Sagittarius man in love with a Pisces woman

I am a 32 years old Sag male completely in love with a 30 years old Brazilian Pisces female. I can relate to all the accounts mentioned above. I was the typical philandering and fickle Sag and I have hurt her deeply in the past. We broke up at one point and didn't speak for a few months. We ran in similar circles but she would ignore me or go in another room when we were in the same environment. Gradually, after about 3 months, we reached the point where we could greet each other and eventually we grew to having conversations. We ended up rekindling our friendship in no time. I never thought she would trust me again so I never even entertained the possibility of us getting back together. I never flirted with her; I was just happy and content to talk to her again.

Well, to both of our surprises, we are back together. But the relationship is different for me now. When I say I want to commit to her now, it's not just words. I feel it in my core. I still may look at another woman and admire their beauty or sexuality, but the idea of sexual relations, even kissing on the lips, is (excuse the slight exaggeration here) almost repulsive to me. I truly don't want anyone but her.

Like I said, I have been with her before so I know the emotional...lol...turmoil that I am committing too, but she is worth it.

My advice to all of you women, Pisces or other, is to be careful with Sags. It's not simply the case that we don't know what we want, we are just too optimistic to ignore the idea that there is something better around the corner. If we think we have figured you out and you can't offer anything new to the table, we are likely to get restless. To avoid this, you have to learn how to juggle love and friendship. We are loyal to the idea of friends/family more than to love. Love, is a metaphysical and psychological enigma and/or game to us. For this reason, many Sag's get the reputation of being able to separate "sex" and "love". But the foundation of any bond is a friendship. For example, my mother loves me yet she is my best friend. And on top of that friendship lies that even more specific mother/son bond.

Also, if you emphasis the friend aspect of the relationship more, you open the possibility for us to hunt or chase you. The "chase" is part of the love game that we adore. When we are on the hunt we can give even the emotional needy Pisces the emotional connection that they want. We will give you every sign that we want you without you asking. Lovers have sex or make out in the movie theater. Friends play tennis, Capoeira, or exercise together. Most times when we seem cold or emotionally distant, we need a friend and not a lover.

So when I say that I am in love with Mirian, my Pisces, I say this because she has become my friend AND lover. That is MY personal idea of a soulmate. She has everything I need in a friend and everything I desire in a lover. She may not know when I need the friend side of her, but our relationship is finally mature enough that I can tell her instead of running away from her.

I could go on but this is becoming a book. Good luck to all the Pisces/Sag relationships out there. You will have many bumps as EACH of you learn about yourselves and your partner. But if you both genuinely are open and perceptive to each other's needs, you CAN work. Mirian, te amo de verdade!