Virgo man and Scorpio woman

I am a Scorpio woman, & I am very interested in this Virgo man. The weird part is that we have never really met, he went to the same college as me for a while, & I knew him from around the campus so I added him on facebook & we began talking (although at the time he had moved back to his hometown, which was an hour away).

A little while ago, I had a boyfriend, & we would still talk & he began seeming interested in me, but he knew I was in a relationship, so it didn't last long. He soon disappeared from the picture for a while, until I broke up with my boyfriend; a couple months after that, he randomly messaged me on msn, saying that he was drunk & he missed me. I said I missed him too, & then he said "why is it so weird falling for a girl you've never met"; I know that Virgos usually aren't the type of signs that take risks like that, so I thought he really liked me. He said he would try really hard to come and see me that coming up weekend, & so almost everyday we would text message each other. Saturday came & he said he ended up having to ref a team for something, so I wasn't too insulted, & he said next weekend for sure he would come. So we would continue to text & Friday came and he never texted me that day to tell me he was coming or not. So that night I messaged him and said that if there was something bothering him or that he was too shy to come and see me, that he should just tell me, and that I wanted him to reply, but he never did.

A couple days later he's talking to me again but he completely ignored that fact that I left that message, and started flirting with me again, almost like he completely forgot. So I brushed it off.

I think I was falling for him so hard that I almost convinced myself that I should go to the same college that he decides to go to next year, and he seemed to pick up on that.

This weekend he's supposed to come up but he's acting weird again. I don't really understand.

He's always asking me what I'm going to do if he comes down and I don't really understand that. I know Virgo's aren't usually sexual people and plus he's very kept to himself so I don't think he's meaning what I think he is.

Another thing is that he keeps asking me if there's anything exciting happening in my town when he comes down, or if I have something planned; I kind of do, but I'm also insulted. Why does there need to be something exciting going on for us to hang out together? He also invited along one of my friends, I guess so that maybe he wouldn't feel so awkward?

The friend that is tagging along with us asked him why he is coming to see me and all he said was "because.., ask her" and he wouldn't say anything else. What does that mean?

My question is, what's with all his disappearing behavior? I know that usually if a Virgo wants to do something, he will. So after the first and second disappearance, he still keeps on texting me and coming back, what's with him? and since it's our first time meeting, what can I do to make things feel comfortable? How are you supposed to act around a Virgo anyways?

Can you help me out?

Life is never simple is it?!

Virgo's are complicated folk. Very intellectual, and very self critical (which makes them lack self confidence in a way that's very alien to Scorpios).

No matter how confident he comes across, I'll guarantee the problem here is that you intimidate him.

He's nervous about meeting you - stalling for time, wanting other people around, saying things which make no sense, ignoring questions, wanting to "do something" (so you won't be focused on him during the meeting) - it's all due to that intimidation (don't point this out to him by the way, or you'll just make it worse).

You have two ways to solve this:

1. Be very laid back about the first meeting. Do everything you can to be neutral about it (meet for just an hour or so, have friends there, go to "do" something - anything to take the focus off of him (he's picturing you studying him under a microscope, while he's unable to escape etc - Virgos hate that level of attention!) - basically you want to camouflage the meeting with as much external distraction as you can (so it's not about "him and you")

2. Break the ice yourself. Show up unexpectedly at his work or somewhere you know you can find him. Don't give him any warning (or time to think and panic about it!)

After the first meeting you'll find he's completely different, and far more relaxed. This isn't normal behavior - it's unique to the way you met and accumulated expectations and pressure before the first meeting.

Best of luck with your mission - don't give up! These are signs he's very interested in you (counter-intuitive, but he'd be far more willing to meet otherwise!)

Scorpio women are very often serious, of intellectual inclinations, secretive, egoist, and sensitive at heart but camouflaging at their outer personality. If male happens to be a Virgo partner to a Scorpio woman you will find that she has always an upper hand over her male.

Virgo male are easily attracted towards Scorpio female while it is the tender attitude and intelligence of a Virgo that draws a Scorpio women to him. If they are bound as soulmates and the stars tend to indicate negatives, it shall be a relation between agony and ecstasy of which both will enjoy through their sufferings.

I am a Scorpio woman married to a Virgo man. we had an arranged marriage and now we are in trouble. I find him very aloof and not caring. His criticizing nature and cutting humor had undermined my confidence completely and I was very depressed till one day I left him.

The part I don't understand about him is why he is so aloof to me after a 2 years of marriage, that when I am sick he pretends not to notice till such a time when he has to take me to a doctor, and then again goes back to the same aloofness. According to him getting me medicines was all the care he could provide. It hurts me no end.

He wants the relationship to continue now though her is unwilling to change indicating my attitude should be changed. I am not sure what to do now. Is this all the care that I can expect from him, or is it that he is uncomfortable around me just like I am around him?

well I have been kind of involved with a Virgo male....for 6 months now...in the beginning he was crazy about me. he gave me a phone so he could talk to me when he wanted to...two months later we took a lil fishing trip together to Florida...we could not get enough of each other...perfect...and the sex was amazing....he was all about me. he is 31 I just turned 25 he has been married twice and recently divorced his second wife and has two kids by the first wife.. ive never been married and I have one kid. on our way home he got back his phone and things got weird...so finally I asked him a couple of days later what the deal was and he said he really enjoyed spending time with me but was not looking for anything serious. so I was cool with that and things went back to normal briefly...he would stand me up then out of no where there he is...he came all the way to another town to crash in on me at the club...then he tells me how right things feel with me and is sooo sweet ...then the next few days the weirdness starts again. distance...then he pops up again...he wanted to be friends...still flirting...so I go to his house. and he has cooked me dinner. went to hang with some mutual friends.. when we get to his house he tells me he realizes he messed up and wants to be exclusive and that everything feels right...so im like ok...and then the next day he says sorry for getting so drunk and saying what he said...when I get pissed he says we shouldn't talk anymore...im like ok cool...it hurt but clearly this is a game to him so I have decided to play....here we are 6 months down the road and 3 days ago he went to a friends house I told him id be at and demands them call me when he does not find me there...and I invited him to a party...he showed up and this time I did not let him see how much I really do care about him...it left things smooth. when he tried to sweet talk me I told him to shut up with that mess and I put it on him....yes he is not running from me anymore means I can use this casualness to ease him into having something more AM I DELUSIONAL!!???? lol

Hello there. I am a thirty year old Virgo man. My answer is to the first post on this thread.

Young woman, If there's anything you should try mostly to avoid if you really want your Virgo man; please don't let him know how much you want him.

Naturally Virgo men will only value something that they fought to get and not one that falls into their laps.

From his behavior I can tell that he likes you but you're simply giving him too much attention. When next a Virgo man asks you out on a date don't agree to his date try postponing it to a later time.

Just be a little withdrawn and he'll want you even more

My answer is to the second Scorpio woman. I am a Virgo man of thirty. From what I can deduce the young man is only interested in the sex.

But you can use this to your advantage by making a bit more hard to get. Try getting him indoors next time he sweet talks you, then seduce him to the point where you know he wants to just devour you.... then withdraw and don't let him touch you till your cloths are on.

Then tell him this: Sorry, got to rush somewhere we'll do this next time. Make him crave for that day to the point that he's wanting to give up, then give him a call yourself and give him the sex of his life.

Trust me, do this, and you have your man.

I am dating a Virgo man well boy we are 16 and I normally move kind of fast in a relationship (kissing on 2nd date) but we have been dating for well a month now and we haven't kissed he hasten even hinted to me that he wants to or not and I am scared that he doesn't like me at all or if he likes me too much and doesn't want to move to fast. this is giving me mixed feelings. I have never dated a Virgo before and I don't know can anyone help me

Scorp Lady here just met Virgo Man. We communicated the fact that we are both interested in a relationship, but why is it that he can avoid my calls for 4-5 days at a time and when we see each other its like he's in love?

Hmm...I feel that I want to help a Scorpio women but I'm not knowing for sure how is a Virgo man feel since the Virgo sign is a feminine- Scorpio ladies if you attracted to a Virgo man, you need to take time, be patience, don't give up with him. Speak to him nice in an intellectual way and don't embarrass him in the public; show him that you are caring, loving, and supporting. If a Virgo man give you a number to call, ask him when is the best time to call?

Ask him to tell you about himself during conversation on a phone; ask him what does he see in you? Don't ask him to meet you anywhere until he feels comfortable after you've been called him several times. Also, don't rush him until he trust you enough than he will open up for you. Virgo is very shy and nervous at first when he know you well, he will be your for a long term for love or friendship. As I know, Virgo is very picky and it is hard to know him; he can change mind as other signs. All I have to say be honest to yourself if you want a Virgo man. I don't know if this is help Scorpio women; I try...lol. I'm myself is a Virgo; I would doing any thing to make myself and my Scorpio man to be happy in alone time. But there are differences between a Virgo men and Virgo women. Virgo is complicate; not simple. So don't give up Scorpio ladies!!!! Good luck!!!

I'm messing with a Virgo guy and he doesn't call just text am not looking a relationship with him and he's not looking one with me but I still need someone who is emotionally there which he's not so it at times I feel like he doesn't like me should I continue that thing we have going or not?

