Virgo man and Sagittarius woman

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I've been married to a Virgo for 12 yrs and before that we were friends for 5 yrs..

I have so much to write.. but the bottom line is, Virgos are NOT what a sag thinks.. they are NOT nice, there is something very pungent beneath all those layers of niceness.

He cheated on me with my own best friend.. funny my best friend is a Virgo too.. they totally zeroed my trust in human beings.

thank gaud for my Sag Sun.. or I don't know how I could have moved on from that betrayal.

I have feelings for a Virgo man. It has been a great experience because I want to understand everything about him. I usually don't care, our indifference has peaked my interest.

well...

As a Sag woman I find Virgo men to be a great intellectual stimulation and exploring new ideas. WAY to fussy for me though, I need a carefree bubbly bee like me :)

He is Virgo and I'm a Sag we had a romance that started 17yrs ago that ended 2yrs later. We have always loved each other. He found me 15yrs later and there couldn't be a more compatible person to be with, We are soul mates.

I've been with my Virgo 4 9 yrs and he is a complete asshole he's controlling at least use to be but me being a dec 8 sag he learned that he can't program me im a free spirit person I love him and trust he loves me even though he shows it in his own way their good men real good men and can be very loyal when there much older and happy cause they need money to be happy we bump heads a lot but nowhere as much as we use to were way to different like oranges and apples u have to keep yourself entertained when u have a Virgo cause there very simple they like to do things as a family but there fine at home and I can't do it so my advise for the sexy sagies out there cause that's what we are if your considering dealing with a Virgo make sure u make your own money so they can't tell u how to spend it cause they like to control shit so make sure u have your own b4 u leap into a dull ass relationship but the sex is amazing they are nasty which is a good thing as along as its with u only. oh one more thing they will do anything for u their money can afford and they like classy women no booty shorts or a lot of tattoos big booty and u must be very clean with your body and house...... sagies are so fly and everybody wants to be like us cause we take no bullshit but ours

I totally agree. I m a saggy and was in a relation with a Virgo man which lasts for 5 yr. these r d worst years of my life. u cant trust them. he cheated me a lot of times. felt guilty. but nothing can change them . Sagittarius and Virgos are totally no no no

Was married to Virgo for 5 years, divorced and dated another one for 3 years. NO MORE F**G my brain. Now if someone mentions b-day end of August-September-I run as fast as can.

I'm a Sexy Sag & I've been w/ my Virgo for 9 months & we are expecting our first child. Our relationship is crazy to me because he is controlling at times & over protective & I find it cute & funny. When he found out I was pregnant his control button hit an all time high. We argue often now but after we argue we like to talk things over & get things right. Our relationship isn't that bad right now but I'll just have to wait until we start living together to really see any major changes.

sure it is good to be with a Virgo man , am a sagg and do enjoy man Virgo too well. simply because I can rely on him for so many things especially related to finances and fidelity. we have been together for five years now and until recently we are planning to wed. my only worry is about sex. am too much into it while he isn't. it feels bad to want too much while your man doesn't. sorry to confess but a have had a few flings with some other men who really stimulate me. but I cannot rely on them ever than I do with my Virgo. I understand our differences but when you are concerned with the stability of the marriage and family the way to go is Virgo. you never be suspicious of the man, he will be there for you and the children and will provide for the need even without your asking. all we need to do is train a Virgo how to express their love and refurbish their sex lives.

Its damn true about these cold souls. Am a sag and my ex is a Virgo. we are both married to different people though, we "communicate" and meet occasionally. before the break up we had dated for only 6 months en I dropped him hot, felt like I needed a world to feel like a woman. I couldn't understand him, his a damn cold, emotionless son of a (am sorry), ba strangely so sweet and attractive. We ve met several times (affair) en suddenly am understand who he is, he doesn't talk much, I always think he's angry or sad when he isn't. in bed, I have to start the whole quest, u know, he doesn't like kissing that much, I don't really remember romancing up passionately with him, ba he reacts when I get down on his groin place allover with ma tongue, he is so reserved in bed it sucks, a mean its sweet knowing that he can even erect for me, I always have to start, the touching, the massage, the caressing en stuff, now we are a bit far from each other en he can take even up to 2months before h e replies my mails or sms, or even letting his cell on.

