im am like wow!!!

I am a Cancer female probably to the heart. I now have my Scorpio boyfriend back that I used to date when I was 18 I found him and we clicked. yes it is true to be patient and that is something I am learning he brings out a calm cool collective vibe in me and makes me feel secure just by the smallest things that he does. he makes me feel like im 18 all over again hahah but im not old only 25 he's 32 but I love him too pieces Scorpios are great!! yeah they can be jealous and possessive but Cancer women know how to deal with that let them no that they are the only one for you and be real honest and affectionate at all times and he's yours like he is all mine!!!!!!

I am a Cancerian woman who has just met a Scorpio man, he works with me, it took time but we really seem to get on, I feel like I have known him all my life, he is 14 years younger than me, he is 30 and I am 44, he has been dating a woman for 2 months, had a really bad experience with his ex. I think he is really the sweetest man I have met, he always likes to be around me, he even started smoking again so we could have breaks together, I feel like I can be so honest with him, I am not in love with him, but if he feels love for me I would have to say yes. People all around me reckon he is falling for me, but I have just been hurt really bad by my Aries ex, so Im just seeing how it goes. I feel so protected when Im with him and he is always saying when I finish my shift that it is going to be hell staying at work without me. In my opinion it can go either way and I win, we will either be close friends for life or he will be the greatest love of my life. I know h e has a girlfriend and he tells me he loves her, so I accept that but I am beginning to wonder if he really does love this woman or not, for a man who is in love he pays me a lot of attention and is very very tactile.

I am Cancer woman & I use to date a Scorpio man on and off for about 9 years. When we met I was involved with someone else, so we were just friends. We started to talk on the phone & realized we had so much in common. We then became closer as friends. We hung out and chatting on the phone for about a year and a half. Until one day he invited me over his house to hang out, and out of the blue he kissed me, It was the most passionate kiss I had ever felt. I was in complete shock at how, we connected so easily. We continued to be friends. Six months later we made love. He was the most passionate lover I ever had, he whisper sweet thoughts in my ear as he made love to me, I was in complete love with him after that. Although I was in a relationship I felt deep feelings for him, but I never told him. Until one day he told me how he had deep feelings for me and he wanted me to break up with my bf. I did eventually break it off with my bf, but tried to remain friends with m y ex. So one day the Scorp is over my house and my ex shows up, which made it look like I was trying to play him, needless to say the Scorpio never trusted me again with his heart. We continued to see each other for 9 years after that, in a purely sexual relationship. But my intuition told me is was more than that. We tried and we tried to make our love work, but he would always give a little bit and then leave me hanging on a whim. I still think about him from time to time. I guess it was never meant to be. I'm with a Pisces guy now, who is great match for a Cancer woman but a Scorpio is someone a Cancer woman will never forget. He brought out a passionate aggressive side of me I didn't know existed. I would've liked to have known what it felt like to be with him. We matched so well...Sigh...

I a Cancer woman have been in a long term relationship with a Scorpio man, eleven years to be exact. I can say that the chemistry between us is still to this day amazing, and best of all I have always been able to be myself with him. He always knows how to make me laugh, and we understand each other completely. We have had our problems, and actually broke up for a few months. Needless to say Scorpios never give up on what they want. Truly deep emotional connection!!

I am a Scorpio man and recently had a relationship with a Cancer woman. She is the love of my life. I know this, don't question me, I AM a Scorpio after all. The emotional connection I have with her is beyond description. It is deep, yes, but it is of another time as well. I knew from the moment we met that there was something 'special' with me and this woman. The first time we embraced I was transported to another period, perhaps 600-700 years ago. My soul knows this woman deeply. I told her this. I do not give my heart to just anyone and she is certainly not just anyone. She is my queen. This woman is everything I have ever wanted in a relationship. Passionate, intelligent, sexy, compassionate, caring, intuitive, and, yes, I like the mood swings too (who wants a wall flower??), etc. etc. The relationship (I hate using that "a" word in describing a relationship such as this - and I never cheated on my wife in 25+ yrs until now) ended when her husband found out. He has cheated on her before, more than once (and will again I have no doubt) and is emotionally either not there or abusive. I told my wife (a Taurus and a truly amazing and forgiving woman) of 25 + years. We are still together, and I love her dearly, but my heart is with my queen, always will be. I made a promise to her that I would not wait for her to leave her husband, but I have no choice. She is the love of this life, and apparently at least one other that I have lived as well. I am in misery without her. Scorp's, if you find a Cancer you have feelings for, keep her. She is more than likely the one. (I fell for a Cancer woman when I was 16 as well, and it was love, but not nearly as intense as this is.)

In response to

"I don't know how to say this but I am a married Cancer woman who is having an affair with a married Scorpio man. I love my husband and I love this man I don't know what to do..."

from my perspective (Scorpio man who just had a relationship with a Cancer woman I am very, very deeply in love with) you should really evaluate why you "love" your husband and this new man. What is it about them that means "love" to you? As you've read, if the Scorp loves you - truly loves you - it is forever and it is deep. I am not in love with my wife - I do love her very much, but there is no passion, if I am honest, there never has been. It was a rebound thing. The woman I am in love with, have the best time with no matter what we're doing, is unavailable. If she were, my life would be complete.

the best compatibility match in the astrology; we are soo very alike and are both serious and committed...

Having read through the above experiences, I wonder if there's no one as unfortunate in this world as me. I'm a Scorpio male, naturally introvert & reticent - a private person. I've never let my feelings overcome me except about 6 months ago when I noticed this Cancer female at my office. She used to give furtive glances but I never paid much attention. Gradually, our eye contacts became more frequent - still no words expressed by either of us. Then I made a friendly move to introduce myself - that's when I realized she was a Cancerian. Slowly, I was getting hooked to her. We used to interact over a chat tool - never quite meeting & opening up to each other in public. I was getting a hunch (a Scorpion's hunch that she'd started to like me) and coz I knew Cancerian female may not muster enough courage to come out with her feelings - I broke the ice and asked her if we could be together for the rest of our lives... To my horror, she said she never thought of me in tha t manner. I was sunk & shattered - as you can not even imagine. I took a week's leave to clear my head & comfort myself. Now, although we are 'kind' of friend - by nature it's a little difficult for me to keep friend on a fence. It's like a person standing at the edge of the cliff: The person is either grabbed by me or I simply let the person fall off the cliff. Hff..I've started to build some distances (lest I should fall right back into what I've suffered), started to keep away, quite & non-communicative. I still like her (a lot!) but that's where the problem lies - I don't think I'll ever be able to bear the snub, could still forgive & forget if she makes up to me to become her life partner, but this may not happen. So, I've decided to slowly ebb away from this 'relationship' - as I don't think either of us are going to get too far with this.. Any suggestions?

