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I am a Sagittarius wife and my husband is a Pisces. He is caring, nice, sensitive, selfless and all the good things,,, but he is not interested in me... we never have sex, he is confused always. thinks of making more money than spending time with me... its only 8 months since we got married... and no matter how much I cry all night and ask him for nothing more than his time... he does not understand... and even if he does... he has to force himself to do any good to me... what should I do?
There could be a number of explanations for this, but one very likely one is after getting married your husband now takes his responsibilities far more seriously (such as paying the bills, his career, saving to have children etc). He wouldn't be the first guy to wear himself out focusing on this, and he could feel he's giving his all for you as a couple, while you aren't appreciating him for it.
As counter intuitive as it may sound, one approach is to offer to help him. That way you can spend more time together, and take some of the pressure off. It will also help establish if this is the problem, or if it's something else entirely.
As a Sagittarian female Pisces men give me my dreamy most biggest dreams on a silver platter, like a beautiful love story adventure. Only one bad thing, EMOTIONAL, then I feel like the bad guy all the time for wanting them to get over things more quickly with my carefree attitude. I don't make them feel secure enough I guess, but I WILL NOT BE REPRESSED. lights on ME! they don't like that I don't think...
Any Sag gal who meets a Pisces guy should RUN!!
I have date Pisces man for 6 mons. Could not date me anymore, said I am too much to take. Honestly, I started feeling distant a while ago. It just like something does not feel right. For now-no more Fishes
I am a Sagittarius woman, and I was fallen in love with my friend who is Pisces. Unfortunately we stopped our relationship because it seemed that we were not compatible to stay together for a longer time. It was also true that each of us demanded different things towards love and we had also a different point of view for the notion of couple. Then, a lot of confusion was created and that was finally insupportable to live with it. More insupportable for him than for me in fact. I must also recognize that I was not able to show him my emotional behavior all the time because I am more realistic than he and I could not live only with a behavior of love all the time.
If he sees this message I hope He will understand one day.
Pisces men and sag women...interesting!??! What are the challenges? please advise...
I was with a Pisces man for 3 and a half years (married for 1 and a half). I was pregnant when I met him and was not going out all the time and enjoying myself. Once my daughter was born it took me a while to get my confidence back but once I did he did not like it. He would make me feel guilty about going out with my friends, he would give me a curfew and if I was not back by that time I would be bombarded with phone calls and he would wait up for me. Far to controlling for me and I began to resent him.
I am a Pisces man and have dated 3 Sagittarius women. Right now I've recently met another one who I like. I think its a curse, I don't understand why I attract women of this sign more than any other. I know their attracted but I agree after the initial sex it just sucks. If you love some body don't hide it, I don't. There's always a problem or tragedy, and I end up looking for someone else. It suck because I really like this young lady a lot, she intelligent, cute and wants to make the world a better place. But she's a Sagittarius.
Pisces men think mostly about work and couldn't give me much attention. And to be honest didn't satisfy me in any way either But was a great listener. good match as friend only not lover
Im a Sag and the Pisces man I was with was HORRIBLE at communicating with me. We have dated off and on for the past 4 years because he will "disappear" (no call, no txt, not stop by, and I can't reach him) without any explanation! Then when he returns, he tells me he was "scared of me" or "confused" or ...some "BS". He was a great lover, he was sweet, made me feel comfortable , and never talked a lot to make me wonder if he was being truthful, but he just always seemed...distant. He often talked about marriage and having kids but, we never made it there. Our last "breakup" for good was without closure because he "disappeared" AGAIN. Well, now I'm dating a Scorpio so WISH ME LUCK! ;)
I'm a Sagittarius. I went out on one date with this guy that was Pisces. He said all of this stuff on the date about not wanting any games and blah, blah, blah. But prior to the date I did tell him I wasn't looking for anything serious just a friend. Well after the date, he started acting weird and saying stuff about how he doesn't want a relationship and I was left thinking...WTF?! I never said anything about a relationship. Well to make a long story short, we talked for a little while and I tried to just hang out with him, but he was always reading too much into stuff and I eventually just got fed up and told him I was seeing someone so he would leave me alone.
I am a Pisces male who wasted almost a year trying to get somewhere with a Sagittarius girl. At first I was instantly attracted to her because she was bold, fearless, confident, and extremely ambitious. She liked to speak her mind without holding anything back and liked to do whatever the hell she wanted to do without thinking twice about consequences. I only dreamed of such a personality type. Unfortunately, I realized a little too late that all of those traits translated into a person who was obnoxious, careless, confrontational, aggressive and humiliating to be with in public. Worst of all, she didn't appreciate anything and didn't know how to show respect for someone who tried to give her everything. Don't even bother with a Sag female...they don't deserve what we have to offer.
I'm a sag girl and I need some help from anybody...as for now I'm talking to this guy and he's a Pisces but every time I as him to go on a date with me, he refuses me and comes up with some lame excuse. what should I do? should I keep on talking to him and see what the future holds or should I just let go and fine someone else
I have dated three Pisces man. I am a sag girl. One was serious, the other two not as they were philanderers (We are breaking up, soon as.....she doesn't make me feel like you do. I was settling and then I met you....etc etc). I had and enjoyed all the gifts, roses, treats and Piscean men are the best when it comes to romance and expression of love. Trouble is, they don't mean it. They are in love with being in love not with you and woe betide any woman who believes them. You will wind up with a broken heart as we Sags are very honest and loyal, their deceitful and dishonest not to mention amoral and dishonorable tendencies are a complete clash with our beliefs. I was very appreciative of my Piscean man and I sent him gifts too and we spoke every day. He also knew that I had been in a very violent relationship just before him with an Aries and he pursued me with promises of always being there for me, loving me forever, making me safe, my heart and my body. He took me on wonderful holidays, BUT he had a tendency to disappear at times for a few days and was always a bit liar. He disappeared 3 weeks ago now and I think its done for me and for him. He didn't even have the decency to as much as text me. Total coward and lacking in any consideration. we were supposed to move in together next week and I quit my job and left my country at his suggestion to be with him. He didn't even pick me up at the airport and I am now 14 weeks pregnant, alone, with no job thanks to a lying wayward, dishonest fish that wouldn't know what he wanted or recognize truth and real love if it bit his fishy tail off. No wonder people use fishy as a euphemism for suspicious. RUN AWAY, that's what I will do with my baby, he doesn't need a deadbeat Dad, who is also a spendaholic! I will never tell him he has a child. He probably wouldn't give a damn about me or his child anyway - zero moral fiber. Give me an Aries or indeed any other sign anyway.
