Do you Aquarius girls 'avoid' the ones you like?

by TG
(Australia)

I'll cut a long story short. Shes an aqua, im a gemini lol. We met in a class we were both studying and she went weird on me first turned from friendly to like ignoring and watching me etc then she asked me if I liked girls (shes bi and well im curious but shes my first) and i responded "i like you." and from then she like opened up a lot sexually at first and then spoke to me every single day for a while it was a bit suffocating to be honest and she asked a lot of questions like emotional ones like "would you get jealous if you saw me with someone else?" BUT shes.. for short lets say AMAZING!! lol anyway she told me she liked me once. So she cut down the communication and always delcined invitations by me to see her etc hang out with her or she'd make up excuses and once kinda stood me up. We still talk and she has her days she'll flirt like crazy and then she'll be like a bit distant, wont tell me as much info etc you know what I mean!!. So we've been talking for like 6 months now but she dropped out of the course so i didnt see her for a while but we'd speak often through emails during work hours and texting. She flirts big time with me sometimes and shes also sent me quite a few 'sexy' fotos of herself.

Halloween weekend this year we bumped into each other at the same club. I saw her first and went up to her all night she was all over me I was so shocked at her change in behaviour, she text me all night telling me everytime she'd move to a new spot and id go find her and she'd be really happy to see me and would start getting all over me dirty dancing etc. Anyway, we've never hooked up or gotten physical in any way but, we've talked about it ALOT and she always compliments me, tell me im sexy all the time etc etc. So anyway after halloween night she made contact first and was asking me if my friends said anything about that nigth at the club and i asked her said anything about what? they didnt see us dancing and she asked well you know that you like girls? So anyway that convo carried on and then i was asking a lot about one of her friends and i said she was hot, she got jealous and asked me "so you like her better than me?" lol that was cute. I told her no and that I was joking around, she was nothing to me and i didnt even find her attractive and that I only had eyes for her, when it came to GIRLS. She dissapeared for a few days after that. Anyway were talking again and everything was good, I asked her why she never wants to see me 1 on 1 I mean she's canceled or made excuses soooo many times. I know you must be saying "shes not that interested" but something tells me she IS and not only that but her behaviour she's hot and cold but when shes hot DAMMNN shes HOT!! lol and it makes me think she DOES like me but is playing games.. So i asked her and she she didnt reply and ignored it. I then sent her an email telling her its bull how she can ignore me and not answer something im asking and just dissapear hoping i'll forget about it etc act like its nothing but I wasnt going to do it this time etc basically i just told her I didnt like how she behaves in that sense and how would she feel if she was in my shoes and i was doing it to her and not to take it the wrong way but I was just trying to express myself and that if I didnt care about her I wouldnt give damn about how she is and acts. So i told her she knew I was waiting for an answer to my question and I wasnt going to chase her and that if she never spoke to me again then thats cool.

So whats her problem? Why does she avoid seeing me one on one? In groups shes completely fine and she tell me to go out when shes out (but always in groups her with her friends, me with mine) but i never get the chance. I just dont understand her behaviour, is she playing games? will she EVER give me a chance?