Regaining an Aquarius woman

by John
(Cleveland, OH, USA)

Can I regain an aquarius woman? We're in a relationship for a little over a year and a half and I made a few mistakes (irrational decisions). We never had sex, something that I am very proud of. Towards the end I said some hurtful things and pushed her away. I asked if we could be friends and she said she needed time and space.

Being a Taurus male this is a supreme task for me although something I am committed to giving her. My fear is that she will forget about me if I give her too much space. What is the best approach at this point? Is it best to move on or can I become her friend and eventually regain her trust. She is very special to me and if I have another chance I hope to be able to show her I care, thanks!

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18/06/2010
by: Aquagirl

Hi, from the Aquarian perspective, if you really have hurt her she will never come back to you. We Aquarians are more than anyone else aware of the amounts of the fish out there :)We also move on easily...
Just learn from your experience and do not make the same "irrational" mistakes again.
Much Love
Aqua Girl

so true
by: Anonymous

i am an Aquarius and that is so true once you mess up with us there is no second chance and to be honest we hold grudges so to be on the safe side i would say chalk it up as a lose. If she let you back in you better sleep with both eyes open because if we let you back in it's usually to get even

Still need this info?
by: Spacegirl

I'm friends with most of my exes. The only ones I keep at a distance are the ones that get clingy after we start talking again.
I have a Taurus ex who's getting married, and I'm going to be godmother to his child (who so happens to be Aquarian!!! How cool is that?)
We had a bad break up, and when he eventually called to apologize (6 months after) I'd moved on but I was still furious.
We eventually bumped into each other, and we get together to catch up once in a while, and I'd say he's one of my very few very good friends.
A few times, I could tell that he wanted to get back together, but if you're ex, you're ex for a reason and that reason always shows itself.
Im quick to forgive because my memory does not hold grudges for too long, but once I give up on a "relationship situation", I never go back.... Especially after I start dating again.

Go with the flow
by: Anonymous

On a positive note, if she said give her time/space, I would go with that. As an Aquarius woman myself, I don't mice words and if I said give me space then there is something still there possibly, and possibly she is still trying to figure things/you out. How you react to giving her space is critical. She needs to very strongly sense that you understand you made a mistake and that you are patiently waiting to get back with her...Patient persistence is key. If she is still feeling you, this will be vital.

On the other hand, if I was no longer into you I would just say so and not lead you on. Everyone is prone to mistakes, but what an Aquarius woman appreciates is a "thinking man" who will admit his faults to make amends (hopefully you are not always saying the wrong things which is an indication that you are not a "thinking man" or just plainly an uncaring man). If you have issues with apologizing when in the wrong, then there are bound to be problems in the future. She definitely won't appreciate that and WILL move on.

Hope this post helps.

comment
by: Anonymous

Im An Aquarius Girl & I Have Gone Through This
Depending On What Was Said She Jus Needs Time And No You Wont Be Forgotten Jus Put Aside For A While..

We forgive BUT
by: Miss AQ4real

we NEVER forget. Give her her space. If she misses you she will make contact. unfortunantly, if she is no longer interested-u will probably never hear from her again. Moving on is VERY ez for us. We shrug our shoulders and say "Oh well ure loss".

Good Luck babes
P.S. If she comes back-refrain from sex. It may turn her off and she will disappear. If she wants it-she/we take it. TRUST ME

What do i do
by: Naz

I was in relationship with a aquarian women for two years and i believed we were best of friends(she told me we were)i am aquarian. then she said on our 2 yr aniversarry that we werent forever and she didnt want to lose her best friend but said it was over. she called me 3 weeks later and we chatted for 40 min and i had her smiling and laughing and she said i always knew how to make her happy and she said she likes to listen to me talk cuz i have lots to tell her. she hasnt called since. she said she cudnt do the 1 hr long distance and my age(she 21 me 34).shes in college and i supported her all the way. where did i go wrong?

2010 July
by: Aquagirl

Hi John, are you still around? It would be interesting to find out how your story ended and who of us was right? In other words, are you with her now or not? x

Update
by: John

Thanks to everyone who has taken the time to contribute to this.

I saw her recently at a function and it was pretty uneventful. Afterwards I asked her if she wanted to stop communicating completely and she said yes.

I think about her sometimes and part of me wants to contact her although I suppose if we are ever to talk again she should be the one to initiate it.

