Aries relationship long distance

by Sag

I met an aries man last september and he asked for my number. right from the start he was very pushy about sexual stuff and i was pretty hesitant about it because he was coming off way to strong and interested. a few weeks later it got to the point where i got so frustrated with his sexual comments that i told him to delete my number. a few hours later i realized it that was a little dramatic so we started talking again. we slept together after barely a month of knowing each other. i'm not sure if i was ready for it but it kind of just happened. there wasn't much effort in our relationship on his part before i slept with him so i feel like i was kind of an easy win for him. when i asked him about it afterwards though he said he actually thinks we waited too long and i shouldn't think it happened too soon. anyway, he was always nagging me to have unprotected sex with him which i didn't feel comfortable doing. so we would hang out every few weeks and have sex. we would text a lot too but it didn't seem like things were really progressing into anything more than a sexual fling. this past summer i decided to get my life together and move away for grad school. when i told him i was leaving he seemed happy for me. i definitely thought it would be the end of him once i moved but he kept texting me even though i'm 6 hours away. he says he misses me and he doesn't want to sleep with anyone else. he said the reason we never officially dated is because he didn't undertstand why i couldn't completely let myself go and trust him sexually. he said he figured i was seeing other men because i didn't want to have unsafe sex with him, which he sees as a big commitment and trust thing. but now that we've known each other for a year, and he's still coming around, i trust his feelings are real, right? wouldn't he have given up and just met someone else when i left? we were talking last week and he said he wants to make a long distance commitment with me. i trust him but he is still flaky and doesn't talk to me everyday. i'm a sag so i like to give people their space and freedom but at the same time how am i supposed to trust he is really in this for real if he just comes and goes as he pleases. then he acts like nothing is wrong. he also said he can't visit me yet because of work but eventually he will. what do you guys think? i really like him and i want to make things work but i feel i want more than he is willing to give me right now. and can i trust he's in this for real? or just sex?