pisces, scorpio cancer love triangle

by sahara
(england)

I'm a Scorpio woman who has just ended a relationship with a cancer man. I fell in love with my crab on my own but slowly over time he had got comfortable with me and we were together for 6 years. They were good times but he was never as passionate as me about love and life.
About a year ago a single man moved in next door and I was immediately drawn to him, his eyes seemed to look into my soul. I tried to ignore him but my feelings have grown stronger. I then found out he was a double Pisces, sun and moon sign. I opened up my feelings to him whilst a bit tipsy, felt like a mistake at the time but since then we became very close friends, after 6 months we accidentally kissed a few times but then he had to go away for a month, our time together was magic and he opened up which in daytime he normally doesn't. He was not wanting to split me and my current boyfriend up saying he would feel guilty. I was aware that i could not stay with my boyfriend so have asked for a break whilst I figure things out,
I am concerned that my Pisces man lets me do all the running, i know he is shy but does he like me? We have slept together once and it was the most romantic night of my life. When he is away my soul falls apart and the landscape means nothing to me, but he does not keep in touch that well. advice please?

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by: Anonymous

you and ur cancer boyfriend should split up.if not, you will hurt him.some day when he realizes that you betray, he will never forget.i'm a cancer woman and i know about cancerians.we are not as passionate as you but we're honestly.go with ur pisces lover.u may feel happier.traitor and betrayer.do not cheat cancerians.

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by: Anonymous

all water signs r equal and the best pair together

Another triangle
by: Anonymous

That certainly rings a bell. Maybe someone can give some insight for this one: Scorpio woman, long-term on-and-off relationship with Cancer man. Deep love, lots of history, but also some big obstacles there. During an "off" phase, meet Pisces man -- instant attractions, similar interests and activities, great conversations, the works. After first date, still in "getting to know you" phase, tell him about the on-and-off Cancer because what's happening seems significant and there is a need to know. Maybe, because am a little scared too. Well, it definitely scares HIM -- some of his past relationship stuff comes up, and fledgling relationship is curtailed. We're amicable and agreed there's a friendship. BUT, over the span of several months, we have a few chance encounters -- growing intensity every time (he even initiates a bit) -- and btw, all the things they say about Cancer-Scorpio intimacy are true!! But after each encounter he swims away, and now remains incommunicado. I've not been confrontational and agree to let things be what they are, but have trouble understanding WHAT they are sometimes as there seems to be a battle between his heart and his head. Any Pisces males care to give insights about what could be going on there? I don't think it's a stretch to say that I fell deeply in love with him, and if he'd been in a different place ... well, I just never realized before we met that I could feel so strongly or so much about someone other than my Cancer, and I was ready to move forward with him. It seemed in some ways that he sensed and maybe wanted those possibilities too. But I haven't figured it out -- thoughts?

errr ...
by: Anonymous

Err ... "All the things they say about PISCES-Scorpio intimacy are true."

And Cancer, in my experience. That too. ;-)

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by: Anonymous

i'm a cancer woman.i think that sometimes people seem to be attracted by sensual feelings and forget the others.but we need time to think again.many people had met difficulty in their love lives but they finally got over.whatever love means? that's when we can live a comfortable life with our lovers.you must contemplate carefully about: who's beside you when meeting sorrows and failure? who's able to take care of you without complaints. that's the one you need indeed. " pisces-scorpio-cancer " is which they often say. but in each specific case, this is not true. CANCER may be much better with TAURUS. SCORPIO may be much better with CAPRICORN. if you hear someone say like that, will you seek a capricorn instead????????

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by: Anonymous

That's excellent advice, of course, but the question is really more about trying to understand the way the Pisces thinks and looks at the world than which one the Scorpio should end up with. The hope is that if she can understand that better, maybe she won't think about the situation as much in the future.

P.S.
by: Anonymous

I should add, btw, that I had never heard anything about the Cancer-Scorpio connection, Pisces-Scorpio connection, water signs or any such things when I met either of these two men -- but what I found out afterward really confirmed a lot of things I had sensed and felt at the outset.

To another Triangle poster
by: Triple Pisces Man

The Pisces guy is afraid of his baggage, and probably afraid of yours too. His real reason for telling you about his, is that on some level he wants you to help him resolve his past issues. Sadly, dont know the guy, but I am betting he is still a 'small' fish. meaning that he is still a sulky type of Pisces, and is wallowing in a form of self pity. Needs plenty of reassurance that the same shit wont happen to him again, preferably from You. Because he cant make up his mind right now on anything so even if he knows that you two can be in love, he is afraid of saying both NO or YES because each in his mind entail the possibility of future pain, so now he opts to avoid the issue or possibility of such a boolean confrontation.
That or he is so immersed in talking about his own problem that he doesn't notice you (he does, he just hides it). You've got to go and grab him and pull him out of his little world. Pisceans tend to get lost in that. You're a Scorpio Woman, go and TAKE what you feel should be yours. If you dont voice it or take action, he will just pretend that anything between you two doesn't exist. And he'll quite happily fade away on the sea of ambivalence whilst still living in his problem-world. You said you love him, so my advice is this: Make his decision for him. Good luck!

pisces, scorpio cancer love triangle
by: Anonymous

yeah.agree that cancer is not as passionate as scorpio.i can't give u advice bec i'm not in that case.i just wanna wish u get him - ur pisces man.i experienced that pisces and scorpio is better with cancer.the title here is pisces, scorpio cancer love triangle, but i don't think it's true.ok.hope he loves u too

Another triangle
by: Scorpiomac

Here's my Pisces-Scorpio-cancer triangle. I'm a Scorpio in love with the Pisces. You know the story: on and off, push and pull, he disappeares after every time we get close or have sex, I'm so passionate about him an I think it scares him sometimes. He's 17 years older than me but we do meet halfway and age difference has never been on the way. It's been going on for a few years and he's making it so hard for me to get close to him. My dear Pisces man also always has lots of platonic girl friends which at first was very strange to me. some of his closest friends are women..married women..who i know he feels 'safe' with..and it makes me jealous sometimes..seeing him being such a good friend to them and cold to me. I made friends with one af them-cancer woman-and after that extra glass of wine she tells me she has feelings for him. She doesn't know for sure that I sleep with him or that I love him. And the Scorpio me is getting so jealous. Can't stop thinking whether he'd let her step over the friendship line when he finds out about her feelings; whether he'd choose her because she's so easier to get, close to him already, his age, already has kids or whatever..The other part of me remembers that no matter how many friends he had before he was always coming to me and we can never resist each other..the connection and attraction is so powerful!! What to do..what to do...?

Keep both Cancer & Pisces around
by: Anonymous

I too am in a triangle. Long term committed relationsnip (19 years) with a Cancer man, great for raising kids with and knowing he will never leave me, but there is something to be said about the fire between a Scorpio woman and a Pisces man that has been made me think twice about remaining loyal. That said, this Pisces man would never be as loyal or stick around through rough times. Yet Cancer male is not quite as intense (almost but not quite) in the bedroom. I say keep the Cancer, and just play with the Pisces until he gets bored and wanders away. The intensity is awesome, but the longevity may not be. Just be careful not to hurt the Cancer male in the process.

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