Its so depressing to a point I wish he just died. a mean I want this guy and I need him to want me like a normal man would want a woman, (his wife is also a Virgo I guess) he claims he goes up to 1year without sex with this woman, he claims they are only together because of the kid they gat. ba one thing I love hearing in ma mind is he claimed he never EVER had any woman "doing" him in bed the way I do him, ba I know am not his ideal wife woman for life and I wouldn't even want that because am too young to die because of frustration..In bed the guy is so shy, he doesn't want to do some stuff with me, when I ask him why he doesn't do this and that he says " I just don't like en" Virgo men (esp) are born under some sweet curse, they have almost everything a woman can die for but sadly they aren't willing to give out en share these sweetness about them. Oh another thing, I like minis en stuff that show my curves, but whenever am meeting this guy, I have to put on descent long if not casual, "old fashioned" clothes to please him, I always feel uneasy in the clothes I have to wear while am with him, ba if I want something from this guy, I try playing this old fashioned tunes with him. Am glad because I know am the only fire in his life at the moment, the wife is just a mother of his kid and his cook and maybe some innocent, unsexy maid running around his house cleaning and washing without even sex as a thank you in the night. Av learned to be giving him his time before he calls me or emails or sms's, I simply do this by having some passionate short time affairs to 4get him a bit waiting for the moment hell communicate, it works! I might admit I never loved any guy the way I do love this Virgo freezer.

Ba it pleases me 2 know that even when he's quiet for long, he's working sleepless on his unfinished projects, or duties instead of chasing the sluts around.. oh he told me am fun being around! if this guy Virgo can spend a night, allowing u to ride on his (u know) then know deep down in his heart u have won his love, they rarely sleep just with "anybody" unless you're special in his eyes, so keep up. I met in feb with my Virgo ex, spend a one week holiday at a place and I bet he enjoyed while I found it dead frustratingly boring, en since then we ve only talked once on phone. The last he told me know that I love you, en from then his cell goes dead, no mail replies, no smses, am used to this now, I get mad , really mad at times, en decide to suppress this anger and longings of him on simply having some good time with other hot guys who never mind one night stands or something, en during this time I tend to 4get him a bit, so it works. But any Sagittarius can get any man she wants, even this perfect Virgos anything ba any man who is willing to hear those sweet appealing words from any woman. so never be cheated, I am the one who looked up for this guy, my ex, a Virgo guy, and we meet , make holidays , leaving his Virgo wife back at home, I mean, these Virgo guys need a woman who gat fires, passions and can boldly share with them because their lives are nothing but a bunch of cold, emotionless, boredom full of hard work and frustrations. go for them girls. they are there lying en wishing in their "minds" for some adventure and passionate moments....

Seriously.. this is almost an impossible match.. I had a 1yr relationship with a charming Virgo.. that crashed just because we were 'Greek' to each other.. we kept wondering what the other might be thinking!!! It was tough to understand a Virgo, myself being a 10th December-ian, since they are neither similar. nor polar opposites. He was nice ,intellectual, caring and thoughtful! Yet overcritical, fussy, controlling.. all that a sag dislikes. So Sags. look out for Aries Leo and Sags! They are worth spending time and emotions on!!

I've been in a on again off again relationship with a Virgo man and its been frustrating! I can't just forget him and get him out of my system because the sex is amazing. He is an asshole, ignores me when he chooses, then expects me to be back with him as if nothing is wrong. If the above women is correct, I don't think he is with other women and I think he really likes me but just doesn't know how to show it.

