Cancer man and Cancer woman

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My current sweetheart is a Cancer like myself. Our birthdays are side by side (mines July 8th ; her 9th). This made the attraction even better!!! I really want things to work for us. She’s amazing and understands me on every level. This is a first for me. She is definitely a sensitive and also jealous girl. At times itcan be very annoying but it lets me know she loves me and wants me all to herself.

We're so perfect that it scares me! We need a little more time in to determine what’s really what. Until then, I LOVE U JESS! x.

You might think that a couple who share astrological signs are a perfect match, but my own experience suggests otherwise.

In my first experience of true love, I thought I had really met my soul mate, a Cancer like myself, both of us born in the month of July. At first our similarities were a source of empathy and closeness.

Being Cancers, we were both sensitive and loyal. But we were also both prone to extremes of mood and overly sensitive at times. Even our intrinsic sense of devotion came back to haunt us because we were both a little paranoid about being the only person in the other's life. In other words, this same loyalty that seemed like such a good thing became a source of resentment if either one of us felt betrayed in any way.

Actually, I think if we had both been a little more mature we might have overcome the problems of sharing an astrological sign, and we might have been able to become true soul mates. I know that I have never met another person I felt understood me better, and vice versa.

I'm also a female born under the sign of Cancer who, through coincidence or kismet, first fell in love with a fellow Cancer-sign boyfriend. Our similarities are initially what drew us together. The moment we met it seemed like we spoke the same language, even though we came from very different backgrounds and personal experiences.

I felt like I was the luckiest person, to have found my soulmate while still young, just turning twenty. It helped that he was gorgeous, with soulful brown, bottomless eyes. However, the similarities that drew us together ended up being the sore spots in our relationship. We didn't have an opposite, outgoing mate to balance out our shared moodiness and introspection.

Falling in love with the silent type gets pretty quiet. What seemed like sincerity and sensitivity turned into sulkiness and over-sensitivity. Devotion and loyalty turned into suspicion over imagined betrayal. Still, I have never met another person who seemed so much my twin. Perhaps part of it was that this was a first love for each of us. I know I often wish it could have worked out, but at the time it seemed like we were lucky to get out of the relationship alive and with our hearts trampled, but still beating.

Me and my current ex of over seven years, were so in synch with eachother, to the point that it was scary. Never an argument, never a fight.Always in my corner as I was for him. And to this day, we are still there for each other no matter what. I wish that this relationship could have worked as he does too. He still calls me and we see each other often. But it's hard for me to be "just his friend", after being involved for that length of time. I'm still in love with him.

I recently got back into the dating scene. The guy thatI talk to his personality is totally opposite of mine Aries! But he seems to be insensitive where I am sensitive. All in all, Mr. Aries is a nice guy and I like him a lot, but I don't think that this relationship will work out.

I married my Cancer twin man. Same birthday. And yes it seemed likewe spoke the same language and just got each other. What seemed to pull usapart, eventually, was how young we were when we got married, and probably ourother influencing signs.

He has Scorpio rising while I have Sagittarius rising.I have a strong need to socialize, be a part of a community, have myindependence and not be held down. He is much more comfortable living a quiet,introspective life, branching out every now and then, but quickly retreatingback home for safety.

He tends to get jealous when I want to branch out and getto know other people, or stay out doing artistic work with people (mainly ofthe opposite sex). I am a performing artist in the community and I try tonetwork with people and be apart of performances, as well as stretch myabilities. He has a very hard time with this. In the end, I felt held back andhe felt betrayed by my need to branch out past our home environment.

I think westill have a great connection, through our friendship, but together as acouple, it is very unhealthy for both of us. I am currently interested in a guywho is astrologically supposed to be a big "NO NO" for my sign, but we seem tohave great chemistry. We have some interests in common. I do notice, howeverthe lack of immediate conversational connection that I shared with my Cancerman. Who knows what will happen eventually there, but I am curious about thechemistry.

I am a Cancer woman and the guy I'm with is a Cancer man. From the start we had this crazy sexual chemistry that I have never ever experienced in my life.

we've been dating for 3 months now and me being a Cancer, I am extremelyemotional and very moody - I think he is too, but he deals (or doesn't deal) bysmoking a lot of weed.

Anyway, I haven't had sex with him.. and although we're crazy about each other,I don't plan on having sex with him until we're married (trust me, this is verydifficult). BUT because he is a Cancer, he's looking for a girl that he can truly, trulytrust.