Hi everyone, I really need some advice, I work with a lovely Scorpio girl who has totally captivated me, I'm a typical Virgo male, her eyes fix on mine like a hawk, wow Scorpio girls do have an amazing stare!

My problem is that I really feel for her, but she has a boyfriend whom she complains about quite a bit, he doesn't give her any space and does not listen to her. We get along so well chatting and I always talk quite deep to her and ask her lots of questions, she seems to like that. I'm scared of flirting with her as I read that Scorpios will see it a mile off and feel insulted. So should I just keep doing what I'm doing being nice and caring in the hope that she will make a move if she wants? is that how it works with a Scorpio woman?

I certainly don't want to lose our friendship but at the same time feel that if we got together we would both be so happy, tricky!

So any advice will be very helpful as I'm not really sure what to do.

Game-playing Virgo man. Strangely, caught-up Scorpio woman.

I met a male Virgo 9 months ago and from the moment we met, I knew I liked him. Fast forward 6 months, we are "talking" exclusively. He gave me his couch. We went to Miami for my birthday (OCT 31ST!) and had THE best time a couple could possibly have. Our sex was AMAZING! 2 weeks after our magical vacation he breaks up with me for no reason. I still don't know why to this day. He stated that he didn't think I was "committed" to us. Which is bullsh*t because I had already expressed I was VERY done with the single life. The whole 6 months he would act somewhat aloof. We didn't talk on the phone nearly as much as I would like but when we saw each other he made me feel like a queen. Take me out to eat, go to movies, hold me and watch T.V. When I was sick he was upset that I wouldn't stay with him (I was trying not to get him sick!). He doesn't have a driver license nor an official job. Two things that are quite important to me but I told him I would still be with him regardless. I truly cared for this man and put just about all my requirements aside so I could still support him and be by his side. After the break up in Nov we got back together that weekend. I personally feel the break-up was part of a game to see if he had control over me. For the first time in my LIFE, the man had the upper hand in my relationship. Ultimately, he was arrested a few months later and I was by his side during that. I ended up going to the hospital because of all the stress. He even came and saw me while I was in there! 2 days out the hospital he "claims" one of his friends saw me out on a date with someone else and broke up with me, for good. I know I haven't been cheating or doing any disrespectful acts. Its like he WANTS me to say I've been a whore and did all these devious things. I personally think he was never that into me. But when I think about how he was there for me during my times of need (flu, jail, hospital) its hard to understand. Why is the Virgo so fickle? Is he intimidated? Did he ever really like me??? By the way, I WOULD go back to him, but only if he got past his insecurities. In the mean time I've been trying to figure out how I can get him to sleep with me one more time ;) Can this relationship be salvaged? Should I even try?

A young Virgo man, under 31 years old, may act very aloof when he is not ready to commit and settle down and have a long term relationship with any sign, I'm a best guess. I think he likes you but he feels very skeptical some how. He took you out for a leisure time as a movie and dinner during your vacation. Some how, this guy has no confident; it is simple: look, he has no driver license and how is it possible that can he has a federal job? This job requires ed. and qualifications. You, Scorpio woman, met the wrong/no talented Virgo guy. That is horrible!! You are smart, Scorpio lady- not all Virgo male or female are born with skills or educated. I know how you feels as a Scorpio woman. I would say it is better to be back off from Virgo man for awhile to observe for the result. You loved him; I understands. You must deserve the best love and care from him when you are in need as an emergency or a hard time. In my opinion, Scorpio lady best match is a Pisces man.

I'm a Virgo lady blessed-Virgo woman is very different from a male. I'm very responsible, loving, and caring, for my partner regardless of the Astrology Signs; he is my friend and lover. But it's all depend; I expect those qualities in return. If you want him back to you, go easy; no pressure on him; communicate is a plus. Virgo is very hard to win, so you have to work hard; show him that you are interested only him. That is all I can say. I'm not too sure how Virgo guy feels. Okay, girlfriend! Best luck! Virgo

Hey I am a Virgo man and I have dated a Scorpio woman for 3 months...at first I really liked her...we had a great connection but after a few weeks I have noticed that she wanted to see me too much and she was way too close to me. I don't know what happened but I'll break up with her but then I would want her back (its weird) but after the 3rd month...I broke it off and after the 4th day of being single...she told me that she was going to see other people which bothered me...and I don't know why but it did...but the bottom line is Scorpios like to take things too fast and they get close way too fast for my taste....next stop Capricorn women ;) lol

Hey, Virgo guy!! You are not too sure that you want a Scorpio lady. I understand that all Virgo need time to analyze in every angle and not like to rush. Virgo takes times until it is right; that is a Virgo culture or nature. But let me say something: Scorpio woman is very intense both physical and sexuality; she must be in love with you that is why she wants to get fast and very close to you. "She went to see another people as you said." That is her trick to you; means to make you jealous and make you wanted her even more. I think she plays a mind of game with you, Virgo. For more, Scorpio lady is out going and have lots of friends; especially is 'male' Believe me, I'm Virgo woman and I knew how Scorpio lady well because I have a girlfriend who is Scorpio. Scorpio loves me so much even though we are the same gender. I cant talk to a boy; she smother me. Finally, she cheated on me. I cant stop you, Virgo man! You need to think; it is up to you. I'm a pretty and talented Virgo woman don't want you to end up with a broken heart because of a Scorpio lady. I knew you are smart-intelligent. Good luck!!!!

What I've read so far about Virgo male and being aloof is soo true! Im a Scorpio gal myself. I was in a relationship wit a Virgo man for about 4 mos but he became aloof and said he wasn't sure what he wanted so I told him I would make up his mind for him and broke it off! im not da type to beg at all so I didn't call or txt him. A couple of days later he started texting...I would reply but casually not make it seem like I was excited to hear from him even though I was...I decided to keep it casual wit him since he seems to appear and disappear. It is true about his feelings varying a lot. I do notice he gets bothered when others seem to have some interest in me. He acts like my boyfriend around people but acts like a friend when we r alone. To me, it's a game he's prolly playing but I will not show he has da upper hand. like they say...the person who cares less in a relationship has the most power! that I will never show to him! it makes me feel better when im not da one after him!! and that I can truly say!

I agree with most of you about Virgo men. I had a short relationship with a Virgo male and he kept always giving me mix signals. He seemed interested at times and then not very interested in other times. I think they need to feel like they are not being taken seriously or need to have that chase. As a Scorpio girl I like the chase as well and the hard to get game but with him I admit to have showed him too much attention. A mistake. Other than that they are protective, intelligent, and kind.

I can't relate to Virgo men and Scorpio ladies. I'm a Virgo rising Libra. I have both friend Scorpio male and female. My girlfriend seems very loyal and devote for both of us; we went out together; we are not a lesbian; we are a best friend; we can call each other any time we want. No time limits.

Otherwise, my lover is Mr. Scorpio; we knew each other well; it kinds of hard for us to meet and see each other. I feel that I'm going to give up the chase; I'm sick to play the game. I have no problem of attracting other guys- beautiful guys always approaching to me; none of them can't wins me, No!! I don't know why. For the past nine moths, I met one guy; he want to see me too much and he is gay...lol...loll very annoyance. A water sign he is-Aquarius I guessed. Ha! poor thing. I'm on my own.

Well I started to see a Virgo man and then out of the blue he simply "disappeared". I thought what happened when everything was going so well. I don't understand him and he was the one that was always flirting with me.

As a Scorpio woman I have just started seeing a Virgo man... he flirts with me and I love it. In response to the man that is captivated by his Scorpio colleague...

I would persist. Scorpio is loyal, so if she is in a relationship then she will not feel she can simply walk away from that. However, if you don't make your feelings clear by gently flirting with her... how will she ever begin to think of you as more than just a friend at work?... I doubt she would be insulted, Scorpio is passionate and responds well to flirting if it is from a man they find attractive.... I spend all day flirting with my Virgo man and am so attracted to his caring considerate manner and intellect, don't give in so easily. Scorpio likes to be pursued! x

I have a Virgo man who is/was heavily pursuing me in the beginning, but now that he knows my heart is his, he's so distant and never tells me how he desires me anymore. But I question him and he says he still likes me, a lot. I'm so confused.

I'm a Scorpio woman, I've been talking to a Virgo man I met online. We haven't met and we mostly chat about day to day things. I subtly suggested meeting but he shyed away from the idea. I shared some personal things about myself that I think made him uncomfortable and has made him retreat from me. I don't know if I will hear from him again and the sad thing is that we really seemed to have a lot in common, I'm confused...

I'm a young Scorpio woman who is dating a Virgo male.

Now when I mean young, I mean teen, alright? Now I have read some of these posts about the Virgo males being aloof at times and sometimes very flitty.

I have also been advised on how sex derived the male Virgo's mind works.

I have been in a relationship with my Virgo for nearly a year and a half, and considering our age, we have not had sex once. He is a very committed person, and refuses to leave me for no particular reason. We broke up for a very small amount of time, and he pursued me. He refused to leave me as I am his girl, (that's how he puts it.)

My point is is that not all Virgo males are flitty and sex focused.

