Gemini and Scorpio relationships

I am a Gemini woman in a relationship with a Scorpio man. This has been a roller coaster relationship for the past 3 years. He is so secretive, tells lies, exaggerates, and yes he does flirt, looks at other girls in front of me. He is a woman's worst nightmare. When we first started it was true bliss. He loved me, he was dedicated, loyal, and all those good things that happen when you first meet someone. However, as time went by his true colors appeared. We have split up many times. I am always the first to ask him back. He always comes back. He is intelligent, mysterious, and has a bad temper. He gets angry quickly. His moods change quite frequently. They say Gemini's are flirtatious, and cannot remain loyal. My Scorpio sounds like a Gemini. We have a love-hate relationship. We are not compatible. We have opposite personalities. He is 7 years younger than I. I am 44 and he 37. At first he was committed. Now he is not sure where our relationship is going. Gemini and Scorpio don't mix.

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by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini woman, 20, and I absolutely want to be with a Scorpio man. I recently met a scorp male and we got to hang out, I let him in emotionally and well I really don't think it was a good idea because well he's 19 for one, he doesn't answer direct question even though they are simple, for example I asked him, were lying when you told me you liked me? Then someone we had and argument, he never did apologize, I had to tell him to forget about it...its just all a blur and complicated, I want to be with him but I don't want to waste my time.

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by: Anonymous

I'm a Gemini woman who dated a Scorpio man and I tell you it was a relationship from hell, he was very jealous, controlling, and possessive. It was by far the worst experience I've ever had, the only good thing that came out of this situation is our son. I mean he lied, cheated all the time with several different women at one time, he manipulated me and we argued all the time couldn't agree on any thing. I tried compromising with him that didn't work, so I tried just letting him have it his way, that was a disaster. The man was like one big mistake from hell, needless to say I GOT THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM. I'll never dated an Scorpio man again!! Gems be aware!!

Im a Srorpio Male
by: Anonymous

Were so controlling because when in love we believe thats the only reason our partners will stay. Yes it is HELL but we cant help it. We lie to protect also. We dont answer straight forward questions because it cound hurt someone we love so we lie we dont like to lie but we have to so we dont lose our love.

never been dead
by: lee

I'm Gemini girl and hes Scorpio he can't imagine that to lay a girl like me not worth it coz maybe i get used to it if only tells the truz but if i can Chang my self the way he do,he can't even handle that.just today we almost break up be coz he's comin lat from work and i ask hem that did he still loves me right back after we have sex.the funny part is he ask back that wat i mean by that. that time it make me sick i ignored hem the holl day he call and am saved coz i love hem so much he all most killed me.; i pray to separet wz hem easly.;

Older Gemini 37 Younger Scorpio 25
by: MJL

I just ended a 9 yr long distant relationship with a Scorpio Male who is 12 years younger than me. I am his first girlfriend the first for everything. The arguement was partly my fault. Of course no cheating on my part just his in the begining but I forgave and took him back. Ever since then I have been an emotional roller coaster during our relationship I couldn't trust I was afraid he would do it again.Its been a working progress but up until this year. He has been manipulative emotionaly and so have I. We fight then we make up. I also hang up on him so I don't say anything regretful he becomes vengeful. I ignore his calls cause he doesn't answer mine. I broke up with him saying its over soo many times because the long distance was getting to me and him not answering my calls made me suspicious. So finally he kept calling till he was blue in the face everyday I just ignored it. He sent me flowers on Valentines Day and he called I ignored it and said just move on its over. I was angery and upset cause he wouldn't answer my calls..I also was tired of the long distance. I took all my frustrations out on him.

I thought he would try back like he normally did but he didn't. He change his status on fb to single. That's when I knew I pushed to far. I called and called he ignored me. I called his work several times he had his coworkers lie for him saying he wasn't there. I talked to his bf he said he had been crying his eyes out for me. I called his work back finally he spoke to me and said move on it gets easier with time..just like I said to him in a text. I said to him I'm soo sorry I didn't know it affected him that way and why I did what I did but it wasn't right. I was blinded by my own fears and hurt that I didn't realize I was doing that. I don't ever want to make anyone cry especially the ones I love He wasn't hearing me. I beg an pleaded for him to try to work things out. He said he needed time. Then he contrridicted himself. And said move on. I said tell me its over then don't leave me hanging he couldn't. He said just moveon so then I said so its over is that what your saying he said no I just need time meanwhile move on. I'm confused. We have always fought but we make up. This time I don't think so. Inspite of our dysfunctional relationship we both love each other soo much. He texted me and said he didn't hate me he is just hurt he has moved on and so should I . I asked him since I gave you a second chance when you cheated I asking for one he denied me. I want him back.. Scorpios once they're hurt I was told forget it your dead to them is this true?

Older Gemini 37 Younger Scorpio 25
by: MJL

Update.. been a few years =) how time changes you especially for the better. I wish nothing but the BEST and HAPPINESS genuinely to my Scorp even though things ended the way it did.My last piece of advice to him was no matter what don't ever let anyone including me get in the way of your dreams. He was to me at least a true WIZ, intelligent (he hates the G word)that's one of the things about him I found truly sexy and attractive. Anyways I'm in a much happier place now and just a piece of advice remember to take responsibility for your faults as well. Ask for forgiveness no matter who's fault it is if you value the relationship. Is the relationship worth risking just over pride/ego or even jealousy? If the answer is yes still forgive, let go , find your joy. I know I have =)

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