Libra man and Scorpio woman

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I'm a 33 year old Scorpio female and my honey is a 42 year old Libra. He is the sweetest, kindest man I have ever met. I'm single, never married without children. I've been asked my hand in marriage a few times, but yet to accept. He was married for 13 years and has been divorced for 3 years with two children a 14 year old son and a 17 year old daughter that just started college.

He's a college football coach and I own an IT consulting firm. So, both of us are very busy, which is good for me. Our intimacy is passionate, intense and on another level. He is already talking about he wants me to fall in love with him, which kind of caught me off guard since we have only been seeing each other for about 2.5 months. I'm really not sure how I feel since he's so laid back and nonchalant about things.

The only thing that really bothers me about him is that he can be inconsistent and horrible at following through with things especially since it is football season. I've been on him about this and he has definitely improved. I'm kind of bossy, but it seems like the more I keep him in line the closer we get. We are kind of weird, huh. I apologized for being mean to him the other day and he said that I wasn't mean but straight forward and to the point, which is one of the reasons he likes me. I was like wow... Then, I asked why he likes me and he said because we are able to talk things through, I'm sexy, I'm smart, and of because sex is great. I had to agree.

But I would have to say, I would not put up with the things I put with him with anyone else, but the Libra man draws you in and is so affectionate and passionate that I end up being putty in his hands. I guess I'm a sucker for him. But, he is so sexy with a body out of this world, and when he smiles at me and softly calls me his little nickname for me in his deep, sexy voice I lose my mind. He will have to do something really stupid for me stop dealing with him.

From the first moment I laid my eyes on him, I felt a connection. Yet, I was not suspecting what I was in for. It all began after a lovely winter break from work. The holidays had uplifted me and made me feel as though I could be hopeful again, and thus this passionate love began.

He was a Libra, seemingly gentle and pure and I, a passionate Scorpio with an open heart. We had always been casual friends, talking, laughing and enjoying each other's company at work. But this one day it went further. He asked me if I would accompany him home, as he had to work late and we both had assignments to complete, so I went along with him.

The night began with some champagne and slow jazz music, but as the evening progressed we moved closer to each other, and suddenly his cherry colored lips touched mine. His skin touched mine and soon everything around us didn't matter, we were blocked out by this romantic eruption. After a night of passion, I left his apartment, only to see him a few hours later at work again. Our eyes met, and once again everything else was blocked out, we knew that we were in for a passionate love. And it was waiting for us to leap into it.

I swear a Scorpio woman could describe doing laundry and it would sound sexy! Great story!

A Libra guy is passionate, kind, and willing to hear you out for whatever but you don't know what you Scorpio women are going to be in for, let me tell you..

They will be really sneaky with you if you give him a lot of drama, and us Scorpio women are really demanding and need to have it our way and win in a fight and yes they will put up with it for a while but then they will get tired of all the fussing and fighting and maybe tend to have an affair with someone else so he can easily forget about all the drama with his Scorpio woman.

So ladies be careful cause not all men are the same but every guy will hurt you, you just have to remember that! Never give in and never give it all you got UNLESS you know you will be with the Libra man for a long lasting time or if you two mates are going to get married... im being serious just be careful my Scorpio women, cause Libra men tend to be sneaky and shady if you give them what they don't want!

Im a Scorpio and let me tell you, im Amazinggggggggg (;

Now let me tell you something, I'm a Libra and yes I a man. I met this Scorpio girl, and I must say she has my attention. I recently just got off another relationship before summer began, and I was sad after she (Virgo) left me for another guy.

Its all good she was a Virgo anyway, besides the horoscope thingy said it wouldn't work, but I didn't want to believe it. See I'm not a cheater, but I do know some Libra's who are cheaters, and I'm not going to defend them.

This Scorpio doesn't haven't to be fine at all, to have my attention, everything about her seems so hypnotizing. I met her under some weird ass circumstances, she was in love with my homie, and I was sprung on her during when school started. My homies got tired of hearing me talk about my ex, but when this girl came into my life. I tried not to rush into things, but can I blame myself for wanting to show her what all her ex's couldn't. Her friends told me she want a real relationship, but I'm afraid of putting her through all that mess.

The stories got me paranoid, because if this girl cheats on my like all my other ex's damn, hell is going to break loose. Believe me I have no intention and breaking or hurting her, she sweet, and I don't mind growing old. I just don't know what to do =(

I'm dating a Libra now, and it seems like he is the type who cares more about other things than me! He doesn't feel like putting me first to everything and I hate that! I'm always the last, and I get him things all the time, but he thinks I'm buying love or when I bring up the situation he thinks I'm trying to buy his love, which I'm not. But I really love him a lot and I just want this relationship to work!!

I am a Scorpio woman in love with a Libra man. Ever since the day we met we have been in love and we can't be without each other. I worry all the time, but I know deep down he isn't cheating on me, we have ups and downs, but communication is key.