I love my Virgo ;)

THE WAY I AM AS A VIRGO?.

I am Virgo 46 years old. I have to admit, we Virgo are not easy. In my case I would say I am very analytic and a good observer. I hate lies because sooner than later I will catch you so why to bather? I don't like games because I respect other people feelings. If I feel I have to play with you I would rather walk away from your life.

As a good observer I can almost read anyone only by seeing you moving around.

I'm very sensitive with refine taste and when I decide to learn anything is because I'm will be the best and because I'm choosing something is according and tuned to my nature and has root to the universe and belong to me more than with anyone else. someone else will miss 80% I wont but you wont see it?.

I love perfection in everything...I really value good art, music, painting, good design good taste but at same time I'm realistic and have my feeds on the ground. I don't need to be a million are to be happy.

I don't like fake and plastic people because I can read you...

I consider myself romantic and caring but with the right person...you will decide the limit not me. I'm loyal and take seriously a friendship so you better be a good one or walk away.

I hate communism, socialism, and all social tendency in which people are encourage to thing alike. I am an individual you are another.

I love clean fresh food, fruits, vegetable,, not process food, or plastic fast food.

Love to travel and I am very attractive to other cultures. but when traveling I will coexist with people instead of going to a fancy predictable hotels. visiting to another country has a meaning and a reason.

If I don't like you will notice it immediately I don't know how to lie. I'm not a hypocrite.

this is a real virgo.

DON'T SHOW EVERYTHING TO A VIRGO...THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING MORE TO DISCOVER....

I'm A 16 year old Scorpio woman and I'm dating a Virgo man. He's been trying have a relationship with me from February until October (8months) and we were just talking and flirting but I wasn't giving much attention. He was always trying to be up under me I'd give him a kiss here and there and tell him what he wanted to hear over the phone. Then in November the 9th to be exact, we made it official and the sex was sooo great he did everything and he just made me feel like I was in heaven and we're in love I met his family I spend the night we got out to places we laugh and cry together we do everything together life is good. my life is Great with my Virgo! :) I don't know what you other guys are talking about

This co-worker a Virgo man told me he was attracted to me and I am a Scorpio. He supported me through my divorce, and now I am on my own. Ever since I have made suggestions about him coming over for dinner, or taking him to the movies, and celebrating his birthday well he is just backing off. I wanted to know where we were going with this. I need some advice

Hey, So Im an 18 year old Scorpio female and I've been seeing this 20 year old Virgo male for 5 years (off and on). Through out these 5 years we have only flirted nothing more. There would be times where we would not talk to each other for months because I would not be ready to be in a relationship or he was out in the streets doing him going in and out of jail. But now that I am older I feel like I want to give him my all.

I know he is not what I should be going after because he's a street guy and he's been in jail but I don't care because I truly like him, he's basically like the 1st guy I ever truly liked, considering that we've been talking ever since I was 14 he is my "first love".

But anyways for the last month we have been showing progress. We were talking more and spending more time together. During this month we both told each other how much we like one another and I gave him my virginity on his birthday ( and it was NOT great). But now he wants nothing to do with me he doesn't answer my texts or phone calls.

Im truly confused I don't understand why he ignores me. He told my niece that I hurt his feelings the night of his birthday and that he's not talking to me. Well, when I called him one last time he picked up and so I said " I guess your talking to me now" and he says " Well I had to pick up because you keep calling me" Now this caught me off guard so I hung up the phone.

Now Im hurt and I don't know what to do with this situation because I like this Virgo guy who wants to play games, I hate the games but I just can't stop thinking about him like ever since we had sex I want more of him now and he won't show me any attention. Its driving me crazy I've even tried talking to other guys but it doesn't help.

I honestly think he doesn't want to be committed to me but if he would talk to me and stop playing fucking games he would see that I don't want a relationship either I only really just wanna fuck him.

So if anybody has an opinion or anything to say I would gladly like to hear it Thanks. Oh and everyone else I've been talking to has been telling me I need to curse his ass out but its hard doing that because I cant be mean to him. Im sure I sound fucking dumb right now and Im not even in love at least I don't think so.

I need some advice..

I am a 50 something Virgo man, old school'ish, good job, friends, and currently single. I've been so for a few years, a few dating bouts, but nothing really ever clicked long term.

I recently me a Scorpio woman at work, just casually joking around, talking and what not, and the more I learn about her the more I am drawn to her. I mean really drawn.

She is, I dunno maybe mid thirty or something, I'm not sure, and that's the rub. We get along great, she's funny, expressive, and yet I can't read her intent. Something in me says, she's too young don't pursue it, but I am thinking about her all the time now. I just don't know.....;/

Hey I am in a similar situation, I am a 32 year old Scorpio woman and I am interested in a 52 year old Virgo man. I think he got an eye of me before I really paid attention and noticed him. I mean I noticed him at the beginning, but didn't feel an attraction to him until I overheard him talking about something he did with some of his buddies and it made me desire him. I love an adventurous guy. But he seems very practical as well as intelligent. He is a single father with 3 kids still living at home, and I have one child myself. Its a Brady Bunch family in the making...I can see it. BUT he has made reference that being married is kinda scary, because women "yak" often and wives are never satisfied. He also had a very horrible situation with ex-wife (ie. mother of his children) and sounds like he isn't ready to trust from that situation. We are both very busy people and I don't know when I will find any outside time to really get to know him, and if he is anything l ike what previous Scorpio women have said about their Virgo beaus, then I may not be hearing from him by telephone much. Its a good thing that I can practically see him at least 4 times a week and he talks my ear off during that time...so much so that I am not ready for it, but it is what it is. I know what to look for from reading what others have said here.

I'm a Scorpio woman inlove with a Virgo man whom i've messed things up with severly; I kinda punished him for someone else's mistakes and I would really like to make things right between us, but he won't even talk to me. The thing is, I realised too late that I love him; we had great sex together and I really miss it alot, but I miss being around him even more. I went into depression for a while after he ignored and refused to talk me, but luckily I dragged myself out of it. Our story started about two years back when he started flirting with me and I flirted right back, even though I was in a relatioship at the time. He came to my house once(still staying with my parents), very drunk wanting me to go home with him to put him to bed, I couldn't, even though I really wanted to, for three reasons- firstly, my mother is very strict (I'm noow 28 turning 29); secondly, I was in a 5 year relationship and very committed and thirdly he was so drunk! The next day he was so s hy while he apologised for the previous night; we didn't have any contact for a few months after that and I felt so bad and tried to get his attention just to get him to talk to me again; he even called me a few times after that. I started falling for him, but never gave much of my feelings away; for me it was enough to just see him everyday, knowing that I have a boyfriend (who now wanted to marry me) and I can't jeopardise a now 6 year relationship for something I wasn't even certain of. So on the 4th of December 2009, I found out my boyfriend was cheating, staying with woman for almost a year; I was so hurt, yet so relieved for some reason. The next day my Virgo man came onto me and asked me on a date, but knowing that he was in a relationship, I refused him and told him he must leave his girlfriend before I can even think of something like that, but he told me he couldn't, because it's a bit complicated and I accepted. The following day I told my boyfriend that it's over and done and he must leave me alone; he cried and begged me to understand his position, but I stuck to my point and for the first time in my life stood up for myself, so he left to pack up and move out, with promise of coming back later, I decided to go out that night, me and a friend decided to go to the club (she was dating my Virgo man's friend) we invited him along and that night I slept in his arms (we didn't have sex)and when he woke up the next morning he told me: 'I can't believe it's really you here with me, am I dreaming...?' and that made me feel sooo good. Nevertheless, we had a couple of dates after that (his girlfriend so far from my mind at the time) he introduced me to his friends (whom his girlfriend had no interest in) and we had great times together. On the 26th of December I officially broke it off with my boyfriend and for the first time of my life, I had mindblowing (although a bit akward) sex!! A week later we did it again, only this time I told him that this would be the last time and that night he decided to take off the condom without my consent; I hated him so much; sended him the nastiest sms; we didn't talk for almost two months. We finally started talking again and not so long after that I found myself in his bed again; experiencing the most explicit times; no-one's ever made me feel so great before!! After that, I don't know how it happened, we only saw each other ones every two months and it made me act crazy; I wasn't treating him to well, trying to hide my feelings, I was never myself with him, only every second month he got a reflection of who I really am, in his bed I couldn't pretend to be something I was not; we had this connection that I can never explain in words. The more aware I got of this growing love for him, the more I tried to hide it from him and everyone else and even from myself, which resulted in me being mean to him, especially in public. If I think about it now, it seemed as if I was only interested in sex, because the only time I was loving towards him, was in his bed. About a month ago I finally admitted to myself that I deeply love this man, but it was far too late, because by than he didn't wanna talk to me; I tried calling him, but he was always too busy; I smsed him telling him how important it was to me that we have a chat, he never replied; than I stopped everything, but he still hasn't called nor reply to my sms; right now, I wish he misses me as much as I miss him, because I really need him. Yesterday, I saw him for the first time after 3 weeks and I could see he was surprised yet happy to see me, so, I'm telling myself, maybe there is still hope for me. I don't wanna let go until I know for sure that he feels nothing towards me;I wish somehow we can talk things through so that I can move on with my life. Should I take action and try get hold of him once more; should I leave him to decide what he wants out of life or should I just move on and let fate do it's thing. He has a child with his girlfriend, he says she is his little princess and his girlfriend is abusing him, even in public and I hate her for that, but I will never do anything to jeopardise the relationship he has with his daughter; all I want is to spend more time with him, because I need him so much. Please help!!!

