Seducing Virgo

Seducing Virgo is reasonably easy, the main thing it requires is some patience and care. It's worth paying extra attention to grooming and clothing for this sign. Don't wear anything too outrageous, as it will often make them uncomfortable if you go somehwere public and they feel you're drawing too much attention to them. Similarly they value personal hygiene, both in themselves and others.

If you're going somewhere public with them, don't take flowers or any other gift which may draw attention - they really prefer to blend in, and if they feel the whole world knows they're on a date they'll be a lot more self conscious, which will make your task that much harder.

Virgos are intelligent people, with active and analytical minds. They are often fairly quiet and reserved until they're comfortable with you, and this may come off as being uninterested or aloof. You may need to do much of the talking initially, and that's okay because they enjoy listening. They really are wonderful people, but you may need some patience during this process until they start to open up a little.

They like strong and stable people, who know where they are going and how they're getting there, so it's often better to talk about yourself initially while seducing Virgo, and save questions about them until a little latter. Amongst other things they tend to be very modest, and will feel uncomfortable if you ask too many questions early on as it will often lead them to cataloging their perceived faults. Try to keep the conversation on an intellectual level and not an emotional one, objective rather than subjective, and don't corner them into having to share their feelings on a subject.

They usually have a good sense of humor once they relax, so when they start to make jokes it's safe to assume you're making progress. They tend to be very self conscious, so don't stare at them too much or hold eye contact overly long.

Restaurants

If possible choose somewhere relatively relaxed. A booth in a 'normal' restaurant will serve you better than a dark and blatantly romantic restaurant. Food choice doesnt matter too much, as they'll be too busy processing you mentally to notice much.

Getting your Virgo into bed

This can be a challenge, especially if you aren't patient by nature. Equally though, it can be one of the most delicious aspects of seducing Virgo, depending on your viewpoint. Virgo's aren't prudes however they tend to be very reserved about sex. You'll probably want to take the initiative unless you want to be patient. If the whole idea of that turns you off then keep in mind these are typically timid and gentle people, so it's a lot easier than it might sound on the surface. On the other hand, if you're used to more passionate and impulsive types you may get the impression your Virgo isn't interested, even if they really are - so don't give up!

If they like what you're doing you aren't going to get much (if any) positive feedback or encouragement, however they won't have nearly so much of a problem telling you to stop if they don't like it, so "no news is good news" here - proceed until they do something to stop you.

Don't be surprised if your Virgo is fairly quiet after sex. They often need some time to analyze and process before offering much in the way of feedback. Again, this can be a fairly endearing quality, as a small smile from your Virgo will soon tell you more than a two minute passionate discourse from someone else. As with other aspects of sex they tend to be reserved and discreet.

Virgo seduction using real astrology

The above is written for the "typical Virgo". In practice however each Virgo is different due to their other planet placements (moon, mars, venus etc) and some extreme examples may not resemble a Virgo much at all. This general information therefore isn't nearly as specific or accurate as a real astrology reading.

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Virgo compatibility

For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs we have a separate index of articles on Virgo compatibility

Virgo and Aries compatibility
Virgo and Taurus compatibility
Virgo and Gemini compatibility
Virgo and Cancer compatibility
Virgo and Leo compatibility
Virgo and Virgo compatibility
Virgo and Libra compatibility
Virgo and Scorpio compatibility
Virgo and Sagittarius compatibility
Virgo and Capricorn compatibility
Virgo and Aquarius compatibility
Virgo and Pisces compatibility

Further reading

If you're looking for ideas on where to go for a date, there's an excellent ebook 300 Creative Dates, which lists romantic, unique, fun and affordable suggestions. For seduction advice the most popular and arguably best value courses available currently are How to be irresistable to men and How to be irresistable to women. You can read reviews of these and other dating and seduction related resources on my relationship e-book reviews page.

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