Need to be patient dating Virgo men

I am in the process of understanding a Virgo man. Before I read about his star sign I was confused as to why he kept asking me out but not making a move. I'm used to men at least trying after the first couple of dates. I made the first move and a few after, although I've never been satisfied with his reactions. I eventually scared him off when I confronted him about not initiating sex. I'm a Libra and I feel as if I crave affection and sexual attention.

Months later he began to contact me again. He said he was confused before and that he wanted to see me again but take it very slow. At first I took it as a lame excuse, and that he's not really interested but his actions enforce his intentions. He is a little more straightforward when it comes to kissing and when he hugs me it's as if he doesn't want to let go. He likes to call me at the end of the week just to see how my week went. He noticed my car needed an oil change and took care of it one Saturday morning. He invites me out to dinner and we have intellectual conversation and he is an avid listener.

I am still a little insecure about his feelings for me because he is so hard to read. I don't mind that we don't spend every second with him because when we are together it's quality time. I don't worry that he's with other women, because good luck getting a response from him. Although he is not romantic and gushy, there is something warm and secure about what he does say to me.

He is responsible and unbending. There is something about the promise of security that makes me want to forget the love at first sight passion that Libras long for. I'm being patient and holding out for something I know will be worth it in the end.