Sagittarius man and Scorpio woman

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I'm a Scorpio woman, and have been dating a Sagittarius man for around a year now. Everything written about this relationship has been true for me. Great website! So many sites sugarcoat everything, or rate every relationship as average. It's good to see one which doesn't pretend everything is perfect.

Just like the article said, the sex is great, and everything else we have to work at constantly. It's not an easy relationship, but it is rewarding in its own way. Just knowing that communication between us isn't easy helps me a lot.

I'd like to hear from other Scorpio women who have dated Sagittarian guys. I love their honesty, even though they can be hurtful sometimes, and it can be hard to get past that, but underneath they have a heart of gold - just like a child sometimes, acting before they think!

I'm a Scorpio woman married to a Sagittarian man. He is manipulative to the Tenth degree. He knows how to twist and bend my love and sexuality to dominate me.

Oh, he knows exactly what he is doing and he has always loved to use what ever tactics need be to get me to what he wants. Sagittarian men are manipulative and deceitful. They don't even believe in their minds that what they are doing is wrong.

Well all I can say is that he is a very good friend and he loves his family like no other. Unfortunately to him I've always been an outsider.

I am amazed of how well this article describes my relationship with my ex - Sagittarius !!!

I agree that Sagittarius are extremely manipulative !!! He told me, that I would not survive without him... that no one else would want me...

He said so many hurtful words to me while I just sat quietly waiting for him to finally stop...

One night I remember... he said something that hurt me so deeply... that I could almost physically feel it. I thought then... If there is a soul inside of me.. I swear I can feel it physically hurting - somewhere around my stomach and ribs... I got up and opened the window.. I needed some fresh air.

When I broke up with him, we both cried. He changed later. I even have some massages from him, trying to convince me to come back. He said later.. that he wonders how our child would look like... We are friends now... but I am very happy that this relationship is over !!!

Now I'm with Pisces man and this is THE BEST COMBINATION EVER !!!

I have been dating a Sag man for three years. We were living together, but one day he left and said he needed to think. He says he's coming back, but it hasn't happened yet. We fight all the time and I admit I nag him and do all the things I am not suppose to, but I am a Scorpio women so that is what I do. I am learning to except him for who he is and shut my mouth. It's not easy and some days I don't know if we will make it and some days I don't want to make it. This is a hard relationship to be in and I need help on how to work through it to make it work.

I have been talking to a Sagittarius for three months. He is constantly making excuses for not making a commitment. I don't pressure him but when the subject comes up he tell me that he wants it to be special and that he wants to take me on some more dates. I think he is just saying that because he really is not ready. I want to move on but it is hard because he means so much to me. I want to meet a Pisces or Cancer because I feel that they will appreciate me better.

I'm a Sag man (18 years old. Some say that I should be 25 because of my life and way of thinking) and I have fell in love with a Scorpio woman(34 years old). We've met in a theater in which we are both actors.

The first thing I had noticed about her, was her beauty. We have a lot of common interests and I have fall in love with her not only because of her appearance but because she is a kind hearted person, smart and mysterious.

I know I can have any girl I want in my age, and that I cannot have a relationship with that woman because she is in an age that she would like to find someone to have family with (well I'm not sure about her, but people in that age starting to think of family). I'm sure that she already knows what I fell for her, but she does try to avoid me. We go out with common friends and stuff but I really would like to find the strength to tell her everything and start something with her.

I'm in such pain and I wish with a clap of my hands I could lose 16 years of my life just to be with that woman.

I am amazed my experience of a Sagittarian man is that he is manipulating and had an uncanny way of deceitfully trying to appear to offer me a choice but then working it around to what he really wanted. I as a Scorpio woman found it hard at times to express my deep emotions and moods with him as it was obvious he did not understand me. I called off the romance but we are still friends he still tries to convince me that we are a perfect match. He tells me I am making a mistake by not continuing the relationship. Strangely I find it hard to totally let go (typical)! Sexually he satisfied me but emotionally I find him a little brutish. Im looking for a more compatible man

I have been seeing a sag man for 4 years. Sometimes we don't talk for weeks but when we see each other the passion and sex is GREAT! I am okay with this, I want my space and want home to have his too. But as I am getting older, 41 and he 49 I really want too settle down with him. He seems to be a true sag, afraid of commitment. I feel he is truly my soulmate even though we don't see or talk everyday. When we are together it seems that no time has elapsed at all. I guess I will have to wait.....

I am a sag guy in true love of Scorpio girl.

I agree I never wanted a marriage but this was only true till I did not met her. The day I met her, I started to feel love inside me. I don't know why, but it was really easy for me to get her. What to say, a Sag said yes for marriage within 7 days! Though I still need to complete my graduation. But I know that this will be the girl to whom I will marry.