I think a reason that adds to him liking me MORE is because he really feelslike he can trust me - he knows that if I'm not sleeping with him because of mymorals, he can trust me to not sleep around after we're married.

once you have a Cancer man's trust - he is putty in your hand.. and he isabsolutely amazing. he always wants to please me, and though we have not had intercourse, he hasgone down on me and I've gone down on him and the experience is out of thisworld.

we argue, mostly because of my insecurity, but he's SO understanding and WANTSto always understand where I'm coming from as long as I spell it out and makeit very clear to him.. and we just end up stronger in the end.

I truly think that I have found my soulmate!

Im a Cancer man July 14 thank you & I love these stories. girlsalways have said that im loving & caring & eager to please them. but watch outa lot of girls try to take advantage of a Cancer man. because we do love easily &we do believe in love at 1st site. my 1st Cancer girl was so amazing. we had avibe dat cud not be moved her name was Kathy & she was like my angel. I meanOmg I love her inside & out. but I hate being a Cancer!!!!!!!! a young one atthat. I give everybody a fair chance. that nurturing crap I read bout on sitesis so true. I mean dam. I love holding & kissing on girls. they tell me Aaronoooo I've never had someone like you dat cares for me like you do. I love youboo. & there I am like a big teddy gram I love you too baby.& im very veryserious when those words come out my mouth. my foreplay is off the meter. Ihug, touch, kiss, rub, bite, hold, & lick on all parts of the body. once a girl wentdown on me & I started sucking on her finger while she sucked my dick. being a Cancer is fun though but you have to watch yourself ppl don'tknow your thoughts Cancer. you love because you know its right & you want to beloved so u give it.

I'm a Cancer my x also a Cancer. we had a great need of likeness inthe beginning. I knew him well as he knew me. a mirror imagine. but when themarriage began to sour the inner hurt of Cancer's began to strike. hurting oneanother is liking hurting yourself. the wall of protection holds up as well asthe shell goes into hiding. Being so alike its like the war of the roses. orshould I say the war of two Cancers...

I am a Cancer, and so is the guy I like. They try to stereotype us as being emotional, and sensitive, and neither one of use are like that. We have a lot of things in common, and I find the closest to it is the fact we don't get so emotionally attached, we just have a likeness to one another that makes the other happy. We just like being together, it's as simple as it seems. We're also both social, more him than me, but I don't find that just because you're born under a month and day, and they give you a sign of Cancer, that you fall under that type of person. Sometimes you believe it, and that's what makes you that way, more than you're actually that way.

im a Cancer 24 yr old girl, I met Joshua Cancer 24 yr old guy about 7 years ago, didn't see him again till June 2 ,2010. We have the same exact birthday 7-21-85. When I first met him he was very quiet, and did not try to anything with me but juts maybe a what's up on a myspace message once, now he found me on facebook and has been trying to hangout. One thing though, he now has a kid with his ex of ten years. I do not know what to do because knowing myself I will fall in love quickly just by knowing kind of how he is, I really like him. What will be the best way to go about things as far as making him feel comfortable about me being in his kids life and vice versa. Also, how do I prepare myself to not ever , I mean ever get jealous of his pre existing family. I ask because in my dreams, I always pictured being the first to have his kid. It is not the case now with the person im really looking into as a potential mate. Scared , I am! Please say anything. Thank you!

I'm a Cancer female, having spent fourteen years in a Cancer-on-Cancer relationship.

True, it is nice finding that homebody like you, but boy, it is a DOUBLE-EDGED SWORD, and I am lucky we both got out of it alive or not in prison for life.

Cancers know the heights of joy and bliss, but they also know very well the depths of resentment and rage...Both male and female Cancers know this well.

Some Cancers, who were not raised with enough love & security, can be prone to sociopath personality disorder, in a personal opinion. This is not medical fact, but I speak from experience that we both have gone off the deep end, and many Cancers push people away because we are so hard to understand, mood wise. We don't even understand them, those awful moods.

But yes, there is a sensuality about us that I love.

So that's good, but we are far too possessive also.

As parents we hover over our children, and we also do that with our significant others far too often.

I'd say stick with Pisces...Taurus....maybe Leo????