Aquarius/Taurus
by: Aqua Chick

I am an Aquarius, married to a Taurus for almost 26 years. We have for the most part had a very agreeable relationship. A few years back, out of no where, he all but accused me of being unfaithful to him and unjustifiably so. He destroyed the part of me that endeared me to him. He has long since forgotten this, but I know now, it has done irrepairable damage to our relationship. I will never be able to put this behind me and know that I will not spend the rest of my life with this man. This is something that can't be fixed at least in my experience.

hi
by: Anonymous

Hi John, I hope you got over your Aquarian woman. Well, I still can't get over over mine, and it's have been 3 years!! She made a very big impression on me, and other girls now seem really bland in comparison. If you still think about her, you should contact her (don't be stubborn, lol!!). By the way, have you actually apologized for all those hurtful words that you blurted out? I am also curious about those irrational decisions that you made. Maybe they were no big deal?

Just remember, you only live once. So go for what you want!!!

s
by: Aquarius lady

Maybe I'm a bit different, but I can sometimes go back to a relationship, if there are no strings attached.
For example if a guy gives enough space and after a while just casually contacts me and maybe we could have some fun together. Then if I see that he has corrected his behaviour and still really wants me, I could consider starting over from zero.

hi
by: Anonymous

I am a AQ girl and I jus broke up with my girl of 6years. She was also an AQ we was so much alike at somethings..and it was a disater for me since day one but for some reason we kept geting back together and she was abusive, but being a good and loyal individual that I am I gave her the benefit of the doubt each and every time but this last time is different I got fed up and cheated on her and I told her I what was up so she put her hands on me for the last time, now shes begging me back doing everything in her power to get back with me.. I love her but I don't want her back I'm done. but can some one give me some advice on that?

to the post above
by: Anonymous

Do not give her another chance!! She is ABUSIVE!!! Do you want to end up with a depression or what!? Forget about her, please!!! It's for your own good! Take care x

AQ LOVA
by: Crazy Sexy & Cool

Thanks for that advice, I really appreciate that some one actualy listening to me. I already know whats right and wrong but it is easier said than done. I have been depressed and it's not fun, We as AQ knows we are the most attractive signs of them all and when you been in the relationship this long it's hard for anybody to leave us alone.. sometimes our attractiveness gets us in to so much bs.. Im soo stress over this!!!!

what does it mean if ex aquarius still care?
by: Anonymous

i would like to know..if my ex -aquarius broke up with me to be back with her ex gf leo but she still cares for me. what does it mean? Why does she still care?

Is there anyway i can win her back? she cannot answer me straight when i asked her she needs to leave me because she wants to be with her ex gf (leo).

btw, this is a lesbian relationship...

AQUA 20
by: Anonymous

I too feel every comment I read. I dated an Aqua guy and Im an AQUA.... And i WiLl be honest, IF he does come bk I will get even wit him.... My ex Libra Fled to ATL On me lol..... I didnt have time to find him :), but it all depends on how I feel.. Dat AQUA guy did hurt me, but he tells me I wasnt suppose to take it dat way???????????????

Don't Hurt an Aqua Woman...
by: Anonymous

We won't hold a grudge, but we won't go back in that territory again.

We can be cool, and talk once in a while, I am that way with my ex-husband and ex-fiance' but I would never get back with either...though both would love for us to get back together..time has moved on..both of them hurt me, and it can't be recaptured.

Btw
by: Anonymous

Once an Aqua woman gets her hooks in you, its hard to let go..

I've been divorced for 12 years and broke off my engagement with my ex-fiance' in 1989, yet both are still pining..

It's not an ego thing though...it's just easy for us to walk away when we "feel and believe" its over.

What's the point of staying where one isn't happy or feel as if they aren't appreciated..I say that for all relationships, not just those involved with Aqua women.. but we do have a tendency to just walk away and so oh well..your loss..and be fine with that..we can bounce back very quickly..we just busy ourselves with other interests.

the leo man
by: Anonymous

I was dating this Aquarius women for about 8 months now i met her back in April she had a boyfriend at the time that she had been with for about 10 year we didn't start 2 have sexual relationship till September i was very patient with her while she needed to figure out wat to do with her boyfriend for 10 year well after he leff things started to get sower in her life she lost alot and had to move back home with her parents i new i couldn't see her as much anymore but the the calls started to get less so i began to complain just last week she said she needed space till she could get herself together but its hard for me to give her that cause i love her so im texting and calling but now she won't answer either im lost cause i don't no what i did wrong besides complain alil. Do i have a chance with this women im loyal to her but by her and answering my text or calls i don't no where i stand in her heart i just don't want another man to have her

CANCER MAN SAYS
by: CANCER MAY

I am a cancer man, broke up with an aqua girl in December 2009.