Scorpio women, its best to put yourself in their position and try to think about what you're about to say to your partner before you explode, men in general esp. Libra men don't like to be yelled at. but they will work things out with you if you don't act like a lunatic, sad to say we Scorpio women tend to lose control, which are really intense, sometimes people can't understand that mentality, and we need to contain it to a limit, but of course express it! this is a relationship that one should try, it's a great relationship

My husband is Libra, & I am Scorpio and I hate my marriage. We have worst communication ever

im a Scorpio woman and im dating a Libra man. at first the connection was strong an we had chemistry but now I feel as thou he is not involving me in his plans....I feel second in his life and im wondering if I made the right choice. we really close friends before we were dating an I think now that it is best if we kept t at that level :(

I am a Scorpio woman with a Libra man... and everything on here sounds just like us!!! I had to tell him the other day that I am tired of always doing what he wants... always putting him first.. and getting nothing in return.. I told him that if this was the beginning of the rest of my life I didn't want it. He was quick to agree and say he would do his best to see things my way... we will see.. I love him with all my heart but.. we Scorpios need much more attention.. and I really don't think my Libra is capable of it.. I will give him a few weeks but if there is no change I will move on.. life is too short!!!

I'm the Scorpio female, he's the Libra male. It's amazing, it's intense, it's loving, and it's everything I've ever wanted in a relationship. My advice would be to just go with it because it's sure to be full of life and vigor. Scorpio & Libra = total happiness.

I'm a Scorpio woman and the man I love (and have loved for many years) is a Libra man. I love his intensity and most of all his mind. He is as curious about life as I am and is always willing to learn more about it. He is a man of logic and reason and I must say really knows how to make love passionately. He is definitely sensitive, surprisingly so. Although life in general has separated us, he is the only man that I could ever love as much as I do.

I have been dating my Libra man for 4 months now and he is absolutely amazing, he is everything I hoped, wanted and desired in a man, he has everything I need

im scorpio, he's Libra, I could relate to all the other stories, when we love ,its intense, but when we fight it gets out of control. Libra men tend to hold grudges for a long time and it doesn't help that they are not one to make amends and Scorpios don't give in too easily, we are in it for the passion, Libras are in it because its comforting. but there is good and bad in every sign.

I am Scorpio woman he is Libra man. The honeymoon phase is over, we have had bad fights, he's holding grudges. I am not high on his priority list. Now he is away on a business trip and he is not being honest about his location or date of return. He is uncommunicative although he checks in and talks about some practical business matters only. My intuition warns he may be with another woman. I hope someone here can say something helpful, please!

To the woman worried over her man on a business trip: I have sympathy for you because my guy goes off on business trips too. He could be just working hard, you don't know for a fact. When you are with him he will show you if he is trustworthy and if he is into you.

I'm a Scorpio woman and he is Libra. I have learned with my Libra man that he can be flirtatious and somewhat more out going than I am. I am jealous and vindictive and my outburst can be frightening at times. But overall we are in love and he is so passionate, loving and caring and I wouldn't trade him for nobody else and he says the same about me!

I'm a Scorpio woman and married to a Libra man it started as a fairytale story would. We both were so excited to have met, we hit it off from the first day. He was so charming, attentive and soft hearted. Six years later this is his personality..... argument, stubborn, holds grudges, easily puts blame on others. He has a need to prove a point even if he is wrong he becomes redundant to try to change your mind. In front of others he is charming and puts on a very helpful picture of himself. When he is at a positive stage he loves to buy me the better things in life. When we have arguments they are pretty bad. Communication was good at first now it's so.

I'm a Scorpio woman and I just began to feel a bit better emotionally, I don't know how long this will take for me to heal after my heartbroken love and failed marriage with a Libra man. I read all these posts thinking to myself that each and every story reflects every bit of our relationship. How much of that sexual chemistry there was at the beginning, and how everything began to fall apart, mainly our communication -yes!!! We simply stopped talking to each other because of lack of trust on my side and my jealousy just made it all impossible for all of us. He is great man and I didn't change my opinion even after 6.5 years of marriage, but our differences, the deep water and air, make it incompatible and impossible to continue. We BOTH came to this bitter agreement after all. He is happy with an Aries woman now... it is painful to see them being in so much love and joy, he seems to be so satisfied and I'm thinking about moving to a different state.

I think that the hardest thing for me is to accept this failure - as we both tried really hard for our marriage to work and he sacrificed for me- nothing bad I can say. But what hurts me the most is that I really see them much more compatible with each other that me and him before. Makes me really think that astrology is a serious science and calls for its advises to be taken respectfully, especially for a long term relationship. My ex and I are still friends as he really dislikes any hatred or conflict to be true to his sign. His Aries lady is what he realized he needed all his life, they've been together for 4 years now and his satisfaction seems to be steadily growing. The more I wish him failure in that -the more he seems to be happy with her in every single way. Just unbearable!

I'm a Libra man & I've dated a Scorpio woman for the past 7 months. We had chemistry from the 1st day we met, from there we probably should've of slowed down (physically) but I'm sure you all know that w/ the union of Scorpio & Libra comes a passionate bond that's damn near unbreakable at it's peak.

We spent the summer together trying get to know each other a little better because we both knew that soon she would be off to school to finish up her last year beginning my 1st true long distance relationship. It was tough but our love & communication made things work more in our favor. However as time went on we had yet to make things official because of our fears of it being too soon.

