Capricorn woman affair with a Virgo man

I am a Capricorn woman and I am stuck on a Virgo man. We were only together for about two months but I fell fast and hard. He ended things between us, saying he was not ready for a serious relationship. A week later he was back with his ex, who is three months pregnant with another mans baby.

Thing is, he and I still text or call each other every day he works, as he is cheating on her with me. This is not an act I would normally condone but I am in love with him. I've heard Virgo men are honest and trustworthy but he obviously isn't one who follows suit. I don't understand him. He keeps me in a constant state of confusion with his hot to cold to hot again attitude changes. Any insight on what is going on with him or what I can do to end what I know is wrong considering his current relationship status?

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Capricorn woman affair with a Virgo man
by: Anonymous

I, to start, am a Virgo. We are not perfect.... Perfectionist, yes!....but not perfect. There is something about you, as to why your Virgo guy friend is cheating on his GF with you and that something whatever it is, is a good quality about you that he wants to hold onto. I bet he does not condone of what you two doing is right either, but he is too "caring" of his GF to tell her the truth and lose her....he probably feels compassion for her being pregnant and (in a jaded sense) is thinking more about her than himself....

but in this situation either you or him has to end this before it gets worse or SOMEONE is going to get hurt Real bad. I only answer this because, ive been there in the same situation, except I was married to a cancer.

That's not why we ended...(I wised up before it would end like that) but needless to say....make the decision for him, he might resent you for it now, but he will greatly appreciate you in the end! Maybe to the point to where he realizes that he had a great thing and come back....without the ex.

what you should do
by: Anonymous

First off, it's true that virgos are indecisive. That's why they are often attracted to strong & wise women like capricorns. In this situation here, it doesn't matter what the hell his sign is, cheating is NOT RIGHT and it shouldn't even continue. I agree with the comment above... Make the wise the decision and cut it off with him before someone gets hurt. Love shouldn't be selfish.

Virgo woman & Cap man
by: Anonymous

I have been with my cap a very long time & was cheated on by the loyal cap as they claim.... anyway... I agree regardless of sign cheating isnt right. However, if he cared about u he would have left her for u esp not his baby. When a man wants out it doesnt matter who is involved. I adore my cap but he is the hot & cold one. It's like being with a stranger at times but i have stayed because 1 i luv him, 2 for the children, & 3 i went back to svhool. Why eat crap with another man.... My love, trust, & everything i imagined went to crap the day he cheated. But im bettering myself & focusing on me... He's changed & seriously holding on to that 1% that helps him sleep at night & i fight the thoughts & revengfulness everyday! Now i met a married cap man to an aries woman & he also has two kids. I feel awful... But wr r attracted to one another..,but both r ck about it! I dream about him all the time & truly lost faith in marriage! But i feel bad for his wife & kids just cuz mine screwed so they & my children shouldn't pay for it! I would talk straight with him if not move on!!! Plenty of Virgos out there why settle for this one?

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