(CANCER-AQUARIUS= VARY RARE RELATIONSHIP AND PAINFUL)(Haven't you observed : DAVIE JONES AND CALIPSO : pirates of the careebeen)

That day, i went to meet her.

she told : i am busy"

i replied : it ok i gotta go. CYL

But i just stay out of his house. my intuitive mind says : something wrong "

few minutes later she came out of her house

she saw me and shocked :

that smart girl promptly said for unfair reason

i just come to see you.

i replied : i told u i am gone, how can u come to meet me .

i caught her lie :

she say : ok i am going with my sister.

i said : ok u go, no problem

i perused her

she was standing there where we meet .

i called her on cellfone : whats this

she told i am on date with my fiance , i am engaged.

(SHOCKWAWE , I CANT BELIEVE, )
(PS. TWO YEAR LATER NOW I KNOW THAT HE wasn't her fiance . some other dumb ass guy. she is steel unmarried.

during three months after this event. i sleep with her three or four time .
(but she hardly show any intimate feeling. i blame myself that i was doing wrong . its like rape. )

(PS. this girls never shows emotion during sex. or even during dating ,her mind is far of from his physical body.( may be in future ) this makes me irritating. and I shout: "Pay attention ' u Bi***)

I have made everything possible attempt to make this relationship happen again.BUT NOTE that it is always waste of time, money and your brain wash.

PLEASE NOT THAT AQUARIUS WOMAN ARE VERY INDEPENDENT BY NATURE :

THEY ARE MIND GAME MASTER : ( WELL BUT IT doesn't work with me , may be i have some intuitive mind.)

THEY ARE PRONE TO DEBAUCHERY : (For them : the stranger the better , and : Friends with Benefit;

So friend, i understand its hard to get recovered after break up . BUT , in aqua case you wouldn't get same when u left at breakup.( because the problem is not that she sleep fifty times with another person , but the problem that she sleep once with fifty person. (THAT'S WHY Aquarius's slogan ; ' I UNIVERSALIZE "

but my best advices that you should check your compatibility with other zodiac girl. and try to get compatible one.

REMEMBER , GOOD THINGS COMES LATE.

BUT IT COMES FOR SURE.

GOOD LUCK

Will she come back
by: Anonymous

I am an aries girl and she is an aquarius. We dated for a year and 5months. Me and her would always argue and break up. I cheated and so did she, at the end i would call her bad names and all that. I knew she was skipping away little by little. And after

Will she come back
by: Anonymous

I felt as if i didnt care if i lost her or not so i told her in a text i didn't want to be with her all she replied back was "ok". Let me say the only reason i called her mean things was because she came back everytime i did. Selfish right? Now its been

Will she ever come back
by: Anonymous

7months and i think of her everyday. I know because she's been with her boyfriend that long . Im happy for her. But i wonder if she will ever come back or is she atleast thinking of me. Will she ever contact me. Sorry my phone only lets me write a little

aqua girl help anyone
by: Anonymous

hey yall, so ive been talking to an aqua girl for a few a couple months, things started great adn i invited her to a baseball game. the game was cool she said a few weeks back that it made her happy that she found a true legit friend in me and all she seek and desired a goodfriendship. ok i was cool with that and proceded the game with that mindset. at the game she kept giving and giving me signlas to like touch her and get "closer".i was really confused and didnt know what to do so i went cold and shut down, i was a bit rude and ignored her. we got to the train station, i hugged her goodbye and all. but i knew i had miss chance and felt horrible for making her mad and all. so the next oppurtunity on school monday i profoundly apologized to her and explained y i got the way i did and what im doing for myself to be a better person. i thanked and appriciated that fact that stayed there and tried to get me out of my shell..she got teary eyes and was like o u didnt have to worry im no one special its not like i went home and made a deal about it. i knew than that i did hurt her and apologized to her. so after that she started showing me more of her interests and stuff. we didnt hug at all which we usually have done. we still txt here and there and see eachother at school and all, im wondering if completely blew it with her?
btw i am a scorpio and have not been possesive jealous or those usual evil scorpio traits

aquarius girl here :D
by: Anonymous

I think it really depends on how much you stand in her heart. For most aquarians, the more experienced they are, the less likely they are to give you a second chance. But if you are her first love, or made a really deep impression, then I would say you have a chance.