I'm engaged to a Virgo man. We've been together for more than two years now, and it's been interesting. For part of this time he was out of work, so had plenty of time to obsess over MY life. Thankfully, though, he's back to work and I can get back to being my independent self. Sure, we argue, it's often a battle of wills with us. Thankfully, since we're older than most engaged couples, we each bring plenty of relationship experience into the mix. Using past experience and knowing ourselves has helped tremendously in strengthening our bond. Unlike most Virgo men, my husband-to-be loves to be out and about with me. My problem? I'd rather be on my own sometimes. He's also an organizer...meaning, heaven help me if I put a DVD back on the rack out of alphabetical order! One of the best parts about our relationship is the sex. I am a VERY sexual woman, and he is very adventurous. So, needless to say, I'm a very satisfied Sagittarius! Maybe it has to do with the different planets and risings and such...or maybe it's just us. Either way, we've found ourselves to be very compatible overall, and I can't imagine a better soul mate!

Whew!! These stories have certainly made me feel better.

I'm a Sag woman and my ex is a dull, boring and dull (oh said that already) Virgo. We were together almost 2 years and I was miserable each day of it. He was the most emotionless person I ever met and I think he died every night before we went to sleep because We rarely had sex! Whenever we did have sex, I always had to initiate it and it was the same boring position. I honestly think this man was born without a pulse. He lies about nothing and stresses about every small detail.

He seemed to be very family oriented which I liked....but he gets so focused on his own little world, I felt like he didn't include me in it at all. He took on so many tasks to fill up his day but turned into a lump on a log when he came home to me. His sneaky ways and dishonesty almost sent me to the broke house as he always talked a good game but did little to back it up.

He only looked to have it all together but the guy was totally insecure on the inside.

NOT a match made in heaven for this Sag girl!!

I am currently involved with a virgo,I really like him he is sensitive,caring,sexy,always ask about my kids buuuuttt He is insecure.He doesn't recieve compliments well and he acts like the ugly duckling.He also likes to connect with old flings and conceal our relationship in front of people like he is trying to be slick.I am not sure just watching for now to see what happens.....

omg, I can relate to all of these. I am currently married to a vigo man we split 7 months after marrying. We are pending divorce now. He's very critical, "jack of all trades but Master of none".. he has ruthless ambitions and he lies all the time over small things. Before him I dated 2 other virgos and they ended almost the same way. Yes, when someone tells me they're a virgo, I run as fast as I can...no more chances for Virgos!!

Dated a Virgo man for three years, he was a great love learning experience. I found out what I was capable of giving and taking. Didn't work out because he didn't feel as free as us Sag's do. Emotionally consumed in his own world and searching for perfection in others and not within himself. It was really hard to make it work when your partner is very critical. Kinda hard to enjoy yourself as well when you are surrounded by a debbie downer. There was also more negative thoughts of each other then good. I think it has to do with the fact that both parites(signs) don't like to bow down and agree to disagree. The concept of "winning" the arguement needed some compromise. Although it was a good relationship, I will take all the good from it and move on because there was more negative memories then good. I did not feel attractive after a certain point in the relationship and that was when I knew, it wouldn't work. It would have just continued to be a uphill battle with l ots of scars.

I am currently dating a Virgo, and it is not how I expected a relationship to be. He lacks in romance, he doesn't try to surprise me at all. He trips if I talk to my guy friends. He lacks that self-confidence and swears he is ugly. It is really annoying to always be the first to start off something... like a kiss. Not the greatest kisser out there either, and when we get to arguments he is always saying things that are irrelevant, like "are you seeing someone else?"

Come on now, Im sure Sag girls are pretty faithful, we just need some spice in the relationship. Some romance, some surprises, a guy who knows what they want and wont critize everything about you.

I have been with a Virgo mam for a year by now,i feel his just great . His very caring and understanding. He is my first love and I do hope he will be da last one too.we re just crazy bout each other. my sex life is also very pleasurable, his just too nice in bed!!!!!