We have some differences that separate us...but I see too much potential between us to let go that easily. She is stubborn as hell and easily shuts down on people but I love this girl to life. She draws me in, w/ her mysteriousness, independence, aggression & drive to please me that every other girl I dated lacked. But now on her end she is unsure if I'm the Man she really wants to spend her life w/ anymore because of some issues we had but I hope soon she let's me back in so that we can start over.

To all my Libra men; as long as we continue to give them their personal space no matter how much an inconvenience it may be) & assure them that we are the defined men we say we are, by following thru we'll be good.

To all my Scorpio Women… communication is key, I know we annoy you at times but as long as you stop giving up on us & continue to keep it real w/ us we shouldn't have any major issues

I'm a Scorpio women with a Libra when we met we had a automatic connection... Conversation was awesome and we had a lot of good times. But we hada huge drama of going back and forth with each other and we was monogamous with out the title. So of course as a Scorpio I pushed for a relationship and the part that got me was he was indecisive all the time which clashes with my personality being secretive with my feelings.

I have such strong feelings for him till this day and he has a girlfriend now (Virgo) but he still seems to have to be away from me because he instantly gets himself attracted to me again. He would come hang with mutual friends when he knows I am around and even came to my birthday party. (Which is weird because I said a lot of mean things to him for being with his current chick (whom he never claims)).

I'm just hoping that we can finish what we started because there's something about a Libra male that keeps me just as much hooked as he is to me. :/

Matured experienced Libra man with mature younger Scorpio woman together = soulmates (a.k.a. possibilities the perfect couple) This relationship needs time to build for a REAL strong solid foundation, and to be unselfish. The two teams needs to communicate and understand each other, and lay the all the cards out on the table. I am the Scorpio woman with Cancer moon.

I sympathize very much with the woman who was married 6,5 years to a Libra man, but I have to say that I do not understand that part where you wish that his relationship to Aries woman fails. I mean you are not together for a long time and you don t have to be friends but you should try to except that his with someone else. And leaving the country will not help you, you will still love him without seeing him. I Scorpio woman) love a Libra man since I was a kid and we were friends several years. Now we are together for 2,5 years. I think that even if we parted I would like him to be happy and in a good state of mind (even with somebody else). Ok I would also suffer, but because I love him so much in so many ways as a boyfriend, lover, also as a person. If you loved/love your ex husband, maybe you should try to gain some piece (no matter how hard it is) by knowing that he is content. Only this way will you be able to accept the situation and move on. Maybe you blame you urself for divorce thinking you could have worked more on your flaws. But you did everything the way you were supposed to. Nothing is forever, although we want it to be. We can only try to survive and do are best, while we know that we can't control everything. I hope that you will once get over losing him and if you two were really strong than maybe faith will get her hands dirty one more time;-)Take care!

I am a Libra man married to a Scorpio woman for the past 12 years things were running very smooth for a few years, then suddenly change, Why I made a few mistakes, and instead of holding on to her dignity and pride she made the said mistakes and that's when things got pretty ugly, I new I was wrong and I took the time a told her that am really sorry, And ask her forgiveness but it did not matter at the time, instead of coming to me an lets work things out she preferred to go to with a another guy, some who was pretending to be my friend that's when I lost all trust I her and things never seem to the same like it was before, Yes I agree that Scorpio women are very loving and ambitious caring I know she's very much a good woman but its hard to accept she is. even though we're still living in our marriage, there no thrust sometimes like giving but deep in my heart I know that I still love her and need the best for both of us I'm afraid that she in love someone. I wan t to love her like I loved her before there's a line I can't cross very easily again. What can I do to get over this?

I am a Libra man and I am trying to get to know this Scorpio woman I don't know there's something about her that draws me in like so hypnotizing she is, she's in sports, red hair, red undertone complexion, Latina, family oriented, light brownish eyes I love all that in a Scorpio woman but haven't yet spoken to her in person ive only seen her profile online.. she seems to be tremendously focused on running track and it's super hard to let her know im interested because I don't think she is expecting a relationship anytime soon but I still want to talk to her as long as possible as just friends because if I come on strong there will be zero chance and she'll ignore me and move on. so as of now I think I just need to get her used to me more as a friend and for her to know that im here and im being patient about everything. by the way, I think it would be a lot better to try to gear towards getting her comfortable enough for us meet in person, I think it would be 10× greater for us meet.

anyone feel free to help me out here lol. if you will ^^

I've been married to a Libra man for 9 years, let me tell my fellow Scorpio woman don't go there, At first their the best lovers in the world, when their comfortable enough with you they forget you exist! Libra men if your interested in a Scorpio woman you have to do your homework, if your not willing to give us what we need, move on! I'm 32 and my hubby's 40, we now have 3 children together and I'm ready to move on. After awhile you realize you need to be emotionally connected as well as physically. We Scorpio woman tend to just lean towards the physical way to often! Hey don't get me wrong sex with a Libra man is exhilarating, but after awhile you need more!

I had a whirlwind experience with a Libra man a few years ago and he broke my heart. I fell head over heels fast for him. Libra men are very romantic - say and do all the right things in the bedroom.

He loves my passion, my confidence, my intensity, etc. but a Libra emotionally he is not equipped at all to handle a Scorpio woman!

