Capricorn men and mistresses

What purpose do mistresses serve to Capricorn men.

It seems that they chose quite prudent wives and then go elsewhere to fulfill their sexual urges.

So do the mistresses tend to be more of a object to get the needs met, or do they grow emotionally attached to them. Maybe they just like variety?
Also, where does the wife fit into all of this.

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caps oppinion
by: Anonymous

well we dont mean to pic prudent women as lovers. We really just want a respectable woman. A girl that looks good on paper. Im not teh cheating kind and id actually like a fun loving girl but we have small trust issues like if your overly sexual you'd cheat on us. we put ourselves ina situation were ewe fall in love with there personality but starve sexually. Ive yet to cheat but ive been on teh brink MANY times

Write please respond
by: Anonymous

My situation is being married and wanting to cheat with a married Capricorn. We have a friendship & I have told him I would possibly be interested in more - he said he had never gone down that path, being married - so how do I get this guy to know that I also want to be discreet & he can trust me & I don't want to break up his or my home. This is all truth. I just want to have say, 4-5 times a year extrememly hot sex with this wonderful, extremely manly man. I would love to sit back and let him take control. I want him responsible for my orgasms and that is really it. We have a lot in common & I KNOW we would have the hottest sex imaginable. All he'd have to do it look at me and I would get hot allover. Everyone says this will take time and he will have to trust me. Is there any chance. After I told him my IFS and possible interest he said he was very flattered and it was not me it was him that was the issue BUT we have not stopped talking. If he was that offended, seems he would ignore me or be rude but he is anything but. I still slip and tell him how attractive he is every now & then. He does not comment. Any hope for landing this beauty or is he the one that got away. I don't want anyone else - only he will do. He has my body now . . . I belong to him - he just needs to claim it.

Caps response
by: Anonymous

he wasnt offended and really was flattered by your interest. caps like the praise and he probably felt coveted. we also dont like conflict so him not stopping talking to you is like the pacification women use with the "lets be friends" line. I will say this, you wanting him to make the move is going to be the hard thing. Caps are thinkers and our most notable strengths are will power, self control and patience. waiting on him it may never happen. your gonna have to be the aggressor if you want it to happen. as far as it being discrete, thats more difficult for the cap than it seems. Idk about this particular guys morals but the closest for gotten to cheating as making out with a girl and was drunk. I was only able to be quiet about that for a month. I doubt he'd rat you out if you did sleep with him cause we arent vindictive people but his relationship may be over

capricorn girlfriend
by: Anonymous

A capricorn man is very loyal.They rather have a relationship then a sleep partner..They often test your abilities to see if they can trust you rather you be a wife or a girlfriend.They are not big cheaters so if he is in a relationship with you, his relationship else where may be over or about to.Sex is usually the last thing on there minds..because they feel they can always get it.There work acholics Money!! and power mean a lot to them.They only will spoil you and buy for you if in a relationship with them.why? they love you and there emotional people. So when you get a capricorn guy and a friend or lover you got someone special and dependable in your life

Could he like me?
by: Anonymous

I recently approached a Cap with the intent to get to know him, but I'm very, no extremely attracted to him. However I come with my own complications and so does he, but we recently started having sexual encounters but no sex after a few months of getting to know one another. We've spoken of being friends with benefits.
I feel myself starting to like him and i'm concerned that if we do sleep together that he will no longer have "interest" in me. When we are in each others company he often ask me to be close, lay with him, on him. I guess i'm not sure if he likes me. How can I tell if he likes me likes me or just wants to keep it friendly with benefits?

Caps response again
by: Anonymous

he likes you or wouldn't even entertain you sexually. the fact that you guys discussed only being friends with benefits is a the timidness that we have about us, especially if it was his idea and your usually the one to stoop short of going all the way. if you gusy sleep together hes gonna feel as if your his girl and i doubt seriously, if you guys have had sexual contact multiple times, that he is taking any other female seriously :) go for it