I'm a Scorpio woman and dated a Virgo man...On and off, we fights like cats and dogs but we still care for one and another.He dated, I dated.Recently started talking again, first night we rekindled our amazing rendezvous.2 days later he distant himself.I know what you all talking about, you just have to give them space, to allow them to think and just focus on you.The more you pretend to not care, the more they will find that your the one.Virgo men, have the tendency to be confused one minute they want to be committed next there not ready.You just have to be patience, and not be in their level,it won't be easy but once they open up to you everything that you ever wanted will come together.Soon enough they will realize your the one.I allowed him to date around, he said a lot of cruel names towards me, I didn't care much I ignored him, and move forward but at the end of it all his still confused why im still here...I know the reasons why his like this, he never given h im time to heal from relationships to another...Just give him that space, one step at a time...Do you always..!!

hi I am 18years old about to be 19 soon and about two weeks but any how I been with this one virgo. which only means im a Scorpio female but anyhow I been dating him for aw mmost four years and now its starting to kinda break up and I don't know what to do.....im kinda and the stage where idc but I do. thats my baby and I love him I do but I don't know aw he does is buy me constantly now. which he been doing but its different now. he does it like...............um I don't know how to explain it but anyway I don't know where to go about this. give me you're advice.

Im a Scorpio woman and I met this particular Virgo man six years ago (2004). We were seeing each other for about four months and then I met another guy (who ended up being my boyfriend but we are broke up now)and leaving Mr. Virgo alone because I didn't feel he was ready to be steady at the time. two months ago I ended up running into him (after six years) and to make a long story short he said that he realized he messed up with me back then and that he loved me and was going to marry me one day and that he was "a man of his word" about marrying me. well recently I hadnt heard from him in a week and then he called one night but I missed it and then the next night I had went out so while I was hanging out I text him and asked him why he was M.I.A. and he said "I am back on the scene now" I asked where he was he replied and then I told him where I was and 10 minutes later he ended up showing up to the establishment I was at. When he got there he gave me a quick hug, s at his coat on the seat beside me went to the end of the bar to talk to his friends, came back stood by me so I decided to go to the ladies room since he was back at the chair his coat was on. when I got back he said he had to leave becuase "he had something to take care of". My first thought to myself was "what do you have to take care of at 12midnight" (hmmmm??!!) so after he left the bar, I left and out of the corner of my eye I could see his car with the head lights on in the parking lot but I walked past as if I didn't see him. When I got home I sent him a text saying "You said you loved me and one day you were going to marry me now I see how you REALLY feel about me! and as of now its been almost a week since Ive heard from him and I refuse to call him because I felt since I hadnt heard from him in a week he should have at least asked me how I was doing? or what's been going on with me? He had more to say to his friends and patrons of the bar than what he had to say to me!and don't get me wrong I don't expect him to be glued to me when we are out together. I feel if he really loved me he would have called me after (maybe not right after)I texted him that comment and find out why did I say that or what was wrong. He use to call/ text me everyday and now I don't know what to think of him and for some reason I really do like him. PLEASE HELP???!!!

Im a 17 year old Scorpio girl. And I have a very good Virgo friend, and he's also 17 years old. This guy is head over heals for me but I have no intention of dating him. I just want to stay friends. Although I have to say, he's very pushy for a virgo. 'Pushy' as in he's straight forward. He's always telling me he wants to kiss me, date me, love me forever blah blah blah. He even forced me to kiss him. Is this what virgo's do when they are in love? I have a ton of Virgo friends...who are guys! And honestly, I have never seen any of them act that way. So...whats the deal? I would really love to know.

From a Virgo man: please remember we seek perfection in everything including our mate. This is why we can all of the sudden disappear. We may like you more than any other woman... the moment something comes up that doesn't fit our vision of what we seek in our woman... our engines shut down. I didn't say cool off or take a time out, I said shut down. Much like a cracked glass, the odds of us placing you back on the pedestal we had you on are close to zero.

This is not your fault. Its our damned Virgo nature. We don't like it either. You think I like it when after months of having amazing times with a beautiful woman, I lose all the attraction for her for the smallest thing!!! Yes my feelings and memories are still present, but we are ruled by our minds, so if our minds don't give us the go, our feelings stay locked in.

Perfection is equally infinitely beautiful and delicate, this is why it is unattainable. yet , us Virgo have it built in our minds that we should only settle for this. We don't like it either but we're built this way.

Now some tips: communicate honestly and clearly with your Virgo man. When you trust us, we feel proud and protective over you, thus we want you in our lives. Do not try even for a minute to deceive us. I wish I were dumber sometimes, but my unstoppable brain always figures out the schemes of those around me. Its like a supercomputer analyzing everything you say and your actions, telling us if it all matches or if you are full of bologne. Don't try to play any mind games, because as soon as you make us think, you awaken our mind - the gatekeeper to our hearts... and you miss out on an incredibly loving man.

Second, if you have any defects (smoking, laziness, cheating) just open up and talk about it with your Virgo man. We love open, honest communication - it shows you trust us and are willing to at least put your cards on the table. Plus it will save you time. If you hide your defects and have a great time with your Virgo man, as soon as your lies comes up, he will drop you at the snap of the finger.

Be genuine. Us virgos can see right thru fake people and we don't want them around us.

If a Virgo man is with you, then you are already on the right track because we don't waste our time. Likewise, if we don't make a move, we already thought it thru and don't want you as our mate.

Be loving. We might appear cold and calculating but underneath we are full of warm feelings for those we love. I love being held and kissed for hours and love doing so in return.

Good luck to all of you Virgo chasers.... be patient.. in the end you will have a loyal, caring man like no other.

I am sooo glad I am not the only Scorpio Woman that had the Virgo Man Experience. The attention the no attention. He will be into you and then don't know who you are. I have never experience anything like that. What's so crazy Im talking to another Virgo man right now. Definitely giving me plenty of attention and I do agree we are moving pretty fast. I will take some of your advise and play a little hard to get. I like that he calls and text and don't hear from me. He did admit he likes challenges.

We were seeing each other for 3 years and we were madly in love. One year later she went to London and was still madly in love with me and did not cheat. She came back to India and was finding it very difficult to get that killer job she wanted with the United nations and was pretty depressed. I was in a not so good job then and wasn't happy myself with the situation. She demanded a lot of attention which I was not being able to give. She had been complaining to her friend around this time about being unhappy and things not working out but this wasn't communicated to me properly. I told her I could pull a few strings with my boss to help her get a job but she vehemently refused. Then she got a job in another city with the U.N and thats the time I quit my job. She now wanted me to come to her city and get a job and I told her I have to try everywhere and not just limit myself to getting one where she is. This probably ticked her off. This is when she told me that she does not see a future with a guy who doesn't want to get out of his comfort zone , has no motivation and drive and said she is breaking up. I did not take that seriously and thought we could make ammends.

Anyway to cut a long story short I surprised her on her b'day by arriving on her doorstep and she couldnt digest the fact that I was there in person in front of her. She tried to resist all my hugging and trying to kiss her but she finally gave in. We made love for the three days I was there and I thought the good ol days were back and didn't rig up the issue about our compatibility fearing I might ruin the moment. I came back to my city and gave her a call the next day to find out how she was doing and she said its better I move on in life. I accepted her decision and had started to get her out of my mind for good. This is when I get a call from one of my friends who tells me she had been cheating on me with another guy since September which is around the time she told me its over. So I called her and asked her if there is someone else and she said she is friendly with another guy but there is nothing between them. I hacked her FaceBook profile and got a couple of messages be tween this guy and her and there is clearly something going on. I confronted her and asked her why she was lying and if this was the reason she broke up with and why she couldn't tell me. She maintained her story that this decision has nothing to do with this guy and is all about me.

Now I don't know what came first; this guy or her decision to call it quits because of my shortcomings. She has admitted that she has kissed him and has started seeing him after much lying. He is a drummer in a rock band and im pretty sure that he is there to take advantage of her vulnerability and will dump her soon enough. I really care about her and don't want her to make this mistake but on the other hand I am really hurt and do not want to speak with her.

She keeps saying that if we get married , she will divorce me in 2 months because we are not compatible as a couple. I think she is very wrong about that. Sex with her was amazing and miss every moment of it.