Pisces men are liars, cheats and everything that anyone, much less a loyal, honest Sagittarian female should ever consider. 3 times I have experienced their persistent chasing and romantic gestures promises and poetry, until the day you agree to let them in and they disappear!!! I was left 14 weeks pregnant in a foreign country, having given up my job and flat (at his insistence). He didn't even pick me up at the airport! He left me alone in New York, pregnant and penniless. Pisces are the scum of the earth, cowardly hyenas, with not one shred of honor or moral fiber. For a Sagittarian, they are intolerable liars. I am still stuck here in NY and I refuse to go begging to his door. I have my dignity. I am in a women's centre!!! What goes around comes around......
I love Pisces males although my brother's a Pisces and I hate him because he's so mean to me and he doesn't care about me at all! my other brother is Cancer and he's always so caring and helpful all the time. :) but anyways back to the matter,
there's Pisces boy in my class in uni and I think he likes me! the first time I met him in class he wouldn't stop looking at me! and then he bought me lunch the week after I think then I hadn't seen him for a while and then yesterday after I hung out with him and helped him with his assignment he walked me to the bus stop and he pecked me on the cheek and hugged me right before the bus came. I'm really really attracted to him and I want to sleep with him! I don't want to take things too fast because I might marry him. he's very good looking! I can't believe he likes me! I hope this goes somewhere! I can't see myself with anyone else right now! I know they say that Pisces and Sagittarius aren't compatible but I really love some of my Pisces friends. and I really love this guy! I have Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Scorpio. I really love him but I'm not sure if I'm really in love with him yet although I want to sleep with him. I don't think about him all the time and there are other guys I think about. and also I find it hard to make conversation sometimes with him and I have the same problem with my brother who's a Pisces. anyways I hope this works out! he's really sweet! and I love the dreamy, escapist attitude Pisces they have.
Well I have had a Pisces Guy-Friend ever since he sold me a dime. Turns out he moved back to Phoenix, and we haven't seen each other since last year in August. So he came by over the weekend to see me and my sister, but we weren't there. Well It was around 9:30 at night on Saturday, yeah three days ago. And we talked and gave each other updates on what we've been doing. So, my mother drives up the driveway while we were talking and I told him lets just go drive around and talk. So, we did and it got boring because I live in a small place that is sort of remote and it small, really. So, we decide to see his cousin in town that is about eighty miles out from where I live and instead we ended up going to the bar. He pulls out three half pints of Hot Damn 100 proof, and we start sipping on the way back, laughing and talking about good times.
He's about in his early thirties and is still good looking but never was my type, and I'm a seventeen year old girl and I'm highly attracted by my good looks. He has four kids and a chick.
So, now that I said that, I'll resume my story that devastated me.
While were driving back to where I live, we parked off on a road and just smoked some M.J and sipped some more, then out of no where he started kissing me, and here's the dumb part, I actually kissed him back. Then things got a little heated and I had to break this messed up thing apart and stop it because this was way wrong. I knew I shouldn't have done that and in between the whole thing, he was telling me that he dreamed about me and had feelings for me.
I tripped out so bad, that I just sat there stupefied.
I don't understand this, because I have a boyfriend also, which made me feel all bad and it made it much worse knowing that my he has a family. I don't know what to say to him the next time he visits, I'm too scared to talk to him, that I'm just thinking about avoiding him. Even though that would be rude and I don't want to push him out of my life like that because we've been good friends since the first time he sold me a dime and so on. Are Sagittarius's and Pisces supposed to act this way? Are we supposed to even be attracted to each other? I don't know, I'm scared of talking to him and telling him that we can't friends because of what happened.
I need help and I don't want people saying I'm a player or any thing like that. Because I need mature advice on what to say and how to react around him, when I want to explain to him about what we did was wrong and that we can't do that. I am so frustrated that I'm tired of feeling guilty and bad about myself, when I should be feeling happy. It's not good for my ego.
Anybody know what to do?
O.k. Most of this stuff about a Pisces men I can really agree with. They're kewl as buddies, the ones you talk to once or twice a week, but relationship wise, they suck. They lack self esteem and when they want you and feel that they can't have you as they would like to have you then they wanna talk shit or have harsh humor, it's pathetic and childish. But really I could care less because in the end I'll be doing way better w/out you.
~Sagittarius
I've met my share of men, even Pisces men, but this one, keeps a dungeon, in his castle. Never met someone so incredibly dark before. He's compassionate and loving, has a lot of great qualities, and cares about the feelings of others. But his heart is so dark. He doesn't know the difference between right and wrong. I see the line clearly, but he doesn't. A lot of people know, and still cross it, fine. But him, he does not see.
I have never heard a good thing between Sagittarius and Pisces I think no one in the world is Happy with Sagittarius and Pisces as I love sage girl but she scolds me and always brake my heart by scolding so I will try to forget her since 7 long years past I still love her and if she agrees I will marry her and keep her happy and lover her hope my dream girl marry me I real love Sagittarius don't have heart they are heart less
im a sag girl who recently just started going out with a Pisces man. I love his dominant attitude in a relationship because I appreciate someone who will be the bread winner and be the man in the relationship. one thing I don't like is they can be very jealous and possessive at times...I really wanna make this relationship work because I love the affection and care he gives me very much.
im hoping this works out we'll see
I've been married to a Pisces man for 7 years , I'm a Sagittarius Woman and things are usually great ,I'm betting that its because I have a lot of water signs , my rising sign is Aquarius , and my moon is in Cancer , and I have a lot of water trines , so that said , I think its worked because of that ..
In the beginning I hurt him a lot without meaning to , now he says and does (withholding affection ,love , says hateful things) and now I don't know what to do , it took him three years to get my guard down , now that he has it down , he has moments where he hurts me so much , I'm a very good looking woman , he is a very good looking man , VERY...so we look the couple , but my heart as of late has been lacking love , it must be my emotional Cancer moon ?