I had drama with a Virgo (Imma Sag woman) We became friends in the summer time at a club and he kept chasing me. I didn't like him much... he really irritated me. Then I started to be attracted to him. and I remember he'd asked me out and I told him to let me think. I was going to tell him yes but he stopped contacting me for like 2 months. Then he came back and we became close friends. He was like a best friend and then new years we had sex. I really didn't want to but I was intoxicated so I went with it and it was pretty good. Anyway after that I found out he had a girlfriend and I was pissed at him and shocked that he'd deceive me like that so I was mad at him for a while. ended up forgiving him and we started to be like best friends again and I told him that I didn't want to creep around with him anymore, but like a fool I did and it ate me up inside. Especially when he introduced me to his girlfriend (cancer) after that I told him I wanted to be honest and tell her. And that I didn't wanna mess around with him anymore, which I didn't mess with him anymore. So months passed and I guess she found out and she was starting crap with me, which I don't blame her , but from what he was telling her (which I found out later after having a heart to heart with her) , I was obsessed with him (which is a lie because it was the other way around) and he was telling me he was gonna break up with her for me and I was like if you're doing that to her then you'd do it to me so eff that no thanks plus you're a liar and a cheater. Anyway in the end I was about to fight this girl over a guy I did not want and who was just a fling I wanted to forget, but thought it was worthless so I told him I never wanted to speak to him again and ended up calling her up telling her everything and she the same. so we became watever again. and I guess he got pissed off and started telling some people crap about me but I really don't care haha. But I've forgiven him but havent forgotten what he did, so that happened beginning of 2010 , ok so like a week ago he texts me and was like I heard you moved and im like who is this he told me I told him I forgive him but don't trust him he tells me he misses me and our friendship im like whatever yea right. so I chop it up with him a little bit and tell him he'd better be treating his girlfriend right or imma hurt him. stuff like that. so she hits me up on facebook and tell me to get out of his life. and im like wtf he texted me. more drama so I blocked em both.... MY POINT: That Virgo brought nothing but drama!!!!! however I'm not gonna let one Virgo change what I think about others.... I have several Virgo friends and they're really good friends. I just had one bad experience.

Im a Saggitarian who been with my Virgo Lover for about three months. I must say that for now the relationship is good and we go almost everywhere. He is family oriented and very delicious sexually. Im very adventurous and like nature. He seem like a very decent nice guy. He also pays for our dates. He is also very spiritual like me. We are both in our 40s and have matured through most of our experiences. I was with an Aquarian before, and although they say we are supposed to be compatible, the Aquarian guy was very immature and not a good human being at all. So it depends on how we both understand each other in the long run, heres an example look at Michelle and Barack Obama, Barack is a Leo and Michelle is a Capricorn, is that a Match made in Heave. You decide!!!!!!!!!

Ive been in a long distance relationship with a Virgo man for 8 months. At first..he was the most caring person I have ever met..i felt very good with him...we were constantly happy talking and doing things together.He was careful at every little aspect of our relationship...I tried bringing new things to him..like artistic things and poetry..he;s not really on this side..but he at least tried them.

The big problem is that ..his new best friend is my cousin....a Capricorn :(....and there has been this feeling which stil haunts after 8 months..that they are made for each other...they have the (almost) same family story..they have the same likes and dislikes...they enjoy their time spent together in a very happy manner...

Ok so....My dad died.i tried to keep emotions tight shut in there..but I everutally turned to him..My biggest mistake ever... Since then he gradually turned more and more distant from me :(...showing less and less affection....

i tried repairing it..building up my confidence...being ambitious again..but he is..jst the same..i tried everything....i even tried talking to him bout this.. :( and when I give little complaints..he goes all sad and depressed....and then nothing changes...

Im depressed...scarred...and what not D= I don't know what to do..but I certainly am stubborn and I dun want to let go....ive set it as my goal to teach him how to show emotions....i hope he is not cheating on me.....

There have been times..many times...when he payed more attention to her...being more considerate of her.. and ignoring me...One of her ex's told me he felt the same things as me....

What too do...?

I dated a Virgo man for five years and all I can say is....Con Man he was the biggest liar I ever met and very unfaithful, the worst is that I didn't find out about his cheating ways until the 5th year when I dumped his sorry ass. Virgo me are manipulative, cold, insensitive, dishonest and the greatest pretenders....When I learn a man is a Virgo I put on my sneakers and run for my life and never look back

I'm a December 9th born Sagi and I seem to have the opposite experiences of what most of you are saying here. my Virgo has an insatiable appetite for sex (sometimes he wants it 3,4 times a day) and physically he is just as active and outgoing as I am. actually has traveled around the world far more than i've been able to. he is very independent and successful, and we have the most amazing conversations together. only time will tell, but I really think he could be the one.

