Aquarius man cheated on me

by Lauren Marsh
(Burbank, California)

He cheated me on me once. He says he has to live with the remorse of hurting those he love dearly. He begged and crid for forgiveness. I have a hard time believing him because I feel that the Aquarius man loves comfort and dislikes the new challenges. I feel he is so used to me, might as well come back to me.

However, now he is the jealous one who cannot see me talking to another man. Any thoughts from an aquarius man point of view?

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The Cheater
by: Anonymous

My Aquarius man was just the same. He never stopped cheating. He would cry, tell me that he loved me, that he was sorry, etc. etc. We got married and within 7 months of being married, he saw his ex, had sex with her, and got her pregnant. So, I kicked him out. He still, 5 years later, continues to try to come around and see me. He even asks if I am dating or have a sexual realtionship with someone. I do not think that he can see me with someone else although he is living with someone. So, my advice, just stay away. let him get his life together and then maybe it will work. But if he cheated, he'll cheat again.

Aquarian cheater
by: Anonymous

I went out with an aquarian for 5 years to find out he had been seeing loads of other woman while he was with me. I recently found out he missed someone else out who he forgot to mention. He had unprotected sex with all of these woman putting me at risk without me knowing. He basically lived a double life how he got away with it without none of us knowing beats me. They come across all sweetness and light to begin with. He says he still loves me even tho he has now got one of these girls pregnant cos he used no protection and she lives with him. He wanted to still have a friendship with me. I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him my friendship was too good for him I cannot get over how someonce could do such a thing to someone they claim to love especially as I did nothing wrong to him other than be a good person. The funny thing is I know he doesn't love this girl but he will stand by her cos she is carrying his child. Fool.

Cheating Aquarius Husband
by: Anonymous

My husband is in military we met and fell in love [at least I did] right away. We got married after knowing each other for only six months and every time we would have an argument he would pull "I'm done with it, I'll get my stuff and move out" card on me EVERY TIME. Me being a sensitive person and more mature would had to PHYSICALLY stop him from doing so. A week before he deployed (five months being married to him) he told me he cheated two moths after we got married. He did not feel any remorse what sow ever... In fact I have only heard him say "I'm f***ing sorry, I regret it, I felt bad every single day I had to hold it in" ONCE never did he say anything like "I will never do it again" or ANYTHING of that sort. I found out he was lying to me ALL the time and finally two months into his deployment I found out he sent my [very private pictures] to our mutual guy friends, being fed up with all the BS I told him to f off and that I was divorcing him, to which at first he said ok and now he is totally kissing my A** saying how he can't live without me and all that stuff. All I have learned from this relationship is that AQUARIUS men CANNOT be trusted, they will never change they usually never stay with one partner their whole life. They go wherever the wind drifts them and that is how it is going to be. I am still deciding whether I should wait till he comes back (not for another five months) from his deployment, or just end it right now. In my opinion he will never feel or show ANY remorse to what he did. That's just how he (they are) is...

Aquarian Boyfriend, Aquarian dad, Aquarian brother
by: Anonymous

I've been dating the guy off and on for 4 years. It was mostly long distant but yes, he cheated on me the whole time. Had unprotected sex w/ at least 20 ppl and yeah, now i'm pregnant with his kid. The first 2 years he'd cheat and i'd leave and we were just comPletely out of sync. I kept going back to him or he'd get back in touch with me and we'd try again but we never fit until one year, when i stopped caring. I stopped trying to please him and I was... myself. There was drama, at one point, i thought he was cheating on me w/ this girl he was living w/ but i met her & she's more into me than him, if you know what i mean, so it worked out. Anyway, we were extremely happy. we had this connection that went deep, like ESP, sensing certain things about each other deep. Anyway, at some point, I got mad at him and to get revenge, would cheat, and then I got madder and started Telling him i was cheating. I wanted to make him jealous and this was my fault completely, but he started cheating on me again. And now he won't stop b/c he's scared I'll hurt him again. They aren't the forgive and forget type.

