Leo man using sex as a weapon

Hi, I'm a Scorpio woman and I dated a Leo man and it was the worst flipping mistake I have ever made because he really broke my heart, I wish I never met him! He used sex against me and really he had absolutely no idea what sex is supposed to be used for, to him it was all a game like some conquest like it was a sport and I was too in love with him to see his true intentions. He was so sweet and kind but then he completely did a 180 flip and like that he could be so cruel and ice cold to me, like I didn't even matter.

I could tell he had been hurt really badly before or something terrible must have happened to him to make him like this and I could see that perfectly but I don't think he did and slowly he closed himself off to me, and he kept on pushing me away from him and hurt so badly!!! he wouldn't let me in! the harder I tried the further we grew apart and I think it's because he was afraid.

Deep down I still love him and that's why I wish I never met him. I really want him to have that ability to love and feel happiness because a life without love is no life at all and it kills me every f**king day!!! Wow sorry that was a little intense but I really needed to get that off my chest

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Leo man using sex as a weapon
by: Anonymous

In my opinion, I more like mess around with a Leo and yes he is so romantic and so so good in bed its so remarkable but were more like friends and yes he is the biggest flirt and when were together he will stand away like im just someone he knows so that people think that were not a couple and of course we are not but jealous yep definitely oh he can stare but he tells me oh don't be looking like in a joking way and etc. I have actually fallen for this fool and I don't know what he feels for me sometimes it looks like he does have something but at the same time he is playing with another girl and truthfully it hurts me more and I feel that we should no longer keep messing around. I don't want to let go of what we have but I don't feel he should play with my heart and other girls minds he needs to quit being a hoe and stick to one or none at all. Its sad that this guy and I get along so well our chemistry is so strong but he wants to play and like I said he acts weird in public around me and all he has to say is that we are good friends and were not a couple. Then one thing he enjoys is all that I do in the bedroom with him. He has never known anyone to enjoy what I do like he enjoys what he does. In my mind no Leo should play with anyone no matter what we shouldn't be your piece of pleasure when you feel it should be done. Basically he is not worth loving for the simple fact of him being the pig that he is. NOT WORTH MY TIME OR ANY OTHER PERSON'S.

Response to Leo Using Sex as a Weapon
by: Anonymous

Your situation seems to be exactly like my own. I almost felt as if it was me writing that column. Wow, well we are married, but that does'nt me things want go that route. I feel like its so hard to understand him and we been together 5yrs(2 of the yrs we were in a long distance romance)The past year has really wore me out! I feel like giving up most days...then with his up and downs I get strong and optimistic that we are gonna work things out because when he is being the "good Leo man" he is perfect! But when all hell break lose, or he can't have his way...we go through his game of sex being his controller of motivator for manipulation into having his way. I dont know if this is gonna ever change? Any Leo men out there that could help with the steps to take to deal with these types of LEO MEN? Other that "DUMP UM"?
Confused in VA

Leo man using sex as a weapon
by: Anonymous

I have been involved with a Leo man for 7 years and I am a Scorpio woman. All this time he does exactly the same thing and seems to be very uncomfortale when we go out as a couple. He tells everyone we are just friends, doesnt ring me unless he is arranging to see me. This makes me feel so used and unwanted. I love him so much that I cant believe i have put up with this behaviour for so long. I need to be in a warm and loving relationship but i dont think he is capable of that. We have parted many times during the 7 years but each time he comes back with no discussion about what happened. I am destroying myself over him and have become obsessed by him. I think of nothing else but him and how i can get him to love me the way i want him too. I know that he is jealous yet in 7 years he has never once told me he loves me