I am a Cancerian woman engaged to a Scorpio man. The moment I looked into his eyes I knew that we were made for each other. He's in the navy and all it took was one week to fall in love with him. As soon as he left he got deployed, he keeps me strong, constantly reminding me that I am the only woman he has eyes for. He is completely gorgeous, and passionate in every way possible. I love him to death and can't fathom my life without him, we already started arranging our wedding which will take place June of next year<3

I have read most of the posts here and am amazed to see the similarities in the description of cancer-Scorpio relationship. My situation is in a way special, yet I believe it fits in here perfectly, just as dramatic and deep as all the stories told until now. I am a Cancer woman and the love of my life is, and I'm starting to suspect, will always be a Scorpio man. Our relationship is purely platonic, we've never even kissed and we never really had significant discussions. I've known him since I was twelve, we studied in the same school and high school. At first he was in a different class but he got transferred into mine. Twelve years had passed since I first met him but I will never forget the day the teacher first introduced him to us, I was only a little girl but I feel in love with him instantly. Since then we both had relationships, loves and deceptions but he has always been there in the back of my mind and every time we see each other I feel that our communication and is really beyond words. We stare at each other hungrily and I feel like I know him better than anyone, it is a mutual understanding of each other's deepest and darkest feelings that goes beyond anything explainable. I am in a relationship with a Taurus man that adores me but my real love and my soul mate is my Scorpio school mate. I feel it with every fibre of my being and I have no doubt that a real relationship with him would change both our lives. I want him to be mine more than anything in this world but in the same time this intensity and yearning scares me, I admit I am afraid of him and of us. I was 15 when I first read Wuthering Heights, I remember Heathcliff, in my imagination, looked like him, was him. If I were to compare what we have to anything that would be it, we are Katty and Heathcliff because no matter where our lives would take us, no matter who will we end up with we will always be one and the same.

Because I am a water sign through and through of course this is something I never revealed to anyone and obviously my anonymity here is what makes me open up like this. Despite the tough exterior and devil may care attitude I like to cultivate I do need to take the proverbial mask off sometimes. I need to pour those Cancerian waters of despair I have inside so that maybe other Cancer women won't make my mistake and hopefully will go after their Scorpios.

I am a Scorpio man and I like a Cancer woman. I know she also likes me, but it is like an electric circuit, some times on and some times off. She comes forward on some occasions and completely withdraws in her shell, on other occasions. Giving me a complete surprise. what should I do?

Hi, Ive been following this thread for a while now and found it very interesting. I'm from India and have been in the US for the past 10 yrs. A couple of years ago I met a girl when I went for a treatment at one of the ALCs. The chemistry between us was amazing, something you read in the novels. I felt a great connection between us and I bet she did too. After that I went home but I couldn't stop thinking about her. This all happened on a Saturday and the next Monday I went back to the clinic to ask her out. She refused due to the fact that I was a client and it's against the rules. I came to later that she was seeing someone. Days passed but I can't keep her off my head and its like her name is in the air all the time. I got a job in another city and moved here a few months ago. Wherever I go, the movies, at work, while shopping, I come across someone with her name. The world keeps revealing her to me screwing my head even more. Im in desperate need of an expert opinion on this. What should I do now? I don't even know her last name which makes the matters worse. Please

advise. Thank you all.

I am a Cancer and my boyfriend is a Scorpio, we have been dating for 11 months and 5 days to be exact....before meeting him in the liquor store almost a year ago, I was single for about 4 years (due to a very bad previous relationship with a Libra)...I needed time to heal from that nightmare...very domestic violent relationship for 2 years...thank God I made it out alive:)...anyways back to my Scorpio; from day 1 when we glazed into each others eyes it has been none stop, he is the best boyfriend I've ever had, we are both 30 years old and we have so much in common, never a dull moment. Yes we do have our bab moments, but that's all they last for is moments, I think about him constantly, it's like we feel each other thinking about one another, a lot of times I will be thinking about him and he will call me or vise versa...its so cute!!! He is a wonderful father to his 6 year old son and I love his son like he's my own, matter of fact im getting ready to drive from Atl, ga to Pennsylvania in a couple of minutes to go pick his son up with him...cant wait for the long drive with him...not only is he a Scorpio, he is also from New Orleans...and I love the people from there. they are so cool,,,I think we are really a perfect match and its impossible for any outsiders to interfere with our deep love we have for each other...he's stubborn sometimes, but what man isn't???, and I can be very cranky around that time of the month, but what woman isn't??? lol...I love his sense of humor and how he's just so secure of himself and doesn't let anything stand in his way of what he wants, my dad is also a Scorpio, and he's the best father any daughter could ever have....my mom is a Virgo, and they have been married for 30+ years, I've been reading about our compatibility online for about a month now and I think that everything that is being said about this match is absolutely accurate. I don't think women should intentionally go out and search for a Scorpio man, but if one finds you, hold on to him...only if he's got a heart of gold because everybody is not a good person, no matter what sign, race, gender, education, money, or whatever else women chase these days, my advice to you ladies is: let them find you, those are the ones that are worth it!!! You might have to be single for a long time, hopefully not 4 years (LOL)...but when the right man comes you will know, and if you happen to fall in love with a Scorpio man, take it slow, and be very patient with him, I have 30 years experience with my father (please believe they are a lot of work)...ask my mom!!! Well just dropping by, been want to vent about this and here is the best place for me to do it because my Scorpio man is not to prone to all of this...lol(OUR LITTLE SECRET)

I'm a Cancer girl and I fell for a Scorpio guy the second I saw him, this was about two years a go at the beginning of my sophomore year of High School. I've met him through mutual friends. I had a boyfriend at the time, we had been dating for about 6 months, he was a Libra. I was instantly attracted to my Scorpio guy and it wasn't only because of his looks, I loved the way he looked at me with such intensity and how he was so mysterious. I felt like he had a scary dark side and some how that just made me much more attracted to him. I'm actually very good at predicting a persons personality. It was also very weird because we didn't even have to communicate or talk a lot, but I could still feel him, I felt an unexplainable rush through my body and he understood me and I understood him too just by glazing at him. He has the most intense eyes and I loved it, I felt such a connection like no other. We started talking over Myspace, texting, and on the phone and I start ed falling for him, more and more because I felt that he was falling for me too .(he eventually admit about 4 months a go that he actually did have feelings for me) I loved the way he was passionate over everything. He was either hot or cold , he would always send me mixed signals about how he felt for me. This really confused me , but still deep down in my heart I felt like he was the guy that I wanted to be with so I dumped my boyfriend thinking that we were going to end up dating each other. One second he would be calling me beautiful the other he would say that I was too nice and innocent for him? He would tell me some of his darkest secrets that he had never told anyone because he had trust issues before in his pass and he still does, I was the only girl that he trusted so I felt like I must have been very special to have that privilege. Sometimes he would be flirting with me a lot then he would say I was more like a good friend? He was really messing with my emotions and my head. He would tell me that I was too innocent for him and he just wanted to go around and mess around with girls and have not commitment, even after all the things his said to me that I really did not want to hear, I still had feelings for him and sometimes I still feel like I do . I still don't understand why I feel like this sometimes , maybe its because I can't get over rejection or it could be that we really had or probably will have something special. I went to a party about 4 months ago and he was their, I had too much to drink I think it had a little to much to drink because I was upset to see him flirting with some girl. So basically I was drunk not totally wasted but definitely not sober. I couldn't even walk that straight, so he sat me down and sat next to me he told me to sit down and chill and that he was going to take care of me. I was resting my head on his shoulder and he was caressing my head and back. I had never been so close to him before, he also brought me some food so I can sober up but I was hurt about what he had done to me , he made me fall for him and at the end he still wasn't mine so I threw the food of his hand walked away went back inside the party and made out with some guy that I knew in their. The Scorpio guy and one of my best friends went up to me while I was kissing the guy , my best friend grabbed me by my hand and took me away from him while the Scorpio guy was giving the guy dirty looks like he was jealous that was when the bad tension began and about thirty minutes later some how they ended up so close to fighting each other until the owner off the house told them that if they started any drama or fighting they will have to leave. I know Scorpio people are very jealousy so are Cancerian, I'm not sure if all of this happened because my Scorpio guy was actually jealous because maybe he still had something for me . I'm in a relationship now and its about to be 4 months with my new boyfriend, he is a Gemini, he is very charming and nice and I really do love him he is also friends with the Scorpio guy. I still like the Scorpio guy I can never get over him I still feel like we were meant for each other and maybe the right time will come . Theirs just something very special about him its been about 2 years and I still can't get him out of my heart:(

