Aries Dragon boosting his ego?

I am a Libra Woman who fell in love with an Aries male on sight over 14 months ago. After reading these stories, I guess I have turned him off by telling him just how I felt in a letter...he claimed he wasn't interested. However, 2 months
later at a ball, he told me he was an Aries Dragon, to which I replied I had guessed both already due to his distinguished appearance and regal nature. When I told him I was a Libra Monkey, he gulped and was too scared to turn and
look at me due to his excitement. We danced to each other all night and he asked the band to play How Sweet It Is, and sang it to me whilst he
danced...wierd! Anyway, he goes hot and cold and constantly checks me out when I am out, drinking heavily to give an excuse to walk past and smile on the way to the bar. I have txt him on several occasions telling him to just come around and be done with it, as I get so damned frustrated at his inability to communicate with me other than from a distance or when he is driving his dodge
past me. All I want is to be with him and know I could make him very happy, but he constantly resists talking to me...although I can see he is
itching to. When I go to the restaurant he works in, he often plays Gotye's song Your Heart's A Mess...his more like. I know what I want, and I refuse to give up the fight, but wish he would just come over and be done with it! I ache every time I see him or hear his name! Do you think he will ever come around? Or is he just playing games and boosting his Dragon/Aries ego?

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Back again...
by: Anonymous

the Aries Dragon who I scared
off by telling him how I felt. He told me to delete his number and the only reason I found it hard to talk to him in public was because he was ignoring me...so I get depressed at the fact that I upset him and didn't want to, and he plays the 'try real hard to show you are ignoring her whilst you are watching her from the corner of your eye" game for a few days. I was REALLY affected as haven't known such blatant rejection, but felt he really liked me, so went against my friends' advice and hung in there as I believe in him. Then one of his close friends told me not to give up as there was still hope...

Yesterday, I was pulling into my delivery spot to drop off a parcel, and his Dodge was parked in my spot! EEK! I thought it was going to be a very
uncomfortable situation, when he does a star jump in front of my car with a huge grin on his face! We talked freely fore ab out 10mins, then realized we had best get our parcels dealt with before the ferry goes! I mentioned I had
been offered to spend Christmas on a sailing boat cruise and he thought it would be a lovely thing to do. Today I bought tickets for us both and took on to him at work...at first he was a little standoffish, then when I told him it was for him, he beamed so brightly and raced out back with it like an excited little boy(:(: I love him more every day(; One thing I can say to the Aries
men...stop jumping to conclusions every time you see the Libra gal talking to another man, and feel empowered in the knowledge that you are the chosen one!

I noticed he got angry the minute he saw me talk to the ferry guy... silly boy (:

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by: Anonymous

Well, this Libra lady is surely tiring of the ignorance displayed by the Aries Dragon male. He appears to be seeing another Libra Monkey who is
still married...what could I expect? She is younger and semi-unattainable...and loves sex! I guess I will have to take back the ticket
on the sail boat for Christmas and find someone else to give it to. I feel so incredibly foolish, but would still have him if he came around. It is an addiction for sure...and we haven't had sex yet!! Like the lady several back,
my body goes spastic when I hear him or anything to do with him, and my mind goes so silly! However, when he ignores me, the depression is immense! I am not sure this great a shift of moods is good for the health. I obviously have
no chance at getting his attention back with a younger, viperous feline has a hold on his appendage.

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by: Anonymous

Okay Aries men, please be honest with me here...I am going totally freaking crazy right now!

The Aries Dragon told friends he didn't want to go on the Christmas sail trip that I gave him a ticket for. So, I tried to sell it, all
to no avail. yesterday (Xmas eve), I txt him to say it is still available if he wants to just rock up at departure time.

I didn't get an answer, then, last night, he twice ventured up to my home (out of the way), but chickened out on both occasions and left without venturing up stairs. I didn't do anything as he left, and I thought maybe he will turn up to the boat for the sail. Then, this morning prior to sailing, I txt him to
see if he is coming and to say Merry Christmas. I get a "delete my number' txt back...again!

What the 'f'? This is no less than purely sadistic mental torture!! I love him to bits and would do anything for him, and am only guilty of loving him, so can only gather he either has another lady (enough hanging around), or maybe
doesn't want to get into something he can't cope with, or is angry because I took the initiative to buy the tickets and not let him lead.