Who the hell says that this is not a perfect compatibility!

This relation is just two year old but do time really matter in ever lasting love of scorpion? I can understand her feelings and she can understand mine too. There is nothing more I can ever wish in a girl!

And I will never leave her. Why will I? Why to leave a girl when you know you cant get a better one?

I'm a Scorpio woman & I've been married to a sag man for almost 6 years. We have two children together. It's awful. We are both extremely committed to each other, but the relationship overall is just so unnecessarily exhausting on so many levels. We both love each other very much, but I am increasingly starting to hate myself because of all the compromises I get tricked into making. The Sag/Scorpio marriage is a very difficult one, and I'm not the type of person who expects things to be easy. It's literally as if he just can not comprehend what I am saying most of the time. We live on two different planets, but in one house. I wish I would have married a Cancer or Pieces. If you are a Scorpio woman, and not married to your Sag, don't do it! Seriously, you'd make better friends.

My ex was a sag. Well, most things written here seem to be true. In some ways it was a great relationship to begin with: there were unbelievable feelings, sex was great and we supported each other. On the other hand: he just kept looking for his ideal and kept putting me down for what I was and stood for. He couldn't handle my ironic manner of speech. I couldn't handle manipulation (you know, when someone says like "yes darling, you are so right, im so stupid...but you know, I am SO and you are somehow different and that's bad" in a manner that you feel guilty despite of the fact that you really didn't do anything wrong?). In the end he confessed, that he could never imagine a family with me and the whole year live-in relationship was because he was too lazy to search for one-night-stands. And that I was a total failure as a woman - because I was not as religious as he was. After all those words he tried to act as my best friend ever before others and secretly kept telling me, what sociopath I was. Well, it's over now and I don't feel like having a relationship again. Sag or other sign.

Well I felt I needed to add my two cents, some of these comments have been spot on. I am a Sag man dating a Scorpio woman for almost a year - sex is the best and that is keeping me. However, communication is a problem and she seems out to prove me wrong sometimes. I tend to be right most of the time, not arrogance but experience. When I am wrong I will say I am.

She does have a good heart like myself but I would agree it needs a lot of work.

Yes it would nice if I found that perfect Aries but life does not work like that. I seem to be drawn to Virgo's which is not a good match as well.

Well...I'm a Scorpio 22 he is Sagittarius 24....we're together 7 months...(im still a virgin)...he understands that...but it is so difficult to make this work (except the sexual attraction...a lot of it)....I try to be more understanding but my curiosity and jealousy are deep...I control them sometimes...but it bites me from inside if I don't use my sarcasm:)....

I really don't know what to think.....I can't just cut this relationship just because we're not a good match....I understand his points of view but I don't really want to accept them....sometimes I don't want to be Scorpio...cuz we r so complicated ...I hate that.....but that s just the way we are...I LIKE DEEP EMOTIONAL CONNECTION....I think Sagittarius cant fulfill that requirement but I don't want to give up.....weird...hmmmm :)

Wow!! reading the blogs I can see that I'm not alone in my way of thinking. I'm a Scorpio woman and have been with a sag man for over 8 months. The relationship can be exhausting to say the least. I don't think it's impossible to be happy together because as in any relationship there must be equality and communication. The "work" that is required in this type of relationship with this type of personality connection is communication. The man I'm with puts me first and thinks of me before he does things that he knows will damage the relationship but I must say that Sags and Scorps love and hate very passionately. In order for this relationship to be successful you have to always remember this and keep assumptions at a minimum. Scorpio woman want to love passionately without waiting for the ball to drop and Sag men want to find their equal. You can be this to each other if you are willing to identify with each other's needs and put each other first. May we all have success in love.

the sag men you are describing is nothing like the one im with he is sometimes hard to talk to but when I do finally demand we speak we work out our differences and come off better than when we went in. sag men are very careless but when it comes to me he always has my best interest at heart we work together to make our relationship prosper all relationships come with problems. compromise for one another is what fills in the blanks no matter what sign you are

I am a Sag (20) and I've been with a Scorpio girl (23) for almost a year now. Things are great but that doesn't mean we have had our differences. I've noticed that everything in this relationship is a big deal. From sex which is fantastic to arguments which are not so great. Both are very extreme. But that is one of the reasons I fell for her.

I personally am very manipulative but I've found that when you drop that, things become much more real and straight forward. What I like.) at first I felt I had to do it to keep her. But if you lie or if she even detects the slightest bit of bs on your breath I can promise you it won't bode well.