What do you guys think? Is it that I can't get over rejection? tell me your opinions

I am a Cancer female and have been in two very brief relationship with two very hot Scorpio males (not at the same time of course), but no matter what I showed and how dynamic we were it didn't work. I seem to have pushed them or hurt them somehow. Being a Cancer it was not my intention at all and I thought I was being very careful with my words and very open with my heart. What did I do wrong???

I am a Cancer women married to a Scorpio man. We have been together for 9 years and married 8.He was my prom date. We married right out of high school and now have 3 children. He is amazing and sensitive. He cried watching Dear John and would kill me for telling that. He's kind and compassionate. He believes PMS is a legitimate illness and treats me wonderfully when I'm cranky. He's my everything!!!

I am a Cancer woman and I have this intense and unexplainable attraction to a Scorpio man. The problem is that we are both married to other people. Don't get me wrong, I am in love with my husband; however, the magnetism between me and the Scorpio at my job in undeniable. We think each others' thoughts, finish each others' sentences...gaze into each others' eyes and have a complete since of knowing and understanding. In another life, I think we would be fantastic together...but the reality is that neither one of us is going to break up our family for the other. My heart aches and I am so confused about everything.

I have never felt such an attraction towards another human being and he has expressed the same sentiment to me. We keep a safe distance from each other careful not to cross any boundaries...but the mind is a powerful thing...and when the heart is involved it makes is even tougher. Is it possible to have more than one soul mate in this life???

I don't know how to say this but I am a married Cancer woman who is having an affair with a married Scorpio man.

I've read thru all the comments, but this one related to my potential situation so well.

In effort to make this short, I am a Scorpio man married to a Leo women for 15 years who loves his wife, but for the majority, have not been able to get along or enjoy his wife/marriage. I am so deeply pre-indulged in a beautiful Cancer co-worker in a cooperate office. She's currently in a distant relationship and expressed to me her dismay with this situation.

Well, her we go, I saw her for the first time three weeks ago, and noticed how attractive she was. But no biggie. There are a lot of attractive women here. The next day I past her in the office and introduced myself. There, was that POINT-OF-NO-RETURN. She is somewhat reserved, but we talk everyday about anything, and everyday we get more and more close. It's at a point where I would make certain flirtatious comments and she would be well excepting of them with nice responses. We both know each other's relationship status, but there's no stopping. We email all the time. We take our breaks together so we can be alone. I walked her to her car yesterday and we both could've easily embraced and kissed, but we didn't. That was a struggle, because I think that's how comfortable we are. Needless to say, I AM LOSING MY MIND. I can't stop thinking about her. Where was she 15 year ago? We would look and be so good together (both being well fit and attractive people with same desires). I want to know everything about this Cancer woman and fantasize doing everything with her. I know she feels my vibe. I am so tempted to just tell her how I feel and let whatever happens happen, but I'm married.

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Hi, Ive been following this thread for a while now and found it very interesting. I'm from India and have been in the US for the past 10 yrs. A couple of years ago I met a girl when I went for a treatment at one of the ALCs. The chemistry between us was amazing, something you read in the novels. I felt a great connection between us and I bet she did too.

You don't say what caused you to think she might feel the same.

I had a similar experience (see my post "Scorpio man Cancer woman

I am a Scorpio man and recently had a relationship with a Cancer woman. She is the love of my life. I know this, don't question me, I AM a Scorpio after all. The emotional connection I have with her is beyond description."

I believe with all my heart she is my soulmate, you probably feel the same. all I can say is let go. If it is to be, it will be. I have a feeling I will see her again, question is when and where, in this life? the next? I don't know. I look forward to it though, it will be blinding with light. The aura around us when were together must've been huge and very colorful, with lots of red/pink. I have never felt this 'energy' with another human being in my life. My counselor (oh yeah, had to go that route for a while) says I may never have that experience again. Talk about getting your heart ripped open. But I found Ho'oponopono and I am at peace. Again if it is to be, it will be. Me and my love (just as you and yours) came together for a reason. Finding that reason has become my life's work.

I am a Cancer woman who has fallen utterly in love with a Scorpio man. I am 24 and he is 35....I must say, It happened rather suddenly and came at a rather tumultuous time in my life, but in my eyes, it was the perfect timing. He is my rock and the only thing keeping me sane right now. I must say that we get along perfectly, and I know in my heart of hearts that it was him that I was waiting for all my life. We have fallen so deeply that there is no turning back. It is he and I against the world and I would choose no other, ever....He is Mo Shearc, and i, his. He has the most beautiful soul I have ever had the honor of meeting and a wonderful heart. Knowing him and the person he is now, I know that I could not bear to be without him. We have the kind of romance that one only dreams about, and reads about. I know that I must be the luckiest person in the world to have found my soulmate. And though distance seperates us for now, I know that when we are together, we wi ll never have to be apart again. And I can not wait! I had almost given up on love before he came along, but how could I now when he has shown me the greatest love I have ever known, and felt....He is the one for me, for always. And reading this page only solidifies my belief in him, and in us. I never knew a love like this existed. But he has opened my eyes, and for that, I will thank him with every breath. For the rest of my life. I love you Mo Shearc.

I am a Cancer female who has begun spending time with a Scorpio male. He pursued me until I gave in. I can't believe he spent so much time trying to woo me, as I really did ignore him for the first few months. But he just kept on being excited to see me, going out of his way to be nice to me, and doing little things to make me notice him. So I finally bit - and now I am so confused!

He's so attractive and sexy, and we kiss and cuddle and hang out.. and he talks about how I'm special and beautiful, and he can see himself falling in love with me, and that I don't have to worry about him chasing other women..

But we haven't even had sex yet!

This terrifies and frustrates me! I like him, but how am I supposed to know if I want to be committed to someone who I haven't even seen completely naked?

He keeps saying "I'm looking forward to getting to know you better" and this also terrifies me. It feels like he has a pre-conceived notion of how I am in his head.. what if I fail at making that become a reality? This is probably just the inherent Cancerian insecurity speaking, but I am just so confused and find this whole situation bizarre.

I like him, and want to have sex with him, but he's making me wait. It's so aggravating :P And in being aggravated, I have no idea how to act or be. So I just try to be my sweet self and ignore the raging in my nether regions when we hang out. Damn you, you Scoprio men, I love and hate you.