question
by: Anonymous

Im a taurus girl and ive known this capricorn guy for almost 3 years and well a year ago we started kissing and well now were having sexual intercourse but no sex yet but were low key cause our moms are friends ..and another problem is he has a girlfriend and hes been with her for 5 years she wanted to get married with him but he told her he doesn want to even though hes older brother resently got married to his 4 year relationship girl.and im single and i told him i like that we have our thing low key but i wanted to later on be in a relationship with someone because he is already in one ... he told me if i wanted to we could be low key even though i would have someone else but i never knew what could happen...i told him if i was in a relationship it would be to be commited to just one person...and he said oh i know what u mean..but i dont know what to do...help i would like to be in a relationship with him

hes interested
by: answer to question

This is classic cap shit lol. We are very, for lack of a better term, simple when it comes to love. Being broad and coy only throws us of. When you said "id wanna be commited to one" he assumed you meant he was still only considered sideline guy. If you want him, you have to be the agressors cause in love, caps would rather follow to avoid the wrong steps made. He wont say he wants a relationship with you until he's either asked or you say it first but if hes willing to cheat, he can be swayed. You just have to make the move.

Affair with a Cap
by: Anonymous

So I had a affair with a married Cap and I'm married also. It was the most passionate thing I have ever had. But after 4 months it ended. It was for the best because neither of us were going to leave our spouses at that time. I have to admit I would still want to be with him. But he's not having it, we have talked many times about the affair and that we have to stop because its wrong and not because we don't want/love each other. Yes we used the word love in this affair. While its been almost 2 yrs since we've been together. And nearly 8 months since we have even spoke. Some my question is has he forgotten about me? I know Caps have very strong wills....will he just never speak to me again? Do I have to be the one to speak 1st? I like this man as person and wished we could had stayed friends. But it seems that he doesn't want any kind of relationship.....not even friendship.

Affair answer
by: Same cap

This is a rare one but I've almost been there. In this case, he let sex confuse him. Caps have a very shallow streak when it comes to good sex and physical attraction and we will tie our hearts to our dicks. Fact is he probably felt there was a connection because the sex was good and when you guys stopped there's a strong chance he lost sight of the chemistry. Not to say hes forgotton you but without the sex, he's thinking clearer about who he's commited to. Yes caps are strong willed but we are also suckers for our softer emotions and easily manipulatd when attatched. If you reach out he will answer but the best you can hope for would probably be friendship cause breaking up a happy home with a cap is next to impossible.

Affair answer
by: Anonymous

One more question, Cap...when the affair started he stated he had not been sexually active with his wife for 2 yrs. And like I said before we have discussed the affair and how connected we felt towards each other. After the affair I said to him....at least one good thing came out of it....(that he was now having relations with his wife now) which he said no, not at all. So my question is.....is this a line of bull crap? How can any man let alone a cap man go so long without sex? Are you guys will power really that strong?? I know that it's over, but was I such a fool to believe that and that he ever really cared for me?

affair answer
by: Same cap

Lol true story. I had a fiance ... we were together for 2 years ... we never made it to marrage and she escaped the relationship with her virginity intact and I never cheated. Yes. If we love someone we will wait a life time to get what we want from them. I don't know him personally but being a guy that was used to having sex and could get it from just about any girl that cought my attention and having to wait 2 years without it, its possible for us to be that patient. Will power is being flatery to it tho. In my case it was obsession and stuborness. His case could be the same if he refuses to leave her even tho he is unsatisfied. He made a commitment and he may just refuse to be the one to break it and is waiting for her to be the one to say they're done

Answer to Affair
by: Anonymous

Same Cap....I could talk with you for hours!! LOL!!! I'm a Aquarius woman married to a Cap and I had an affair with a Cap!!! How F'd up I'm I?!?! Married to one and still can't figure them out!! People always wonder if you can be in love with 2 people at the same time.....well I'm here to tell you....you can!! The Caps are so much alike, but also so different . I think I just want to know he hasn't forgotten about me. But with so much time that gone by I think he'll never contact me again. If I do ever run into him should I just ignore him (to get his attention?) Or should I tough him? (I could just hold his hand) and he would get excited. When we were together we were out of control.....

Affair answer
by: Anonymous

Same Cap....I could talk with you for hours!! LOL!!! I'm a Aquarius woman married to a Cap and I had an affair with a Cap!!! How F'd up I'm I?!?! Married to one and still can't figure them out!! People always wonder if you can be in love with 2 people at the same time.....well I'm here to tell you....you can!! The Caps are so much alike, but also so different . I think I just want to know he hasn't forgotten about me. But with so much time that gone by I think he'll never contact me again. If I do ever run into him should I just ignore him (to get his attention?) Or should I tough him? (I could just hold his hand) and he would get excited. When we were together we were out of control.....