Please give your opinions real soon...desperately wanting a resolve and soooo in love with this man (:

Aries man here.
by: Anonymous

I couldn't tell you what his problem is. Another woman sounds likely. You can rule out the tickets having caused offence though. That's a pretty cool gift, and even if it wasn't no one reacts that badly to any gift! We might like to take charge and all that but we still welcome ideas and invitations which is all the ticket really was - nothing insulting about that.

Thanks!
by: Anonymous

There has been another woman pushing herself onto him (she is married, but not satisfied with just one man) and her husband is overseas. She is a sure thing for raunchy sex and was annoyed that I had asked him to go on the cruise as she had her own agenda cooking. He doesn't have to worry about her feelings, but he would mine...too easy I guess. I wish I could be so detached, but have fallen so heavily from first sight with this guy.

Thank you again aries man...really appreciate your view. (:

Addictions
by: Anonymous

Maybe we should be calling these guys Addictions...not Aries!

I know, even after being rejected by the Aries Dragon, I simply can't get him out of my mind 24/7! I got the message loud and clear when he left the bar the minute I walked in, but couldn't resist having him see just how much I thought
about him and today dropped off a pile of letters and poetry I had written for him and not passed on before. Why would I commit such suicide? Because I was so depressed I wanted to give up on life (not just from him...lots of negatives
at once), and all that stopped me was wanting to actually hear him say why he hated me so much that he couldn't be in the same room. i go crazy at the mere thought of this man, but as someone earlier pointed out, once you show feelings
they run...then others say they like to know how we feel and they are the kings of romance! I wish I had a magic wand and could just fix things forever and not have the tightrope torture, but I wouldn't be happy if I did(; Sad, but true. Of course, I would be ecstatic if he did come back and give me a fair chance, but not holding my breath...I don't think I am meant to have a real relationship and share another's life in this
life...every time I get cosy, I lose out.

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by: Anonymous

Well, the addiction has to be kicked sometime right? Today I was subjected to a public display from the said Aries, obviously to make himself
feel good, as could have just opened his door in the privacy of his home when I delivered the letters etc.and told me the reason he hated me so much when all I have ever showed him was adoration. He hadn't opened the letters or poetry, but told me to never go near his place again or he would get a restraining order, and slammed the envelope face down on the table. I left it there and just said OK. When I left, I read his reply...telling me about the restraining order threat and that I was everything he despised in a woman...'short-haired, old, ugly and shameful'!! Very flattering. I guess that is why he used to check me out everywhere I went, and did his star jump in front of me to get me to talk and show his interest. I am guessing he thinks I actually see other younger men who wave and talk to me (AS IF), and his insane jealousy has to be justified by being so callous. By being so callous, it ensures I will lose interest and he can forget about me, making his life easier. Good luck. Back to the belief that Aries are insecure, suspicious people who think everyone must be dishonest...is that because they are so dishonest to themselves, and constantly denying their feelings???? How can we do anything but feel sorry for these unhappy souls??

Back in love with the Aries Dragon...
by: libra Monkey

Oh my God! life has been so tumultuous already this year, not least having to tolerate nasty neighbours upsetting all patterns of thought and creating a very negative situation.
The Aries dragon had also been less than nice on most occasions, with a few sweet moments thrown in for good measure. I have been away for a couple of weeks and until today, thought maybe I was being silly to think he had actually liked me. However, today, after telling him how I had missed his presence whilst away, and that I wanted to be friends as we are so much alike, he actually came into the front of the restaurant for quite some time and made excuses to be out front until I left. He has NEVER spent so much time out front with me there before, and listened to the conversation I was having with the waitress. Admittedly, it was raining and no-one around, and he didn't speak, but his presence speaks volumes for this otherwise shy person.
Could it be that he is finally agreeing with me that we could be good for each other???
I live in hope and positivity and pray the universe comes through on this one(;

the trik!!
by: Aries Dragon

omg i hope i never get like the ppl in the stores i have read. i dident read all cause i dont got the patience.

now let me tell you the trik to get your aries dragon. we loooove to hunt. so give some signal you like your dragon and then when he or she talks to you, you smile and leav like you have something better to do. it's like f***ing kryptonit!

i'we been in love whit this kind of person for years. like 6 years.... i still don't know if i love him or the hunt the most.

and if he or she ask you out, say you have somthing beter to do, but you can tomorow. things like that...

aries dragon lady
by: barb libra monkey

Thanks AD lady, although it may be too late for this particular AD, as he has moved and got an internet bride(:
I won't even have to try now, as this is how I intend to treat him anyway after so much pain. He will need to come up with something original, and because I don't intend to socialise anymore, would have to contact me first. He obviously loves the hunt and can't handle the thought of captivation...unfortunately, that wears thin.