I would love to hear from some Virgo men about their experience with sag women!!!

I am a Virgo and everyone on here is generalizing. It all depends on the houses, planets and transits between two charts. Virgo can work with anyone that has the right combo of chart aspects.

I'm a Nov. 30 Sag and I've been seeing a Virgo man for the past 2 months. I like him alot. I see a lot of good qualities in him, but he is very reserved and stand-offish. One of the biggest problems I have w/him is that he hardly ever returns calls or text messages, and he rarely answers his phone when I call him. When we're together, he's very sweet and attentive and the sex is great, even though I've noticed that I'm the one that has to initiate anything beyond light petting...lol. But he's younger than me so I'm hoping I can show him how to open up a little more and relax. I recently let him know how I feel and I think it scared him off a little bit, but I gave him a little space and after a few days, he let me know that he wasn't as unfeeling about our relationship as I thought. It's a start, I guess..lol. I think if you are a Sag dating a Virgo and you want the relationship to work, it's going to take more effort on your part to see that it does, a lot of patienc e, some tough skin, and a lively group of friends for when your Virgo mate wants to retreat into his/her shell.

My goodness,so much negativity, I am a saggitarian female with a male virgo, sex is brilliant and loving, we try most things out and he is always so understanding, we talk, we laugh, we love, we are friends as well as lovers, we respect each others lives and live for each other, we enjoy mostly all the same things but also know when we need our own time out, we NEVER row or fall out, we always know where the other one is, and nither of us feels as if we are inposing on each other....if you love someone with all your heart you will make your relationship work, you must talk, you must want it to work and you must want to be with each other, after a failed marriage to a Taurian, live in lover to a Gemini and various boyfriends, sag, aries,leo....against all odds this Virgo man is my soul mate and we love each other unconditionally.

Hope this helps some of you x

I'm a dec 4th born sagi woman and I am married to a Virgo man. We've been togather for 4yrs and we have been married for 1yr. We have a lot of fun togather. When we first got togather I was not attracked to him, but he chased me until I gave him a chance. Now I am happier than I've ever been. We enjoy each others company. He brings out a more serious side of me when it's nessiary and I bring out his playful side. I feel like we are a match made in heaven. He is some what controlling, but it's not to the point where it causes problems between us. Out of all the relationships I've ever had this is the only one that has ment enough to me to keep...

Sagi & Virgo is NOT a bad idea!!!

Virgo guy here who just met an amazing Sagittarius. This definitely feels like the blending of two very similar souls, although that might have something to do with my sun sign which, I believe, is also Sag. I am also close to the cusp of Libra so harmony is very important to me, and I feel that by now I have a good idea of how to achieve it. I love to travel and experience new things - foods, cultures, etc. - and our sexual compatibility is incredible. She totally blows my mind and opens me up sexually and that becomes a metaphor for the way she opens my mind up to so many other things. I am a very sexual person so her openness is very touching to me and pretty much everything I've ever wanted and ever could want in a sex partner. Also, she is one of the most intelligent women I have ever met, and very, very cute. She is always wanting to nurture the intimacy and closeness between us, even if she is not the most comfortable with her emotions (but hopefully becomin g moreso), so that is very touching as well.

We are both in our mid thirties and I have very high hopes for this relationship. She has dated a lot of Virgos before and I'm not sure how well they've gone. I know we can be fussy but I think that with me and my love we have all the right personal elements. I have spent a lot of time figuring out my emotions in life and this woman is the key that fits into my understanding of the world. She is captivated by my mind and my quirks. Our moral ideas are very similar too. Every day we learn something new from each other.

I don't know about these other guys but I very much respect someone who can express her vulnerability to me, especially if there is attraction, intense attraction. It is honest and inviting and my woman is starting to do that more and more. I reciprocate this as well and it really helps bond us together. Sometimes she doesn't say things in a very considerate way but I accept her because being considerate is not as important to me as being honest, well-intentioned and kind, and I know what a wonderful person she is!

