Cant get over a Sagittarius man

by lea
(england)

I'm an Aries girl who dated a Sagittarius man, they are jealous, insecure and paranoid. however i still love him, he ended it for no apparent reason and told me he misses me. 2 years later and he still keeps in contact with me but wont talk to me often. he will randomly pop out of nowhere, he once came to my house and pushed me to the wall, whilst kissing my neck and rubbing my arse but i didn't give into temptation (we haven't sexed in a year). why wont he leave me alone for good??? and will i ever get him back and how???

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same here
by: JasonABG

i had a sag lover and he broke up with me out of the blue, just when i was falling head over heels. i was devastated and he did the same to me as urs did to you. he kept popping out of nowhere saying he missed me, but than when he had the chance he never took it! take my advise, focus on ur life...i have sags in my family and they are all the same...if they cant get out of they're freaking own world, let them be than! they will end up alone like most sags i know.... be a strong Aries girl!!!!

xxx from an Aries brother :-)

the sag
by: Anonymous

yes same here disappears comes back n keeps asking if ive met anyone.very insecure n think tey are prone to jealousy

sag
by: crab girl

Yes they are jealous, insecure and in spite of having many friends very lonely.Super manipulators and very selfish-this is inside story.But outside they project a totally different image like honest,fights for every ones right,just,very sweet social(true)not at all jealous.I never wanted a relationship.So he stayed on as a friend and kept on trying to push the boundaries of our friendship.When i teased him about his girlfriends he wanted me to feel jealous(he even told so)He wanted me to miss him.to all these my answer was 'NO'So one day he pretended to be irritated with me over a very silly issue(his bad temper)and kept the phone and never called back.By then i had started considering him a good friend so i got upset and texted him that i missed him and wanted to talk and that i was sorry etc.but he not only replied but switched off..So i left him for a while.he ignored all my messages and since i don't like uncertainties I texted him asking if we were still friends and that i was ready for both yes and no-hoping to make it easy for him to end But NO>>>he answered with 'YES"(he was on duty then and generally never texts during those times) Luckily for me we don't have a common language.So he gets frustrated and keeps away from me...Thank God..Sag men are not even good 'friend' material-Ladies pls don't waste you time and energy on them unless u just want sex without any emotions...
This was my rs of my first experience with a sag in 34 ys of life and i'm sure this is going to be the last as well..Good luck ladies...

Sag Men
by: Anonymous

So glad to see that it wasn't just me and other girls had problems with Sag men. I love how they all want freedom. I am a Gemini and in the beginning he was crazy for me. Told me he wanted to marry me after the first month being together. Then he complained if I hung out with friends. When I started to let him manipulate me, I would call me needy and say I needed my own life!! What?!! He was the one that kept me from all my friends. He broke up with me after a year because his friends convinced him we were bad together. Sick. he actually listened to his friends over his heart. Now he keeps telling me he just needs space and breathing room..whatever

Wow sounds like me
by: Anonymous

I am an aries who has a child by a sag man and also living with him. Things have not been perfect but I was actually starting to really love him then all of a sudden nothing. total shut down! He pays all the bills but sleeps on the couch. I saw a psychic and she said someone has a spell on him. But after reading your story I just feel like thats how they are. I just wish I would have never moved in with him...

RESPONDING TO DA CHIC 4M ENGLAND
by: LEO GIRL

I'VE DEALT WITH A SAG MAN BEFORE&MY STORY IS VERY SIMILIAR TO YOURS ANYHOW HE WILL CONTINUE TO COME IN&OUT OF UR LIFE AS IF NOTHING EVER HAPPENED BUT HE WILL NOT COME BACK TO STAY THEY ARE VERY BIPOLAR&ITS SAD BC THEY REALLY CAN'T HELP IT.I WILL NEVER DATE A SAG AGAIN THEY DON'T GIVE YOU NO REASON THEY WILL JUST WALK OUT OF UR LIFE FOR NOTHING&LEAVE YOU WONDERING IF YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG BUT IT'S NOT YOU AT ALL ITS THEM....GOOD LUCK HUN:)

My Sag Man
by: Taurus Girl

Goes without saying... i can fully identify with all of u ladies comments... in the beginning i was aloof,indifferent if anything. he was the one who persued me (i think they take thrill in the chase) telling me that he wants to get married, how when how would want to merge our family together(our kids)so me being cautious but fair felt no reason to see how far his intentions go..as soon as he had me where he wanted me... it was a totally role refersal... he said how his scared of commitment altho i'm the best girl his ever had, he said he has no insecurities but then he will argue about who calls my mobile phone,where i've been etc. he randomly turned up at my house late one nite pinned me against the wall and kissed me with such intensity then he left.
but i'm am at a loss because he blows hot and cold.. which makes me insecure because he constantly changes tactics...and i think its that right there : the word tactics = games and i cannot stand someone playing games. i dont want to leave him but i fear the longer i stay with him the more he will reduce me 2 a sobbering pile of mush when its over.

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