This guy is a Leo and I know there will be a lot of initial attraction between them and they might end up having a lot a sex but it will not last. But by then it will be too late for her to come back to me coz I would have moved on

I met this sexy Virgo man the night before my birthday here's what happened...I went to this bar to have a drink and wait for my son,i approached the bar and there stood 3 men outside (smoking) the one guy (the guy I liked) opened the door and jokingly said it would be $5.00, lol.I laughed said something cute to him and went in and sat at the bar next to an empty chair fortuntately it was his chair... I was dressed in my work out clothes(just finished training) and he in his work clothes(still very sexy), so we were not at our best but it didn't matter because the intensity or spark between us was evident.He started to talk to me and buying me drinks, I did not eventually leave with my son instead stayed there a few hours with him,then he asked me if I would go with him to do some things I accepted. I ended up passing 18 hours with this man (no I did not sleep with him not even a kiss)we talked and had a good time together.This was Oct.22, since then he has popped you p at my place every 6-7 days we talk spend a few hours together then he's gone again.Last week he comes over (im always unprepared but he doesn't seem to mind)we talk he even goes and gets us coffee, after awhile we start to make out on the couch he says that he's wanted me for awhile(i too wanted him since quite awhile but I did not want to pressure him) so with that I invite him in my bedroom,he accepts and we make love and its beautiful(exactly how I imagined it).We make plans to go to the cinema later and he leaves only to return 2 hours later, we talk,laugh some more he tells me he can't go (has to take daughter some where)im cool with that, we say good bye again.That has been 7 days ago and I haven't seen or heard from him since... what's up with that? Did I move to fast? Did I scare him away? Im a Scorpio woman so I know how I have a lot of intensity in the bedroom.Should I just be patient or is it over? I appreciate some advice...

confused but hopeful...

I am a 28 year old Scorpio woman whos dating a 28 year old Virgo male.... im telling if this guy wants you he will shower you with love... my boyfriend of 4 years still til this day sends me flowers once a month and tells me im beautiful everytime he sees me.... he wasnt always like this until I started having a wondering eye and not caring as much....

I am a Scorpio woman. My Virgos are really sweet, and make me feel cared about, safe and loved. What I mean by "Virgos" is that I'm currently seeing two Virgo men. I'm in a dilemma right now, I do not know which to choose. They both make me feel cared about and I can talk to them about anything, well they tell me about lots of stuff and I can open up a bit, which with most guys I cant do! I feel like I am almost with the same person around both of them. The one I am more interested in tough (virgo #1) is the one I can not have due to a situation where my friend was seeing him first, but HE liked me. I knew all along that would happen, I had that feeling. You know the one you get when a guy catches you looking at him and smile. Yeah that one. Well anyway, I think I am really falling for him. His touch makes me weak and butterflies! The full experience. The only problem here is my friend. I told him our relationship should remain a secret and he was ok with that, but like always my suspiciousness is making me thing that he might want that for his own benifit, just like I am using it for mine.

On the other hand Virgo #2 is almost the same, he makes me feel secure and I feel I can depend on him. His turn off is that he is unemployed and still living at his parents house! I want to make this work, but I have no idea how. They both have qualities that I love but after reading these posts I'm feeling a bit down.

You see many Virgo men are attracted to me, and the former one I was dating was really WEIRD! He would talk to me for a while then not talk to me. He was too needy and would play games with me.. He missed me one day then bye the next? So I feel these two might back fire on me also..

My question is: Are all Virgos alike?

ok, so I'm a Scorpio was in a relationship with a Virgo guy, fell in love with him, it was a long distance relationship, but we saw each other when he came to visit me. Lat year, I went off to university, in the same country he is studying in, we were having issues, so we broke up like months before I came to study, but we still spoke every now and again; until he decided it wasn't going to work for him, and after cursing him, because he totally avoided my question as to why he thought it was going to work, I forgive him, and told him, I was sorry for cursing what's not, only then he apologized and stated the reason why he thought we couldn't. Until at the end of the semester I was in desperate need of a place to stay before I left to return home, and I ended up having to stay with him for 2days. During the day it felt so weird to be around him,he acted a lil shy, I wasnt sure what to do what to say, if to talk about the relationship, if not to. Finally, I decided and ot to, cause I know if I didn't start he wouldnt have. Anyways, during the night he started becoming playful, a lil, and I responding back by playing with his hair, yea, we made love that night, or so I would had thought, but the nxt day we were back to square one, the same weird tension, until the nxt night I asked him about his relationship status, where he said he tries not to think about his feelings; it hurt so bad that I turned my body away from him, I couldn't bare to look at him anymore, realizing that I was hurt,(i guess), he tried to talk to me, but I wanted him to feel as hurt as me, and he did, until I couldn't bare it anymore, till I gave in and we made love again that night (so I thought), the morning was the same, but that morning I was leaving to come home, he was to go with me to say goodbye, but he ducked out, saying something came up, that hurt so terribly, I told him how I felt, I even told him I regretted doing it, cause I didn't know if I expected things to change btwn him and i, he told me I offended him, with my comment, now he won't talk to me or anything. Was I wrong, was I right, does he love me, what really is it? by the way, the sex was wonderful, but he confuses me and hurts me every time; why are Virgos like that?

I too am a Scorpio woman who has had the Virgo man Experience! A**hole! So I'm 21 and I met my Virgo in High School. We were friends who always made fun of each other, then grad night came and I let him kiss me! So we continued to have a "friends with benifits" relationship, no sex just above the waist stuff.

It's been 4 years. And he told me he wanted me to be his "wifey" and I never thought of him in that way. But of course being a Scorpio I rushed it! So I was calling him everyday and nagging him and complaining! Then he said, "I think we should date other people." So I was completely pissed off and angry and decided to take revenge. So I said, "fine I will." But I didn't and he ended up having sex with his ex.

So basically we returned to being friends with benefits and he ended up giving me oral sex. Which was amazing! Then we didn't talk for months. By the way he lives two states away and we only see each other when he's in town.

I am done with the "relationship" I deserve attention and respect. And if I cant get it form him I will get it from someone else. But he called me last week and I just said Hi and goodbye. I need to let him go but I know I will truly miss him as a friend.

I got to know my ex-gf in Q4 2009, we share some same interests & hobbies, and it wasn't long before we got together. The relationship lasted for 9 months, and it was her first relationship.

It was a wonderful one, and I thought we made a wonderful couple. We're attracted to each other very much, and we enjoyed spending time together. Even though we had small fights, it wasn't like hurting each other or cheating. We had been very loyal & devoted to each other.

But unfortunately, stress from school kicked in, and the bond between us was shaky. Perhaps because of that, I began becoming more clinggy, and she began needing more space.

I admit I wasn't understanding on that part, and it was too late before I realize. She broke the news to me about half a week ago, that she would want to break up with me. She didn't give a definite reason, but she labelled our relationship as a burden & she no longer has the time & money to support it, that we don't have a clear future, and it won't get better in future because she has a few loans to pay back.

She said she is firm on leaving me, but we can always do what we do when we were together (e.g. going on a trip, coming to my house). And if I need time before I be her friend again, she'd give me.

But I am so sure that she still loves me. Just a few days before the break-up, we were still happily dating. And that when I started tearing up on that evening, she actually held my hand (even though she withdrew it when I started holding tight).

I had been thinking about it, and I still feel that we can salvage this relationship. I want her back badly. I haven't contacted her yet, but I probably would, just to tell her to work hard for her studies.

How can I get her back?

Great post, it is interesting to read everyone's messages. Well, I am a Scorpio female, engaged to a Virgo male. We both met in architecture school, but he was two years senior of me and graduated and works now, while I am still finishing school. The beginning of our relationship was just AMAZING, the way we met, the way we were, just everything. I never took it seriously in the beginning, but we both became friends after a while, then started dating, until he proposed me. Everytime I went away for the summer to see my parents abroad, and when I came back when school was just about to start, I would see him, unshaven and just miserable, people used to tell me how "dead" he became without me,..anyway my point is, it is important to be yourself, because opposites do attract, and virgo's are curious like cats, they find Scorpio women very intriguing, especially with their mysterious aura. I remember when I tried to break off with him many times, because he pissed me off for various reasons in the past., and he always worked things out with him, till I realized I can't get rid of him and why should i? his working way too HARD to be with me!, and so I decided to glue myself to him. We are so much in love, and are loyal friends. We share everything, he doesn't even eat without me. I just love him! Engaged and to be married till next year!

I am a Scorpio woman. I've dated all kinds of signs. I've dated two virgos but is friends with one of them now. The second one is a total creep, psycho and hates to be chased but likes if he chases you. Don't call him or text him too much because he finds that just so freaking annoying. He thinks you'd be some drugs. Haha. Seriously, I manipulate my Virgo man. I kept destroying his thoughts of being with me because then he wants to be with me. I kept turning him down but I flirt because it's the way to keep in on his leash and humping on to me. lol. I am serious... girls. virgos like chasing you because they feel that you're a nobody if you cling on to them. don't CLING. he hates it. like for example I would tell my Virgo man I love him but I don't fucking need him. so I leave him alone. he wants more when he comes back. a lot MORE. they are too jealous though when it comes to you and you're guy friends. He feels you're a cheater then calls you a whore. which happens a lot with him and I . I don't get jealous, I get revengeful. muahahahahahaha. so if he lies about anything, I make him feel guilty shitty. but its just me. now he's obsessive because thats how he loves. but too much pain causes them act out and act posessive. some of you are reading thisand say "wtf is wrong with her or is she drunk?" there are ups and down. virgos are mysterious. so am i. I come off coldhearted. he likes to chase after cold hearted because he feels theres more to me. see the problem?