Patience, when it comes to a good shagging, isn't my best virtue! Especially when I have a nice handy Sag man to call who's perfect for the job! It's so hard to not call him.. and I know if I do I'll lose the Scorp man forever before ever getting the chance to really know him.

Why can I sleep with the Sag guy (who I am not emotionally invested in) while getting to know the Scorp guy (who I want to become emotionally involved with), until the Scorp guy decides to finally give it up?

Well, because if the Scorp guy finds out, I'm fucked. Or not. Ha.

Anyway.. could one of you Scorpio men please explain to me WHY you need to wait so long before having sex with someone you spent over a year trying to get to DATE you?!

If I sound frustrated it's because I am :)

I am a Cancer girl and in a relationship with a Scorpio man for over 2 years now. After reading all these posts I feel amazed that it wasn't just us and kind of comforted knowing that I've not turned into some dellusional person when I think that I was made for him and he was made for me. We are exactly how the horoscope described it, we feel so deeply connected like our love has no time or space. And ofcourse, those infamous eyes. God, I thought that was just my boyfriend. The way he looks at me so intensly makes my knees weak. And the power that his aura has is just unexplainable. All I can say is, he is really the first person I have thought for in the future as my husband and the father of my children.

I have had sex with a Scorp guy in the beginning in was like OMG ! His moves were so sensual and very powerful and strong sex. But then sometimes he seemed distant and uninterested. We had a brief seperation (his part ) and when we hooked up again it was even better ! then he disappeared again and then came back and wanted to try sex in public places he liked how I went along with it he said it was a turn on ! anyway he went back 2 his ex wife but for necessity / they are not having sex - how do I know

bcuz he came back 2 me again , and told me he missed me and remembered all the fun we had & how sexy I am & that he played with himself thinking about me! and he askd me a second time to go to a swingers club with him , I am concidering it, because I would go anywhere to be with him

i like him so much ! !

I saw a Scorpio man across a crowded bar about six weeks ago. we have talked every day since that night. not only has it been a completely whirlwind relationship, but half of it has been long distance, we live thousands of miles away from each other. for some reason though, chemistry, stars, whatever... I haven't stopped thinking about this guy since we met, and as far as I can tell he hasn't stopped thinking about me either. I asked him the other day if he believed in astrology, and he kind of shrugged the question off, but after reading these testimonials, I can safely say that there must be something to it, because most of the people describe a very similar experience of deep and passionate relationships that last a lifetime, even from humble beginnings. as short a time as I have known my scorpio, I feel more comfortable and safe around him than I do around people I have known for years.

even if we don't get married, it has been a wonderful romance, that I wouldn't give up for anything.

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"I am a Scorpio man and I like a Cancer woman. I know she also likes me, but it is like an electric circuit, some times on and some times off. She comes forward on some occasions and completely withdraws in her shell, on other occasions. Giving me a complete surprise. what should I do?"

Well that's Cancer buddy! Aren't they great? Two questions: is it love? if not, and you should know that by now, let her go.

Is she even available? they are always hot/cold, but sounds like something is keeping her from opening up to you. Other life commitments maybe.

I've had two extraordinary Cancer women in my life, both unavailable for one reason or another. They both loved me (said so) but could not commit. How's that for a turn? Women that won't commit! The stars are having fun with this Scorpio I can tell you. i'm dying here!

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Anyway.. could one of you Scorpio men please explain to me WHY you need to wait so long before having sex with someone you spent over a year trying to get to DATE you?!

It's not always the case, but in your case, it's simple. You took too long to say 'OK' to even date. We (and obviously I speak only from my perspective) need to know there is more to the relationship than just the physical, and that we're not some consolation prize. The sex is the easy part for us, we're Scorpios after all ;o) If it took him a long time to get your attention, there is a lot of suspicion as to your availability (emotionally) and long term compatibility. For me, the emotional connection and communication are the most important parts. Sex is something you can learn to be better at (though, sorry to say, maybe not as good as a Scorpio :o) and bodies can and do change. Strong and knowing emotional connections are SO-O-O-O-O-O important and difficult to find. Communication is the key to any good relationship. If you can talk about everything and anything openly and honestly, including emotions, we go nuts. The sex is even better with these connections - oh yeah, be lieve it.

I was in a relationship earlier this year - it was very short, only two months, but the sweetest encounter I've ever had or am likely to have in this life. Incredible almost from day one. The communication was indescribable - I know more about her and her about me than I've learned about my wife or that she'll ever know about me in over 25 years. Yes it was extra marital, but I've never done that before. Like any Scorpio I was committed. This connection was so extraordinary, I let go of all inhibitions. A Scorpio? letting go of all??? Yes ma'am. And not one shred of guilt. That is such a huge thing for me to say. The emotional connection was, for lack of a better term, the most tender and loving I have ever experienced. I never wanted to romance someone so bad in my life. When I would just see her walking toward me I would feel an overwhelming - let me repeat, overwhelming sense of happiness and joy. The sex? Didn't happen until month two. I told I was not about that. She res isted me for a while, but my emotional response to her and hers to me was just beyond description. How was the sex? Galactic!!! I still have clear, vivid visuals of her almost 4 months later in my mind that cause me to, well, you know. This beautiful creature (although this woman is an 8 physically, she's a 15 emotionally and communicatively) is my soulmate, I knew it the first time we embraced. We are literally ONE. But she sleeps with a pig - her husband, who is emotionally non-existent and abusive. Yes there are circumstances preventing our getting together, at least for now. I am so deeply in love with this woman my soul is ready to leave this body now because it doesn't think I can be with her any more. Sometimes I have emotional outbursts when I am alone and I can tell you the sounds coming from me are from my soul and are sounds I have never heard. It's all I can do to pretend I am still my usual self and get through the day. That's the secretive part of Scorpio. We hide things very well usually. This is killing me.

Are you ready for all that? If not, don't waste his time. He's not willing to waste his. He sounds like he's been burned more than once. He'll only resent you for it forever. Of course, again, I speak from my tender, intuitive, loving, sexy, forgiving Scorpio perspective.

Scorpio guy, Cancer girl.

i met her a while ago through a friend. didn't call immidietly because I hadnt actually seen her in person and was in a relationship. But after we spoke, it just felt different. Months passed and seems like she still feeling me as much as I been thinkin about her. Right now im going through everything I have to, to get to her because something about her I cant resist and have to experience for myself. I think we were made for eachother.

Well I am the saddest girl in the world at the moment, I have been dating a Scorpio man for a couple of months, which has not been easy, I broke it off with him but still really liked him, we got back together on the weekend and he went all out to impress me, we had fantastic sex , then I drunkenly abused him - he walked out of my life right there and them - can I ever get him back, I like him so much I want to die without him

I am 21 years old Cancer woman and I met my first love who is a Scorpio man when I was 13 years old and no matter how hard we try to avoid each other we cant. we have this connection we cant seem to find with anyone else. we know we are destine to be together even though we fight it tooth and nail. weird huh?? lol

Do the Cancer and Scorpio have communication problems sometimes?

I'm a Cancer girl used to date a Scorpio guy, we had such a great connection and he was my best friend. It wasn't just ab out the sex because we'd spent hours just talking and laughing. I know in my heart that he is my soulmate but we're no longer together, we started fighting because of his drinking problem. I miss him so much it's driving me crazy.