Remember this ladies....get yourself an earth guy (Capricorn, Virgo or a Taurus). They can handle the heat!

I am currently dating a Taurus and emotionally he is everything I need and want from a man.

I am still good friends with that Libra guy, and he often says he made a mistake giving me up, but I know in my heart if would have ended eventually. Love is more then just great sex!

Im a Scorpio girl and I really like a Libra man we have been talking for about a week now. He's everything I would ever want in a man, he's sweet, sensitive, good looking, smart, loving and affectionate almost too good to be true. The only thing is he can go for a day or two without any contact with me and I don't like that, I guess im the girl that still needs that reassurance, maybe because its a new relationship and I've been hurt before. I hate feeling this way. Do Libra men play hard to get? Im so confused?

Hey this has been a mixed experience so far for me. Its so exciting at times but not able to figure out where we are exactly. I am trying hard to make this relation work for me but not sure from his side. we are at initial stage and wondering whether to continue or to hold back my feeling for him. I am looking for chemistry where he is asking for friendship are we trying to define the same things in our own language. For sure he is very disconnected at times which makes not only Scorpio but any body feel neglected. It would be helpful for other if some of you experienced people share more thought like what you like , dislike in other and how you were able to keep it together so ling.

I am a Scorpio girl going out with a Libra male :D We only just got together so I can't really give you much information on the compatibility of our relationship :D

I can only sort of make some judgments on the relationship chart but don't forget, what day your born on also affects the result as well! It may work for some, it may not for others but I tell you, it's working for me :)

I haven't had a relationship for over a year now. I don't want a relationship because I've been hurt soo many times but I want someone to love and care for me so I was really confused!

My Libra guy seems really sweet and he's funny and he's fair and I like that :) we were mates before, for a fair few months.

I'd say we're working because we didn't ask each other out but we fell into it (sounds strange) but it's understandable :)

I know for one thing that Scorpios, especially ones like me, crave stability and don't like unstable things.

It's weird but somehow I have found it with this Libra :D because although we haven't asked each other out yet, it's been a couple of days, I find it stable because I know him as a friend but at the same time someone who cares and loves me :)it's like a friend but you love each other?? (crazy but I like it :) ) at least I know that if things do flipside at one point not one of us will be too hurt by the other one :)

And even though Scorpios can be stubborn, he's taught me soo many things and he's influence me how to loosen up a little :) and it feels great! It's like I've gained even more confidence somehow by not worrying so much about things :)

Daren't I say it, but I love him :) and he loves me :D

Peace out peeps! ;P x x

I am a Scorpio woman, dating a Libra guy, and I have read all the things that sound just like him. indecisive and sometimes damn unpredictable. for example, I told him lets get away for the weekend. we both had a crazy work week, he said yes. and then I didn't see him at all. on Monday he text me and say good morning darling, like we never had plans. I was livid, so I didn't response because trust me it would not be nothing nice said. we both have told each other I love u, but sometimes, I confused. I want to end and then I don't. I love him so much. any advice?

Im a Scorpio woman and I've been friends with a Libra man for quiet some time. We have gone through a couple of things with him putting his friends first, while we was trying to start our relationship. Unfortunately, I didn't hear from him for a couple of months. And now I hear from him again and he wants to pick up where we left off. I don't know what to do. Should I give him another chance to be with me or should I just tell him to keep "us" at a friendship level? :(

I'm a Scorpio woman and he is a Libra man. I think that he stabilizes me very well. At first I was extremely jealous and untrusting of him for no reason at all. What I love about him is that through those years he put up with me and dealt with it. He never judged me for it, and just gave me time. He would always reassure me when I was jealous that I had no need to be, and he would do anything I needed in order to pacify my insecurities. We have been together for 4 years now and my jealousy and possessiveness is long gone! I feel like a different person now, I no longer get jealous for the slightest reason, and it feels like total freedom. I thank my husband for sticking by me through all those tough times when I was being a jealous freak. I have never known what it is to be in a relationship and not be jealous.

He is very affectionate and yes sometimes he can be very aloof and folly. I accept this about him because I know that this is the man I married and I love that he brings that silliness out in me. I was too serious in the past now I now how to be happy and not take life so seriously. We have lots of fun together and we are always out with our friends. When I have to study I have no problem with him going out with his friends without me. I know that he respects me and always tells me how everybody was asking for me. He's awesome! He has taught me that when you are with someone you respect them and love them for who they are just how he loved me through my jealous rages and possessiveness and all my insecurities. Don't try to change your spouse! When it bothers me that he acts like he doesn't care I explain my frustrations to him and bring him back down to earth. Many times Libras can be dense but what is so wonderful about them, is if you explain to them how they are acting and why this bothers you (instead of demanding that they change) they listen very well and take into consideration what you are saying. I love my Libra man!