It can be done! Just show some EFFORT!!
by: Anonymous

Here is my perspective as an aquarius woman...Giving me space works for me initially. The next thing is showing me you are genuinely sorry for what you did, and I do mean SHOW it. Honesty is treasured but words are only words if they are not backed up by actions. I also am good friends with all or most of my exes unless they were truly awful people or too clingy like someone else said. But I am very forgiving so long as it is genuine and honest. BTW showing it means: All the grandiose things you can think of when it comes to romancing a woman. EFFORT is key. It may sound a bit much and risky but if you truly want this person back, you need to go above and beyond. "A closed mouth doesnt get fed." Hope this helps!

Aquarius
by: Anonymous

I am an Aquarian and NAZ I'll tell u to give her some space stop calling and texting , she just needs to figure out somethings which doesn't include u. But if u keep doing that, she'll get mad (already she is) but u can still redeem yourself. Generally, Aquarians are forgiving, but they don't forget. Once u ve hurt us, u can never get back our trust again, but we would be good friends with you. Personally, I ignore a lot, so when I cut one off, ts for good. To the aquarian guy who was dumped, many aquarians see the future, so her leaving u after saying u re perfect doent mean she doesn't love you, she probably scared of something or has seen something that'll doom the relationship in the future that you haven't noticed.

Aquarius Woman~Gemini Man
by: Sheryl

It depends what the circumstances are, Me and my Gemini male friend had a great time hangning out and I had no issues of leaving after a great hangout together. I find myself to be a little more forgiving that what the horror scope says about Aquarious.
My Gemini Man, I miss him soooo Much! Am praying that he will let go of that "might as well just let it go" attitude. See, he thinks too much of how people see, think about him. He loves me better than his off and on GF whom is a Cancer, she lives just down the street from Him and there is only one way in and out on that street :(
So, am waiting for him to get tired of his ritual, and see that car part that he said he would put on my car that he accidentdly broke back on my car so that we can have that talk I deserve - I will say He hurt me pretty bad this round but We do have to talk. I am a pretty forgiven person :)

Don't waiste your time on aqua.
by: Anonymous

The skinny on aqua woman. Don't fall in love! I've been dating them for years and know exactly how to attract them. These relationships are always short term. They are very independent and love their freedom. One day they love you so much, call you everyday and can't live without you, but nothing could be further from the truth. These women haven't a clue about commitment. They only think about themselves. No, there is no forgiveness in there heart.!if you've made a mistake or said the wrong thing, it's over. Been there done that. That doesn't really matter believe my friend she was leaving anyway. Beyond the stimulating conversation connection, emotionally and being able to love someone unconditionally with their faults (nobody is perfect) there's just a hollow empty shell. They are for the most part good looking and very sharp indeed. They're also very creative. Yes! There are so many nice things to say about them, but they don't have a clue about what emotion, passion, commitment, unconditional love. I hate to say it, but they don't really know what love is . That's pretty sad indeed. Remember, love takes quite awhile to develop. Inthatuation happens quickly, but real love for someone takes a lot of time as it takes a lot of time to truly know a person. These short term girls don't have What it rakes. I feel pretty bad for women born under this sign. Such a sad thing. I know there are always exceptions to the rule, but as a whole these poor souls are lost. When it's over they won't have even have rhe guts to let you know as they're chicken shits and can't even face you. I learned this the hard way, but I learned. Here's how I handle theese aqua girls, I am a scorpio male and whether they admit it or not, they are very attracted to scorps. We give them something they don't have, deep loving passion and commitment. Oh and don't forget what attracted her to you in the first place, the ability to hold a conversation. Believe me friends is a very simple thing to do. It so funny to hear and I still laugh my ass off when they say it... " at least I'm going to have really good sex) haha, cracks me up every time. Sex is only truly a earth shattering experience after you've loved and learned how to truly please here. Remember folks that takes time and time they don't have. So sad. Poor poor aqua girl. I feel for you indeed.

Sorry forgot to tell you how I handle these woman
by: Anonymous

Very simple, just wait for them to end it..