I was recently with a Taurean guy and he didn't make me feel the way my Scorpio did. I will do whatever it takes to get back together with my Scorpio because no one will ever take his place. I just hope and pray that he stops drinking. He is the love of my life.

I'm with a Scorpio man now or should I say will be. We're in a very long distance relationship, he's stationed in Germany and has been for 9 months. We speak on the phone whenever he's available and I know already I love him with all my heart. We never had sex, and although I've heard it will be unimaginable, for some reason, I don't even want to do that. I just want to be near him. see him, know he's there as he says he always will be. Is this crazy or what. He says my being upset with him is very hard for him to take but he has no intention of giving up on what he knows is love. I want this man so badly, I can bearly keep the tears from my eyes just thinking about him. It's all I can do to keep my cool and beg him not to breathe without me near his side. How this happened to me is beyond, but it did happen. He seems to know exactly what I need and says he wants to give me all I want. But,in this case I don't want anything but him. I could sit on a desert island ju st to know he was there with me. He says when we get together we will never be apart ever again. He always talks about us doing everything together and holding each other tight. I know already, I will never be able to get this man out of my head or my heart.He also doesn't know my age and when I tell him, I'm frightened he will leave me (he man consider it a lie that I never told him before) but I wanted to wait until I thought it would make no difference to him as no problem he could have would make a difference to me. But I guess I'll have to wait and see.

I Love this man to desperation and realize it will take two more lifetimes to even get him out of my head.

Say what you like about Scorpio men and their sexuality, aggressiveness and jealousy traits, they know they've met their match when it comes to a Cancer woman. This woman knows just where to go into this man's heart and mind and does it with ease. I'm in love with one of the most gorgeous Scorpio men ever on this earth. He's strong, sweet and so romantic he can melt your heart. But, so am I I can see by the way he looks at me that he longs for me every minute of the day. I feel so secure with his love and only have to think of what I need him to do and a second later he does it. He was the first one to say we are "perfect" for each other and believe me they don't talk that way unless they are head over heals about you. I love him more than words and I know he loves me. Of course he has his mood swings so do I but we only take a minute before we put it back on track. Other than that we're on loves hangover every minute of the day. I want him for the rest of my life and I know he wants me too.

I am a Cancer women and I date a Scorpio man and let me tell you it is a pain in the a%$. I mean I love him to death but he has a temper/attitude and issues. He has all those other good qualities that a Scorpio men have but it seem like people are leaving out the flaws!

I am a Cancer woman and I love a Scorpio man I known him for 3 years me and him been together and broke up and got back together and broke up. he use to treat me bad.he apologized and told me he never knew what he had till I was gone a (few months I didn't talk to him or anything). he never believed me when I told him I loved him cause he got played so many times by women. he didn't believe in love and over times when I talk to him he says he believes me about when I said I love him and everything else I told him I will stay by his side no matter what happens. and over the years he seen that I have been by his side me and him cant hold a boyfriend / girlfriend every time we get with some one we all ways find our way back to each other again and its like impossible to stay away from him so I accept that I love him and all and my feelings will never change but he never tells me he loves me but yet when he was in the hospital the first thing he asked to do is tal k to me when he woke up out of surgery.

To: "Say what you like about Scorpio men and their sexuality, aggressiveness and jealousy traits, they know they've met their match when it comes to a Cancer woman."

You are absolutely right - we know we've met our life match. I know I met mine, but she will still not admit that we are 'that' match. Her husband is a freak and has no idea how f***in lucky he is. I KNOW we are the match, beyond a doubt. I feel her, see her, breathe her in everything I do. I know what she needs, when she needs it, wants it, or when she wants to be left alone. And she doesn't have to say a word, or even give a look. Yet, like most Cancers, she lives in absolute fear. So, now what? This sucks.

Well I'm a Cancer woman and I dated a Scorpio guy for 6 months and everything was going great until around the 4 month, he started being distant with me and stop calling, texting, etc. I became worried and of course possessive and annoying and right after out 6 month anniversary, (In which he took me to dinner.) We broke up and he said to me if he really loves me I will come back, and if not I won't? However we still kind of talk and I miss him a lot, but since he does not internet anymore I can't tell if he like me anymore. I mean I hear from his friends that he stills likes me and wants to date me, but he wants to wait until he graduates. BTW I'm in college and he's still in high school. He will be a senior next year. We dated when I was a senior and he was a sophomore. Any suggestions? Should I really wait until he graduates...do Scorpios keep their word? Any Scorpio men who have been through this situation?

Scorpio man is really passionate I really don't know is he the reason for the my previous breake up with saggitarius man but really I go mad crazy when I see his hypnotic eyes lovely feeling if I just think of him I start smiling my heart beats faster my cheeks get pinker when he comes and what not ....but sometimes he makes me feel jealous but yet I love him if it really we are destined I hope he understands me....

I say a Cancer woman and Scorpio man are perfect for eachother.

They are shy at first, but then become really comfortable being with around you. They don't like talking as much but they definitely know how to show that he loves me and cares by giving you a kiss or a simple present. They are very passionate, and they know how to make you feel great. They are very loyal, they hate being cheated on so they'll never cheat. They are competitors, and they get jealous easily but it's their way of letting you know that they want you all to themselves, and that makes them possessive, and I love it. They sometimes feel insecure, but just let them know you love them and they're fine. My Scorpio is amazing, a great kisser and lover. They are so loyal, you can just tell you're going to last a lifetime with them. They don't like showing their feelings, but you can already tell how and what they feel, because cancers have a great connection with them. They can tend to be very sensual which I absolutely adore, because they do everything with so much pa ssion. Scorpios are great lovers. End of story.

Thanks so much for these experiences. I've always been interested in how astrology effects my life and experiences. I am a cancerian woman. A couple months ago I met a younger Scorpio man in a social community activity and we bonded almost instantly. I never experienced such an immediate friendship. As time went on I found myself thinking about him more and more. By the time the social event was over I felt I had fallen head over heals for him. No man has ever made me feel like that before; it was so intense. He would look at me with those hypnotic eyes that would just make me absolutely weak. Nothing romantic could ever come out of it for reasons I can't explain here, but I really miss the friendship and pray every night that I will see him again.

I'm a Scorpio Male, and have yet to date a Cancerian. I would like too, or thought I did until reading some of these posts. I see that a high number of Cancer Women have cheated on their boyfriends or husbands. "Whats up with that?" Several of my Male Scorpio Conterparts were cheating with these women also, they are scum too. My point being, is that if a woman cheats on anyone, she cheats. It shows that she has no loyalty; Even the ones who were flirtatious, and not physical, they were still cheating in their hearts and minds if they were already with someone. I could never trust a Woman that has cheated on someone else, it means that she could do the same to me. I won't play those games, and if she is that hard to catch, will she be worth it? Not if I found out she was flirting or playing cat and mouse with someone else. If I am with a beautiful woman and other men want her attention, I understand, I did and do too, however, if she flirts or leads another man on, t hen she will be dropped cold and real fast. Cheaters, liars and game players are the worse kind. I hope infidelity is not common for Cancerian Women.