I want him to love me , show affection ? someone help me and give me some advice please , dezzy79
I dated a Pisces Man for 3 months; he left me because I had a miscarriage and started dating another girl within 2 weeks. Never came to see me again ignored all my calls and pretty much treated me like he never knew me I was crushed completely because I believed in him and our love. Than I found out it was a lie.. I am still hurt by that!
Pisces suck ass ok! do not date them sag girls. They are not affectionate, they keep you wondering, and they are secretive. Do not do it they should just be in the friend zone. Please ladies do not do it. It will not work. They are too wishy washy and do not know how to have fun like we do. I dated 2 of them and both were the same. They usually act like they don't want you. Then a few years later they come crawling back. Lol don't let them. If you date one brace yourself for the pain later.
I'm sag girl and I met this guy who happens to be a Pisces. At first we get on so well no doubt that he loves me and the attraction is in there. I like him very much, I feel comfortable when I'm w/ him. Until we had this confrontation in phone, he's complaining that I don't take him seriously that I only treat him as a friend. He also said that how could he love me if I don't want to be the center of his life. I admit that I like him very much but he also confuses me, there was a time that he shower me w/ his love and affection and also there was a time also that he would ignore me or wouldn't text me. He got jealous with my male friends. I do admit that I value my pride and freedom so much so just to get even w/ him I would ignore him also and he mistook it for not taking him seriously that I didn't love him enough to be contented w/ him ..after that confrontation he did not text or call me anymore and he said maybe its better that we end up as a friend so that w e would not hurt each other's feelings anymore. after all the things that I learned about Pisces man I've decided to let the things as it is, We have a lot of differences he is so very sensitive and sometimes I hurt him w. my words even if I don't really mean it and if we decided to continue what we started we might end up hurting each other...its better we go off this way..
I'm a sag woman and I've just broken it off with a Pisces man. Don't get me wrong, he was all kinds of sweet and caring, and to begin with he seemed extremely confident and sure of himself, but soon he began being controlling, wanting to know exactly where I'd been, with whom for how long, what we talked about and so on and so forth. And as if that weren't enough he was pure clinginess when we were together swell, needing me to constantly look at him, tell him he was wonderful, and listen to his loooong stories about how he'd had his deeeeep emotions hurt in the past. He also started saying things like "If you leave me I don't know what I'll do to myself" (no not WITH myself TO myself!!!) or "I can't live without you - let's stay together forever". In other words that whole confidence-"I'm a real man"-stuff was a big, fat act put on to impress me when in fact being with me scared the b' Jesus out of him.. In the end I couldn't take another bleeding minute of it a and I dumped him, over the phone no less, which he off course kicked up a huge drama about (well, I thought I'd do him the favor, knowing how much he likes a good round of drama). Dear, sweet Pisces boys, darlings, you're delightful creatures, you are, but seriously, you can't handle being with free spirited gals like us sags - and why should you, when there are so many lovely Cancerian and such sorts out there? Go get yourself a girl that can truly appreciate all of that romantic crap and whose biggest dream it is to be a real, nurturing woman of the good old fashioned kind who will listen to you for days on end and give you hugs and kisses never ending! Good luck!
I had a very interesting guy in my life...he was a ...Piscean....n I love him even today so much so that m really scared whether I ll be able to 4get him ever or nt??? i love him...but I was always confused about his words, deeds, etc...he was never stable and usually disappeared at times...no calls ,,, never even tried to know how m i??.. n when he returns he would shower all his love ...I was confused whether to believe him or nt.....I know he loved me too...but he had a bad habit...he was a flirt...see how confusing it is...he loved me but was a flirt.. n one day I was really missing him...n one of my friends called up his mom.. n I came to know that he has gone abroad.. austrailia.. but he forgot to inform me...but today at this point of time,,, don't have any grudges,, no expectations.. coz he never talked to me openly and honestly...but I still love him and wherever he is...god may help him to be his best...n I hope he will get the best girl in life...with all my blessings and wishes 4 h im.. m sure one day he will change 4 the better...not 4 me or something like that...but 4 himself and 4 his mother and would be life partner...n about me.. i m strong enough to live without him...I want to thank him 4 all the lessons I learnt while being in relation with him. I now want to get close to god...that's it.. n I pray to god that if there is a guy on this earth who could love me truly...only then, send him in my life. so that I can settle down ...if nt,,, i would love to stay single...love you god.. god bless him and everyone else on this earth.
I'm a Pisces man and have been dating a Sag gal for about a month or so, but we had met right around my birthday, but I couldn't really date her because I was seeing somebody and I don't serial date. After I broke it off with the other gal I called my sag and we've been dating every since.
We have great chemistry and really like each other, but without doubt our communication style is different. We talked about it and she's going to try to rein in her natural inclination to just let things fly and I'm going to try to be more thick skinned and take things at face value.
It's all about compromise.
I don't agree with some of the comments made by prior posters. Nobody is the same. I'm not jealous at all and have a real "hands off" attitude. I know my Sag gal travels a lot and I encourage her to hang with her friends. It just makes our relationship that much better. People aren't property. The more space I give her, the more I feel she wants to spend time with me. It's a win-win situation.
Also, I'm very affectionate and have no problems showing my feelings. She always knows where she stands with me in this area.
I think that anybody can be compatible with anyone if they take the time to see the world through their eyes as well as ones own.
I have no expectations of where this relationship. I'm just having fun with it and seeing where it goes and how it grows. I'll post later as things progress.
I just dumped my Pisces man we dated on and off for about 9months in the beginning he was cool but I started to see changes with him we rarely have sex he don't go down town he lived with me never paid a bill never offered he never takes me any where he gets mad if I go anywhere he has been abusive to me in front of my children He never talks about the future I took very good care of him and he lies all the time about petty stuff he's on again off again this is the most terrible relationship I ever had besides a Scorpio ps I always encourage him and uplift him I even he said I was the perfect woman but he treats me like dirt but when I get mad which he doesn't want to see that is his scape goat and he off again.
ok not long ago had a similar experience....she's just too much 2 handle....like wtf....I feel like a senior citizen around her....I mean im fun loving too....but for some reason I have to control her....what should I do....I don't wanna lose her but its getting too much to handle
I'm a Pisces and I always seem to be so attracted to Sagittarians. Don't know why but there's just something attractive about them hehe. The guy I was so in love with was one and he's the only one that got me out of my shell. Anyway, I think Pisces and Sagittarius are a lot more compatible than horoscopes say. Do you guys know any happy Pisces and sag couple?