Ultimate Aquarian Woman
by: Anonymous

Being an older Aquarian woman I have been hurt more than me hurting others.
I am sweet kind and sensitive but rarely show it its a defensive mechanism, but when we love its soo deep that if the person crosses us it cuts deep like a knife, and shreds us to pieces. For our own mental health we have to move on or it it totally absorb our life, but we always suffer in silence. when in a relationship and truly love the person my eyes are closed to any other person. Was recently in a relationship with a Aqua man it was like a whirlwind we understood each other because we were so much alike. you see he was a player and had his eyes wide open and was seeking the next best thing and he obviously found it. I felt it even though he denied it all the signs where there. I politely stepped off and stopped calling him and I havent heard from him since and that way over a year ago. So its not that we are cold and detached we love so deep and when its compromised in any way we run for the sakes of our sanity. Hope this helps.

I'm a Capricorn Woman in love with an Aquarius Woman.
by: Capricorn in Love!

My ex gf is an Aquarius, she is my ex because i pushed her away. We were in an unstable relationship for 3 years (I was her first real serious relationship with a woman and her mine, even though we dated before. We are both feminine) I will be woman enough and say that our instability was my fault, I always knew I loved her and I always knew I was in love with her (she's the best, most motivational, most loving and caring I've ever met and she's super smart sigh I love this woman)however in the past I have been insure about myself and my value to her life, i felt like I was never good enough or could I compare to the man she was with before me, I felt like she was out of my league and just fell for me mostly for my looks (she's 29 and I'm 23 both born in January I'm the 17th and she's the 25th)

I'm a Capricorn Woman in love with an Aquarius Woman.
by: Capricorn in Love!

I would be moody and found it hard to communicate with her about what I was feeling immediately and she's the type to sit and talk and talk to fix things immediantly.. I haven't been all i should be to her, and i take accountability for it (I've bounced around on her because of my insecurities). We have been broken up for almost a year now but we've kept in touch off and on, I've never been able to leave her alone or visa versa. So 2 weeks ago i decided to say fuck this I know I'm crazy for this woman and I want to make wrong things right so I reached out to her and she accepted me, we went out and spent days together, we talked about people we saw in our space apart and she mentioned another woman (who happens to be a Cap as well) that she was seeing but left because it was "drama" (I must admit I was happy to hear that she was single cuz I know i am ready to be who she deserves) We cooked, ate, made love and lazied around her place and it was blissful to me I felt our connection like never before. Now after all this We had planned to go to a party together a Friday night but we actually got the dates mixed up and it was actually on Saturday and then she said she was unable to make it because she made previous plans for friday that she couldn't get out of (movies with the other woman) at that point I was confused but didn't want to come over too strong about it I asked her to reschedule and she kept saying she couldn't, I got upset but left it at that, i tried to see her everyday that weekend and she said she couldn't because she was busy, after convo she admitted that the woman came back to try and she wants to try with this woman as well, and that i really did hurt her in the past and she tried to understand and wait for me but she got tired and frustrated and had to force me out of her mind and tell herself to move on. This is devastating to me because i feel like only two weeks ago we were good and doing everything together, she says she loves me but isn't in love with me anymore, but i felt her love when she kissed and touched me i saw it when she looked at me, I know I've hurt her terribly in the past but I want to make it work forever now, she's told me I need to back off so she can see if what she's doing now is what she wants, but I can't... I just can't go on missing her anymore, she is my soul mate, I know it. We spoke today and I told her i need her love right now and I want to make love to her one last time (and first she was like i shouldn't and i can't and it's wrong) but then she said she will come. What do I take from this, I just need to feel her right now, i need to make sure the connection I felt 2 weeks ago wasn't just on my part. I neeed all the Aquarius women to help me win back my love! Help me Please!

Tarus guy and aquarious
by: Sandy

I been in love with his aqua girl for more than a year..issue happend As her first love and few ex came back. Since then I founded it hard to trust her...stoped her from talking almost to all guys as they all were florting with her and it was normal for her? She said "I am not getting hurt by it. They feel for me I don't. They are my friends". ? But they aren't. Right?... One bloody bad day I introduced her to one of my friend and that ass thought her how to be independent and leave me. I don't knw how much she was influenced. But yes we boke up after that....
She says no we cannot be back. "Nope"..but msgs me. To see if I still miss her or not. Says. Do u want me back or not!... And then again says no we cannot get back everrrr...
I don't know what to do being a tarus love is the most. Important thing in our life. And an aqua. Surly knows how to see other fishes. Too...yes I agree at times I use to doubt her a lot for no reasons. But god. Her ex n her first love they spoiled it all for me...she got confused and was about to breakup with me when her first love came. About 3months after we started. ..getting over him was difficult for her as he left her but here she left me. Saying she needed. God dam "mental piece and positivity ". God my so called friend. Idk how much but that bas***** seriously thought her a lot...his words are" your an indidvual. U gotta live life. Don't think much, lie to him. Or say the trusty n suffer" n how can she do that? Even after her ex came her first love came I cried but never left her but one influence n she did leave me...!! God. She says I am not influenced. Your fights made it happen but she doesn't even realise how different she is fucking behaving. What
Shouldddd I dooooo?????
Go n beat my so call friend. !!!