HAHAHA Ironic
by: Same Cap

yo no lie i love Aquarius women and most of my best female friends are Aquarius girls lol As far as from my expierence, the deeper we feel the more inanhibited we get but your better of instigating anyway. Caps are submissive until we know its a sure thing so if you grab his hand and he is still interested hes not gonna fight it. He's likely to get caught up in teh moment and not even realize ist happening ... I know. I called a chick i had only known for 3 days "bae" infront of ALL my boys without noticing it because we had basically been making out for 48 hour straight before that lol Most caps are personality variants but we are very predictable after so long. you met one you met em all as far as paterns go lol

Hahaha ironic
by: Anonymous

Well I got my answer, I emailed the Cap and this what I got back (Considering what has happened in the past (which I take the blame for), I don't believe it's best for us to have contact with one another. It's not fair to ourselves or to our families.) So I guess no friendship here. I really just wanted to be friends. But is seems he hates me.

nooooo
by: Same cap

Not at all! Trust me, we don't do hate lol we just have bad guilt trips. Hes being honest, he feels bad for creeping in the first place its not your fault he just isn't happy with what he allowed to transpire. We aren't ones to project fault cause we are egocentric people. He basically isn't even considering how you feel about it and is only project his morals onto you by saying after sex friendship isn't wise cause he doesn't trust the 2 of you together anymore. He really just don't think friendship is wise after how far y'all have gone and is trying to spare himself the risk of it happening again cause most of us are delusional enough to think if we had sex once it can/will happen again.

Noooo
by: Anonymous

Thank you, same Cap!! You have really made me understand this person more. And I'm feeling so much better. I can let go now. Because I know there is no hate on my part or his. I didn't answer back to he response.....I feel it's best just to leave it at what he said. Thank again!!

scorpio woman cap man
by: Anonymous

Okay I'm a scorpio woman and met a capricorn man at work we really were mean to eachother in the beginning then one day kissed out of the blue I was invovled with someone and so was he and he just kept on and kept on trying to talk to me and after being hurt by my boyfriend and the cap pursuing me for months one day it just happened and it went on for two years n we worked with eachother everyday almost like we were boboyfriend and girlfriend but he was on and off with someone as much as I was I wanted to be with him but he just never took me seriously finally I pushed him away and he came back to me and now he had a new girlfriend and the process started all over again as of right now I left him alone because he told me he's never gonna leave his girlfriend deal with it so I said bye ...not a day goes by I don't think of him n I wonder did he really ever care...

Same Cap
by: Anonymous

that's an interesting one ... Cant say it doesn't seem familiar. HE seems to have been a bit more on the alternate side of things cause most caps with a mistress will do everything they can to avoid mentioning there real gf to the other girl even if it means lying. if he gave you that kind of choice to make id have to say he was only around for physical attraction. Id hate to say it but he would have dated you if was single before you guys started seeing each other but sense he didn't need to at first you were just a side girl and he categorized you as such. I'm sorry

scorp and cap agian
by: Anonymous

Okay I left something out he would never wanna talk about his gf n told me shut up if I was in love with her would I b doin what I was doin but me a scorpio woman saw right thru that like yo ur just stringin me along but he would get mad if I talked to other men as I would get mad if he would talk to other females just my man n his girl was ok call us crazy we were I was in love with him tho n would b wit him o moved to flordia n I feel outta site outta mind he called me for the first few weeks n jus drifted it wass really only about sex I just think if I was there he would still try and kick it to me even if he felt he was doin somthin wrong he would answer to me I just wish he would b honest n jus admit he loves me n wonder y he wouldn't b wit me when we would.def be good for eachother

Same Cap
by: Anonymous

Generally Scorpios and Capricorns are harmonious(water/and earth) and you seem to understand how a caps head works. I guess its the fact that he's taken. We do have problems breaking pre-aranged commitments. We don't like to be the ones to do the dumping so your more than likely right and he was more blunt than i'm used to a cap being by saying 100% what was wrong "I'm not breaking up with HER"

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