Scorpio Male who is worried about "cheaters:" first of all, that is so stereotypical Scorpio - "she's mine, mine, mine.' Mr Possessive, if you find the right one, Cancer is unbeatable and will not cheat on you, provided you are loyal, caring, not a control freak (mine, mine, mine) and attentive to her. That being said, I am one of the Scorpio "cheaters" you refer to. I had that possessive streak too long ago, but have since learned to let go. You're wasting a lot of energy on the fear of losing. Scum? Perhaps to you I am. But there are sometimes circumstances we don't know about when we hear about and immediately judge extra marital relationships. Circumstances that even the most avowed 'monogamous to a fault' have to take into consideration. I showed someone who has an unloving marriage, in fact, an emotionally and mentally abusive marriage, what a true loving relationship is, if that is the work of 'scum', count me in. I love her more than anyone I have ever known - between us there was no expectation, no judgement and no emotional emptiness, no breakdown in communication whatsoever. On an emotional level - incredible, indescribable, perfect. Our hearts were truly as one. On a communication level - nothing ever had to be said, we knew each other. All was on the table. And I mean all. Those two traits were so strong the relationship did go one step further, even though both of us said it couldn't and shouldn't happen. It did. That's not me. I do not play games with lives. I am from the heart, always have been. I have never been a 'player,' have never 'cheated' before, and do not, as a rule, lie. (let's face it bub, you wouldn't tell your wife she looked fat in 'that dress', so, yes, you lie too.) I am human, I make mistakes. I am human and I care deeply about others, and when I see them being hurt deliberately, and without conscience, especially someone who has so completely taken my heart, I can not help but act. On a physical level? Imagine the best, most passionate, caring, loving one on one experience you've ever had - now multiply it ten times. A hundred times. Because of the emotional connection and communication, the physical was - well, astronomical. This infidelity happened once and it will only happen once because it was with someone whom I consider to be my perfect mate, my soul mate. I have never known emotional connection like that - ever. Unfortunately, we are not able to be together. At least not at this time. It's a long story I won't belabor any further. Was it worth it? Overall I would have to say yes. I have never known and would never have known in my life the level of compatibility that is possible had I not responded to my heart's desire, nor would she have known. Yes, people got hurt, and I do regret that. The regret is weak compared to the love and joy I felt with her, and that I know she felt with me. Someone I truly love and care deeply for now knows that there is real love in this world, in us, and that they have choices. I just pray they muster the courage now to take the next step and get away from a life stifling, emotionally devoid, controlling and possessive relationship. Good luck on your quest. Treat her well, not like a piece of property.

I met a really awesome Scorpio man not too long ago. very innocent, had never even dated before. smart, funny, cute, I could tell he'd of been really sweet. once I started talking to him, we really became close. he persuaded me to tell him ho I felt, and for a while he flirted with me, talked to me nonstop, untill he stopped talking to me. and after a while he told me he just wanted to be friends, and then once things got back to normal, I said somthing that pissed him off to no end. Its bene a couple weeks and he's still annoyed at me-the one problem with scorpio's in general is they hide how they feel constantly. trust me, I know what its lke to want to hide away. but that and once they finally tell you how they feel they're so passionate about that on emotion, they don't let it go for weeks or longer. im still in love with him, but the sad thing is him and i-at least in my eyes-were perfect for eachother. A tip to all ou other cancers aiming for a scoprio-watch th e very subtle things, thats how you know when their going to be mad at you. and let them lead, don't ever introduce a new joke or thing, thats what upsets them the most

Me and my Scorpio man met online 2 months ago and text each other almost every day. We've also chatted on the phone a few times and whenever we're both online, we IM each other. We both like each other a lot, the only problem is that we live over 700 miles apart and we're both in school (he's in college and I'm in grad school) and we've never met each other before. We do know what the other looks like though (thanks to facebook) and we both like what we see.

We really want to meet, but both of us are so busy that we don't know when (or if) that will happen. There are so many similarities between us and it seriously feels like fate has brought us together. I feel a connection with him that I've never felt with anyone before...

I've never fell for someone so quickly (it took me less than a week) and I can't help but feel that he's the one.

Perhaps I'm just really naive :(

In response to: Could one of you Scorpio men please explain to me WHY you need to wait so long before having sex with someone you spent over a year trying to get to DATE you?!

It's not always the case, but in your case, it's simple. You took too long to say 'OK' to even date. We (and obviously I speak only from my perspective) need to know there is more to the relationship than just the physical, and that we're not some consolation prize."

Well, your comment was very touching, it made me picture your story. Sorry, English is not my mother tongue and maybe it seems to you that I'm just writing banalities here, but I liked that story, your story and the way you put it in words. I am a Cancer, too, and it seems that I've fallen for a Scorpio. All I can say is that I am stunned at the compatibility between us on the emotional level. I am a very down to earth woman, but this man can make me lose my head in a minute.

I am a Cancer woman and my first love is indeed a scorpio. we dated back in high school . later went with our lives. I can truly say that thru out our lives we keep ending up back in each others. and the funny part about it we seems to pick up whereever we were last.its like unfinished business I feel so alive whn im with him he totally completes me. like know other he's the only one I can truly say know me like a book. whn were together were like lil kids.. our attraction is so magnatic that I feel its us against the world!!! he is truly the love of my life.. when we make love its like an outter body experience..its definitly powerful he's the best lover I ever had. not only that he's my best friend love you marquise!!!

female Cancer dating a scorpio...wow what can I say he's my soulmate he's everything I ever wanted in a man our sex life is amazing I want everything with this guy......2 years and looking fowards spending the rest of my life with me...the key for keeping a Scorpio happy keep him interested all the time seduce him in everyway trust me you will never get tired or bored with an Scorpio man

I am a Cancer women that meet her Scorpio man not two long ago. I am married but this man caught my eye. Spent my first full day with him. He cooked mr lunch very clean man, sharp head to toe. Very respectful and kind made me feel as if I was home. The chemistry was so there. We had sex and I must say I was shocked it had me questioning myself as if I've been out of the loop sexually. Like if someone left me out, I've never had a male companion work it out like that before. I felt as if I was wanted, needed and most of all I felt the passion on this mans eyes for me and it was a little scarey but at the same time it was a turn on.

Earlier I had mentioned a friendship with a younger Scorpio man that I met through a community activity. Recently we reconnected on the internet and I am so happy! There is something to be said for this sign combination - it is undeniable!

I am a happily married Cancer woman who became friends with a married Scorpio man at work. From the beginning we felt an instant attraction and bond with each other---mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. We became really good friends. But deep down I know that it was more than that, sometimes he would tell me in conversation that we must have known each other in a previous life and now we are finally meeting...and I truly felt that way.

Our spouses started getting suspicious and his wife gave him an ultimatum and now we have basically cut off all communication (which makes it awkward at work as well). But I miss him SOO much, I feel like I've lost a piece of my heart.

At the same time, I know it was wrong to feel this way about somebody who was not my husband so maybe this was a blessing in disguise?

But I wonder if there is a way to just be friends with this man and not have it develop into anything further.... I'm confused.

