Capricorn woman with a Capricorn man

I am a capricorn woman somewhat involved with a capricorn man. I tend to go back and forth about him in my mind but always what happens after this long battle in my mind I feel in my heart almost as if someone pressed the reset button and I realize just how much I truly care about him. I am always challenging him and putting him to the test to the point of he starts to go into competition with me. I have more social ties than him and view that as more freedom. I feel he is a bit intimidated by this especially because he turns me off and can feel it when he fails to run with me verbally when handling a crowd. We have had many disagreements but bottomline of our relationship we seem to be challenging each others weaknesses to grow stronger and in a strong silent way are extremely supportive of one another. But I must say, I am usually the one doing the seducing cause I like the spotlight and its always extremely fun cause with him he doesnt always show it right away but I know he is paying attention to my every move and when we finally get close he tells me just how much he adored watching me. Me like=)