Stick to what you're good at, be honest, don't be secretive for too long, do it more as a joke. From what I've seen she loves a good mystery.

A good rule to follow is patience. Bite your tongue when you feel yourself about to say something rather stupid. I myself am a typical sag and have said things that haven't gone over well. Take a second to pace yourself and speak what you mean. These girls love to see self-control and patience.

And a little tip for the girls,

I personally found when being doubted this can get bad, I can't say what all other guys are or aren't but the jealousy thing can really be a big pain. As stated the compromises are very key in this relationship, it also is a grand romantic gesture that shows how committed you each are, just make sure you aren't the only one compromising.

Though there are rode bumps the size of hospitals I've never been with a woman who could stoke the fires of romance like mine. This relationship is worth ever tear shed of both happiness and sadness.

I hope you all find the same.

I'm a 32 yr old Scorpio woman and am now married to a Sag man. We have been dating for about 6 yrs (on and off). This is the most amazing relationship I have been in however also the most exhausting one!

Firstly it took him yrs to actually make a commitment. I'm not sure if I can describe all the crap he put me through since we met.

I feel like he has been forced to marry me by his family, friends and me and that we are sitting on the edge. We've only been married for 6 months now, but it feels like years. Honestly I don't know if we will make it.

My biggest problem is that I keep going back and remembering all the things he's done to me and how much he hurt me. And now I'm always suspicious that he is or will be cheating on me.

When we first started dating the sex was amazing but now that we are married it's starting to wear off. Well I know how sexual he is, so if he's not having sex with me maybe he his with someone else??? I'm so sick of this life! I can't live with him but also not without him! HELP!!!!!

I was seeing a sag man and boy oh boy! While the sex was amazing....everything else that matters was not very appealing...Sag men are cold, unthoughtful, and manipulative - not what a scorp woman needs. Ladies, don't waste your time! Please! :)

Maybe this is a cause of just being new, but I was friends with my sag man (20) for 6 months before I started dating him. I am 22, and he was far more eager to get into a relationship than I was. He and I have our differences, he likes to go skydiving every weekend, and I don't, but we understand that about each other. Maybe his manipulative side is lurking in the darkness, but I haven't seen any of it. He is so loving, and has always been very considerate. Perhaps because I have always loved to travel, and love adventure, that is what is making this work. He comes from a good Christian family too, so maybe that has something to do with it. We shall see, I have only known him for less than a year, but I do love him, very much.

I dated a Cancer guy for three years and in the beginning things were great but then he started changing he could never open up to me he never shared any emotion around me and when I read the profile of Cancer guys I was shocked because he was the complete opposite! now im dating a sagg guy and everything I wanted in my past relationship I get with him even though we have polar opposite personalities its not that major we laugh about our differences. it makes me think what kind of Scorpio am I because my best friend is Gemini and I dislike Capricorn!!!!! can anybody tell me what kind of Scorpio I am

Well For the most part it sound like the Sagittarius men that these Scorpio women have been talking about are jack asses. I'm 17 and Date A Scorpio girl. We Have A whole Lot in common I mean a whole lot. I used to Be A little persuasive but definitely not manipulating. She won't have that and she is to important to me so I dropped that. The first thing that attracted me to her was her looks. She is exotic looking, smart, fun to be around, and is everything I could ask for in a girl. When I first laid eyes on her I knew she was the one. Know as far as arguments go we have not had one yet. but it is bound to happen. but when she has something to say I listen. I think It works for us because me dad is a Scorpio And I have Lived with him my whole life. She keeps me interested and when she needs a laugh or advice I know I can provide that for her. it took me a little bit before I asked her out and she said no the first time because She had Bad Experience with guys in the past. I pored my heart out to her and explained that I would not do her wrong mainly because I have been done wrong and I know how it feels. our first date hahaha was different we have this beautiful park downtown and we was there for hours talking laughing and having fun. I truly think we were meant for each other I love my Scorpio girl and if I have any arguments with her down the road I am committed to make it work because I truly love her. Signed By A True Sagittarius

I am a Scorpio woman and I dated a Sagittarius man for two months and instantly fell in love. He would sway his words and manipulate mine to make him always be right, about everything. I would always just suck it up and say sorry. He is definitely afraid of commitment even though he would deny it. We broke up and now we're basically back together without it being official. It's quite annoying actually. It's all worth it though. I don't know what draws me to him, but at the same time I do. It's hard to maintain the relationship but well worth it. I wish things could just be serious cause that's our nature as Scorpios. He does not show affection in public and we're a secret basically. I just wish for a healthy normal deep relationship. But I can't move on since I love him so intensely. Good luck with your sag man! I know I need it

I am a Scorpio woman in love with a Sagittarius woman. She told me she loved me within 4 days of meeting me now I feel like she loved me more then, and we've been married for a year and a half. What the hell is going on? nothing I do seems to please her, and she just changed into a person I don't even know! all of a sudden everything that she used to love about me she can't stand! well she left me 2 weeks ago and tells me she loves me but we just cant be together anymore. I'm depressed and don't know how to win her back. can someone please help!!