ok I've read all the above stories , I am a Scorpio girl and I am in a relationship with a Libra man .. all the above stories state one fact , it begins wonderfully between Scorpio and Libra then after awhile it stinks to the bottom for mainly the insecurities and intensity of the Scorpio and the elusiveness and unpredictability of the Libra , this leads to huge loss of communication ... about me I love my Libra but I am not blind to what might separate us , any relation needs settlements and compromises , I was with an earth man (Capricorn) and we were so compatible but we failed ,so nothing is guaranteed or should be taken for granted , I'll say give Libra their space after all it's part of their charm and trust them and always communicate verbally they are an air sign they like it simple and direct so give it to them , a big plus point in Libras that they are fast learners and when they trust their partners they are so giving even sacrificing ,and they are so indecisive true, but once they make up their minds they are strongly committed ,they are also family oriented , I vet been wiz an earth and now wiz a Libra and I'll vote for my Libra's commitment to me ..one last thing , we Scorpios should tame our temper, insecurities and suspicious minds ,after all it worths to trade all this for a simple easy ride with a pure charming person .all the best for everybody.

for Scorpio woman who doubts their Libra man in everything, is just too much. because for a fact Libra will not hide a lot. They are not the secretive type. Infact they in turn worry and will doubt you more if you show such signs, quite frankly he is very uncomfortable with it and will not show it.

But if it goes on too much like that...he will show you the door forever.

I am a Scorpio woman and I recently was dating a Libra man. We went to school together and I dated one of his friends before him, but in a small town its impossible not to date your ex's friend. I was and still unfortunately am very into him even though I couldn't exactly say why? It wasn't that our conversation was even that great, our attraction was just very intense. Whenever I think about him I just think of his huge lips and big brown eyes. Of course Scorpios being very sexual individuals he had me sprung because Libra men know how to please a lady, but it goes a lot deeper than that. I was more involved than him even though he made me think otherwise with his charming ways. He was oh so gentle and sweet when we alone yet at parties he rather give everyone else at the party attention verse me. I never came first no matter how high he was on my priority list. Basically he was really good at mind games, even though no matter how hard I would try for him to communicate with me he wouldn't. Libras seem so emotionally detached. Libras and Scorpios great at keeping their own secrets these relationships are bound to be full of deceit. In the end I think all he really wanted was to keep me around for sex, and wanted me only for him. Asshole.

I've dating with this Libra man for a year. The chemistry was perfect and we really have great time ever, best Sex ever. But what I don't like from him is his Brutal tongue, his suspicious mind, and his jealousy. His brutal tongue Hurt my Pride a lot. I just cant accept that. IF you HAVE A Scorpio girlfriend never ever Talk rude to her, never put her down cause Scorpio have BIG PRIDE, Never Lie cause she will know by looking to your eyes and don't Bluffing it wills turn her off.

He's stubborn and I am stubborn as well.. and sometimes we have a problem with our communication. ALL I KNOW, Libra man is selfish and over control... HATE THAT

I am a Scorpio female & I was dating a Libra for 3 years.

When we got along it was the greatest thing in the world.

When we weren't is was so horrible. I felt unappreciated...I did everything for him & he never gave me the affection I needed...

In my opinion this could have worked if we both tried harder to respect each others nature & communicated more.

I will always love him, there was just to much wrong for me to stay. Just like another Scorpio I don't forgive & I don't forget...

My first relationship with a Libra male was horrible. He was selfish, too proud, egotistical, mean and hurtful. He knocked this Scorpio girl down HARD. He was the worst person I have ever dated! (I tend to end up with Gemini's and I have pretty good relationships with them)

Then I met my husband who is ALSO a Libra. I was afraid...like oh no. not part two....but he was completely different! He is sweet, generous, loving, gives me 100% of his attention, very affectionate. Completely different from the previous Libra I dated.

I wonder if it has anything to do with my ex being a Libra at the end of the month...almost being a Scorpio...and then my husband is right in the center of Libra.

I am a Scorpio woman and I am 14 years old currently, and my Mum's partner is a Libra. I really want to know more about Libra guys! They are sweet, nice and admiring and charming! I have dated a Scorpio and he broke up with me, and I also broke up with an Aries guy not long ago. I like Scorpio men, but are Libra men alright for me? Thanks:)

I am a Scorpio woman who dated a Libra man and every post I've read here sounds like him. Strong attraction at first, he chases me, I'm not interested, this only makes him want me more. I finally give in and we become a couple. He then treats me horribly and sleeps with other women. I end it, of course he is so dramatic...Next round. We get back together, only to have him be just as disrespectful if not even more so. This time, I'm done. I should have trusted my gut instinct which told me to run far away from this lying, piece of sh*t the first time around. The only good that came from being a couple was the incredibly amazing sex, which isn't enough to sustain a loving lasting relationship. I will never date a Libra man again!

To the above girl and lady who wants advice. Ha, 14 years old, Scorpio, is too young to search for a mate. If you want to know who is you compatibility, go to visit Astrology's chart- or ask David. 14 years old do not even have High school grad yet, ha... instead, you should worry about your if you may or may not pass you M CAST or high school exam to college yet. Good men will come to you without your searching if you have a wonderful quality to assure you. "EDUCATION is a PRIORITY." Girl!!! I'm not your guardian counselor or anything. I believe that the future will be depending on a young people.

I'm Virgo, don't think Libra men will be a perfectly match to any Scorpio. Libra is a snobbish and flirts with many ladies but remember that is just for a flirting; its Libra nature. He can be serious with someone that he wants to be with without cheating or sleep around. I believe all the in the zodiac signs- it represents human of how each of them are behave. Human make mistake depends on how is their situation. That all I can say; I'm a success Virgo and... pretty young. You make your own decision; no body better than you, Scorpio girl and lady. Good luck to both and all.

