Aquarius man Scorpio woman is this the end? Help!

I am a Scorpio 34 year old woman, split last Thursday with my 44 year old Aquarius. His wife left him a year ago, and cheated on him with a younger man. Two months after the split, my Aquarius asked me out on a date and believed him to be genuine. He said he would even have my kids as he likes me so much (he already has two of his own and I have one daughter). It is now 9 months down the line - he has finished with me several times because he says he has doubts if he is doing the right thing and does not want to do the same mistake as he did with his wife, but he always comes back. I always take him back, obviously because I like him a lot. but this time I had enough, he never takes me out for a meal or takes me anywhere. I only see him roughly twice a week, and this time I sensed that he was having doubt again so I told him it's over and that I'd had enough. I then changed my mind, but he said it was too late and he said that the relationship 'is not right' . He text me to say he would be there for me as a friend if I needed to talk to someone. I said some nasty things i.e. you're the last person I'd want as a friend etc (because I am hurt and want him back) - do you think he'll come back this time or is this really the end (as I finished it this time)?? Someone please help