My Cancerian man, Leo arising and me, Taurus arising, have been seeing each other 4 years now, our relationship has had many downs rather than ups, we are so good when were together at the same time we resent each other when we spend time with friends. Trust plays a big part for Cancerian as you might know, male or female He on the other hand knows I will always be there whatever he does.. I don't think it would be the same with the shoe on the other foot. Male and female Cancerian are so different, we just have the same insecurities, emotions, and love for everyone around us and those we are intimate with that makes us so compelled to one another. We love unconditionally, which make us prone to pain that we never forget, but always forgive.

I am dating a Cancer man, am a Cancer girl. We're both born on 4th July. The good is sooo good. The bad is sooo bad. I am in a dilemma. I love him so so so much. Too similar to be compatible

I am a Cancer female born on June 28th and the Cancer male I have met is born on July 2nd. When we first met it was like we had known each other for as long as I could imagine like soul mates. We knew what each other was thinking it was amazing. But I have noticed he has extream mood swings. If I don't answer his calls he freaks out and get upset and say stuff like I guess you are not talking to me anymore and don't like me no more so I am not going to text or call you anymore. Then he tells me he is going to erase my number and never call but the next day he is back to his noraml wonderful self and gives me a call. His moods are like a light switch and when he goes to work the stress he is under makes him want to call me and when I don't answer he gets upset. He is a very hard working and stable guy and we click so well..But he is unlike any man I have ever known and he makes me so mad at him I wanna scream and then he makes me so happy I feel wonderful. I told him I don't want to rush anything and what I meant is I did not want to sleep with him to fast and no way that I worded did he 100% understand the way I was wording it. The once I just put it the way it was he said we are too different and I am not affectionate enough I was too distant and that hurt because I am very loving and kind and affectionate. But I just don't wanna just right in there like we have been together for months on the 2nd date. How can you find common ground to make something work out when you just don't know how to understand such an emotional man?

Recently I fell in love with a Cancer girl. As a Cancer guy, I know that the loyal, jealous, etc etc stuffs are pretty true. And the compatibility table works too, all my ex's are either Scorpio or taurus, all 5 points in all aspect with Cancer people.

Hope this Cancer girl and I will get together and get along well.. :)

I am a Cancer woman, once involved with a Cancer man. We worked together for a couple months when a co worker told me that he was into me but didn't know how to approach me because of our age difference I was 19 at the time and he was 29. When went on one date and he kissed me and it was unlike anything I ever felt before in my life. To feel this way about a man practically a stranger to me made me nervous so for almost two years I pushed him away... but we remained friends. Then he hit 32 and decided he was ready to get married, we had recently reconnected one month before he proposed. He called me everyday up until the wedding, we talked on the phone for hours, almost had sex two weeks before the wedding. All the while I was waiting for him to tell me that he'd called the wedding off... only to find out afterwards that he was waiting for me to say that. He didn't want to call it off with her if I didn't want to be with him. Anywho, we don't speak anymore. He still l oves me, and I love him too much to be caught up in a messy love triangle. So when he told me his wife was pregnant I told him it was time we go our separate ways.

Im a Cancer Female and was dating a Cancer Male for the first time for 6 months. Everything was good. We would talk and laugh for hours about everything. Intimacy was great. Sometimes we would just cuddle and watch television (us being homebodies). We are both very busy and work a lot. I was in one of my moods and went of the deep in because he didn't respond to me in a timely manner. I said some hurtful things that I wish I can take back because he has not spoken to me since and hung up on me twice (its been two weeks). I put my foot in my mouth for real because I lost my Buddy. These darn mood swings!

we met on-line, he advertised himself as ready to settle down and would be waiting by the door. I replied with humorous comments and very interested physically. he replied back and wanted to know how I look. I sent him a picture and he says he was blown away (how cute, really got me there)we continue to probe and probe, asking endless questions, disecting every word, we imagine and visualize to the point of taking our minds and souls to another world. we have a little over a year, we have not met, we talked for a couple of months but it was way too much for me to take it to that level where his voice and commands rule my mind and heart. I am stuck in our fantasy world of romantic poetry, ever so lightly teasing ourselves with single words that entice the imagination. three to four times between us, we have spilled our perverted, kinky, sexual desires. woe! we laugh our ass's off with voulnerable nervousness. it seems like we both take our time-out just to catch our breathe, collect ourselves and focus on the mystery. we both admit to having an unbreakable emotional bond. he is on my mind night and day, he rules my mind, as he puts it I saturate his thoughts of me all day even in his sleep. but we have nothing in common, his ways are not close to mine. there would be total conflict! maybe we will be ready next year...