Sorry this is pretty lengthy! I've known my boyfriend for 4 years now as an acquaintance, I made the first move in asking him out. It was really a leap of faith. Though I knew his nature of aloofness and laid-back attitude (complete opposite of me), I told myself not to have ANY expectations. But somehow we are now madly in love.

He is the second Libra I have been in a serious relationship with, and it's the best relationship I have ever had. For some reason, other earth and water signs don't quite cut it for me even though there is some sort of consistency and stability in them. We have been together for 4 months now, and reading how the stories of those that lasted years started out great but are now a ghost of what they used to be truly disheartens me. Because my Libra and I are exactly all the good things. Passionate, sensual love making. He's a real gentleman too. My thoughts and feelings about the relationship are a mirror of his - the same, but inverted in the way we show it.

What I really want to share is that every sign will have its pros and cons. Just because we are Scorpio ladies does not mean we have to be the way we are. I dislike feeling jealous, being compulsive and obsessive, stubborn, and having extreme moods/feelings. But what I learnt is that if you and your Libra man are at the peak of your relationship, he does love you despite how he can act aloof and nonchalant. This is the best time to learn and understand each other. It's not them to want to talk on the phone for hours, or entertain drama. They are objective creatures who will tell you the truth. It's brutal sometimes, but aren't we Scorpios not straightforward too?

Through my Libra, I have learnt to be a lot more patient, a lot less obsessive and needy/demanding, more confident about myself (cause he chose me when he could have anyone else), to really live the moments that are precious and not worry about the past or hold grudges, that trust is really the key to communicating.

It's funny how both of us find it difficult to speak of big decisions, I still get all choked up when I tell him how I have thought about the future together and vice versa. But we're getting there, I'm enjoying the mystery and wonder of revealing these small steps though. I still do not have any expectations for him, I don't expect him to change. He is everything I want in a man although boys will always be boys. My advice for any Scorpios or highly-strung individual dating a Libra man is that you HAVE to be patient. You don't know it but he's not as shallow as he appears, his mind is full of thought and imagination. Give him time to reveal himself to you. Don't go crazy trying to figure everything out! I know we like to plan ahead/organize, etc. But with a Libra man you have to be open to change, to be flexible. They like to keep a balance in their lives so make sure you give him plenty of space. Don't start drama, he might have a lot of patience but his objective mind will not like it. Live the moments. When he's ready to tell you what he's been thinking about, it could be a month or two since he ever started thinking about it, and he does so because he wants to make sure he says the right thing at the right time.

Lady with a lengthy article. Absolutely, many Libra are great. They are organize; planner, patient, no complicate, care and balance also he has a great appearances and tastes; they are very gentlemen. I, Virgo, can't find Libra's flaw. I agree lots of things the way you described about him. Something I like about Libra is to share a conversation in exchange and one of the best thing he has no secret or mystery with you. I never been with him but I feel that I can see and understand him; Sooo honest with you. Nice, you are a Scorpio lady met a perfect Libra!

My little brothers are both in this relationship one of my brothers is a Libra and has a baby with a Scorpio girl =] and the other one is a Scorpio and his fiance is a Libra girl ... the one with the baby it seems as though they fuss and fight a lot and then they are all over each other lol my other brother and his fiance hardly fight well they are really diff so maybe they keep it to themselves all in all I hope they both stay together for ever and im a Pisces hehe

My Libra man, is trying to woo me over again. After 2 years of loving each other like newlyweds I found out I was pregnant. Being the Scorpio woman that I am I made a lot of demands. Being the indecisive prick he is he didn't do what I said. Lol. I can admit that maybe I was asking too much. He let me down 3 times during our relationship, which I forgave (never forgot) him for. The last straw was I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl at 28 weeks, she died 11 days later. All I needed was him to tell me everything was going to be ok, hold me like I was a baby and let me just weep. I mourned alone. This was all 6 months ago. In the last 6 months I probably have talked to him maybe 15 times. Well my cell phone broke and I got a new one, and I sent him a text asking him to send me a picture of our daughter. That was about 5 days ago I still haven't gotten the picture. Since I have sent the text he has called me every day. He asked me 2 days ago if he could t ake me out on a date today. And he is the ultimate date breaker. The thing is he is giving me attention and since I have been in mourning I have shut everyone out and the attention feels good. The big question I keep asking myself is "Do I really want to be back with him?" I know it's just 1 date, but I'm a Scorpio extreme is my nature. Although in the beginning he was attentive, he practically went in to debt helping me when I was broke, and well sex was mind blowing. I still shutter thinking about it. I love him to my core, but at this age in life I don't expect that he will change his ways and I'm perfect why would I change? Lol. Very early on I examined our relationship and I can honestly tell you he is sneakier than the sneakiest Scorpio. I don't know anything about him, almost to the point that I started thinking toward the end of our relationship that he could be married and hiding it from me. I'm stumped. Do I put aside all of this and go back to a relationship where I am wondering why I am alone all the time, or do I just be alone? As easy as that answer sounds I just want to be happy with him. I don't really want to start over with anyone else.