AGREE WITH LAST COMMENT
by: AQUA GIRL 14

As a aqua girl, I must say that if you leave an amazing impression and or touch our souls we will forever remember you...
Also, if a breakup happens and the men refuses or the aqua girl refused and the man agrees to give it a try, we aqua girls will give it another go.
However, if one decides to part ways and the other doesn't try to stop the breakup right there and then, we cut our ties and move on.
We may never forget that individual, but will never truly give it another go.

My advice is don't let it get to that. We can be very destructive when hurt or threatened. We rarely forgive and or forget.

Always try to fix things (for a genuine point of view) ASAP.
Once we close the heart to someone it will never open up again in the same way if at all.

Happy dating, and lots of lucky...:)

LOVE LOST?
by: Anonymous

I have a aquarius ex i still love her but every time she gives me a chance i mess it up some how. now she has blocked me on all types of communication(phone,fb,etc).The only thing i know keeps her around is that we have a son together.I want to be with her and finaly work our issues out what should i do?

Dated aquarius 6wks
by: Anonymous Gem

I met aquarius in March, hit it off very well. We laughed and had a sweet time together. She is very considerate and I tried to be as well, but she said I'm not as considerate as I should. There was a day where I cut off connection with her and it hurt her feelings. I apologized and did it a second time just a week and a half later... She cried and broke it off with me in May and said I hurt her a lot. I asked to get her back and she said that she doesn't trust me to not hurt her again. She said she just wants to be friends right now. And she also said she just wants me to learn from my mistake. So then a week later (which was last night) I asked her again for a chance and she said no. I kinda begged her and she said she isn't changing her mind. I am trying to show her that I really still care and love her and I want to win her back. So then today, I apologized to her about last night begging and that it's because I'm emotional by our situation. I told her I'm glad we can at least work on a friendship at least, (even tho I wanna try to win her back) she replied back to me "I am glad too." Now today she hasn't been texting me much. Should I worry? Do you think I have a chance at all to win her back?

wow
by: Anonymous

I'm reading all the comments and my lil heart sank! Lol I just broke up with an Aquarius woman ( I'm a Virgo) and out relationship was great for the first 2 months then it all just went down slowly..we argued everyday because I believe that when u love someone the worth of that love should be enough to be completely honest. She would be very vauge in the things she tells me..being a Virgo I analyse every word so when I only get part of a story I ask questions. When my questions don't get answered I get angry..I said sum mean stuff to her but nothing like cheating and lying. She tells me she loves me but she's over me..it all started for me when she made a statement like " if we break up, it gonna be your fault, I don't do things to make a man break up with me" I took that as pure arrogance and irresponsibility to say u have no part in a breakup when ur not the only one in it..it made me view her different..she was with a man for 10 years before me..he was in and out of jail and he cheater lied beat her and left her and married another woman 2 months after they broke up..she always compared me to him when we argued and I hated it..I hated him for making her that way..but I still love her..but its sad that men can leave women and they can get them back simple but when a woman leaves we get no second chances..? God, court system, even kids give u a second chance but women don't..

hello advice please
by: Hugh

I'm a Taurus and I'm her first love. Between us things escalated very quickly (we had lots of fun) and we have been dating for 3 months. I like her a lot. Her character traits and stuff. But there are also some parts that antagonizes me like she is the reason I live for but for her, she might even value her friends more than me. Also I realised that we are barely talking (i can't feel the emotional or intellectual connection at all) upon reaching a point when I feel that we are not connected anymore. Also my paranoid imagination keeps torturing me. I'm also super distracted from work because I couldn't stop thinking of her. So I decided to break up with her so I can focus on my work as exam is fast approaching. Now I miss her sooo much and I want to chase her back after my exams. Do you think I'll succeed? Because I think the way I broke up really broke her heart and betrayed her trust and investment: I gave her a box with EVERYTHING she gave me/ we shared(card, notes, polaroids, photos, whatsapp conversations) inside. And I also deleted her off all my social media. And when she asked me whether we'll be friends or strangers I said strange and then I left. can I win her back or had she forgotten me?