I'm under the impression that they cheat out of fear & b/c they need a challenge. I think they hate easy love. It bores them. From having a father, brother, and boyfriend, who are all aquarians, I can say with experience to back me up that they absolUtely LOVE challenges. My dad didn't cheat on my mom but he'd always overwhelm himself with things, he was in college and at work half of my life and now he's remarried to a woman w/ 3 kids, and a brother who all live w/ him now. He goes to work, college, and they're having a baby. He's Never been happier. So if you can keep your Aquarian loved and challenged intellectually, and physically, i don't think he'll cheat. thing is, that's a Lot of work. So just stay yourself be on guard at all times and if he can't love you as you are and stop the cheating, then let him go. Mind you, however, not All aquarians are bad. My dad's one of the best. He has many faults but his days of cheating are looong gone. Gotta give em time to grow up.

Heelp!is my Aquarius man cheating on me?Virgo women
by: queen

Me& my Aquarius man have been together for 3months he's sweet kind treats me like a queen& has always had my back to the fullest I work so I was paying both our phone bills he hates asking me for things so he doesn't because he very independent and I always respect that but I havnt been getting as much hours at work to pay our phone bill so now our phones are off..he jus started working 2 weeks ago and befor the phones went off We talked everyday now that the phones are off he hasn't contacted me in 7days I'm starting to get concerned because We don't live together @ the momment but he would always hit me up on Facebook befor he had a phone I need to know what do do about the situation for this whole week I been Stressin and not knowing how to fill or what do do can anyone please help or give me advice it would be really appreciated please and thankyou..I AM A VIRGO WOMEN HEEEEEEELP!

aquarian man suck... trust me
by: Anonymous

they jus dont care bout how the opposite person is feelin... they are detached... its jus games over games... its the moment they are with u that they utilise more and cast their charm... once they gone they are gone n u need to cry inflict self pain missin them... it takes lottssa time to believe that they are players coz it naturally runs in them... stay away dont fall for them... they not worth it.. its the last sign meant for a relation...

Religious freak!
by: Anonymous

My aquarius guy was a hardcore Christian. Me not being religious and more spiritual I was worried bout the compatibility. He told me it was fine. I even gave him the oppertunity to not become official with me if he didn't want to and see how things went and he choose committment. He was very detached, distant, worked all the time but never had any money that was my first red flag. he would miss important dates we should of shared as a couple. And then I found a questionable POF account which I know was his. After bringing it up to him he denied it was him and majically 1 week later it was deleted. I later found a woman's ID in his care, hidden. He swore he didn't know who that was. I'm not a idiot I found her on Facebook and messaged her saying I found her ID which she never responded to. We got in a fight and he told me he wanted to stop having sex with me and save it til marriage bc he was feeling guilty about some decisions he had been making. I asked to see his phone and noticed he had contacted his ex gf over a month ago asking her to hang out and she lost it on him when she found out we were in a relationship stating he had lied to her saying he was single. Saying he should of told me and her. And not to talk to him again. Also found on his phone another girl he took out on a date from POF asking later if she wanted to sleep over and he would sleep on the couch. Bc that's what men want when they ask you to sleep over... to sleep on the couch. He got caught for eerything and still he lied about the ID and POF account. Give me a break.Not only that he knew about my past with cheating men and how much it hurt me convincing me he would never do that and he was different.Which leads me to believe now knowing everything he did that he has no heart at all. Now he's remorseful and extremely sorry. He admits he strung me along in the beginning but he still cared, and cares and developed feelings for me in the end, he even cried. He recently blocked me from his newsfeed on FB stating when I added a guy he was sad and can't look at my profile anymore bc it hurts him. I have a feeling this wont be the last time I hear from him. I am Gemini on the cusp of taurus and taurus rising. And once a cheater always a cheater, i have no patience for that kind of a behaviour. I predict he will marry a christian girl and cheat on her too. He even lied about me to his family saying I'm a big church gooer as if he's ashamed of me, not being able to be honest to them. Aquarius men don't like conflict they are yes men, they are stubborn, selfish, and are afraid of committment. And any woman on here who has been cheated on , leave now! The only reason why hes sad is bc he got caught, and the only reason he wants you to talk to him again is bc then you've forgiven him and he doesn't have to look at himself anymore or feel guilty. End of story.Either way it's still alllll about them Good luck ladies xo

is it real
by: Anonymous

Hi this is my first time doing this now i think my aquarius boyfriend is cheatin reason y i say that is because he accuses me of wanting someone else. Always checking my phone he always complaining. We argue more .. we've konly been dating 3months and wants ti get married i love him but i need to knw while its early ...any advice? Wat should i do

I'm an Aquarius woman that dated a lying cheating Aquarius man
by: Anonymous

I dated an aquarius man for almost two years, met his whole family and friend and got pregnant twice to find out while I was 4 months pregnant that he have a girlfriend of 7 years that he live with. How did he pull it off; because he is the best lair you could ever meet!!!!! Be very careful when dating an aqua man!!!!! Their charm will kill you!