Coming from a true Sagittarius If you want the Pisces and sag thing to work just be honest in every thing you do I don't like to beat around the bush and I like to be realistic about things, there's one thing that creates a barrier is the communication I would ask my ex love Pisces a question and would never get any feed back that is just rude and disrespectful I know he wants me back but I done completely I don't like games of break ups to makes ups.
my ex boyfriend of 3 years is a Pisces. he just recently had a baby with his girlfriend of a year. why does he still choose to stay in contact with me on an deeper emotional level but wont completely open up?
Sag girl here. There are true bits and pieces in all these posts. I didn't realize that I could be hurtful to my Pisces man. Thank you for making me aware. Wasn't cool with the whole dishonesty thing and will keep my eyes open. My goal is to inspire and compliment my partner. I will demand nothing less from him...Yea, I'm a Sag alright. Thanks for all the info.
I'm a Pisces man and love a sag woman. I am quite sensitive. spiritual, sentimental and introspective, artistic, etc.
My Sag understands that I need her to be caring, loving, loyal, and show appreciation. So it works well because we have respect for one another and that is the key, we respect each other and our individual needs.
Plus our love making is out of this world, we are both incredibly attracted to each other.
It comes down to understanding, communication, attraction and a willingness to compromise. I think any sign will be compatible with each other if you have these basic elements.
Very well said! That's all you need. The basic elements!
Communication
Understanding
Respect
Yay!
I have been with my Pisces man for 8 years now, and we have a beautiful 4 year old son. These posts are dead on when it comes to us sag girls being to blunt, and these Pisces men being to sensitive. We definitely have our ups and downs, but we always make it work because we communicate all the time. Sometimes its not pretty, but we get it off our chests and then have fabulous sex, and that always seems to fix things. He does complain that I do not appreciate him, but because I know that, I tell him how much I love him, or how happy I am with him. I do truly feel that way, but I just don't say it enough. These signs can work together, as long as you both have enough passion for each other. IT CAN WORK :)
not good. it only lasted for 5months..and I don't love him that much or maybe he's not interesting at all..sadge girls are wild and fun. but Pisces guys..nope..they are too dramatic :|..so yeah..he left me coz he thought that I changed. I just told him some jokes. can't believe that he took it so seriously haha..but anyways..they are romantic and friendly. so loyal but too possessive in my opinion) sadge girls hate that!
aww .. all you're stories are making me sad and scared !
Im a sag and my boyfriend is Pisces, we've been together for 3 months now (I know, not THAT long), but it feels like we've known each other and been together for much longer. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Our relationship is great, the best I've ever had, and I have a feeling its gonna last a long time (if not forever) ..
I am currently "talking" to a Pisces Man. He seems to be very open minded and Artistic, As am I. We have so many things in common such as Art, Music and Outdoorsy type stuff. I would really like to have something more w/ this guy but from my Understanding we are very wrong for each other which Is confusing to me because In our eyes we are perfect. " We are the Same person ", we always tell each other . We do not argue because we are always thinking the same. We are both very physically attracted to some another . Everything is perfect. I will update in the Near future on our situation .
-Miss Sag.
I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 1/2 years. We broke up for 6 months because he claimed not to love me anymore(pisces men tend to be a bit unstable).After an emotional rollercoaster of a breakup, we got back together. At times I feel like it was necessary as our relationship has never been better. I have had a crush on him since I was 11 and have been dating since I was 14. He is my first and only love as I am to him. Piece of advise to those pisces/sag. couples out there trying to make it work: Our relationship is nearly entirely blissful now because of what we learned during our time apart. Respect, communication, and understanding are vital. Good luck!
IM A SAG GIRL and IM IN LOVE WI A Pisces MAN. Almost instantly we had this great chemistry, like I fell in love with him at 1st glance. We flirt a lot and we are very much attracted 2 eachother. However, I am constantly wondering what he is thinking. I struggle to read him and it annoys me cos I like nothing more than being upfront and straight to point about things.
I find myself wasting a lot of my energy thinking about him and what he might be thinking. I do not feel relaxed atol when I think of him and it drives me mad!!! Altho I really like him and would love it to work out there just seems to be something missing. However, we are rarely alone but when we are alone it gives us the opp to get 2 understand one another better. Hope it works out for us and everyone is dif so try not 2 believe everything you read.
I'm a Pisces male and my girlfriend is a Sag.
We get along extremely well and I think the most important point in a Pis/Sag relationship is to build up rapport and a steady foundation in the relationship before progressing on to unchartered territory.
Although my love sometimes is a little blunt and loves to speak her mind, I try to suppress my emotional side as I know its just her nature to be like that.
I'm a Sagittarius girl and my ex-boyfriend was a Pisces. He always complained that I was too independent. I loved him but everywhere I went he was always following me like a stalker. He was so boring too, everytime I talked to him I almost fell asleep. I don't know why I loved him but now I hate him and he stays away from me!!!!!!!!! Ive never been so happy!
If you wana understand the true relationship between a saggi woman and a Pisces male, watch 500 days of summer :)
I dated one for nearly 500 days myself and eventually realised she loved the potential me and not the present me she fell in love with back then. However today our lives are different and shes with someone else and after her I realised there is lots more to life than being in love. Today I am the potential candidate she saw in me.
Even though she is with someone else she called me, I laughed cause I know her inside out. This is one of the best combinations ever, simply cause one never knows what tomorrow brings. If this relationship has 2 last, both these signs need to hang out together as pals till it eventually hits them, cause they know the fact since day 1, just that they aren't sure bout each other.
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Ash
I am a December Sagittarius Woman who has been dating a February Pisces Man for 8 months now and it has been amazing. HE SUCKS AT COMUNICATION, But he is one hell of a man. He would give me the world if he could. I also know that Pisces are allegedly "to clingy" for sag women, he is very good at dispearsing "my time" away from "our time". I hope the relationship lasts a life time.