I am a Cancer man and I have met a Cancer woman a few months ago and I feel I've met the love of my life and so she says.

A problem in the whole relationship is my work because I am a seaman and I travel 4 months at a time and then I come back. She says she will stand up will wait for me but I try to call her as frequently as I can to make her feel less lonely and I try not to sound needy and moody but supportive and stable.

The thing is that I've read in everybody else's posts about everything being too ideal and dreamy and too much devotion and loyalty and then this becoming our nightmare. I want to overcome this thing that might be around so please someone tell exactly which were the reasons that made such a relationship beyond reality slip away from each other's arms. I hope other people take advice from these past experiences and come closer to the fruition of the relationship they dreamt of ! Thank you everyone !

Im a Cancer lady involved with a Cancer guy.i never felt like this in a long time.we have the same interests.its so magical words cant describe it.but its troublesome at times.we got moods.a little misunderstand to him its a big deal and tries to take revenge on me by things very close to me.i try to be patient but I want to leave him but I understand he is very sensitive.im afraid he is over him but I know he still loves me by the looks he gives me

This..... Is rediculious.... Overly compatible???? Oh how I have learned that Cancer woman are "cake eaters" they want there cake and eat it too. they want everything... Everything... You give it to them and then one day.... Poof! They are done. Then they blame it on sites like this and blame us for where they are in life. Very easily manipulated... Cancer women.... Take it from a Cancer male who would do anything for his partner... Chill out and let go of the fear... Before us... You were begging to find guys like us. Then you get rid of them. Fear can be overcome. And I can tell... a lot of you Cancer women miss that guy now and you are now stuck with someone more selfish then some of you acted back then. And you think about him at night still. Stop making excuses and start showing results.

All the best

I am a Cancer woman married to a Cancer man. We were born 3 weeks apart. Our relationship is fantastic on every level. We can communicate and understand without having to talk...as corny as that sounds. I lean slightly towards being an introvert and him slightly towards being an extravert. We balance each other well. He gently encourages me into to situations by being supportive at my side and letting me ease in at my own pace. There is so much I could say about how great it is to have a mate who understands me to my very core.

Im a Cancer woman july 14th my best friend is a Cancer july 3ed. We have ben good friends for awhile. When my ex and I split up he was right there. He was friends with my ex. For 20 years or so. But he stoped being friends with him. As he puts it he picked me over him. Im in love with him very much!! But he on the other hand tells me he just cares for me. But hear is the thing he acts like he like me way more than that. We kiss all the time we hold hands. We hang out alot. We talk every day. my daughter tells me she loves him and I know he loves her. He tells me that he and I think diffrent about love. I want to be with him and we fight abbott this a lot. Because I know in my heart he loves me but he is a Cancer guy it takes time for him to trust. I truly try and give him space and time but I love him so much and want to be with him some days this is hard. I need help with this how do I earn his heart and not make him feel like im trying to take it? He is the sexist most amazing man. I have never felt this strong about a guy so fast. if anyone can help please do.

I am a Cancer girl and I have known this Cancer boy for about 4 years with a 2-3 year gap of actually forgetting about him. At first, when we met each other I knew I would fall very hard for this guy, and I felt in his eyes that he felt the same way for me. I knew he liked me, but maybe I've been too pushy and he pulled away. I just overdid it. And I am sorry for that. I can talk for years about us. Several months ago we met again (suprisingly on a nearby mountain) and I saw the awkwardness in his eyes again (saying 'Oh, I still like you, there's still something , but I won't show it, and will keep living my life as before'). I offered to him several weeks later to go together. We went, and my feelings awoke again. poor me :) He's really insecure and is still pulling away, alsthough I see him how sometimes he's abandoning his 'protective den' and reaching cautiously towards me. So, as I said it's been months (3-4) and things go painfully slowly. Last time I went to h is place and stayed there for several hours and when I left, he walked me to the door and the 'goodbye' look in his eyes was the most heart-warming and ice-metling I've ever seen for these 4 years I knew him. Then I knew - he's hooked, but is too proud to admit it by showing actual interest. During these 4 months we met about 4 times, so it's normal for things to be slow, but he rejects all my propositions. It's weird, but he's obviously very careful, yet interested in me. He was the first to call me in New Year's Eve, when actually he calls/chats with me very very rarely. He cares... I know, But I have to have lots of patience. And I will have it, because I truly love him, understand him and he's the sweetest person I've ever met. I saw him in one rare mood - calm, a little down, maybe even secretly sensitive (that last time I talked about), talking quietly... gosh, I wanted to hug him and stay like that for hours. He really evokes such feelings in me. I know it may be a lost cause (because I'll be leaving the country in 8 months) and I may get even deeper in my (and his) feelings and both end up hurt, but I can't admit defeat. I want to know I gave it a second chance (after the first time I made some mistakes). Maybe he would want to come with me :)