Honesty and vulnerability are my two most consistent turn-ons. This woman is very very strong but definitely knows how to push those buttons! We are very attracted to each others' minds and a guy would be a fool to not appreciate a woman who respects and can use the gift known to civilization as REASON, as my woman does so well. CULTIVATE your philosophical side. Guys are logical creatures, or at least they are better at it/appreciate it more. Sagittarius women: Your sign is BLESSED with this gift!!!!! Be reasonable! You are so strong at it! Express yourself reasonably and articulate logically why things are important to you! Any guy who can't appreciate that is a dumb douchebag and you need to dump him. But if you are not showing/growing your gift for reason you are WASTING the most precious gift that a guy can appreciate in a woman! Be reasonable, put your life into perspective, develop a consistent life-philosophy that works for you (I know you love to do this) and any guy who can't appreciate that is a fool who deserves the hell of the shallow, irrational existence that nearly everyone else will be perfectly capable of putting him through. As a Virgo, he of all people should appreciate a reasonable woman. I dearly do and will hold on to that for as long as I can. Reason saves relationships.

All I want to know from a Virgo man is why, oh why, do you love us then retreat for weeks on end? What goes through your mind? Do you not think about the other persons' feeling/emotions during this time of absence?

I have been friends with a Virgo for three years straight now..and counting. he is very sweet protective and loveable.we confessed our feelings for each other about five months ago and have been together scince..however its not OFFICIAL which basically means we say I love you [and mean it] and call each other the typical couple names [baby honey amor] throughout the three years he has been nothing but nice to me and have not argued ONCE he is very passive and AHEM I guess I could say "hes eating right outta the palm of my hand!" ;D

I'm a Sag woman dating a Virgo Man, It has its ups and down, Im learning more of his characteristics. I read all the inserts here....but I think I will take some of the characteristics and just working on this new thing. 6 months, its new learning alot. I have to say tho, I don't have many complaints, I like my freedom, he gives it to me and theres trust.

Im a sag girl married 15yrs to a Virgo male and I must say itsnot a match made in heaven...he lies over simple things, criticle, whiney,boring, boring, o,,,and boring...SEXUALLY challenged...very lazy in bed..As a Sag woman the samepositions are so annoying i'd rather not have sex...but thereis a strange attraction you cant deny..my hub is superfunny with what I like to call "flashes" of greatness...But 9 times outta 10 he's a complete asshole..

I will never ever be with another virgo...its mentally draining....

I have been dating a Virgo for a few months now. Definitely Over analytical at times, always looking to talk about other peoples faulty ways/thinking/generalizing (Like, Damn you would think he didn't have any!). Very intelligent, good conversation when he isn't drifting into his own world, (they don't seem to hear you after that and can talk about themselves for a long long time), he gets caught up in being "logical", everything is not Logical! Very creative mind and ideas, I definitely got to see the small lies (that seem minor to him but if you lied then its not minor, PERIOD). I find that at times that I am talking to him that He can't connect and sometimes comes off as being mean/judgmental. Can be VERY VERY sweet and accommodating. I found that he is very sexual (the sex is great!)and spoke of "enjoying sex in public places" BUT when we went to the city there was no public display of affection or anything :-/...??? Shoulder shrugs!!! On top of that, he is a so cialite which annoys me because I don't look for people to give me attention and this dude likes to show off. He says its for himself but...a Virgo always seeking perfection is never satisfied with just "looking" good on top of the face that he takes way longer to get ready than I do ALL THE TIME, that immediately turned me off because I get ready in a relatively short time and then I'm ready to run!

Ugh... That is all that I have to say about Sagittarius women. I am a Virgo Man and this is one of the worst combination for a Virgo Man EVER!!! I have dealt with a few boring Sagittarius woman. One sat in the house all day doing nothing except complaining and watch TV. The sex was awful with her. She ranked high in the worst sex that I ever had. Unemotional. no feedback. She thought the world of me but I was unimpressed with her and I let her know. I was 30 and she was 25...