My Aquarius Friend left me for nothing ..
by: Anonymous

i'm a virgo male and she's an aquarius female ...
for couple of month ago , before it we were like best friends you can ever imagine .... after that for a time and some old friends used to fuck up her life appeared again , i've felt that i was abandoned for them in a not really nice way actually ... she began to lie to me , doesn't wanna face me with the truth and blackmailed me with stuff i used to say innocently to her as she was my friend and started to take every single word from my mouth with a disadvantage for her and the last thing she said or maybe i pushed her to that far cuz i cldn't take it that we are not even friends anymore ... in the past two month she tried to reach me online but i didn't reply her , after that with a month i txted her just as feeling sorry between me and myself ... after that she texted me twice wishing me happy days for a public occasions and my birthday ... and i guess now if i tried to reach her out it will be fine but i feel humiliated ... i dunno what she wants really , what should i do ?

Trying to get my Aquarius woman back
by: Brian

I apologize in advance for the novel I wrote but I feel you get the best results when you go into detail so here it goes...I was dating an aquarius woman for 3 months at my job but we were cordial and cool for 5 months before we started dating and I fell for her rather quickly once we started seeing each other... Our first date was 16 hours and it still seemed like there wasn't enough time, she would call me while she was at work, we would spend literally almost 24 hours a day 7 days a week talking or seeing each other for months...we didn't become an official couple but we became exclusive shortly before things went wrong....she made an impression on me that made me feel that every woman before her was just basic... She introduced me to her daughter and family ,told me she has me and her daughter and I really started bonding and she was really enjoying the fact that we were and told me more than once "you're stuck now" and things were going so great that I didn't mind that at all ...We were seeing each other things were going great and then she backed up out of no where with no explanation and I assumed it was because she was dealing with someone else and it turned out I was wrong she said she was going through family and other issues she needed to handle on her own and didn't want to involve me in her problems...and it really rubbed her the wrong way that I would assume what I assumed and that she has "crazy love for me" and would never do anything like that to me... I also said things out of frustration afterwards cause things werent going the way they previously were and it made things worse.... We stopped dealing with each other the end of October but we were still cordial....Out of desperation when I saw I was losing her I began to give chase to convince her to give me another chance which seemed to push her further away... She told me I have things to work on and that she isnt saying she doesnt see a future with me but i need to work on some things first and that its not a good idea for me to be with someone while I work on these issues...i being stubborn continued to push after that and of course that wasnt good.... She offered her friendship and I said I need a little time to get over this first (cause I know I wouldn't be able to just be friends with her I would still want more than that ) I was still trying to convince her to give me another chance and telling her how I feel for her for quite some time...which none of it worked...we last spoke via text on December 2nd 2014 I finally admitted to her that I fell for her... She said she didnt know my feelings were that deep and she apologizes she isn't trying to hurt me on purpose...she also previously said back in the beginning of towards the middle of November she doesnt know what the future holds but she knows we wont be in each others future and that she isnt speaking out of frustration or anger...I've asked other female friends advice on that and they told me women say things like that all the time and they don't really mean it there is still anger and hurt behind those words even if she says there isnt just give it time... When we last spoke on December 2nd she told me after this she's done and not responding to anymore texts she said I'm a great person theres no doubt about that but I need to grow up and she didnt have time to wait for me to do so...and i'm only serious in certain situations, she is not going to be unhappy and annoyed in any situation feelings or no feelings involved and that i'm not even giving her room enough to breathe to see if we can be friends after I declined it the first time its now December 28th and i've only contacted her 4 times via text message since ....once to ask a question about the cost of living in a state she once lived in cause I received an offer to take an exam for a job out there, once cause I saw her brother wasnt feeling well when she bought him to the job with her (we work at a hospital) so I said i didnt want to aporoach and ask whats wrong cause I know I'm not your favorite person in the world right now but I sent a text with well wishes, once to give her some info i know she would find usefull on apartments and once to wish her, her daughter and family a merry christmas....to which I got no responses anytime.... We work together but when I started she was on the shift i'm currently still on but we are now on different shifts but I see her when i'm leaving and when she is coming in.... we wouldnt speak to each other but a few days ago for the first time in a while time we caught eye contact and stared at each other for a few seconds both of us with that look like we were both waiting for each other to speak but neither of us spoke...since that day she has been extremely cold and wont be cordial at all and when asked by her bestfriend why cant she be cordial she wont answer her...she'll buzz the button to open the door to our office to let me in without me having to go through the hassle of using my i.d. And putting my code in so even after the day we made eye contact and didnt speak she isn't being a complete A hole but now she wont even look at me or acknowledge me if i say have a good day or thank you or good morning....people say if an Aquarius woman still makes an offer to want you in her life more than once (friendship or other wise) after being romantic with you there is a chance she still sees something there she just needs time and plenty of space.... her bestfriend told me she stopped speaking to her for 2 months cause of issues she had to deal with and that her mood flip flops like that and they are now as close as they were before they stopped speaking....she would still do certain things like walk up to someone i'm talking to interrupt our convo to ask the person a question she could have definitely waited to ask since her and the person were going to be working in the same location the entire day but she would still ignore me and roll her eyes and my female friends said thats her way of still trying to get your attention but still letting you know she is still very mad at you in the process and she would walk through where she knows i'll be posted speak to everyone else including her best friend but still ignore me ...i have suspicioun she might be seeing another guy cause one day she did over time on my shift in late November and she spent majority of the shift talking to a dude who works the same shift as her but in a different department the same way she used to do when we first started dating and she never spends that much time out of her work day with one person except me, or her best friend or unless her and the person are working together that day (which they werenr cause he is in a different departmenr) ....the guy is younger than the both of us, she hasn't told her best friend about the guy and I haven't heard rumors of them spending most of the day talking on their shift but then again she is a secretive person and doesnt like people to know her business...so i'm wondering if she did that on my shift just to piss me off knowing that it would or if she might be interested in him or was just enjoying the convo since me and her were no longer speaking and her best friend wasn't there and she didnt have anyone she would normally pass the time with on our shift working...So I can't confirm it but its just a suspicioun....I honestly don't want to date other women, aren't interested in anyother women, and i'm finding it hard to get over her..she made an impact on me in such a short time that no other woman i've dated has I haven't contacted her since Christmas nor do I "blow her phone up" anymore i've been giving her space...given my current situation and her behaviour i'd like advice from the aquarius women ...is there anything I might be able to do to get her attention again? should I take this as her being extremely mad at me for now, she's waiting for me to "grow up" and give her time and plenty of space and work on me in the process and wait until she comes around or should I assume she is most likely seeing this other guy I mentioned, cut my losses and treat her like she doesn't matter anymore since she completely ignores me now?