I am a Scorpio and my ex of 3 years was a sag. It was the worst 3 years of my life. The relationship was all about sex and nothing else. He used me for money and abused me mentally, physically, and emotionally. To all the Scorpios women out there, when you hear "I am a Sag.", My advice...RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!

I am a sag man who was with a Scorpio woman for 8 months. I must say that every Scorpio woman I have every been with the sex was great!!! Relationships between these two are doomed from the start though. Scorpios are very secretive and don't express their feelings very freely which is a disaster with a sag because we value honesty and openness so much.

I would say these two are sexual soulmates more than anything, and they should just keep it sexual. But if you like emotional drama then a relationship between these two is for you.

I am a Scorpio and have been casually hanging out with a Sagittarius man for about 4 months. I was instantly attracted to him and I believe the same for him. We work together and see each other 6 days a week. We often get dinner after work. We have wonderful conversation and I think the attraction both physically and mentally has grown immensely. Neither one of us has made any kind of move except for light flirting. I personally am very picky and I haven't really fallen for anyone in years. I'm very cautious about getting into relationships and I believe he's the same. I think he's a wonderful person and I see myself falling in love with him. after reading all these posts im a lil nervous but I don't think I can just pass him up.

I am a Scorpio female in relationship with a Sagittarius man for more than 13 yrs now, soon getting married. who says this combination cannot blend well, oh I love the way my man dominates on the bed and otherwise he is jus so caring and loving. Yeah Sags are very soft hearted and adorable that Scorpios can adjust to their nature and if not then being a Scorpio woman I use my charm to pull him closer to me. Sex life with a sag is out of the world and what else a Scorpio needs. I believe we are soulmates for life and this compatibility just rocks

I am a Scorpio woman who has been with a sag man for almost 4 yrs,we instantly fell for each other- we had the same things in common (music) and that was the magnetism with us, I wrote him poetry and he has a studio and would record it. The sex was and still is AMAZING! he is not faithful to me though, and even though he is very careful I can still sense that he screws around. There is a lot of trust issues, however he was very upfront with me in the beginning about his likes for women and even though I knew this my heart became involved, changing my acceptance for his womanizing behavior. Communication is better between us as the years go on, I want to be with this man, but who knows if that ever will happen. We even talk about in 2yrs he wants me to have his child, and that he chose me! He is very manipulative but me being a Scorpio I see right thru it and will let him know how I feel (maybe that's the Gemini rising in me) I constantly go back and forth with our relationship but for some reason we are always drawn together. I currently moved away from him and the attraction is still very strong. Besides the sex, the way he treats me when were together is like no other, he makes me feel special and beautiful which secretly is the key to winning my heart. Maybe its also because my moon is in Sagittarius so sometimes I can see his point of view, to anyone in this type of relationship I suggest doing your astrology charts, it could be so much more to why you are connected to this person, he's not perfect and neither am I...regardless of what sign they are LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!!!

Im a scorp and have been with my sag man for about nearly 2 years... I find the words he uses are hurtful and demeaning sometimes but I know im getting an honest answer out of him.... I find that we have amazing sex and I am not a jealous type (scorp I know) I feel as though as long as we are communicating I don't need to be running round after him wondering if he is going to be faithful. he comes and goes... but ive learned to deal with it. at times he finds me moody but in the same way I have learned to deal with him , he has learned to deal with me.

Um well, I kinda need help because I've been having my eyes on this sag. boy for about a year now. I'm a Scorpio girl. My best friend on the other hand is a Libra girl. We both like this Sag.boy,but we're best friends so we don't let a guy get in our way ;) He talks to my friend a lot, but not me...Only because he says I don't talk. I see the way he looks at me waiting for me to say something but I can't. I get so nervous. Can anyone help?

I am a Scorpio woman completely in love with a sag man. ive bin seeing him for almost 9 months. he's is afraid of commitment but only because he had one relationship that failed. he is honest to a fault but he tries to spare me the sag frankness cause he's knows im very emotional. ive never seen him manipulative. ive seen him angry one time. but I wouldn't leave till we worked it out. im not a fighter so we've never fought once. the sex is off the charts! ill never leave this man, only he can end it, but I can fight him for him. I wont walk away that easy.

