Help catching a Libra woman!

Ok, not to sound to promiscuous but I've dated all the zodiacs except three. But recently going on three months now I've been dating this Libra girl i met through a friend. And man its amazing, when they say opposites attract they really do on some forms. I have to say I've read just about everything you can find on the two and I've heard alota good and alota bad, and came up with the conclusion that in general each person and situation is different. There are a lot of Aries traits that i do have but a lot i don't i am the type to at least be willing to try and compromise.

so now that that's out of the way here's my problem (maybe I should have read everything before hand,) but the issue is i moved from northen california back home to southern california and we had a mutual friend and new about each other but never got a chance to meet. so after i moved i was checking my friends facebook friends and found her. we chatted a few times and then came that breakthrough where we chatted online for 5 hours. not a day after that we exchanged numbers and have been talking ever since. I mean talking, not just about sex or stuff like that it wasnt until almost a month and a half before that topic was even brought up. now i know this for a fact by now knowing her and readin alot of female libra stuff, ya'll female libra are very flirtatious and have alot of admirers.

Infact when she and i first started talking she had just started dating someone (a gemini) but after a few romantic gestures (ok alot cause im into her) she well just stopped talking him him as much and i seemed to come more in the picture. her sister lives in southern California also, so long story short on that issue when she didnt get this job working at a bank she text me and was like babe i didn't get the job ill be moving down south on Thursday.you should have seen my amazement. so after a month of talking about everything under the sun we finally met and it was lovely. i was invited to her sisters Halloween party and though we live about 30 minutes apart we seeen each other each weekend.

ok so here the tricky part Libra ladies i need help on. i was the one to initiate the topic on her and i getting into a relationship, but like most Libras she needed to weigh out all options. we still talked it did bother for a minute cause she didn't say anything till i mentioned it again. but since than shes spent the night and we've went to the beach and many romantic encounters like that. infact one day she came over and cooked dinner for me and i cooked her breakfast. we were talking about future plans and things etc. now i have to say the aries trait i most hate about myself is im not patience and i have been trying to be. she told me before that she dates other people in order to filter out who she really wants to be with and that she wasnt ready at the time for exclusive dating or a relationship because many things like finding a job and her own place etc- she wanted everything to be in order in order for her to give herr all to the man shes with....now before i go further it hasnt been a one way thing yes ive written her peoms and given flowers to her and things of that nature but shes also written my a poem made cookies for me and always has the nicest text and things that makes my day. so last week i seen on facebook this other guy she was dating. and maybe i shouldnt have came off at her and questioned her about it, while she was honest and before hand let me know what she was did it still bothered me and that why i asked because well i've really fell for this girl although she said she couldnt admit it i know like she does a played a key factor in her wanting to move. in fact the day she went on the date she had just told me when i asked her what she thought about me and where things could be going, was that she felt it was heading for a long loving and lasting relationship- so back to the story at hand- so after i confronted her about the situation which she didnt say much i did most of the talking, she did say that it really wasnt really anything like that she just went out. so i asked her than whats keeping you and i from getting together in a relationship? she responded she had just talked to a close friend of hers and was telling her about me and that everything and me was perfect and she doesnt really know why other than she doesn't think about me 24/7. so im like ok but thats a good thing i dont want you to worship me lol. anyway since that time we havent talked as much specially since im use to her and i talking everyday . i have been send her those little love is... comic strips since we first start talk to her email and haven't stopped since. i have also wrote her a few poems just to let her know that even though we aren't talking as much and im giving her time to think im still into her. i don't want the fire to burn out. ok as long as that was that's it i cut alot of details out of course but i hit all the main important parts. i know she still cares and even though she in a new city which is always intriguing with new people places and things that i know her more than these people she may have went on dates with. just Wednesday when we talked on the phone i told her i missed her and she said the same thing that she missed me too. i haven't seen her in a couple weeks with work and her going to her family for the holiday. but what did i do wrong? i know i was a little pushy i know. so is there any advice that maybe any advice you think could help. since than ive backed up and gave her her space, I've read Libras dont like to be pushed or forced into anything. but i really like this woman and its driving me crazy! lol

sorry it was so long but if you can please drop any comments or advice it would be highly appreciated sorry about the grammar too