Okay, So I am 20 years old and have been speaking to a Pisces for about five years.He is two years older than I am. At the beginning he always wanted to be in a relationship but I always denied because I was young and I never thought I was ready. After almost a year of talking and continuously asking me to be his girlfriend he gave up and started talking to this other Sag girl. ( I am also a sag) He ended up going out with that girl for a year, at the same time I had also gotten a boyfriend. When he found out I had a boyfriend he was really upset because he said how can I do this to him after I said I wasnt ready for a relationship. We were still friends and spoke occassionally while he had his girlfriend and I had my boyfriend. When my ex boyfriend and I broke up, his ex girlfriend and him also broke up.
For some reason we got really close and started dating and were really into each other. After maybe four months his ex girlfriend called him saying she missed him and wanted to get back together, he didn't know what to do and was really confused and depressed he ended up choosing her and assured me he was just going through a phase, he would say he didn't know if he loved her but he was comfortable with her. He would always want to keep me around and would still talk to me, he never disrespected either of us though and never cheated on his ex with me we were just good friends and I tried to understand where he was coming from and was there when he needed someone to talk to. So a couple of months later they broke up for good, he wanted nothing to do with her changed his number, he had let go of all his emotional baggage and after a couple of months was ready to commit to me. We started off slow just dating, long conversations over the phone, we live around the same way but he was also away for college while I was still at home. A couple of months after things were so perfect I sort of wanted my own space, I was busy with school, had a promotion at my job and I wasnt ready for a full on relationship, it was a mutual feeling, we kept talking but just tried to slow things down and just gave each other space. He would always text and call me though just to check up on me still calling me baby.
I had met a girl that was one of his best friends friend that he had once kissed at a party they were just cool and the fact that he introduced me to her made me feel like she wasnt anything to worry about. I had met her years back and she was a very cool girl, we would talk through the internet and would sometimes be around when him and I would hang out with his friends. So last year when him and I were on that break he went to his best friends house in another state, the girl had also went. point is I found out they had sex. That had happened in April and though him and I spoke here and there, the whole summer he was giving her tons of attention and going places with her. That summer I spoke to him about it when he asked me to go for a walk with him and he told me he didn't like her like that he was just at a point in his life where he wanted to have fun. At this point him and I had never ever had sex. Four years of talking and we never had sex! I just let it go but it still bothered me that he had had sex with this girl which is also a sag. Anyway they had stopped talking.
A couple of weeks ago he told me he saw her somewhere and she mentioned someting about me like if its any of her business. I had also asked him why he never took her seriously in a relationship way and he said he just doesn't see her like that and he doesn't think he has those type of feelings for her. We made an agreement to just be friends and thats when he wanted to be closer to me, we wouldnt have sex but every night we slept together on the same bed was full of sensuality, we would kiss for hours and just fall asleep holding each other. he had told me he made an agreement with his best friend to not have sex for a couple of months so he can appreciate sex and know if he wanted to be in an actual relationship, but the only person he sees that with is me, so he's trying to not be a man whore so he can be commited to me. Just recently my cousin told me she saw him and the girl he was just having sex with together, they werent holding hands or anything just walking, I asked him if he still speaks to her and he said yes but they are just friends and assured me thats all it was that he doesn't like her in that way and doesn't speak to her like that. I have no idea if he was saying the truth or not but Im done with all the confusing games. I changed my number and hopefully never see him again.
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I'm a Sag woman, I dated Pisces man several years ago, for about 5 months, we had instant chemistry, and had a great time together, he would take me out to do fun things and have adventures, he called me every day, it seemed we were a couple because niether of us were dating anyone else and we spent so much time together (although this was never spoken) however he would not kiss me or have sex with me, so I guess it was more like friends, but I know the way he looked at me was with desire, I finally had to break it off becuase I was always so confused, I had developed feelings, and my patience had run out.
Now I find myself dating another Piscean and it's the same situation...so wierd, I know he wants me but won't act on it, we do not understand eachother, and the communication is awful...I am at the point where I think I should break it off and save myself four months of confusion this time.
I'm a Pisces man and I dated a sag girl on and off for 3 years. She was in love with me, but I never truly loved her. The sex was great and we had gotten back together because of it.
No matter how many times I broke up with her, she always took me back. I envied how sure she was about us and how much she loved me, she was willing to change anything for our relationship to work. But I always felt that she didn't really get me, she loved me, but she didn't know me.
Its funny reading about the possessive and clingy Pisces men, because my sag was clingy and possessive, even trying to keep me away from my long time friends. A part of me will always have feelings for her, she was my first everything, but I don't think we were a good match.
I'm reading all the comments and they are interesting...i'm a Sag female who has dated more than one Pisces man; for the most part they are indecisive and will disappear, this is a consistent trait with them; after the last Pisces hurt me I said I would not date another one until I met my husband; he is the sweetest guy, very caring and loving; and he has a brutally honest nature like I do; so the part about sag hurting Pisces all the time is not true; we both can be brutally honest with each other and understand each other; here is the thing; sag and pisces; like another of relationship; takes a lot of compromising; he can get a little on the emotional side sometimes and have to be reassured; so me loving him; cater to it and reassure him and i'll do it as much as he needs because I love him; i've told him about my wierd past; and he knows i'm free spirited; but thats what he loves about me; it doesn't scare him; matter of fact; me being the person; makes him join fo rces with me and not be scared; so i'm sorry for all who have had problems with these signs; I can name a bad situation with each sign that I have dated; Pisces and libras have both hurt me; but the thing with a Pisces is that once you got a Pisces man, he is loyal and committed and will do what it takes to provide for his family; you gotta respect a man like that
Some of the stories here I can totally relate to. Im a Sagittarius and my boyfriend is pisces, weve been on and off for three years now.. I love him but he's so hard to understand.. Like I know he loves me too, because he says it all the time but its the fact that we would talk for one night then the next I wont hear from him till a month or so later.. im starting to get over this routine and its gotten to the point where I don't even know if I still love him the same.. in conclusion I just think Pisces are great as friends.. Sagittarius and Pisces are not meant to be.