I'm a 28 year old Scorp woman & I broke up with my Sag man of 4 years right before Christmas last year. Our relationship was draining. He let the smallest things upset him, destroyed property when he was upset & he would be mad at me for being so calm when he wanted to argue. However, when times were good they were ok. He was a very good provider, but he was also a workaholic. Therefore he was not attentive. He was also a nympho which was a total turn off. (Who watches porn every free hour of their day). Anyway the ultimate straw for me was when we were preggers & lost our set of twins & he just wasn't supportive & even had the audacity to say "he was relieved that it happened". That tore my heart to pieces & I left him. Now he will not stop stalking me & he keeps saying I was the best woman he's ever had(his family thinks so too). Scorps & Sags are a match made in hellven!

I never believed in Astrology at all, and I even didn't know what my element (Sagittarius) stands for. I have lived side by side with a Scorpio woman for 10 years, until we had a child and then I noticed her possessiveness and strong strong over protectiveness of our Son. It was so intense that she ruined the relationship she had with my parents, and I can tell you whether the Zodiac has 12 signs or 13 signs it doesn't matter, Scorpio and Sagittarius is not a good match when it comes to the barebone roots of a matter. Scorpio is too emotional to realize there is a logic in doing things, and Sagittarius is too logical to understand why Scorpio does not think logically and reacts emotionally. Its a different reality for both of us together.

I just start dating a Sagittarius man and I am a Scorpio woman. We have been dating for 2 months. I am very self-conscious because all he dated before were "barbie-type" white girls and I am the first Asian girl he ever dated. I am blunt, happy go lucky, caring and average looking. I know he always wander around and looking at pretty white girls which I am totally fine with that. He told my friends that he never love someone (me) so much before. But somehow I have the gut feeling that he is still into white girls. I am scared that he would leave me. Is it true that Sag man don't often go see their woman everyday even though he is so in love with you?

P.S: I am not the controlling type and I give me tons of freedom!

PLEASE HELP!

My relationship with my Sag is pretty good. Our communication is better than a 1 I gotta say...but that's maybe because of my Rising Sign.

I am a Scorpio woman head over heels in love with a Sagittarius man. The chemistry was instant, and very intense. Suddenly, he was everywhere that I was. Our communication is fantastic! He is patient, kind, HONEST to the core. I think his honesty and reassurance have put me at ease since the beginning. I don't feel the need to withhold information...and certainly not emotion. As for making love this man rocks my world; intense, energizing, fulfilling, HOT, consistent, and imaginative. We are always on the others radar. He is a writer (philosopher and teacher) I am an artist. One thing I have to say is that I learned my lesson long ago about jealousy. It is so not worth investing an ounce of my heart or energy into that. Maybe it's because I am confidant in who I am and who we are as a couple. He always makes me his priority and I trust him implicitly. Things in common: Travel, work, art, music, reading,Yoga (awesome to practice together), cooking, and love of life. Everyday is an adventure with him (FUN) and he loves the fact that he know exactly where he stands with me (INTENSITY). We are a happy pair, together we rule our domain which is everywhere we are. We have been together 8 years, married for 6...3 kids.

I have been with a sag man for 7 years now...and yes I'm a scorpio. I maus say that most of what I'm hearing is true. The communication sucks...he's cheated with a lot of women...he's a manipulator..and he's a user. I find myself alone most of the time...and whenever I bring something to his attention that bothers me..he gets angry and doesn't want to talk about it...he's disappeared for months at a time...I later found out he was cheating...EVERY TIME. I don't even know why I'm still hangin in there..some of you say that they are honest...well this one isn't...he tells lies on top of lies

Im a Scorpio woman who has been dating a sag man for a few months via long distance....we are seeing more of each other now...and as any new friendship..it is the honeymoon stage...but after reading some of these...i am definitely nervous.

Im a Scorpio and initially found this Sagitarus guy a great one ,gorgeous and perfect he looked!I was terribly attracted to him and initially he was the first amongst both of us in makin moves.took me no time to fall head-over-heels in luv with him.But the moment he realized that I am fond of him,he took advantage of situation very badly.He started to throw attitude and ignore me for months and months on stretch and then suddenly appear and show his interest.I wish he could communicate better as to what he wanted from me(n also wish he was not that handsome making it so hard!).But here I blink and der he has disappeared again.for months I used to keep on longing for him 2 cum back,occupying my mind with thoughts filled about him but he used to never cum.after over a period of time I realized its goin nower.he caused me a lot of hurt and sleepless nights.i can still feel the aching pain and incompleteness without him!its hard not to think of him and forget him completely. This whole thing about getting practical is tough!I almost feel I will never fall for anyone anymore or find a guy passionate like him.but I don't deserve dis and have 2 move on in lyf 2 be with a better guy who cares about me and hopefullly I will fall in love again.need help and blessings!!