Does this sound like your Libra?

Lies about little things

Indecisive

Cancels dates

Self-fish behaviors

Flirtatious

Self absorbed

Mine drinks way too much and he's been telling me he was going to quit smoking since the day we met.

To the lady with the lengthy story. I honestly hop your relationship never goes sour. You are too early in to tell though. I am sure most people here would agree that the first months of their relationship went the same way. in the beginning my Libra bought me flowers, once he brought rose petals and candles and filled the tub and scattered roses everywhere. When I got out of the tub he had made a heart out of roses for me on the bed... you get the picture. But it was not all those great things I remember when I reflect on our relationship. Think about how very early on in our relationship when I needed to get somewhere and he told me he would take me and then at the last minute he told me he couldn't. I think of all the times I had to wonder why he didn't want to move our relationship to the next level. I think about how I felt I was always available when he needed me, but he never was. I think about when I wanted to argue, how he just shrugged everything off like nothing. I hope that you have met the exception. I really do! Best of luck. My advise to you is to set your standards based off these stories because if you look at all the negative stuff and made a list we all had the basic same complaints about our Libra men. Believe me at 4 months in, I thought the same way you did.

To the guy that was 7 months in with the young lady that had to go off to school.

You gave some bad advice to the Libra man. If you want to keep your Scorpio woman space is a no, no. I am a Scorpio woman, and you Libras like your space. We like a very attentive man, someone that wants to spend their every waking moment just in our presence. If you want your Scorpio back you need to send her flowers, call her and tell her whatever you did you were wrong and she was right. And you want to understand what she needs from a relationship so you and only you can give her what she needs. If m Libra guy did that , I'd be mush in his arms.

From a Scorpio Woman

I (a Scorpio woman) was married to a Libra man for 16 years and he was a self absorbed prick who ALWAYS made sure to come first before me and the two children we had together. He was a liar and sneaky beyond comprehension! He flirted with everything that came his way and did it in front of me as if I wasn't even there. Then he acted like I was the crazy one for being upset about it. He was disrespectful on every level and had a way of making me second guess myself. (If only I had done this differently or if only I had not gotten so angry at him) Noooooo they are all alike and they will NEVER side with you or put you first in anything they do because they are incapable of this, narcissistic bastards that they are! Oh and nothing is ever THEIR fault either! Hate Em their figgen ASSHOLES!!!!!!!! If I ever found out that I was about to go on a date with a Libra man I would run sooooo fast that I would have road rash on my feet!!!! Word of advice....Everything I have read here is exactly like how my marriage was. By the way in the end he ended up having an affair and walking out on all three of us.

(Does this sound like your Libra?)

That doesn't sound like Libra who I knew. Since you are a Scorpio lady and I'm Virgo. My Libra is different from your, lol... well mine, he always comes to look for me as a cat that follows me; I'm always abandoned him. I loved him very much but I don't want to show him for I don't want him to treat me like a dump ass. He confessed directly to me that he don't want to loose me; he said, "Virgo is too selfish." I just said, oh is that true? He just giggling a little; we hate arguing. That is not our style; we talk when there is something wrong. I knew in his heart, he loves me to death; I cleaned his feet with my hair. He is too loyal to me. Our love is perfect. I never love anyone as him. I loved him because he is always polite to me. He wanted me to have a son for the first born while I'm not ready. I'm sorry for you met a weird Libra man. I hope your Libra will understand and love you even more. I lost my ex Scorpio; he can't keep up with me because he need to take care of his ex and small children. Now I'm happy and wishing you happy too. Okay!!

Im a Scorpio lady and met a Libran man. There was something so attractive about him not sure what. We talked, flirted and talked some more and found myself sooo attracted to him.

Then one day we got into a passionate clinch which I have never done with someone I do not know that well but I felt unable to stop it. It was like he had some power over me that I couldn't stop.

Im a Scorpio woman, Im always in control of my feelings!!!

We ended up making love and oh my gosh oh my goshhhhh, I have never ever ever been turned out like that.

Im a Libran man convert!!!

I have to say that he does have the mood swings, one day he is all over me then the next day he is cool with me but hey I will enjoy every moment of it whilst it lasts!

I'm a Scorpio woman involved with a Libra man, and we feel we are each other's twin flame. We can sense each other's thoughts without saying a word, and have great honesty and trust in our communication and interaction.

The best advice I'd give to a Scorpio woman interested in a Libra man is to exercise patience. Libra men always take their time, they're slow methodical thinkers and planners. Lack of communication or response to you doesn't indicate lack of interest, it means they're gauging you and what a relationship with you would mean. This can be very frustrating to a Scorpio woman because we already know instantly if we're interested in someone. We don't need to take time to figure anything out, we already know. But Libra men want to take the time to figure out how to make the relationship work before it even starts. Scorpio women just want the relationship and can deal with making it work afterwards, lol. It really does require a lot of patience and just being unconditional in your love.

With my Libra man, there was a triple whammy, 1) he's been hurt badly by past relationships and also a divorce so was overly cautious and indecisive 2)he's a workaholic with virtually no free time, totally devoted to a career he's worked to establish for many years and 3) we lived 1500 miles apart when we met. In spite of all those obstacles, we were deeply attracted to each other and made the effort to get to know each other and make it work. We're now living in the same town, and engaged to be married in a few months.