I am a female Cancer who is lossing her mind over a male scorpio!

we were friends from middle and we were so close,its almost funny because he liked me all that time and I elt him down and told him I had never thought of him that way really,and that he was like my dorky brother.He was always there for me and at times he still is...i had a relationship with a Libra male that didn't end to well but that's in a story all if it's own,i guess you can say "my scorpion" was the one who set me up,even though he liked me so much he was willing to just sit back and watch me be happy,when me and him broke up he was still there for me,saying sorry,telling me he still liked me,ect. I wasn't sure how I felt about him but one day after class I told him I needed to talk to him and to meet me on the stairway,he agreed to this and when we met up there I kissed him.

I felt something there but I soon just let it go and moved on to a different person that relationship didn't end badly at all it was just and open one in fact I think I was in the middle of that relationship when we kissed. Anyway,the Scorpio is still here now I know how I feel for him...he and I got closer and I addmited I liked him,we were holding hands and smiling even small pects it was so cute,and I loved our fights and so did he!(maybe more than the way I loved them)I may have liked him a lot but at the time I didn't love him...it was sad almost because in away he was trying to tell me he loved me,but he didn't want to say it and I wasn't going to say anything until he spit it out,he asked me,whole heartedly,if I loved him,I said I didn't love him..."yet" I said "love you,not yet" I didn't think it was bad I though if we had more time to put it all together than maybe...It seemed fine the next day went about it all the same we held hands together and maybe teasing and to uching he whispered in my ear that really liked me,I can't tell you how happy I was inside,the way he said it,the way he held my hand...over the weekend he got a girlfriend,it hit me so hard I got really sad,but when I saw something inside me just started to untangle and fast,it was like a cord holding a bowling ball! I snaped at him,I had never been so mad. I yelled and he yelled back saying he didn't "why the hell" I was "fucking acting this way" the bowling ball that fell...crumbled.He never yelled at me was one of the reasons but I walked off first in anger but then I was alone...I cried and broke down.That same girl he was with? he ended up cheating on her with well me.I don't know how it happened it was was a regualar day we had already desided I wouldn't fully forgive him but agreed be friends like he asked...next thing you know he's kissing my neck sotly and I loose my tunge to say,you have a girlfriend,not that we didn't talk about it.

We soon had our little thing after he broke up with her,kissing,fighting,txting,touching,feeling,talking,flirting,the whole shebang! But that realaity caved in...he found another girl he liked (no hey are no together he likes her she likes him back),me and him are still friends in all butt now I love him he old me he loved when we were in that little thing we had.We don't talk as much it feels odd sometimes and I don't know if he still likes me,damnit I wish I knew.I'm stuck here and he's in my dreams,and in y head,I see him all over,and when we talk I forget a little,but I can't stop saring at his hazle eyes and I my head is screaming at me saying this all bullshit! and that I should just tell him everything weather it kills me or not.I just what to know that when I said those 3 words he said them back...weather or not he meant it or still does,I wish I knew I can't and its driving me crazy.

Our friendship isn't even the same.

Just an update. I'm the married Cancer woman who is having affair with the married Scorpio man. I'm still married and I'm still having the affairs with the Scorpio man. I still love my husband and I'm still crazy in love with the Scorpio man. Just the other day I was talking to the Scorpio and he said to me he can't believe its been two years and he said there is strong connection between us,and he never had an affair that last longer then two month. Then he said I was part of him and there no going back. I'm not sure of what that mean. Can a Scorpio man please respond

Hello People, It was real fun reading about the Cancer Scorpio relationships that you guys have shared.. Im a Cancer woman and have been dating a Scorpio guy since more than a year..

Im deeply in love with him and cant see anything beyond him,,However when his Ego comes into the picture things get worse and we fight.. Everything else in our relationship is perfect.. Sometimes it gets a difficult.. I found my soulmate .. :)

I am a Scorpio man in a long lasting relationship with a Cancer woman. We met years ago in high school. At the time I was dating an Aquarius to help me get into some social rings at the high school. My Cancer woman was in 9th grade when I met her outside of a gym class. Three gym classes shared that gym, but we all met up afterwards to wait for class to let out. There was always time waiting for the bell to ring where I would stare at her. Many times searching in her face for some hint that I may approach her. I went out to a skating rink a month or so later with the Aquarius(we had been dating maybe 3-5 weeks). At that skating rink the Aquarius very bluntly told me she was never interested in me and using me to make her boyfriend jealous. My ego was shot to hell, I didn't have any real feelings for her. I had just hoped that she had them for me. In this moment I took up the reigns of my true journey. My Cancer woman had given me her phone number, I called her and s he and a friend of hers joined me at that skating rink. I found myself trying to impress her with money and physical strength. I couldnt help but try and skate around that rink as fast as possible, looking to her for approval. She was still very passive twords me but I could tell that her and I would be together forever after this day. Her deep mood swings always knock me down, and then have me chasing after her again. We are constantly arguing about pointless things, but within ours our tempers ignite our sexual passions with each other and our problem is much less relevant from then on. I hate it when people challenge my authority, but she does it in such a way I just love it. She helps me better understand myself and the world around. My Cancer woman balances out my intensities and helps me look at the world through someone elses eyes. I get very upset at times, angry...almost violent. We have broken up a few times, for as little as a few hours, and as long as a couple days. We cant stand but be with eachother. I love her with all my heart, and would do anything for her. Right now I design my life around her, trying my best to satisfy her needs and my own at the same time. Both of us are constantly jealous of each others involvement with someone of the opposite sex. I am trying my best to be less controlling. I don't want anything more than to be with her until die, and even after that.

I'm a Capricorn sun/Virgo moon girl and I had a big crush on a Scorpio boy (the first serious crush I've had in 22 years) but while I'm a virgin with no boyfriends ever, he seemed to have a ton of girlfriends.

I take my commitments extremely seriously and have a painfully strong set of morals and somehow, these posts seem to imply that Scorpio people (And some of my Cancer sisters :)) don't set much by marriage and vows.

I think Scorpios are awesome but just not marriage material....or maybe Cancers and Scorpios are too compatible to give us earth signs a chance lol :D

I hope he finds a beautiful Cancer lady!!!

Seems like Scorpios and Cancers are faithful ONLY to one another!!

I am a Cancer woman who loves a Scorpio Man. We dated once and let me tell you I had never been happier. He was romantic, loving, passionate, and I felt so safe with him. We had been friends for awhile before so I felt comfortible around him which was why I decided to hit it off in the first place. But we got into a big fight because he had hurt my feelings and lashed out. It wasn't that bad really there was no name calling or insults... but he was very angry afterwards and broke it off immidietly. I tried many times to apologize but he never forgives me. I wish I could find a way to get him back. I guess this is the clingy crab side in me because I'm not giving up on him. I know people always say that a Scorpio man is impossible to get back because they are hurt and hold grudges but I won't give up on him. I'm giving him a lot of space for the time being and we've talked about being friends. I guess I'll see how it works out... either way a Cancer woman and Scorpio man fix extremely well together as long as you get past your differences. It's not even that hard as long as you are patient. <:)

Ive been with my Scorpio man for 4 years now. He drives me nuts some time. I think the good sex brings me back. I also think we are both crazy because we fist fight some times. But at the end of the day I love my Scorpio man

im a Scorpio guy who fell for a Cancer girl.she completely and effortlessly worked her way through all my defences in under a month! I had no idea I could meet someone like her, we understood each other so well that we could finish each others sentences. Unfortunately we are of diferent religions and because of her family she got really worried and ended it.I cant begin to explain how much I love her. life can be so unfair!!