Run for the hills.
by: A libra who loathes aries men.

A aries man may be the worst partner for a libra woman; especially since they are our opposite sign. While we are emotional and caring, they are heartless and self centered and only have their own best interest at heart... As you said, you told him how you felt and then all of a sudden he wasn't interested. They only want you when THEY want you. Don't even think about doing things for him, he'll constantly take but never give. Only if you reject him and show no interest will he come flocking to you. If you read up on any aries horoscope it will say that they are actually caring people who don't know how to express themselves.... That's a bunch of b.s. They dont have any heart. If there are any aries reading this I dear you to say I'm wrong. As a libra female you only really want him because he's indifferent. He wont wake up one morning and say and do the things you want deep in your heart. He will just keep pulling you along back and forth. You have to literally become something that he will never obtain.. That's the only way to go. Also don't ever try to confront him or tell him he's wrong about anything, they will flip it around so it seems like it's you. Also they are quick to lie and its usually the dumbest thing you will ever hear. A taurus man is similiar in their demeanor, except they're not as cocky as aries men, they are 10x better liars and they are more straightforward. Please steer far from an aries. I wish I had one good thing to say about them but I do not. Last thing, even though they appear tough and nonchalant. They are pretty soft internally, so break him down a notch and then keep it moving.If you do this he will be like putty in your hand.

Trickery
by: Anonymous

Pretend you are not interested!! Aries hate to be chased they feel de-masculated. Turn on your libra cold air. Watch what he does.

Run for your life!!!!!!
by: BeenThereDoneThat

Aries Dragon are the worst.They are cheaters through and through.Never believe them because they are lairs.They will make you look mental.They will chase anything with a vagina.They are the worst husbands,that will try to control and ruin your life...They will deceive you until your dying days.They are lucky because so many women get fooled by them..They use women all the time..They never care about you unless there is something to gain by you either sexually or material wise.Like that Libra said"RUN FOR The Hills".If you don't.he will suck your soul and life being..They are never loyal to their partners.THEY ARE VAMPIRES!!!!and these vampires don't give you an immortal life..You have a dead life with them.They charm you until they get what they need and what they need is sex..Remind you of someone evil????You got it ,It's the devil himself..I think this sign sold his soul to the devil before he was born into this life,,He has no empathy..He gets supporters by running to them when they need help..He is the ultimate actor..He will never care about anyone really.His Mantra is Me,Myself and I..and forget about you..If he is married ,he is married because he needs a smokescreen for his double unsavory life..He will never love his wife or kids..This guy is evil inside so you heard it from me,a wife of an aries dragon.If you want peace of mind ,stay away from an aries dragon unless you want to be cheated on and lied to all your life with him,God Bless and God deliver us from an aries dragon..

The Aries Dragon...
by: SosoLibraHorse

Well, to be quite honest, my first love was an Aries Dragon. Astrologically, these people are at the top of the food chain - which means they like things to go there way and are stubborn as f***! I know you feel the same as yours won't come around. But I think a Aries Dragon and Libra Monkey would be a great match! But, the fact that he thinks you two already seem like a good match is probably why he is avoiding it - Aries Dragons won't do something because they think they should! But here is what I think...

