How to deal with an Aquarius Woman!

by Nae Nae
(Ohio)

To all you guys out there who are sweet on/have a crush on/are in love with an Aquarius woman, I'm going to give you a list of 10 do's and do not's to keep her happy and interested in you! This advice is coming straight from me, an Aquarius girl.

1. Be patient with her. She doesn't jump into relationships quickly. She prefers to be friends first. She has to feel you out and get to know you before it goes any further. Friendship means everything to her!

2. She loves her freedom so if you're interested in an Aquarius girl, you need to understand that she needs to be able to come and go when she pleases. If you don't have a problem with that, she will love you even more!

3. One way to piss an Aquarius woman off is to try to smother her with excessive amounts of affection and togetherness. If you tend to be needy or clingy she will drop you like a bad habit and run for the hills.

4. Aquarius girls like to be intellectually stimulated. Please demonstrate an ability to carry on an intelligent conversation. If you can do that, you've already got your foot in the door! She loves to see a man who can keep up with her mentally. If you can't, then you'd be better off with someone else because she'd have very little use for you.

5. If you do find yourself conversing with an Aquarius Woman never, ever, ever, ever, ever try to force your opinion on her by trying to convince her that she's wrong and you're right. You are playing with fire!! She will respect your opinion but she will not tolerate someone trying to force her to think, feel or behave in a way that is not natural for her.

6. She can be very emotionally detached so don't push her to open herself up to you. That takes a lot of time for her to do. If you keep pushing she will close up even more.

7. Don't take it personally if she goes for a few days or so without talking to you. She generally has s many things going on in her life and in her head that she just forgets about you.

8. Show that you have a life outside of her. Clingy men are major turnoffs. Sometimes in order to get her attention you have to ignore her a bit. Always give her the space she needs.

9. She can be hot one minute and cold the next. A social butterfly one day and a loner the next. Get used to the mood swings. She's very unpredictable.

10. When she tells you its over, its over. She is not bluffing. The only thing harder than getting an Aquarius girl in the first place is getting her back after she's finished with you. The most you can hope for is that she'll continue to be your friend.