Im a Cancer guy,falling in love deeply with this Cancer woman,I don't know how to describe,but this is the women Ive been looking for my entire life,we laugh all the time,and I swear,I die for her,If there's a person I would give my life entirely too,then it would be her,my mom,and god.

The problem is,she's in a relationship with a guy for 3 years,and love that guys so much that she's hard to let him go,shes's having problem with the other guy,because she thinks the guy isnt loving her enough,and now,her parents are forcing her to marry another guy..

Im really confused, I want her so much, I do anything for her, right now,me and her are friends, Im trying so hard to never let her know how badly I love her because I don't want to be somebody that takes someone else girlfriend,and I scare of losing her..What should I do ? her parents are forcing her to marry another guy ! and right now,it seems that she probably will ! help ! I really want her ! I want to marry her and be the mother of my kids ! im 24 btw,born19 and shes the same age and born 4th.

I'm interested in a Cancer man. I myself Cancer but don't have much experience with Cancer man. I am quite sure that he is interested too but I'm not sure how to get him to be more open with me any advice?

Well I am a female now engaged with to a Cancer I am also a Cancer and our birthday are right beside one another his is on July 15 1992 mine is July 16 1993. We know that we are young, but we've been going at since freshmen year of high school. But there is always a trust problem that I have with him, I mean there wasn't anything that I found out it's just the thought of him being too perfect for me. We never argued we just cuddle all the time. I love him so much but then I act very childish and kind of looks at him as if he my dad. I listen to him I does what he says without any questioning. Don't get me wrong he's not controlling he's just so simple and I just want more from him.

I know that he loves me because he went to Texas to go to college he started and everything and the king wifey I am after I finish school I was going to move out there with him then he came back to California where we live just so I wouldn't have to travel all the way out there just to be with him. Now right then we knew that we were closer than anything and we are still going strong.

But all I have to say is that if your Cancer partner is asking for more than what you are giving emotionally she or he will feel distant towards you. But if you think your Cancer partner is hiding something from you don't try to dig it out of them because then they will feel like your suffocating them and it will cause for them to rejected you and you we cancers hate to be rejected. Let them tell you when their ready to believe me it will happen, with all the emotions we go through it will come sooner or later just be prepared on whatever the hell it is. It probley wasn't nothing at all just you being paranoid.

Yes I do have a ring and any Scorpios hoes lay a hand on my man there will be some hair pulling situations I do not play with the Scorpios with mi man because they are like witches they will make your man cheat on you no lie look it up

I am a Cancer woman in a relationship with a Cancer guy, he is 7 years younger and this is practically why I spend most of my time trying to be patient with him. I feel like I had his heart at the beginning of the relationship which was 3 years ago , but I know I made a lot of mistakes through this whole time and also this mood changes that hate, he was always there no matter what I said it was like he couldn't let me go. but now i'm realizing he is getting distant and he has changed. I love him I don't wanna loose him. is it possible to win a Cancer man's heart back?? please say something

When I was fifteen I met my 'cancer twin' - our birthdays are three days apart. Gradually we started talking and joking around with each other and I could tell there was something 'there.' Unfortunately I came on too strong and he responded by telling me he only wanted friendship. I was desperately in love with him through my teen age years but respected his decision to just be friends, although I still suspected he had feelings for me. He finally expressed this three years after me met but I got scared and backed away, not sure if I still felt the same. Off and on we remained friends for 22 years, even went to the same college and no we are closer then we ever were as kids. He truly is my soul mate and best friend and I feel like we understand each other better than any two people. We are very protective of one another and truly care about each other and will probably always wish that we could be more than friends, but the friendship is rewarding enough for me.

I'm a Cancer male with a quirky birth chart, a grid of fire and earth swirling around the water. And after a long time scuttling around, I can say with all the certainty I've ever known... I'm in love with a Cancer woman.