I'm a Sagittarius woman dating a Pisces man, and so far so good. I've been reading all the experiences of the commentators and--no lie--it somewhat scared me. Some of the things written are very true. I'm very adventurous, out and about, and blunt. My Pisces man is very emotional, sensitive, and seems to be the "settle-down" kinda man. His plans about our future scares me since he wants to raise a family and expects me to forget my ambition of becoming a career girl and turn into a stay-at-home mom. It scares me, but as far as I know, if our relationship lasts, then I know we'll have to compromise.
He's definitely been, by far, the most promising guy I've ever been with. He showers me with so much attention and care. He gives me whatever my heart desires, not worrying about how much it'll cost him. He seems too good to be true, so I still have my guards up, just in case. I'm in the military and I'm very active, he's a civilian and is very much a "settler", that alone shows incompatibility, but we're compromising and working it out quite well. I couldn't really ask for more. We're doing good and hopefully it'll last.
I am a Sag female now dating a Pisces. We both are very attractive people and thatI don't know about because I am a very jealous person. I don't normally date very attractive men, I date sexy men. His personally is OK so far but he said he doesn't think that he has a personality, HUH? I didn't get that because we are born with personality some show it more than others that's all! I am very outgoing, flirtatious, take charge kind of gal, I will speak my mind. I am a survivor, I love nice things but will budget, I use common sense, I am similar to a therapist, I love to give my opinion. I am a realist, I think before I react. I have a non chalant attitude at times. I can take or leave u, if you don't mean me any good. I am a beast in the bed and I always fool who I am dealing with because they tend to think I am so sweet so they think I am stupid when it comes to love making and I shock them everytime, whereas I develop stalkers. When I get focused, I am focused! I am very business oriented. I love to learn new things and apply them to whatever I am doing. I am very impatient.I hate stupid people. I take the bitter with the sweet.
I am a passionate Sagittarius woman, who has been with the love of my life, not to mention, very sexy, Pisces, for almost four years know. I love having sex, but I can never satisfy his needs. He adores me. He has been asking me to get pregnant for since the beginning. He likes me a little off the edge. He's very much a machismo, but inside just a teddy bear. I'm the opposite. On the outside I look very innocent, but inside I have a trigger. He is the jealous type, but on the other hand I know for a fact that he has never even looked at another girl. He gets the most turned on when I'm doing math or thinking about philosophy. I think that he wants to sexually dominate me because I'm the brains in the relationship. I'm fine with that as long as I'm the boss for everything else. The one bad thing is our communication. He never understands my complex thinking, so I can't ever explain deep things, and I can't get him over his excessive jealousy. He likes my independence , but doesn't like my having guy friends. I don't mind though.
I am a Pisces Male married to a Sag woman. She is very very good looking. The first time I talked with her half of me said run for your life. I am very attracted to this Sag Woman. She is a handful to be with but I can not stay away from her. Are sex life is better than great. One other thing I know about a Sag Woman in love with a Pisces man. They have to know when and what you are doing at all times cuz if they don't they start flipping out. Sag ladys are the best lovers and if a Pisces Man has one as hot as the one I have he would swim up, over, around, through, in and out to keep that love. NO MATTER WHAT :)
I am passive and agreeable by nature, but if I feel I'm being taking advantage of or being looked down upon, I sometimes become very angry (because I'm sensitive) and once that happens my (very) aggressive nature comes out.
This causes a problem with Sag women, because they see my lack of everyday aggressiveness as a sign up weakness. I have found that a Sag woman is inflexible in her thinking and will tell you what is on her mind as if it's a fact.
Pisces men are sensitive. Sensitive doesn't necessarily mean they'll cry and go in a shell. They may become highly offended by something you think nothing of, and cut you out of their life without looking back, while thinking "she's a piece of $#$@." They'll become cold and passive-aggressively take revenge if they don't have strong morals.
Then they'll put it behind you and love you again... until you tick them off again over something little that you may or may not be aware of. A lot of Pisces are empaths, so you can't even hide how you really feel.
With me, as soon as a woman starts talking about my approach to life negatively we're going to butt heads. She's hurt my feelings and I'm not going to sit back and take it.
I instantly go from too nice/too sweet to too mean/too aggressive with no in between. Sag women ALWAYS come back after I fuss them out. They make a point to tell me that I was mean to them. You can see it in their face, they love (to hate) that side of me. To me it makes no sense... or maybe it does.
The Sags are the most masculine women I've dated (attitude only, they are also the most attractive to me). They don't want to feel like a man is less masculine than them. Since aggressiveness is considered a masculine trait, they want a guy that's looking to kick @$$ and take names, if they don't feel you're one errant foot stomp away from kicking someone's butt, they don't want you! LOL.
What you may not know: I get much pleasure from deleting people out of my phonebook and off of my facebook page. Any perceived slight could cause me to cut you out of my life for a week or two, but then I have absolutely no I'll will towards you. If you are seeking to be praised, I will find it highly offensive and permanently dislike you. But I love to uplift other people and give them praise if they are not seeking it.
omg, I totally agree with some of the comments about Pisces guys about being very secretive and impossible to read! my first love who I have been with on and off for 5 years was exactly like that. often went MIA for months at a time without giving me an explanation and prefered to be in more of friends with benefits situation than a relationship. but as far as I know he could never have a normal reationship with women from other signs either.
i would eventually get sick and block him out of my life but would always find a way back into my life. the last year however, I got tired of his bs and told him to f off for good, and only since then the tables have turned! he has been trying very hard to be more open, attentive and understanding about my needs, and while I appreciate his effort I can't get over past memories and heartbreaks. I think the only reason why i've stuck around for good is because of the history, not because we're compatible. i'm kind of confused as to what to do.
The saggitarius woman are really blunt personalities. They love the romance and passion but don't have a clue in understanding the Pisces soul. A Pisces id putting lots of passion in relationship,the sag woman takes it as a game. To have a succesfull relationship as a Pisces with a sag woman,you need to gave her the freedom and take yours as well.
Sometimes they hurt you unintentionally,and when you discussed with them open about the issue,they feel bad about it. Yet a minute later start thinking is not worth taking all the "crap"
You have to be carefull with sag woman because every other day a "surprise" wil make your heart bit fast. And most of them are unintentionall.