oh my leos
by: Anonymous

Wow, ur comments and very elaborate expressions r self healing..but u know, leo men r very smart ppl. They know what they want in a woman and they will chase her down to get her. It is a game to them. However, what reels the women in is their consistency, their charm and the apologetic nature. My mom is a leo and I was convinced I would never deal with a leo man bc of how selfish my mom is...very harsh and demeaning woman at times, lol. However, she strengthen me to deal with a lot of tough emotional situations, esp a leo guy. One thing u have to b clever with ur leo guy, by not falling in luv before them. My leo male cuz hipped me to that too. They play so many games, gee, u r left with the look of frustration and they r off smiling somewhere. They r hopeless emotionals but they won't admit to it. If u want to conquest ur leo, u have to put aside ur emotions but still having a loving unbreakable heart. Lawd, good luck if u found one that had been hurt. If u want him, let the innocent games begin...lol

confident yet humble
by: Anonymous

The leo wants his mate on a pedestal but he want her walking 2 steps behind him. Yes, very confusing...u can't be afraid to lose his love and u can be willing to lose the fight. They say they don't want u to do this and that but they do, but they want u to do it bc it let's them off the hook. Force him to make decisions and force him to make his decision valid bc he will test ur sincerity to ur decisions. They luv finding ppls weakness and they toy with it to death. If he really want something do let him have it, keep presenting ur own ideas and he was soon to interest. U gotta b patient bc he will not give in easily, gonna take lost of mind power to woo the psychopath that he is...they r loyal but very combative, don't let him win. The leo I know gave me blow by blow play of his play tactics and I appreciated him whenever I got over my state of shock and I will b like, he warned me, lol...I end up laughing at myself. Take heed to his warning about himself and don't take to heart about his love fiasco, most of the time he is playing with ur emotions

Aries girl used to be w/ leo guy
by: Anonymous

In my experience,Leo guys are very good at lying, and sneakin around. When the leo guy asked me out, i told myself that i wud not let myself fall too hard for him and i will stand up for my belifs and not let him kiss me and hug me whenever he wants. Well, that did not go as i planned it wud. I let him kiss me on the first day, i let him kiss me whenever he wanted and i knew that it wasnt right, because even though u are in a relationship, u shouldnt let urself go. Before we went out, he started texting me and talking to me all the time, 24/7, but when we started dating, the texting stopped i got frusterated, because we aries girls need love and we need our guys to tell us they love us or at least show it! But this leo didnt after school. There were alot of red flags that i gnored, like him tickling me and then going up to some other girl and tickling her when i wasnt looking but hey, i got eyes and i saw that. also, the fact that people were saying "dude, thats like ur 5th gf this week" made me feel like im another girl in his parade of girls. Another one is, one of his friends (which is a girl and shes my friend as well) told me he isnt really nice and plays with emotions. I didnt listen but to tell u the truth,i shuda payed attention to those red flags or i wudnt be hurt right now. So leo guys do like to play with ur emotions, they do knwo how to lie very easily, they do flirst behind ur back because they need girls who can make them feel good, and they do know how to make a girl fall for them. But for those of ur girls who are always checkin ur phone and seeing if ur guy has called u or not (this applies to all guys) and ur always constantly gettting that feeling that u dont trust him anymore and u feel that if u call him or text him, u think u are being clingy or annoying, then please let him go, because when ur gut tells u somethin is wrong it usually is! DOnt wait and ignore and think he will come around and start talking to u again..it wont happen. its eaither he is in to u and doing everything in his power to be with u or he isnt in to u anymore and doesnt want to be with u anymore. Just remeber that guys are just like that. and if u have to constantly spy on him on facebook and twitter or myspace, and u always feel like ur not good enough and stuff...dump his ass and be the strong girl u are, cuz if u dont believe me...u will walk out of that relaionship with no pride no dignity and no self confidence, but if u do....girl u da best and remeber keep smiling cuz there is always another guy who is wanting to be with u and maybe out of all the guys out there he is the one who is always watching u and just wants to be ur man!