I've spent so long being disappointed by other people. Communities that don't stick together, men that destroy instead of protect, women that prey on others shamelessly. I'm surrounded by others, but I've felt completely alone in thought and spirit. Astrology or not, I know myself - I'm designed to stand strong shoulder to shoulder with others. Not only have I felt betrayed, I've felt like the ground I stand on has been taken away. What's a patriot without a country? What's a body without a soul? Just an empty husk.

She changed my world. She showed me the thing I felt was missing from my entire life - something worth everything to protect. She showed me who she was, behind all the smokescreens and shells. She showed me how to build hope and courage instead of clinging to it as it fails.

I look into her eyes and see something so familiar, but so different. For the first time, I don't feel threatened and challenged by someone else looking at me. She's nothing but soothing, down to the deepest parts of the self. Parts I didn't even know about. And if there's a smile curled underneath that gaze... I feel higher in the air than I have climbing any mountain, flying in any plane.

I love her moods. When they're high, she's more fun and encouraging than anything. When they're low, I can do what I was made for without fear - wrap her in my arms and wash away all doubt. I've never been able to control my own emotions as well as I can with her.

I'm still young, idealistic and utterly foolish. Bitter men and women who've accepted the sad state of the world are peering down their noses at every word I write, just waiting for it to come crashing down. People who've failed at love or never experienced it will laugh in the face of the single most important thing I have to say, but I can say it from deeper inside than I've ever gone.

I love you. Beyond your body, your mind, your soft giggle and your hard outer shell. I love you for the barest part of your soul, and I'd gladly give my life to keep you safe. You'll probably never read these words, and even if you do, will you know who it's from?... But it doesn't matter. You'll hear them from my lips soon enough.

We can discuss Cancer + Cancer logically, rationally, intellectually here... but all of those words completely miss the point. All I know is that I've found something that motivates me to be a better man than I've ever dreamed, and it comes in the form of a Lunar maiden.

Best wishes, fellow Crabs. ;)

I, myself am a cancer. I'm dating a girl who is on the gemini/cancer cusp (she's more of a cancer, mood changes and synchronization, sentimentality and clinginess, etc..) We kissed for the first time in the car going from a party (we were both high at the time, but I believe that made it better) It was just pure electrifying. the party was before the last day of school so, we really couldnt see each other much.. She constantly tells me that she misses me and I LOVE IT, it makes me feel good. I tell her the same exact thing. each time I think about her, A smile pops on my face. I believe she may be the one that I finally fall in love with... She is so much different than any other one of my exes so far; the exact opposite in fact. I can literally get high off of her scent on a bandanna that she gave me, Her voice & laugh is pure music to my ears, her touch is one of my mothers. She is amazing and it really feels like we were meant for each other.

I dated a Cancer man for a year. We never fought / argued at all in the relationship. He would keep to himself most of the time (like me as well) and would welcome any emails I sent to him but would respond immediately or a few weeks(but I didn't mind the delay, as I would do it as well). We took it slowly for first 7 months, until we decided for things to become more physical. Like one of the comments above, we were 'in sync'.

We became intimate for a while, and he would ask if I would be o.k with being intimate with him. First time touching him was overwhelming, but he helped me ease my way into it. To be honest, it felt right being intimate with him.

However we drifted apart a month ago (i personally think it was too many emails but nvm) and now haven't spoken to him since (for now its no contact rule), but still have occasional thoughts of him.

Now I am dating a Libra and I don't feel the vibe is there at all (i cant see myself becoming intimate with him at all) and can only see him as a friend.

Oh btw, he's exactly a year younger than me (June 30th!)and was a home-body.

I think I want to date another Cancer man...later..

I am a Cancer woman where as the guy I'm dating is a Cancer man. My birthday is July 22 & his is July 20 & we have a three year age difference. First meeting him, I wouldn't have known he was a Cancer because his characteristics were so different, but now that I have gotten to know him, I can see that they are very relevant. We are so much alike but at the same time so different. I am more moody where as he is more laid back. I think we understand each other more because we both understand our Zodiac signs. The relationship gets bumpy at times, but I wouldn't trade him for anyone else because I love the understanding and trust that we have.

Your sun sign is only one piece of the puzzle for compatibility. Check your natal charts and compare Rising and Moon signs and your inner planet aspects as well. Rising and Moon are extremely important!