I attempted to try a Sagittarius again and she was the exact opposite but awful again. I had a crush on her when I was 9 until 16. Very Attractive... I am now 31 and she is 37. now that I am older, she approached me :) the story ends there. She was so controlling and just had a whatever approach at life. She was extremely aggressive and disrespectful. Whether I was in a relationship or not she found a way to use the fact that I was infatuated with her. INFATUATION! that is right. Selfish, and unapproachable. on several different occasions she is trying to run my life. And so controlling... did I say controlling? I told here to groom herself (Virgo's like cleanliness, you can read that anywhere) cause she was nasty down there and she became upset. I am just trying to help her unsanitary A$$... It was awful. BUT... She was incredible in bed... so intense! (Sag, if you can get the right Virgo it can be Fantastic one night stand!!! great for one night stands but e and it there...(5 Sags in my life) BTW she may be pregnant... but doesn't want to find out right away. I am just waiting now until she says that she is not pregnant so I can move on with my life.

If anyone read all of that crap I wrote, I finish by saying, this is one of the worst matches, Virgo man and Sag Woman. Just consider other options. Please!

I am a Dec, 4th Sag and have been dating a Virgo man for about 3 years. I must admit at first there were a lot of hot and cold moments, but once he committed it has been very constant and loving. This man is very sweet and gentle. We communicate very well and have no problems talking things out whenever something is bothering us. There is a enourmous amount of trust in our relationship. We are planning to marry on Sept9, 2012. I cant wait to make this wonderful man my husband. We have more in common than people or sign compatibility says. At times people who are very opposite compliment each other quite nicely, and act as a counterpart. Every solid relationship requires work and if you feel as though they are worth the effort then by all means don't give up on love just because the stars say no.

Me as a Dec.10Sag took a different step with my Sep.10Virgo man..Were 2 complete different people who are alike in so many ways. We understand each others differences and were fascinated by each other for some reason I will never know of. Our differences are exact opposites and our similarities are exactly alike. Its crazy and I hope and feel in my heart it will work out..cuz he drives me crazy trying to figure him out and I wanna get the chance too.!!!

I'm a Sagittarius woman dating an older (by 19 yrs) Virgo man. He seems to be the only partner I've dated who understands me to the T. He has his little faults, and so do I but they are nothing major and definitely something that can be worked out. One thing I don't like though is that sometimes he disappears for a couple of weeks and although we talk during this period, it's not the same as having him next to me. He's focused on work and other personal issues during this time. When we finally do see eachother, it's like nothing happened and we're back to where we left off. He's really sweet to me, genuinely loves me, treats me like a queen and I really enjoy being around him, as does he. It's only been four months now, but I see this being a long lasting relationship. I think I'm in love... I want to spend the rest of my life with this man, loving him and being loved by him.

Hey, I am a 3rd Sag chick, guy I have recently met is 3rd Sept Virgo guy, um.....second date, plenty of kisses, he initiates it...too much I feel at times. Maybe my Cappy Venus and his Leo Venus are somewhat opposed, I am NOT into gushy sentiment, draping myself over another in public, he is, some words have been had already. And yet.....there IS an attraction, we have not gone the whole way ( I know ,how teen like0 I am 27, he is 36, we spent all day yesterday together, we laughed, spoke and kissed, but his at times cheesy gushy controlling ways put my back right up.

Our moons are both Pisces, and Pluto both Libra,so there is a connection of sorts, my rising is Leo, his Scorpio, so I really do think and feel his Leo and Scorpio aspects do really show.

Our Mars are both Virgo, so....yah, very very intense, kissing is....woah.......... He is NOT into astrology or anything spiritual, whereas I am a right hippy chick, he has told me he finds it all funny, um....nowt funny about astrology, but respect his different views.

In fact he is athiest, so....many provocative conversations we have had so far.

I can feel that I already keep on trying to push him away, he has noted this and said " I want to see you, why are pushing me away"?