They make lots of mean jokes,thinking those are really good ones, and if you jike back exactly the same way they get so furios!!! Although what you showed them is exactly the same thing.
Bottom line sag woman are very immature emotionally and don't have a proper understanding of what a true relationship involves. They love to play and be independent and they thing that someone can love them deeply and give them all the independence in the world:)
Which is fine,I thing as a Pisces man you should to the same..and enjoy the freedom,as they do in such a selfish way
I've been with my Pisces man for over a year. I agree with most of the comments here; we do have many ups and downs and we can change our states of mind very easily. We'd get upset with each other and then suddenly be happy together. I find that no matter what, I always go back to him, and vice versa. I also don't understand what it is that I find attractive about him. However, our sex life is great! I don't ever want to lose him and I hope that he feels that way about me. He's very caring and I can't imagine him as a liar or as some of the negative things that were described about Pisces men above. Overall, I think we're happy together. :)
Hi, I am a sag woman and I am getting to know a Pisces man and we clicked instantly!:) There is hope. I think we have a better shot at compatibilty tho perhaps because I myself feel more Pisces than sag. My moon and ascendent are both in pisces. Then the rest of my chart is filled with water scorpio. My Venus is in cap. At the end of the day, love conquers all.*
I'm a Sag girl, dates a Pisces guy off and on for 3 yrs. I am older. 40 to his 29. The age never was a problem. What can I say about my Pisces guy? Always disappearing amd then reappearing after making you nuts with no comunication,like nothing was wrong. Could be selfish when things were going great, leave him and IGNORE him.. then he will come on strong with being generous, BUT only with his money never his time. Likes being in his own surroundings and his sex drive was lacking, but when I did see him after weeks of NOT seeing him.. (disappearing) he would make love to you like he starving for you. Couldn't be counted on.. NO knight in shining armor thats for sure.. and we SAG girls love that hero stuff.. don't count on a fish guy
The plus side? very good listener. Loved my body and very complmenting. Liked to spend money on me.
If you look at the whole situation...Pisces are mature emotionall beings. Yet irrationall, or more likely Illogical. Sag women are aces at logic. Are they able to understand a Pisces man? perhaps...Do they want to? not that much.
We love them because there are passionate and dedicated. Yet we hate them because constantly make stupid mistakes that shows that never paid attention to us...
In the end is about selfishness... We are not,and the sag women are a lot.
I dated this sag woman from aboard for awhile. I felt in love with her at first sight and I did nothing else but dedicating myself to her since then. We,together established a code of rules to be respected together untill we will be together.
She constantly broke those rules. I have a much busier job and much more responsability than she does. Yet I am the only one keeping my word. She believes that facts are the one that count,but she is lacking so much at proving it!
I don't understand when the zodiac says they are sooo dedicated. She personally told me that she always had a "back-up" person. Even if she was in a relationship. Even more to her this is not cheating...:)
She keeps relationship with all her ex BF,as a friends...and I am suppose to understand and accept this from 7000 miles away.
I was honest to her and dedicated,yet I think is not worth it
i've been married to a Pisces man for 19 yrs, we have a 19 yr old daughter who is also a pisces. We are completely different in a lot of ways and we had our big fights but one thing that kept our marriage aside from our deep love for each other and our willingness to compromise is that he made a rule when we were dating 19 yrs ago, that if we get into a fight---never say the things that will make us regret later. Pisces men are very sensitive souls, I think my husbands rule worked. as blunt as I am I made sure that I approach it in a loving way.
I'm a Pisces guy and have "Loved" a Sag(cusp 22November) girl for 11 years now, though if the above experience summaries are any great indicator then it probably was never meant to be. we're good friends and I Love her in a way she has never really understood, and she has said that she loves me but though that essential spark...the "it" has just never been there and that is the final word i'll have to accept. someday.
i know that there are definite patterns in this world, as well as averages of patterns, and many people exhibit at least enough of them to be able to make some kind of prediction. I resent and reject much of what people wrote about my sign above. I care about a person, not a type of person.
i'm blunt and brutally honest, also considerate and sparing of people's feelings. i'm sensitive...that, in fact is what brings out my aggressive side-i tend to overwhelm people, both intentionally and not. i'm not controlling...i do like things my way, but I know what it means to compromise (speaking of common ground, we just know ours' is more firm to stand on, lol j/k).
in the end the heart is a thing both infinitely complex, and painfully simple. if 2 people have enough checkmarks in the plus column versus the minus column than I say go for it. besides, time and experience can change both hearts and minds to increase or decrease compatibility. there is a thin red line between persistence and stubbornness.
have had much better luck w Scorpios.
-noangelwaiting
I am a Pisces man, and I can tell you one thing. Love is not one time deal. Have sex and it goes down from there. Be realistic a bit and grow up. This horoscope predictions are just predication and probabilities, but we are not. Stars can't dictate what I want to be in life. Relationship needs commitment and sacrifice equally from both sides. It is through the Freedom of choice that the true committed lovers grow strong. Can you think about others before you think about yourself? We can! Love is patient, love is kind, it doesn't envy, it doesn't boast, love is not proud, love is not rude, Love doesn't keep any records of wrongs, Love always hopes, it always perseveres. Love never fails, so if you have loved and failed know that there was no love to start with. Now can you imagine Love through all that in your life with your partner? I can, and I am still born as a Pisces man, and I like a Sagittarius woman.
Heres the truth!! I am a Sag girl. If a Pisces guy truly loves you, he will be emotionally attached to you forever!! My Pisces guy told me he truly loved me when we were 18 years old. But I was a rock hard sag girl and I didn't see what I had in front of me and I left him. I moved from Pittsburgh to Dallas. 14 years later we crossed paths once again, and he told me he was searching for me for years, his best friend said he would cry while looking at my picture. He kept a picture of me in his wallet and never got over the feelings and emotions he had for me. And after all my failed relationships and a failed marriage with a Libra, I went back to him. And today I am with him, starting a new life. So far, the biggest problem is his insecurity. He's always asking me if Im thinking of leaving him again. I have enough life experience to never make that mistake again. But I do have certain expectations and I believe TRUST, COMMUNICATION and AFFECTION need to be our 3 issues to focus on. You can pick your 3. Sag girl and Pisces guy CAN work. Both need to be sincere and honest. If not, it won't work.