Truth
by: Anonymous

you can push an Aquarius in love to understanding the darkest part of your soul, but once you take it too far and abuse them, they are gone forever.. Aquarians look for life partners, and if they choose you, don't assume it's repetitive neediness.. It's once and once only

gay Aquarius man
by: Anonymous

Well, I am a gay Aquarius man and I don't back track recently I started back up with an X who started out as just a FB turned life partner. We broke up 2yrs ago because they were dealing with some issues within their own life just last week we reconnected started a relationship again and made plans to live together. Yesterday they text me after I asked them was they sure this is what they wanted. They said that I needed to move on and find someone else who wanted a relationship because I would just be wasting my time with them. They want to still be roommates and permanent FB's they just don't want the relationship. I opened myself back up to them and got burned again. I agreed to just be FB's, but they don't realize how hurt I actually am and that now I don't ever want a relationship with them. I can do the FB, but I know that eventually I am going to emotionally detached from them completely with no return. I probably won't even be their roommate or friend. So the answer to your question is once we open ourselves up as Aquarius and get hurt its basically over. We are already not emotional individuals nor are we so easily to accept friends we are very careful on who we let get close and once we do its done so once you have gotten into an Aquarius good graces consider yourself an enemy when you screw up because we don't forgive and we always remember.

Aquarius breakup
by: queenAQUA

I'm an Aquarius girl as well.My last relationship was with a Taurus guy.....he couldn't handle me being emotionally detached and that was mainly because i didn't really express how much i loved him. One morning he texted me and asked me if we could end our relationship and go back to being friends.Honestly, i think what's done is done.I don't give second chances and if he asks be back, the only reason why i would be in a relationship with him for a second time is to hurt him.

Need help
by: ben

I'm a Gemini sadly and my ex girlfriend is a Aquarius we been together for 8 months and she made the best in my life... We broke up due to I wasn't supportive and sometimes put her down and I would get jealous of her friends sometimes...right after the break up i text her once or twice a day for a week then stopped for a week then texted once on a Sunday telling I'm sorry for my actions and that I still love her... Now I just need her back.. We was also doing the long distance I went to see her in January and now she's coming down in May... Can some one help me what should I do...

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