Im a Scorpio dating my boyfriend 2 yrs older and he's a Sag. On some days he's manipultive and trying to make me seem like I'm the one who's wrong but sometimes what he do say is right but I'm very stubborn. Well he's not scared of committment. We beem together almost 2 yrs and he already proposed to me. The sex is omg awesome and he's my first. I love him and somedays I just want to kill him but we have a great relationship... I hope it lasts. I guess it depends on the person because he the longest person I stayed with.

I am a Scorpio women and I had a Sagittarius guy who I hated, he was my tuitor then he became my best friend and we fell in love and then dated, but when you young love is everything and you look past their flaws and he was so different he wanted commitment and marriage and the only bad qualities he had was being arrogant and dominating but that enticed me more. The intimacy was out of this world and we had good communication but distance and moving far apart grew us apart. Either than that we could have went a milestone together. So I think it jst depends on the individual.

Me (scorpio woman) and my best friend (sag guy).

He's not that manipulative, or deceitful one that the articles above describe. Well he did say, he's interested in me and I look into Western astrology, while he believes in the Chinese astrology. What we did was, we tried to link up things if we can't compromise. We have our pride and to overcome that, we'll just accept what the other have to say.

True that, he's more on the logical side and I'm on my emotional side. Yet, he understands what I'm feeling.

He advices me (he's 4 years older) and helps me to do things. No in fact, he cares a lot about me. He'd find out information that would be useful tho I don't find the need to. He's caring and such a lovable individual. We could work out the differences because we are open to each other. Scorpio don't trust people easily, but one time I tried to trust him and tell him everything, he wasn't even questioning why I had to be emotional. Instead, he tried to reason out with me. I'm in denial but emotions could use the help of logics right?

Trust each other, give personal space and accept what he has to say. He'll accept your emotional sides if you could turn and try to understand him too. Indeed, he'd be a faithful one. Give it a try. Or..could it be that my sag buddy is rare? (:

GOOD LUCK TO MY Scorpio SISTERS!

I have made the dreadful mistake of falling in love with a sag. He is deceitful. He is a manipulator and very mean. I have never met anyone with a more disregard for peoples feelings in my life. We have a one year old son together. I thought this would soften him a little. It didn't. There is no communication because everything I say is wrong. I never know what i'm talking about. The sex is ok. He is just blessed but doesn't know how to work it. I met a Capricorn. So sweet. So much fun. Don't want to be a cheater. But exhausted. Run away scorp. He ain't the one!!!!

I'm a Scorpio woman head over heels in love and lust with a saggitarius man. We dated a while back and hooked up no strings attached a few times after we dated but our relationship was horrible. I guess I had more feelings for him since I still have feelings now. He told s friend I was a waste of time and we don't even talk anymore at all ..... I miss him. I think his personality is amazing. The optimistic funny guy, I love that! However he cheated on me multiple times when we were together and claimed I was possessive which j can admit is true if I love someone I have to have them close at the least. after our break up and he was done with the othe girl he tried to getback with me but j didn't feel I was reading to take him I'm even though we hooked up. I feel that in this relationship he was more mysterious and secretive than means bring a Scorpio it's a bit puzzling to accept that from someone else. Id like for us to be friends I nothing else...but it liiike as if any chances I had before are gone now.

I have been with Sagittarius for over a year...and it's tough...i do love him a lot but the communication part is the worst...there are times that we talk and times that we don't talk and I never know why we don't talk...i wish he was a little more understanding..

I was married to a Sag for 6 years...Four of them I thought we were divorced! He never filed. Instead he gambled the money away! I swear I was living with the devil! He was horrible! I knew something was not right but couldn't prove it because he would manipulate his way out and his friends would back him up when they knew what he was doing. Of all the relationships I have ever had this was the worste. Never have I ever felt so out of control with my emotions! Very bad combination!

I am now married to a Cancer and it took my 3 years to fully trust him because I was so afraid he would do the same thing. I fully trust him now and have never been happier!