I really do not know, I have a REAL fear of being tied up in anything with a man that requires me being utterly emotionally vunerable, self preservation I say.

He is cute, has that Scorpio rising intensity, yet is geeky like how I like my men, I adore geeky/nerdy men.

Only second date, but, yeah.....we have spoken on levels I feel are a bit to intense/fast.

Also I am a Black girl and he is White, and whileo ut we have both noticed "looks", he does not give a flying frig, but I do, I want to challenge the person and question their need to gawp at us.

We live in UK( me London, him, on outskirts of London), so , it is not like we are in a little village where ir couples do not exist..okay I digress, back to point.

On the two dates he has wanted to hold my hand a LOT, give me his coat because I looked cold.

Those that know sag girls know we can handle the cold due to being born at a cold time of year, and also to just being VERY capable of just chilling, no mattrer how cold, I do NOT need the mans coat, this may sound cruel, but it made me cringe when he after I told him I was fine said "no, you are cold, here is my coat" and then went to put it around me, we were in a packed park, I muttered "you are embarresing me"....oh dear, bet I sound like a right bitch.

I think and feel I am just SO independent, it will take a specfic type of man to be with me.

Oh he said before dropping me home "you need someone to tame you, I am going to tame you".....um.....I can NOT be tamed.

Nonetheless, he is VERY cute, and we have laughed a LOT, and had the hottest kisses.

Those that say Virgo men are not too sexual, it all depends on his Venus/Mars and Moon, my new play pal with his scorching Leo Venus and Scorpio rising is HOT.

Who knows what may happen, what I do know is that my kooky eccentric ways though may confuse him, also interest him.

To all those saying it can not work between the two may feel this way, but it all depends on his other aspects, and also his general life experiences....Bless fellow witty Sag babes and Virgo geeky guys;-)

welll!!! I am a sag and the ass I have been seeing is a Virgo male!!! For some strange reason I am completly obsessed with him and he is the biggest douche bag on the planet..Here ladies 1.they mess with your heads until you wanna shot yourself! 2.They just love to hang up the phone mid conversation. 3.and not texting back well that's a whole other game on its own. 4.I cant ever read him he makes zero sense to me. 5. the sex is out of this world, seriously I think its because he makes me wait so long for it to happen I get off more because I accomplished it. I love the thrill of the chase and this asswhole gives it to me. But if I have learned anything about Virgo males is they can fight with dagers when they argue and but just when you least expect it they know how to say just the right thing to drag you right back into there web of what I like to call there bipolar attitudes. Thanks everyone for these comments I feel mch better because seriously I thought it was jus t him and that I was losing my mind with how effin insane he is! XOXOXXO love a sagggg :)

I have dated several Virgo men I am attracted to them like flies to honey....a word to sags virgos on the leo/virgo cusp not a good combo virgos on the libra/virgo cusp much better. I am in my late thirties and have dated every sign there is...sags are not easy, but we are loving understanding and loyal which most virgos need. I think we can appreciated a Virgo later in life once we have lived, lived and lived some more...they are great soul mates....try reading this book called the secret language of birthdays it will match you virgo's birthday with yours. My Virgo is very complex but the mystical side is hypnotic....They just have to work on being less self centered...they are not selfish but they tend to think we sags don't need much so sometimes we are taken for granted, but they can be really understanding in their own way.... sex is amazing, but if he is not into all the time it's not that they are not attracted to you they are just in their own world....ju st be you and he will love you...I say again your best shot is with virgo/libra....The Libra side makes them less intense....

I has an affair with a Virgo man. Im a sexy classy sag and our sex life is out of this world. Mary J said "I never been touched like this and she hit it on the nose. He was so compassionate towards me and said I treated him like a king. It's complicated because it was an affair. Ihad to cut it off because my marriage was rekindled and we remained friends. We still tell each other we love one another but recently he acted liked he hated me. I cut him off and changed my number. He asked me why andforme to give him my number and he never neabt any harm but I can't come back from what he done to me. Im still crying and getting him out ofmy system. I still love him but it causesme to much to love him. My life is beautiful and it's not worth it!