Leo men
by: Anonymous

Amazing! I am a libra woman that just came out of a 3 year relationship with a Leo. I can testify that most of what has been said here are true.
The man I was with, chased me for near 6 months, I told him I wasn't attracted to him and with that he did everything in his powers to get me to talk to him including introducing me to his parents. After the parents got involved and show me such kindness, I started feeling like maybe I should give him a chance.
He admit that he was in love with me, and cut off a communications with other females ( not my request). We got along well for the first year until he came up with this brilliant idea that we hang out separately. I went along with it not knowing that he wanted to give himself space to flirt with other girls. The last two years were full of arguments about his flirtatious behavior ( it became so obvious and so rude) yet when I try to break it off, he held on by controlling me ( whatever method he see fit Money, sex, roses, car)
I soon realized he game and saw that he was weak without and was feeding off my emotions. He would use my words against me, took my thoughts as if they were his, and basically just drain me. I couldn't take it anymore, so I decided to starve him in order for the relationship to end. I stopped telling him my ideas, spoke very minimum in his presence, and basically led him to believe I have no aspirations, and that I was boring. I even stopped having sex with him. This got him very angry and he started searching for his other prey. It turns out the girl he is dating is the type he sore he would never date. Did I mention that he is very deliberate? He is doing this and pretending he is happy to make me feel bad. The only thing I feel bad about is wasting 3 years of my life with it, and being emotionally drained to the point where it's hard to feel my self worth. Those Leo's really can mess you up mentally, but with time I will regain strength.

i need ur help!
by: Anonymous

I'm sitting here raeding thru everybody's comments n need an opinion or 2. I met this super hot leo man n and after maybe a few weeks of chatting online we finally started txtn heavy and I mean everyday. morning, noon, n night and had phone convos that were usually an hour to two hrs long each time. And multiple phone convos at that.. After about another week we arranged to meet. We met outside in public in an area w stores n a lot of people around n we both were into each other. After almost 2 hrs of light flirtatious convo he drops me off at a friends house, he walked me to the door n we hugged n I let him kiss me on the cheek. He told me the next day he wanted to hang w me but stood me up n told me the next day that he fell asleep n he was very sorry. I said don't let it happen again n moved on. Now its going to be a week since then n he txts me every morning and all thruought the day everyday. Tells me real convincing things about how much we connect and how much he wants to do things w me. He's very believable n loads me w compliments. he plans on coming down (he lives a few hrs away) n said he is going to get a room near my town n wants me to spend the night. Is he full of game n is just trying to get in my pants? Or is it possible he really does feel the chemistry we have n can behave himself or will I turn him away if I hold off fooling around w him?

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by: Anonymous

To the last comment, he is more interested in getting in your head than pants. Because once he gets in your head, he controls you. He may even play the perfect gentleman, to give you the impression that he is not in any rush to get in your pants. Don't be fooled! Tell him you will come to his town instead, insist on going out to dinner or somewhere public and see how he reacts! Lastly plan a second dinner date, and cancel at the last minute. Keep yourself busy, if you want him, and don't show any emotions.

re:
by: Anonymous

Well he was already planning to come down for 5 days but was going to take 1 of those days to have w me n I won't have him sleep in my house. Is ur opinion based on him being a leo or just on him being a man in general?

unbelievable
by: Anonymous

this is unbelievable.

It is 100% true, all the comments made here. Leo men suck. They are mean,mess with your head constantly and fool around with other females.
UNLESS they REALLY love you. But if they did, you would NOT be reading/searching this page.
The fucked up part is that those who did, like you, and I, are the females.. our leo man DOES NOT WANT. Only to play with.

The hardest thing to do is to just cut off emotional ties. Try to fall OUT OF LOVE with the leo man. And only then, perhaps there is a chance. I am sure, you all being the same lovefool as I am, will try this method.. because deep down - ah not even that deep down.. we just know he really isn't that into us. It sucks. But unfortunately, thats life.

Stupid GIrls
by: Anonymous

Sorry scorpio but you're an idiot. Guys treat you like this cuz they can and you make it easy.

let me guess. He probably had a crappy personality, but was rich or tall or handsome.

On paper he was not worth it, but you would have sex and be in love again.

Find someone who cares about you and doesn't see you as a trophy.

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