I'm a Scorpio women and I've been with a Sagittarius man for a little over a year now. And it's great. The moment we looked into each others eyes, it just felt right. The first few months we eyed each other. There was something about him that made me feel really calm and at ease while he kept trying to figure me out. I suppose you can say we were both interested. We started seeing each other and it was casual. We kept it light and fun. He was able to slowly knock down my walls I've built around myself and got me to open up to talk to him. I showed him how to 'love' again and to bring that passionate side out of him. Something happened and made us be a part for some time but it only brought us closer together. After that, things just sky rocketed. We learn something about one another every time we are together, our chemistry has never died since the day we met, we hardly ever argue, we're always on the same page and we respect and trust each other. We are both indepe ndent people who live our own lives and when we're together, it's insane. He gets frustrated at times because I can always see what's on his mind, while he doesn't have a clue what's on mine. But we reassure each other of our love and affection. We respect each others space and understand that we don't have to see each other everyday. We have so much in common, we turn each other on, and have an amazing sex life. It was an instant connection between the two of us and we grow stronger as a couple every day.

I'm happy.

I am a sagitarius man and I've been with my Scorpio Wife for 4 years now. I decided to marry her the first second I met her. I worship her and that is the way to do it. We have been throguh UP and DOWNS but trully, LOVE DOES CONQUERS ALL! I don't judge her cause Im not perfect... but she IS PERFECT! don't get me wrong, she is a crazy bitch though. But I love her. Pride & Jealousy are the negative energies that we have to deal with. Marriage is the most important mission of life. Now days everyone takes it so lightly. I believe that Scorps & Sags are a match made in hellven! SOULMATES. If you MEN let that Scorpio woman go, you are just going to have to find another! Now If you women left that Sag man its because He was to proud! but you will hjust have to find another one too. :) All these stars and signs and all are accurate... but what I see in Society is that Scorpio women are just the best! Hands down! Point Blank! They are Ride or die once you be honest and not a and asshole. Anyways... I go with waht I experience and see. Scorpio women are the most Difficult to deal with and that is exactly what I want. I like a challenge. We are best friends and worst enemies. I choose the harder route. The easy route isnt as challenging. I love you women... ALL of you. If you have any questions ask me at zawaxi at hotmail dot com. :)

I'm a Scorpio woman who works with a Sag guy. I've been at the company for two months and am now very aware of him. He made sure of that. I'm also with a Cancer man who's lovely but after 11 years together, our sex life is somewhat dull (everything else is wonderful though). Cancer's don't really 'turn the crank' for Scorpios.

On a recent business trip I came close to having sex with this Sag guy and what little we did (before I said I can't go further) was fantastic!!! I haven't felt like that for years. But! I can tell, one week later, that this is going belly up. I asked him out for a drink and he said he had other commitments. He hugs me goodbye instead of kissing me, he doesn't always text back and he has mega secrets that I sort of got wind of from his friend. I wanted to learn more - am I with the wrong guy (cancer), is this guy the right one (sag)? But I can already see that it's the best chemistry I'll probably ever experience with the most 'indifferent' man I've ever met - completely oblivious to hurting me with this distant ways, even though he started this whole thing!! He made darn sure I would end up intimate with him. I just don't understand how a guy can be like that - especially when he mentally pulled me away from my long term relationship.

I'm really thankful for these posts as they illustrate to me that he'll hurt me and I will hate him soon enough. I so badly want to share a sexual experience with him as wow, I can tell it would be good but it's not worth it. I was almost in tears today over all of this. I wish I had never met him.

okay...im a young Scorpio in love with a sag...he isn't manipulative...he's pretty honest...he's really nice, he understands me well, and I wnt him to fall in love w/ me...but I don't know how...i wish he loved me...but we've been together for 8 months...he's awesome thoughh...way better than the taurus, my sag isn't stubborn, the Taurus was stubborn, and the Taurus wanted the upper hand in the relationship all me and the Taurus did was fight..sags wayy better!

I'm a Scorpio woman seeing a Sagittarius man for almost five months. I'm currently seriously thinking about leaving him because we argue way too much, for some reason he is always picking fights and the problem is that once he apologizes I'm seem to not care and go back to him. The sex is great and we absolutely get along in bed, no doubt. He's always trying to manipulate me, I'm a strong woman that has already experienced a relationship with a Sagittarius man and although the relationship lasted nearly three years it didn't work out.

It's absolutely true, Scorpio and Sagittarius are not meant to work out in a relationship.