I am a 44 years old woman who is scorpio. Back in high school I had what turned out to be a one night fling. After that, this Virgo man didn't treat me very well at all. Nothing became of this. I still had feelings for him but at that time I guess I lacked self esteeme and never approached him. Over the years I have always thought of him and what should have been. So recently I contacted him on line and it turns out that he also has thought about me over the years. He has appologized the the coldness and at the same time said I was a bit intimidating back then. He tells me that he did really like me then and especially now that we have been talking. For me it was love at first sight and I still have those feelings. So does he. He tells me this. He is working out of state which is seasonal. He calls me when ever he can and we talk on line every minute he can. He is saying all the right things and he wants to be with me. He constantly tells me how beautiful I am. He se ems perfect in every way. He cant wait to see me and is thinking about flying me to his state to visit. I mean he is sweeping me up off my feet. I believe him but is this too good to be true? Can a Virgo man be so romantic, and willing to jump deep into a re born relationship like this? I hope so because I have always felt love for him. We have not said it directly but we both are dancing around the words. We started talking on valentines day. Could he truly be my valentine? Please advise. Thankyou "his valentine"

Virgo man dating Scorpio woman. I (Virgo) met my current girlfriend at work a few months back. Things were going pretty smooth until about 2 months ago. I've never really looked into this whole horoscope what nots, but I got curious. Come to find that the Virgo personality fits me almost perfectly. Any who, it's become kind of insane because we are always arguing over the dumbest stuff and realize it after about half an hour to an hour of yelling at each other. We usually just end up brushing it off after coming to the conclusion that we really do like each other and just want to be with each other. It's now getting to a point where it feels like she can't take it any more and I'm not sure what to do about it. I don't like fighting just as much as she doesn't, but it feels like most of the time, fighting is inevitable. When we get in fights, and I start to calm down, regardless what she has done or said that was upsetting, I kind of just push it out of my mind and apologize for what I did wrong. It's extrem ely rare that I'll hear the words I'm sorry" from her. She and I both are extremely stubborn. Only difference is that, I kind of come to my senses and level my head out and apologize when I'm confronted about something I did wrong or even simply just realize it. She definitely hold grudges which scares me about the future; that's considering we are gonna have one. Don't get me wrong, I do want one with her because she's everything I've always been looking for in a girl. Well minus the stubbornness, and I don't even mind that all that much. She also has it in her head that I never try to fix things. I try to tell her every time I do try and fix thing and she just won't hear any of it. I'm not sure if it's that she doesn't want to admit if she's wrong? or what it may be... Let me know what you think or what I can do to make this thing work and happen.

~Thank you

Your help greatly appreciated: I am a Scorpio woman. I had an odd visit with a Virgo man. It was great for the few days, good sex, good conversation, etc. But very soon he began to behave strangely, distancing himself, electing to sleep in another room, and doing many things to undermine the shred of intimacy we had going, he even suggested we take a break for a few days. It was difficult to maintain composure as an emotional and sensitive scorpio, I swear we can sense and feel everything, but I did not overreact. Instead I instigated an open and honest dialogue between us to determine how best to handle the situation. We departed on shaky terms, but vowed to stay friends, which we have so far. But I really want to keep exploring each other as more than friends. Does it make sense to continue to get to know him? Can we get back to a mutual footing that could lead to a real and meaningful relationship?

I'm a Virgo man born 08/24/1984, and she's a Scorpio female born on 11/16/1990. To tell you the true that Scorpio and I been together since 1 year and three month right now, it been a tough time still today, the main problem is the difference we have in common, we been arguiring everyday about unimportant stuff and end stressing each other, and also, most of the things that I like doesn't match hers. EX: sex, fun, good dialog, all these three distraction so far are very bad between us, I cannot enjoy sex or have a great conversation for at least one day because she's going to cut me off and be the opposite and compete to show what i'm saying is gadbage, and I hate having a great idea of mine being rejected. Furthermore, since my Scorpio are very smart, she will rather relax herself than helping me, she rather playing game, laughing, and have fun while most of the time i'm trying to find a way to get money. We have a big diffrence in many things, and that is a big im pact upon my happiness and hers too. I don't even know what to do right now, because she has most of the thing I been waiting for to find from a great girlfriend. Ex: Trust, sexy, beautiful, smart, intelligent, and else, those thing I have never found from any other previous girlfriend before, i'm feeling like a loser if I let her go.

I am Virgo,my girlfriend is scorp ours started out like we were head ova heel for one anothr .....the sex was good, but that was it,she I very clingy and dependent on me her life Is a total wreck....me um try to keep us grounded and stable it seem to me scorps are good people,but they are so police like ,this woman accused me of everything she often called my friends an mom with lie but I feel like if you do dirt it gone come on u,so I went to the light company and turned her and for fraud to make a long story short you better watch you r back because they are good charmers,devil,fake ass hell lol......how did we suppose to be comparable?...um organized neat and a perfectionist....she on the other hand is a lil trifle don't clean up behind her,her house I couldn't. Live wit. NASTY NASTY UM OUT. Happy times now don't want another Scorpio uggghhhh

A Virgo/Scorpio mix is a very very powerful one.... I am a Virgo male currently going a slight bit insane due to the female Scorpio who has thus far been in my life for a year and a half.... I want to not have any contact with her, but there is this bond that even I can't cut... it's a really bad head ache.

I am a 23 year old Scorpio woman and I am in a relationship with a 19 year old virgo....at first his age threw me off but the first day we spent together went great and we've been attached to each other since...we meet in ged class but didn't start talkin until we both finished...my Virgo is very calming...he is what im not...which makes us perfect for each other but in all he's become my best friend...we've only been talkin for almost 4 months now...but we both talk about marriage...together I feel we can accomplish a lot so far as work...n family...rite now its too soon to marry...we have to get financially stable but for now we jus take everyday one day at a time...even though his age threw me off at first...he simply told me wut he was about and since I was tired of gettin hurt...i tol him we'd have to take it slow...n everything he said he was...he was...i fell madly in luv wit him once I saw that he was true....he is my betta half and and e otha time i'd be hesitite to say that I see myself marryin him but I luv him so much and when sumbodi luvs you back jus da same but shows it more I can say it....n for all da otha Scorpio woman...u have to find one who has a good head on dere shoulders...one that enjoys life experiances...not somebodi who jus livin life...but dats jus my opionion....

me Scorpio and my Virgo man lost each other 6 years ago. before that he stop talk to me because I cheated on him when he was in jail we both were 18 at the time. after we stop talking, we would still see each other because we stayed across the street from each other but always wanted to speak to one another. there was this vibe we had that could never break. he was always in and out of jail and we wrote letters and we always fall asleep on the phone. we didn't stare having sex until 3 years into the relationship. we met at the age of 15. so anyway when we was 18 I cheated on him when he was in jail and he too it hard. after 6 years which we are now 24 (we havent seen each other that long) he says he is still in love with me and the past is the past and that we were young and he said he is more mature. he said he want to tell me how he feels about me and this is the exact words he used: well let me tell you how I feel.... I feel good to know you and even better to ha ve you back. im happy to know that you still love me cause I still love you too and honestly im not saying just right now but I hope that we can become more than what we are you know all I wanted is to share everything with you to talk to you about our ideas our dreams, the little everyday things that make us laugh and the not so little things that we cant help worrying about all I ever wanted to do for you is give you my love as a place you can come to for acceptance or the simple confort that silence brings when things left unspoken can still be understood. im not the person you use to know I have grown up in so many diffent ways and it says a a lot the way you looked me up. im happy to know you still care for me and ill be glad when I can get to see you and touch you. im happy that you are back in my life and I am aware that everything happens for a reason and if there is one thing that I know, waiting sharpens desires, in fact it helps us recognize where our real desires lie. it separates our passing enthusiasms from our true longing................... plus he said some other things. all this was in a text. we also talk about the bible a lot and talk about old times. NOW, we had phone sex, kind of he did all the talking and I did all the doing. I was nervous cause we never did this kind of stuff before but he came at me first. we still havent had sex at this point. we wanna stay it slow when we meet up. SO after all this, its about 3am now. he tells me that he will call me back and make sure I get up for breakfast at 7am and than he says he loves me. so he calls me at 6am in the morning and I answer but we was sleep on the phone for about 2 hours. so I got up after missing breakfast and go to class but we still on the phone at this point but while im getting dressed, he's sleep (no problem cuz I love being on the Phone with him). so he was so I guess he was so tired that he didn't wake up so I had to hang up to go tho class. all of a sudden I get out of class waiting for his called and text (we talk thru the WHOLE day) but he didn't call or text the whole day. I did but he did not respond at all. I keep thinking what did I do wrong. did I come on a little strong just a little bit with the phone sex? but he was being nastier than me. so it only been one and a half day and im just waiting now. by the way he is in jail but is innocent. he has a cell phone in there and talks on it with me. don't ask how he got a phone cuz I don't know. I really love him. PLEASE HELP AND RESPOND. I don't KNOW WHAT TO THINK OR DO. I TOLD HIM ILL WAIT FOR HIM AND HE SAID HE WANTS ME TO WAIT TO. O AND WHEN I EXPRESSED MY FEELING TO HIM I WAS NERVOUS BUT HE SAID HE WANTS TO HERE MORE.. WHAT AM I TO DO.