Dont be a fool
by: MARI

I am a cancer women, i dated an aquarius man for 1 year and 6 months. He is younger than me, but when we met he was so nice soft spoken and was so sexy, we forgot about the age difference and ended up falling in love. Then he started changing, times i couldnt find him for days. He would show up and act like nothing happened, so i left him, he called crying saying how much he loved me, no more games, promises promises. And being a cancer womoen im very serious about loyalty and honesty, im sensative and when you make a promise involving my heart, you sure better mean it. Well i found out he was with another women the whole time, he moved in with her when i went to work one day, and i still havent spoke to him, he avoids my calls , like im a stranger. He never ended the relationship just went away , so he lies very well. His heart wasnt in it, never was. Hes a good story teller, and backs it up with his lovemaking skills and gentle voice. Dont fall for it ladies, he's a lover not a fighter. He will drop everything for a new exciting lover.

solution
by: barbara

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THIS IS MY STORY: I was married for 6years with 2 kids a boy and a girl and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that My husband filed for a divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and I don’t want to loose him but everything just didn’t work out, he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. I was surfing the internet for solution on what to do when one Dr. Zigaga of islea shrine DUPED me of my hard earned money because I was so desperate to get my wife and children back, Dr. zigaga it will not be well with you were ever you are. The breakthrough came when Monalisa my best friend introduced me to this wonderful, great prophet named Prophet Abayotor who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but I just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice, behold within a week after the regular prayers and proceeding, my parent call me on phone and said that I should come home immediately, when I did my husband was with them immediately he saw me he came to me and knelt down begging me to forgive him that he was so sorry for how he treated me. That it was his mother that made him dislike me so much, I was shocked and began to cry because I thought I lost him forever, immediately I forgave him and he promised that he will always love me, immediately he opt out in filing for the divorce from there we moved into our new apartment together. As for Prophet he is real and cleared my doubts, me made me belief in thing I never believed in Prophet Abayotor you are the best I say Thank you, you can contact him here at ajamugashrine@gmail.com and tell him I introduced you to him.

What an Aquarius Man.
by: Pissed off Scorpion

I call him that because I don't know what else to call him. He is very sweet, cool, and intelligent. I beleived every word that came out of his mouth ( what a fool i was). This man slept with me multiple times and I knew he was married but he convinced me that he and his wife were seperated and that they only talked and got together for the kids sake. Well, one day I he left his phone ( which I paid the bill for) and it was ringing off the hook but i didn't answer it. I pick up the phone and saw text messages from atleast 10 different women, nude photos, I love you, when are you going to home, and I can't wait to see again I know that bitch is stressing you out and not one from his wife or kids. He didn't even have her number in his contact list, as a matter of fact, the numbers on the phone were women. So, I powered the phone off and hid it under my mattress. When he came to my place I told him that I called and text him and he told that he must have left the phone and work not realizing that i had it. He tried to have sex with me and as bad as I wanted to I just couldn't see myself f-ing him anymore. I thought he was the one only to find he is the best liar I have ever dated. A couple weeks later I even found that I had an STD and that he three kids on the way. I confronted him and he just said to me that he didn't promise me anything and it was over between us. What nerve! So, I shared this with his wife and she immediately filed for a divorce. This bastard texted me apologizing and begged me to please forgive him and tell his wife that it was all a lie. Lol... I told him ok. So, he gave me the number and I forwarded that text along with all the text messages from the other phone with the all contacts to his wife. I told her if she didn't believe me she can have the phone and i will keep it on until she talks to everyone of them. Mr. Aquarius, you never underestimate a Pissed off Scorpio Woman.

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