I am a Scorpio female I dated a Sag for many years. His eyes were always on me and he was totally devoted to me. We would have gotten engaged earlier this year but he passed away. He understood me very well and was always there to help me through anything

I am a 35 year old Scorpio woman with a 34 year old Sag man. We met 3 years ago after a very bad breakup with our ex's and not to long after became immediately connected. In The first year of our relationship he was still that cheater, lier, drinker and addicted porn addict. I never saw that until after I was pregnant because he hid that well. He did end up cheating on me when I was pregnant and once caught did admit to it. I told myself I would never stay with a man that cheated on me and I am still here.I gave him that chance and realized that like a million people in the world we all have our highs and lows and a relationship is work. He is definitely not the same man that I met and has become the man that I always imagined in my mind once he decided that he wanted to change. He had to make the decision for himself that is what he wanted and for me the talking man talks and the walking man walks. I have since then put spyware on his computer and phone and to my j oyous surprise he truely has changed and does't even know about the software either. So now whenever my mnd plays tricks on me the proof is in the pudding. I see it silently everday. That is when I realized that a scorned Scorpio inside it just takes time and a lot of helaing inside that people can change if they want to but I needed to actually see it for myself. He has shown himself and me that this is where he wants to be and I have accpeted what happened and moved forward. It is hard sometimes because we don't forget and hold onto pain and hurt being the scorpios we are, but that is how we hurt ourselves. I have found my sag man to teach me to live in the moment and that in order for us to make it we have to get it out and move past the tough times. Me the Scorpio woman will ride or die for him and our family but he has to do his part with me which he does. He is tender, listens and gets that I have been hurt and tries to help me through it when I am down. He does need freedom to explore outdoors and hang with the guys but I need to understand that and I finally do. By nature us scorps are not trusting period..... We love with sooooooo much passion, intensity and will go to the ends of the earth for someone that loves us that way back. The loving back though is listening, showing affections and easing our crazy minds that he loves us and we are what matters. It is a crazy yin and yang but it works. I learn from him that life doesn't have to be so intense at times and revenge isn't always the answer and I teach him that respect is the ultimate. I wanna go at times and say this may not be worth it but after the storm we have the calm and that is the intensity of it. We can talk about our feelings and work through them only because we want to. I used to tell myself that he would be better with someone else that is not so intense but as much as he hates that part of the bad intense the "sting" he loves the way I love him intensly and the way I adore him. As long as he continues to do the same for me, we will last. Once bitten twice shy. I will always be leary because it is my nature but I have let go a little so that I don't sting myself to death in agony. It is working. If he ever decided to go the other route again and could not be that wonderful man anymore I would say goodbye and never look back, that is the true sting of a scorpio. Give it all now and go through whatever you need to because if he is willing and proves his love to you back he is definitely worth it. Sexually us scorps rule that planet so it is always amazing and he gets my body and I do his. You have to, like anything make time for each other and keep it exciting cause we love adventure like they do and he loves that about me to! Reading all of these posts and following astrology for over 15 years myself first hand this relationship not only with my sag man but sag friends are some of my truest and most rewarding relationships. There is always good and bad in anything and since we are soooo intense you might as well go out with a bang. Once over though don't subject yourself to any more torment, hide away, heal, rejuvinate, recreate and tell yourself your a force to be reckoned with!!! Move forward to your next challenge. The past is your past for a reason and it is never the same twice around. Thank you all for sharing your stories and many blessing in love and life hell its not easy but what is life without challenge and sacrafice!!!!

I am a Scorpio girl, after the worst 10 years and a baby from a Virgo, I build walls all around me and shut my self down. This Sag guy is been hitting on me for a while now he frequents the place I work at (almost everyday)he has made it easy for me to open up and talk about me and my stuff, even offers to help me out with whatever I might need but stubborn as we Scorpio woman can be we can always figure everything out, we need no ones help. we trade phone numbers and text each other pretty often I can say, and he has been mentioning about a date which I am still thinking about, I can tell I like him a lot its just that I am not sure. Of course after reading all of these freaking scares the living hell out of me and makes me think twice about lowering my walls or make them higher. He is funny and attentive and just has a way with words that he makes me not been afraid about telling him everything about me, I been getting hit on a lot and like some guys will say "i a m Houdini" I have mastered the disappearing act, for some reason I can't figure out I don't feel like running away from this one. He is not super attractive like the guys I usually fall for but there is something about him, oh well, will see he invited me to a date this week that's why I been reading this crazy posts looking for running reason, hehe here I for sure found some, but at least we will go out once.......

I am a Scorpio and I was with a sag male for over a year, when we broke up we were still hanging out but we fought over everything so I ended it, he wouldnt talk to me for two weeks and when he finally called we started hanging out again. he kept saying how he wanted me back and when I was ready to give him another chance he asked another girl on a date and wont give me the time of day. how do I get him back?

Im Scorpio woman . I had relationship with sagg for 10years ..and just broke up.. for 3months. Now I dating Taurus man but I still can't get over my sagg men.what to do now? Please help..I just heard my sagg had been slept around with 2 girls when im not around ...I hate sagg men ! Very manipulative type! From my experience sagg men are vry flirtatious !