Scorpio Woman here. Back in 2009, I dated a Virgo man ten years my senior. (at the time 23/33) I was coming out an unhealthy relationship with a Gemini for almost five years. The Virgo and I dated briefly for four months. A very intense four months, but it felt like we knew each other for years! It was great. But I guess he felt he wasn't ready for something so intense and real. I broke down all his walls and created moments in his life, he felt he could never forget it. After two years apart, he offered reconciliation. I was hesitant, but I never felt for someone as deeply as I do for him.

The sex is amazing, but what's even more amazing is the emotional and intellectual connection. Now, I live in another state pursuing my career and academic goals. We are dating long distance. He calls me and texts me every day to tell me how much he loves and misses me. He will be coming next month to see me. I will be in his state for his birthday. I never see him make such initiative for us or our relationship. I am scared and reluctant to give myself to him. But, I can't help it. I believe a scorpio-virgo union can work, if the Scorpio woman learns to not completely smother Virgo man with her passionate love, give him his space, and learn to use more reason and not emotion to overrule the communication, and then this union could be ideal. Virgo man needs to learn to be more sensitive, open and trusting of his Scorpio counter-part. I read this online and found it to be quite accurate:

If a Virgo man gets a Scorpio woman, he gets the woman of his dreams because as much as she may be difficult to deal with; she is also the love of his life. She will be a woman he cannot live without and once he knows that, he may stop taking her for granted.

So Virgo man takes a chance with her. I promise you she will fill your world with such resplendent hues and then some. Scorpio woman, don't give up on his cold ways, he is a sensitive soul that needs your devotion and amazing ability to make him feel divine.

well well well, I'm a Virgo male been in a relaationship with a Scorpio for a year and six month now, I won't lie that everything was great at the benginig, but after a few month things started to change she cry the most and conplain that I don't care enough and she seems like she has a special way to make love to her, yes because you have to be very patient when you make love to a her othrwise she going to complain that she not feeling you, sometime I feel very discouraged making love to her, because what i'm doing is not what she wants, i'm a kind of Virgo who will try my best to make you feel good but don't expect me to make your special move when I don't even know when too, she sometimes want me to assume when I was supose to touch her a different part or go a different position, but how woutl I know when to make that move. It likes a mission impossible, so please Scorpio female I need your help because sometime I think I will not make it with her if she keep on acting that way, she keep on stoping me most of the time to conplain that she not getting what she wants and that get me cold because I feel like i'm trying for nothing.

Please help anyone; I need soundproof advice; the naked truth; really desperate!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm a Scorpio woman,crazy inlove with a Virgo man and crazy enough to believe that he feels the same, only to realise that I was once again acting like a naive little girl.

Our story starts three years back when he started flirting with me, 8 months later I found myself in his bed... We've been on and off for the past two years; he had a girlfriend, but they broke up a short while back because 'she complicates everything'... I want him to myself, but everytime I move closer, he moves away, it's frustrating me sooo much!!! We spent some time together today (a whole hour) just talking; actually he spinned me a bullshit story about how he's gonna move 300 km away to go work for his sister; he said he's leaving everything behind, starting afresh; I wanted to burst out in tears, but held myself up; he asked me if I am gonna cry and I said no, why; he said that he could see I wanted to and I said I'll wait till I get home, he just laughed, asking me if I'm gonna miss him, I said yes, of cos I'm gonna miss him; than he said that he thinks that I'm rather gonna miss something else (meaning sex) and I assured him that I'm gonna miss him... I asked him the same question, he refused to answer; I asked again and he said no he's not gonna miss anyone besides his mother and his kids. Told me a long story about not wanting to give his heart to anyone, not wanting to love anyone unconditionally, because he's too afraid of getting his heart broken and all that stuff; I told him that he's a coward if he's scared to give his heart just because his afraid of getting it broken, he told me that some people get suicidal because of that and that he'd never want to suffer that much... I felt like I'm getting dumped by my boyfriend... :( well, when he dropped me off at home, he told me that he was only joking about going away and when I asked him why he did that, he said he just wanted to see what I would do... the cheek!!!! Right now I'm so pissed off and don't wanna talk to him, because I feel like the biggest fool, to think, I almost cried in front of him... Please just tell me what's going on in that mans head, because I don't know anymore, I've tried staying away from him too many times and it never seem to work for very long; whenever he calls me, I'm there... I don't understand what's happening to me, everything I do, is for him even if I only spent time with him once every two months; that's actually what's so weird and out of character; we've spent time together a week ago, so it surprised me that he called me today; the only thing we ever do when we're together, is making love, but today he took me for a long (hour) ride, just to see what my reaction will be... Please anyone, I'm really desperate; I need to move on with my life and I can't if I still don't know whether he loves me or not...

I am a Scorpio woman and my best friend is a Virgo. It all started 4 years ago, we met at work. I had my eye on him about 6 years ago but I was in a relationship and so was he so I didn't bother. I broke up with my partner and heard through the grapevine that he had ended his relationship so I gradually started talking to him. I could sense that he was shy and I knew he wouldn't ask me out so I scored some really good seats and invited him to a football game. From that day on we hit it off and it was like we were inseparable - I liked his friends and they liked me and vice-versa. We spent a lot of time together and always had a good time. One night however, I had some issues with my phone and was not receiving text messages we both had the same phone and I went to text myself with his permission from his phone to see if the text would go through and I noticed a flirty text from another girl on his phone so I played dumb handed him the phone asking him to text me bec ause I couldn't figure out his phone (yet we had the same phone). Later on that night he was being really sweet and telling me nice things and I couldn't help but ask him why he would say those things if he was seeing other people. He was shocked and tried to play it off but when I mentioned this girls name and the text he had nothing to say. I gradually lost trust in him and with time I started distancing myself even though all of his friends preferred me over the other girl he was seeing - I'm not one to compete so I started dating another guy. For about a year I was seeing the two of them and then cut things off with my Virgo friend and continued seeing a Cancer for 3 years. Through out the three years Virgo and I remained friends and have established a wonderful friendship but there has always been an attraction between us. Virgo and his girlfriend broke up about a year ago which was shortly after I broke it off with Cancer and since then we started hanging out more frequently. Initially he wanted a relationship with me again but due to my trust issues I was very guarded. Shortly after he started dating another girl for about 2 months after his break up and he would call me on occasion for advice but after about a month or so she got back with her ex and then he started coming around more frequently again. As the months went by my feelings for him were growing but I didn't want to say anything...we had been traveling together, we would cook together and sing and dance in his living room while drinking wine, for my birthday he treated about 7 friends of mine to sushi and drinks, no matter what we did together I always felt comfortable being myself around him and no matter how goofy we got it's always good times with the two of us. In December 6 months after he had broken it off with the girlfriend #1 (same girl from text 4 years ago) we went to Mexico together. Everyone thought we were the cutest couple and would ask how long we had been together and neither him or I would deny anything but I knew we were just friends. On that trip I finally told him how I felt about him and he said that he enjoyed our friendship and that he didn't want to ruin it so I let it go. When we returned he gradually started hanging out less and less and by the New Year he was M.I.A. I soon found out that he had gotten back with ex #1 and he didn't want to tell me. So again I dropped it and let him be. there were back together for about 3 months and during this time I rarely spoke to him. I happened to send him a text message telling him that I missed my friend and a week later we met up for lunch and he was still seeing her at the time. A few weeks later he started calling me again more frequently and it turned out that he was gradually breaking up with her again. We have been hanging out a lot again and about a month ago we had an intense conversation and I asked him why he always comes back to me...He said he loves being around me and after a few drinks one thing led to another and we had the best sex you could imagine. It had been about 3 years since we were intimate and the next morning we woke up and were intimate again. We both got ready and left for work and that same day he called and invited me to lunch. Me being his friend I just played it cool because I didn't want to come on to strong so I maintained our normal relationship. Shortly after he called out of the blue and we met for dinner. I had plans to go out with some friends after dinner and he had other plans and later that night we met up again. I ended up leaving with him and again we had sex. I had to take his car the next day because I had left with him the night before but I returned that night and stayed with him again and of course we hooked up again and the next day on our way to work he drove me to my car. Every thing has been fine between us since but in the last 2 weeks I noticed him getting distant again and suspected he was seeing someone again. Last night we talked on the phone for two hours and I told him I enjoyed our friendship and that I wanted to keep our current friendship along with the new thing we had going and he asked if I wanted a relationship. I told him I did't want to label anything and that I just wanted too go with the flow of things and he asked if we could see other people. I asked how he would feel if I started dating other people how he would feel and he said he didn't know. Then he confessed to me that he recently started dating girl #3 two weeks ago but that he didn't see it going anywhere. Again I let it go and told him to do his thing. I asked him why he always goes back and forth with me and he told me that he didn't want to lose me because he cares about me and that the attraction is there. I reminded him that I had asked him to leave me the $%#^ alone last time he did this and he told me that if I made him choose he would choose me over her. I told him to follow his heart. The next day we talked on the phone and had our normal friendly conversation but deep down inside I wanted to tell him not to call me anymore but I didn't know how to tell him - 40 minutes into our conversation he said he would call me back later on that night so I asked him not to bother...He questioned why and I just told him I needed my space from him and by his tone I could tell he was hurt. I texted him saying "please don't take that the wrong way...understand that I have feelers for you that go beyond our wonderful friendship which makes it hard for me every time you come in and out of my world. I'm not giving you an ultimatum either because that is not fair to you or me. I'm just making a choice for myself because I can't keep allowing you to come around and leave as you please while I suppress my feelings. So I'm choosing to distance myself for now...I still consider you a good friend but I need to allow myself the space and time to get over it. I know this sounds cheesy but it's what I need for now. Take care buddy and no hard feelings :) as 2pac would say "I ain't mad atcha..." (feelers is an inside joke between us...we always say you hurt my feelers when we're joking around.) He replied I haven't left your world so I replied "You're right - you haven't left my world - but when you take a trip to "Venus" and come back when you're board it just makes things hard on me - I do have feelers for you in my world but I have no control of yours so all I can do is take action to protect mine because that is what I have control of. Nothing against you but I just gotta do me for now. I still luv ya though :) He replied "I never knew you felt that way and I said that's because I'm good at hiding it. He said Well that sucks but I guess it is what it is. and I just left it at that. I don't know if this means the end of us and our friendship but what I do know is that the Virgo/Scorpio relationship can be very fun and intense so if you ever have the opportunity to experience it it is well worth it!!!