I am a Scorpio Man who is in love with a Cancer Woman. We met 7 years ago for the first time when she used to be in marriage, so we split 2 years later. Recently, I found her again and I found myself more than before in love with her again. She is always very nice to me, but I'm very afraid anyone else may come between us in the future and make her split from me again! I love her more than anyone else in my life and I experience passion, love and sex more exciting than anyone before in my life ... She is the only person who I can give her my true love and passion and can tell her I LOVE YOU BABY!

I am a Cancer woman who met her Scorpio at work 9 months ago. We talk on email and message a hundred times a day. We are friends and have been out for meals and away for the weekend. He holds my hand and he is always touching and cuddling me but nothing more. When I ask what is going on he always says we are just friend! Could someone please let me know if this is the case or just Scorpio hiding their feelings? I am v confused and ready to give up on my Scorpio soulmate.

I'm a Scorpio male.

To the affair, it suprises me, considering the amount of jealousy a Scorpio has for the people they are in love with, granted you are a Cancer and in my experience (which is only two weeks, two extremely happy weeks) a Cancer does very well in evening that out. You're apart of him now, he will always have a spot for you in his heart, we don't forget about the ones we truly love. Even years down the road.

As far ass compatibility goes, I met with a Cancer female two weeks ago and stayed the night with her the first night. We delayed sex for the following two nights just getting to know each other and holding eachother.

When we finally hooked up it was the most amazing sex i've ever had, and hers too. There's no possible way I could explain in words how deeply I am in love with this Cancer and everything I read on compatibility hitss the nail directly on the head. We are soul mates. I will spend every moment of my life trying to make this girl feel like a princess for the simple fact that I trust her not to ever betray me. Thats deserving enough. So if you are a Cancer female looking for a way to keep a Scorpio around, that's what it takes. Let him know he can trust you and NEVER betray him. Once you go down that road that romance, lust, infatuation, emotional high, and longing for each other will never be the same.

Reading this makes me a little insecure- ok a lot! I'm a Capricorn woman. Does this mean my Scorpio fiance will cheat on me with a Cancer lady?

No. There's a lot of free will involved. Just because something is common doesn't make it inevitable.

Advice from a Cancer woman To the WOMAN CHEATING on her husband with a SCORPIO....Do you really think he's a great guy look at what you said"he's never had an affair last more then two months".More then one affair??So this guy is married to someone else and cheats on her over and over.That sounds pretty selfish and heartless to me and you think this guy is a good catch?Then again you've been doing the same to you'r husband for two years.Why not end it.Either the affair or the marriage.All I can say is that the two of you are being selfish and shouldn't play with the emotions of your PARTNERS!!!!If my boyfriend was cheating on me for two years let me tell you what he better run

Scorpio men can be very trying, but Cancer women can be just as trying. The cool thing is that, if both of you are real, it works GREAT! But if there is any BS in the game, this combination will surely expose it. So Cancerian women, first, be comfortable with yourself. Don't fear being alone and don't let this astrology stuff get out of hand. There is good and bad in every sign. If you want something as opposed to needing it, the Scorpio man IS something to want. The key, here, is to keep him in his proper perspective. Don't NEED him or any other man for that matter. Be honest, true, loyal and keep the BS out of the picture. Why bother, neither of you like it anyway and you can both see through it. Enjoy it and if he turns out to be one of the bad ones, let go. Move on. You will be OK as long as you're OK with yourself. If it is real, you won't be able to get rid of him. Always remember, though, that a bad Scorpio is DANGEROUS. If you see signs of abu se, get the heck out of Dodge... QUICKLY!

To the Cancerian lady who wrote: "then I drunkenly abused him - he walked out of my life right there and them - can I ever get him back, I like him so much I want to die without him." I'm also a Cancer woman, probably older and a little more experienced with Scorps than you. I've had 2 long term relationships with Scorpio men. The first ended after many years, in death by illness, my only child married a Scorp, and I now have had another Scorpio man for 3 years and counting. Scorps are a handful but I love'em. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it seems to me that you have identified your problem incorrectly. Getting him back and wanting to die without him is only a consequence of your real problem, which seems that you don't understand yourself OR him! Scorps are strong willed, sensitive, don't forgive easily, NEVER forget a wrong done to them and have a really low tolerance for B.S.!!!! You might want to address the fact that you can't handle your liquor, 1st . If you don't know when you've had enough to drink to the point that you "drunkenly" abuse ANYBODY, that's your REAL problem. Fix that first! Then try SINCERELY apologizing to your Scorpio love bug. (I promise you, you will suffer the consequences of your actions and you're lucky if ALL he does is stay away from you) If he allows you to get close enough to apologize but still rejects you after that, end your Cancerian pity party, pick up the pieces, and keep on steppin'. If he was so great, find you another Scorp (cause almost all of them can rock your world...good or bad) and don't make that mistake again! Remember, with a Scorp that actually does care for you, what you put out is what you'll get back! Want to be cherished? Cherish him. Want to be respected, respect yourself first, then it won't be hard to respect him and he'll reward you with lots of respect. Fix yourself and BE REAL. If you can't be honest with yourself, trust me, you need to leave Scorps alone!

I met him at college about 22 years ago, he stared at me and strangely I felt compelled to kiss him..which we did several times, I really liked him and he liked girls at college so we parted ways and reconnected 22 years later.i found my attraction and love for him still there 22 years later ----this time around he was divorced and clear he does not want an emotional connection. I respect that but I know we have a special bond..we have become lovers and recently ended it as I want something more than just being his lover. I am inlove with this man with the good heart, gentle soul. I have dated many guys in between him but always return to him...he is always there. I care about him so much and love him so much as a person that even if he doesn't want a romantic relationship with me, it is enough that I got to know him. through him, I have learned to love myself again as I come from a long term emotionally abusive relationship. I have no more expectations from him, jus t cultivating the amazing friendship we have and enjoying it. he is very drawn to me and always tells me how much he appreciates me. I do know he loves me , if it is not romantic then so be it! I don't live in hope - it is a powerful, mature union of two souls that are really compatible (and it is his choice that he does not want to pursue it romantically). I respect that and if I should meet a man that is ready to love me and who I connect with then I really hope it can be a Scorpio as this man understands me totally - he is so gentle and adventurous every time im with him its a celebration - im an adventurous person by nature and he is as well in a more subdued way - we totally complement each other but at same time he also loves women. I think perhaps he is protecting me by not committing to me. who knows. else im happy and I do agree that the Cancer woman/scorpion male connection for me is by far the most emotionally and soul rewarding!!!

I'm a Cancer girl dating a Scorpio guy(: I havent had many relationships because I don't trust well & always fear they don't return my feeling but THIS. JUST THIS. Relationship has been going FANTASTIC! We've been dating for almost 5 months now and I really love him :) We blend into each others feelings a lot which, could be good or bad depending on situations but her, I'll deal!(: We have such a strong connection, I could swear it's telepathic. We can guess each other easily. OH AND HIS EYES. I could get lost in them<3 He's got all of the Scorpio qualities, passion and intensity being my favorites of them, and I really love this!