Sag girls are always attracted to Pisces boys. . . I know its wierd. . But its true!! . . But it seldom ends well
im a sag and my man is great, getting, marry in few months time after 7yrs together
Im a sag girl and I find all this rather depressing! I would say Im defo not a typical sag in some ways and very much so in others - yes Im blunt etc but I don't value freedom and independence over a relationship.
I have met a fantastic piscean male who if anything demonstrates many of the sag traits - more than I do in some ways - he wants casual and to be cool and I want to be up close and personal hahaha wot a turnaround!
Yes he can be distant and evasive but in the main I think he is honest and time will tell whether Im incredibly naive and trusting or if its meant to be - fingers crossed cos he's definitely worth making an effort for....
I (female sag-12/12) have been besties with my Pisces friend (cusp-2/19) for almost 5yrs now and he possesses more positive traits than bad. He is always on time, tells me secrets that he swore to his friend's he'd keep, speaks to me everyday,etc
I possess negative traits from my sign, but I am more on the positive side; Example I'm honest, but not brutal, fun, hard but soft, I am independent but I make time for everyone (especially him), im faithful, honest, passionate, Etc. for he is blunt, sensitive, brutally honest, bases Everything on LOGIC, independent (nonemotional), also considerate and sparing of people's feelings. hillarious, has an aggressive side that tends to overwhelm people, both intentionally and not. controlling; likes things his way, but knows what it means to compromise. And I am like that too, just a bit more fiesty lol
I think since we're so close, and live different lifestyles that we form a natural "Connection" VERY Well. We debate a lot but it's fun and harmless (especially when we wrestle around lol), but we always laugh together/cuddle at the end. Even though we have different views, we always see Eye2Eye. We share and talk about Anything ; IF WE THINK IT/FEEL IT, then WE SAY IT/DO IT; our insecurities, sex lives, drama, issues, etc (Though, I have lots more than him because he's more mellow and laid back). We give each other space as well = no clingyness, but no aloofness.
I haven't had sex in a While [and i've been Feening!] so we almost took it there, but he didn't have a condum, so we had FUN in other ways...(This is our very First Time becoming sexual with one another) but until next time lol That's when Ima put it on him, have him screaming my name..anyway. We are always there-here-anywhere for each other (during the good & bad) and we say we love each other and he calls me his baby and I still call him by the cute nickname I gave him years ago. So far, no complications, and we can live without the drama, so I hope it remains that way.
Well..where do I begin..i met this Pisces guy,im a sag girl, 2 and a half yrs ago..he gave me his email address,we then text and then it got to being sextextin as we were in two diff countries..we kept arranging to meet and it never happened. If we saw other people then we didn't speak. Then last april it became very intense between us..always texting,calling me baby,cute stuff.. I didn't have my phone one wkend as I had left it at work and he was an hour away and he was desperate to meet but I didn't know this until I got my phone back..anyway things were cool,smoothed out and still intense up til october then I heard nothing 4 a month despite my texting..i was hurt that I hadnt heard and I realised that I had feelings 4 him so I did the best thing 4 me and text him to end it! He replied straight away..funny that..and we talked..i said that I wldnt text as much if he didn't ignore me like that and then we arranged to meet again 4 sure..nothing happened up til march and then he said I should 4get him as he cldnt give me much in return at this stage..i was gutted,said I understood but I didn't want to 4get him but I would leave it up to him. He still text me..even apologising 4 poor contact over easter and then by fluke,luck,fate he was in the same town as myself 4 the bank holiday monday..he asked to meet,i jumped at the chance..he walked up to me said he's been wanting to do this 4 such a long time and then kissed me..it was amazing..the whole nite..it was more than sex...we talked,stroked,fell asleep in each others arms..wow! He dropped me off the nxt am and..HE NEVER SPOKE TO ME AGAIN!! I text 3 times in the 1st week..one to thank him,two to as if he was alive and three to say that I must of been a crap shag and all..nothing! Then I sent a final text saying goodbye as I know how he wishes it so,thanking him but reminding him of his manners as he does have a little girl who would be a woman someday..still nothing. I noticed he had been on facebook all this time so I sent him an email just saying that I see you are alive..he then blocked me so I didn't react very well..afterall it was 24 days at this point..he replied..telling me to grow up,get over myself and to stop acting like a spoilt brat..i want more than he can give!!.. To be honest a text to say he got home would of done me in the 1st place! I thought he liked me and now he hates me. Ive apologised twice in the last wk but nothing. Im hurt and confused..it takes two surely..and starsigns or not..it cost nothing for manners,respect,compromise..communication is key but its hard work with him..i understand the Pisces man a bit more now but its too late..i have to accept things the way they are and move forward..its hard..i miss him........i guess his fantasy of me wasnt as great in reality eh!?
I am a Pisces male If you can find man who is willing to listen to you and you listen to him in return, it can work. When a person loves you, there is nothing they would not do for you. You are first, there are no excuses. They are only concerned with your happiness and this is done by being observant to your likes and dislikes. We may not agree on all things, because we are individuals, but we will never intentionally say or do anything to hurt, you because of the love that we have for you. If we do, we will sincerely apologize or do whatever it takes to show we are sorry and try our damnest not to allow it to happen again. This is when a man loves a woman. Her needs will come before his. She will only come second, in the Spiritual, due to his Love for GOD. Ladies, if you want a Win-Win situation, find a man who loves GOD with his ACTIONS not his lips. Stay Blessed!
I dated a Pisces man and it was wonderful he was so considerate of my feelings and we became friends. And we laughed together and argued a lot and got over it quickly. Then it got awful. He was seeing another girl for half the time we were together. Then he begged me to forgive him and like a Sagittarius I did only for him to do the exact same thing. He ignored my calls and my txts for 3 days and I only saw him again to get my things from his house it was like he didn't even care. In the end Pisces men are painfully indesicive. They can drift into their fantasy world where everythings ok and esscape the real world where they are truly just selfish and undeserving
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