I was talkin to a Virgo man at first it was all good I thought I find someone that gets me and like me for who I am he can be aloof and sometime I can take it and sometime it was so annoying like ewwww I really liked him and we would talk every night about everything under the sun and the sex was great but with something good therea always something bad we would argue like once a week and it was become so annoying when I want to hang he was on his ohhh Im busy or I don't feel like hangin bullshit so I was feel so hurt and I wanted for him to want me cuz I felt that he didn't things finally look like it was getting good until he told my friend somethin that turned me off and we having talk since I do miss but I can't keep playin this game I deserve better.......I do wish the best for him

Ok here it goes.... I have been talking/dating a Virgo man who is a pro athlete. I met him by chance and didn't realize he was a pro athlete until our 1st date. He is a very much a home body and I'm a social Scorpio but loves spending tim w/him. He is patient and kind..he waited months before we ever did anything sexually and I loved the fact that he never pressured me. He opened his home to me and invited me over for dinners and to meet family including his mother on several different occasions. He's introduced me to some of his closest teammates. But what I don't understand is why he has integratedme into his life but he can go weeks without speaking to me or seeing me? If he goes out of town or back to his hometown during offseason our communication drops but when comes back into town I'm the first person he calls to pick him up at the airport and we spend time tgether like no time had past since the last time we saw eachother! He's told me that he is not ready to commit which is fine but alm ost a year has past and we are still doing this same dance...should I continue? I'm really interested in being more serious with him but don't want to push him away...

ok.... first off I am a Scorpio women 21 yrs of age and I am hopelessly in love with a 22 yr old Virgo man. ok all together we saw each other from time to time for about 2 yrs. I met him at my job and at first we never talked he was always so quiet and reserved I used to sit with them evertime they came in so I started talking to his friend and he was just a cocky dumb dumb I kind of think it was to get to him anywa cause I always thought he was the cutest one out of the group then after the whole exsperience with his friend when they came in to my job I was hesitant on sitting near them because of the tension in the air we scorpio's can feel it so I sat away from them by myself an suddenly my Virgo love walked up behind me and asked me how I was doing I smiled I couldn't help it I just felt this amazing burst of energy threw me I smiled said I was good asked aboutr his friend he got his beer and walked back I was so excited I could barely control myself a couple wee kends went by and i'm at work and I see them walk him except this time it was just him and his other nfriend which we are still friends till this day I sat down in between them and proceeded to flirt with him he came on to me in the best way ever I was exzillerated that night he gave me his number then we started texting a lot all day everyday he only lived a mile down the road from me at the time I know right crazy so he used to come to my house every weekend then it got to be more often twice a week or like two days in a row I messed with him threw out my entire second pregnancy and even after I had my baby I kept that I was pregnant from him in fear he would stop talking to me then this female I worked with told him he called me immediatly and asked "so I hear you're having another little boy huh?" my reply was yeah how did he knoe that I told him why I didn't tell him and he told me that that probably would not have been the outcome of the situation time went on and I stopped hearing from him and yes I went threw the whole standing me up thing I remember nights when he would say he would come over and he wouldn't therefore I just used to blow his phone up I used to feel lied to but now I know sometime in life things come up and things don't always work out I believe in fait and I tell you weird coincedences would bring me to think of him ok like my first day back at this clb I go in and I haden't heard from him in like a week ok then what bam there he is then I move to another club for a while the day I decide to go back he's there again his friend even said it "it's like ya'll are ment to be" he replied with "dont tell her that shit man " he refersed to me as a fool like what up fool I hate it am I a fool i'm sorry I refuse to believe that I can remember countless nights when he would come over he'd stay from 2-7 am and we would talk and flirt for like 2 hours thenstart messin around then have sex he'd fall asleep and I would spend atleast a hour trying to wake him up because I didn't want to leave him out there all alone he has sat outside with me in the freezing cold and helped keep me warm his mom caught us the very first time we even did anything I was so scared he had to clean all day itwas so funny scary we just had a lot of good times together then it seemed one day I got him to come out to where I was living cause it soon did get harder and harder to convince him to com see me I finally got him to and I kinda stood him up so I could sit in my bathroomwith my friend and talk to her about her situation I think he felt ignored and I really never talked to him to much after that for almost a year I literally called him evey day just to hear his voice on his voice mail I always remembered where he lived from the first time we kicked it so I would casually drive by his house jus to peep game on him I started to talk to his friend fromthe night I got his phone nunber for the first and he gave me a little insight on the situation cause I really was just confused he told me that to some people things might have been "meaningless" that really hurt cause I believe actions speak louder then words an there was no way that was true so one day I just went to his house unexspectedly and knocked on the door and he answered I was in total shock I haden't deen him in person face to face in quite some time and I was very nervous but he let me in an we talked a little bit just basic shit nothing about our past encounters but just here today and then we played halo I decided to leave after about an hour because I didn't want to over stay my welcome if I already hadent but what was done was done and I couldn't take that back now but he gave me a hug I was so ready to getout of there so I could freak out I almost ran out that door then I stopped turnrd around and signaled him to come to me he almost didn't acting like he was going to shut the door then he opened it up I asked if he was going to give me a hug and gave him oeanyway and left I was totally freaking out it was amazing now i'm just like what now i'm worried seeing him either confermed to him he doesn't want anything to do with me or what i'm worried nervous and excited what do you gather from all of this!

Im a 25 year old Scorpio woman and I've been "officially" dating my 30 Year old Virgo man for 7 Months. We've been friends for a total of 5 years. We have recently moved in together. He is very hardworking; currently working 2 jobs to support us and is wonderful to my 2 little girls. I can get VERY emotional & I'm quick to tell him "I love you" or express my feeling etc...Him on the other hand he's very complicated at times. He gets in these moods where he just wants to be alone and ignores me for no cause. Eventually he will snap out of it and come back to her as if nothing occurred. It's strange and bipolar behavior if you ask me LOL...The sex is GREAT & AWESOME when we do get time to etc do to the kids and his work schedule. When he is at home is would rather just rest and sleep, but my sex drive is through the roof. Last night he referred to me "as a rabbit with the pick little thing hanging out" LOL. We don't have sex as often as I would like, he's not very ro mantic wanting to cuddle, and HE NEVER FRENCH KISSES, not even during sex! I'm starting to wonder if he's cheating or maybe becoming less interested because maybe he finds me a little too "needy". I do everything from working full time, cooking, cleaning, and I'm very much into my children and their schooling. I'm beautiful, I workout and eat healthy foods, very clean and well groomed....Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions and just thinking too much into it...I'm unsure. Do Virgos just lose interest for no reasons or causes???? We've had a great deal of arguments mostly do to his (Lack of communication) & (Wondering Eyes) while we're out on dates. I'm very jealous so this causes conflict FAST! At the end of the day we've always seem to make up because I always reach out and express how we should TALK. After he calms down it's back to normal and the routine. How do I know that he is TRULY here to stay and not going to vanish for no cause etc.....

I have a Virgo guy-friend. We were classmates before..and kinda "friends". (we never talked. He was sending me letters even if we met in the classroom and I use to reply but without much interest coz I liked somebody else)..I moved to europe for work and didn't know anything bout him for 3 years. But then a friend gave me his no. telling me he's waiting for me to call...he told me he loves me but rarely texts or call me first. After 9 years he came from korea to see me..We were both happy on that encountes but, I can't stand a long distane relationship so as soon as he returned to korea I told him we must cut off our comunication...he didn't answered so I begged him to answer me for the last time to ussure me he understands...Finally he said, "It's ok, I understand." Does he really love? He won't answer me on the phone now..Is he hurt o angry? I hope some Virgo men can answer me..