Don't play off of your Libra side too much - the more you seem like a Monkey (active, busy, adventurous, witty etc.) the more he will be attracted to you. Chinese says the only sign that can trick the Dragon is the Monkey, and this is true because as a Libra Horse, I can't trick him or lie. He would be all, "You are lying" Or "You only lie when you swear." But I have a Libra Monkey friend, as yourself, and Leo Monkey friend and these Monkeys can run him off of a cliff with ease! Dragons appear to be lacking in the listening department and need more perception, but they are not stupid - the Monkey can assess the Dragon so use this observation. Also, they need to get their way, but not to have things given to them on a silver platter - meaning, make most things seem like their idea and try to be their friend well first.
That being said, I have a Libra Monkey friend and he is very cute and innocent, agreeable and considerate, whereas the Aries Dragon is very superficial and want others to be as "strong" as them, otherwise, they lose interest easy. My Aries Dragon and this Libra Monkey are good friends and talk ALL the time, but they are both dudes. Be a good listener and try to ease into what he is doing. Remeber, the month of the Dragon is Aries and both presents these traits in each other. Think like a Aries/Dragon and work around your intuitions about him. The Aries Dragon will rarely take recommendations from other people.
Needless to say, after 5 years together, we decided to stop seeing each other because he moved and long distance was not working. But when we dated and even when we see each other now, he doesn't listen to me unless he feels like it. But I don't care because I pester him a lot - the other day he was minding his own, and I started annoying him for fun, but he jumpped up, chased me across a friend’s house and when he caught me, he pinched me in the arm really hard, but he was actually really upset, to which I laughed. They are really harmless souls who don't like to get bored and want things to go their way. Hey, good luck with your Aries, I would love to know how that comes along. <3

.....Not a good one for you..
by: SosoLibraHorse

By the way...I have just read over all the messages in here and this sounds like a total jerk! Sometimes it’s not the sign, it’s the man! There are hundreds of Aries Dragons out there and this is not a good one. And there is better matches for you, like a Aries Snake, Gemini Dragon, Leo Rat etc! Libra/Aries attraction should be a mutual thing - and I'm not saying it isn't with you two, it’s just every time I run into an Aries man that is interested in me, he comes at me like a Ram. You should not have to as its cruel and unusual punishment. I know especially how Aries Dragons are, they love to tell there close friends about people that admire them and I am sure he is flattered and have told everyone of your love. But, this man does not care for you and is unclear, up and down, and unclearness is a selfish method guys make up to play with girls. This is a broken man and you'd best forget about him. You are 100% better off and can find someone that will love you back with the same intensity as you have for him and not feel like this! Look for someone else, love!

Well, to be quite honest, my first love was an Aries Dragon. Astrologically, these people are at the top of the food chain - which means they like things to go there way and are stubborn as f***! I know you feel the same as yours won't come around. But I think a Aries Dragon and Libra Monkey would be a great match! But, the fact that he thinks you two already seem like a good match is probably why he is avoiding it - Aries Dragons won't do something because they think they should! But here is what I think...
Don't play off of your Libra side too much - the more you seem like a Monkey (active, busy, adventurous, witty etc.) the more he will be attracted to you. Chinese says the only sign that can trick the Dragon is the Monkey, and this is true because as a Libra Horse, I can't trick him or lie. He would be all, "You are lying" Or "You only lie when you swear." But I have a Libra Monkey friend, as yourself, and Leo Monkey friend and these Monkeys can run him off of a cliff with ease! Dragons appear to be lacking in the listening department and need more perception, but they are not stupid - the Monkey can assess the Dragon so use this observation. Also, they need to get their way, but not to have things given to them on a silver platter - meaning, make most things seem like their idea and try to be their friend well first.
That being said, I have a Libra Monkey friend and he is very cute and innocent, agreeable and considerate, whereas the Aries Dragon is very superficial and want others to be as "strong" as them, otherwise, they lose interest easy. My Aries Dragon and this Libra Monkey are good friends and talk ALL the time, but they are both dudes. Be a good listener and try to ease into what he is doing. Remeber, the month of the Dragon is Aries and both presents these traits in each other. Think like a Aries/Dragon and work around your intuitions about him. The Aries Dragon will rarely take recommendations from other people.
Needless to say, after 5 years together, we decided to stop seeing each other because he moved and long distance was not working. But when we dated and even when we see each other now, he doesn't listen to me unless he feels like it. But I don't care because I pester him a lot - the other day he was minding his own, and I started annoying him for fun, but he jumpped up, chased me across a friend’s house and when he caught me, he pinched me in the arm really hard, but he was actually really upset, to which I laughed. They are really harmless souls who don't like to get bored and want things to go their way. Hey, good luck with your Aries, I would love to know how that comes along. <3

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