I believe you can have a successful relationship with a Libra man, it just requires a lot of patience, understanding and being able to tell him you'll always love him, no matter what-- without coming across as a doormat! If you can do that, you have a pretty good chance of making it work.

If you're an impatient person, always needing approval or attention, and just don't understand why he doesn't seem to be there for you emotionally, then it's better to say goodbye now rather than later. He'll always be who he is and won't change, and you always have to be honest with who you are as well.

I love my Libra man very much, he's been so good to me-- without me telling him he needs to be!-- and I wouldn't trade him for anything. Best of luck to all you women out there who also love your Libra men. They're really wonderful guys once they finally do make up their minds about you, lol.

I am a Scorpio woman married to a Libra for past 22 years. There was an immediate connection when we met. The sex was good. But slowly things deteriorated. He is argumentative, stubborn and very intelligent. We have 2 great kids. The more he argues the more I shut down. He is shy and I always had to make the first move. Our communication breaks down easily. I prefer a strong man who is self disciplined and confident. For me it has been a disaster.

I'm a Scorpio lady and is into this Libra guy, he is seems very confused and indecisive, even though we have not really like seen each other, but I believe his in to me as I am to him just my intuition), I really enjoy talking with him, he appears very diplomatic and logical, and I enjoy that, even though in our course of interaction, we are always disagreeing with so many things. He sure has a funny way of apologizing... I think our problem is that he doesn't me as much as I understand him. I don't know if there is any hope for this relationship and I'm afraid I have already fallen in love with him. And you know how PASSIONATE Scorpio's can be with love. I have tried fighting off this feeling, but he keeps assuring me is okay to let my feelings flow. We are really a Couple. Its fun anyway, you can try it.

im a 20 year old Scorpio girl and there was this guy I see around. been seeing him around for 3 years (the first time I saw him I automatically like him) well finally after 3 years of eye contact and smiling at each other we finally talked!! I was so happy! come to find out he is a Libra. that night we talked on the phone for about 6 hours and the convo was great. the next day I ended up doing laundry with him and went back to his place.!!OMG HE was sooooo passionate and I felt so comfortable and safe with him. it was incredible (and I love the fact we didn't even have sex)just kissing, touching, cuddling, massaging. but it slowly went down hill the next week when I would call him every time he'll be like let me call you back and never call back and things of that nature. so me being a hot headed Scorpio I cursed him out and said forget everything and don't talk to me again. he was confused and asked why and I never explained. but the next day he called (he knew what he did wrong) and was trying to give me attention and then had the nerve to say I should call him more. I wanted to smack him for saying that!

well last Saturday he was saying he wanted to see me! it was around 1 am and I said I would take a cab and was excited. so I called him before I left to make sure he was up and he told me to call him if anything. so when I got there I was texting, calling and waited 5 minutes. so I texted him saying I was leaving because I hate waiting on people especially if you knew I was coming. so I sent him about 6 more messages cursing him out!!!! then the next morning he texted me saying he's so sorry he fell asleep and the phone wasn't next to him!! LIES!! SO I Said you really hurt my feelings for doing that because if you were expecting me why would you not keep your phone near you! he apologized 100 times. (so that's strike one for him)

that same day I lost my phone so I called him from my house phone and when he answered he said lemme call you back and never called me back and it has been two weeks now. but I saw him and when he said hi I just stared at him and never said hi back! so right now we have no future because he messed up too many times and we've only known each other for three weeks. I would never want to build a relationship with him even though the connection was absolutely strong! it felt like I have been waiting for him my whole life! but because of his Libra ways it will never happen

coming from a Scorpio who has complete hatred for all Libras. SCORPIO, SCORPIO, ALL SCORPIO'S you are loving kind sweet touchy moody temperamental deep caring beautiful and Libra are selfish lazy lyers, manipulators if your Libra man does not put you first that means he's about to move on to the person who has become number one in his life Libras are all phony fake people listen to this a Libra is a blank canvas and Scorpio's you guys know we voice our opinions loud so they can be heard because once we are done or pissed off we cut people out of our lives and surprisingly your Libra knows this so he listens to EVERYTHING you say and this is why so many Scorpio fall victim to these people. anyways they listen and memorize everything you like and dislike once they find out everything that makes you you they erase all the negative traits you hate in things that they possess and make all the things you love and need part of their personality and let me tell you I know 7 s corpios who have been screwed over by Libras and they say what im saying, its all true so your with your Libra and you think oh my god this is the man I needed all my life when he smiles at you your heart turns over and all you think about is him what he needs what he wants how to make him happy all the while forgetting who you are now here's were it all goes to shit when you want something you want he comes up short he forgets yes the sex is out of this world because they are sexing you exactly how you've trained them over the years and it will never stop but once you start wanting what you wants and you start acting how you truly are after his CHARM YES CHARM that's got you under a spell starts to fad then the real you comes through he will start putting you last for everything he will become distant and your perfect man will start to disappear. why? you ask because he sees you wont forever stay under his spell so he starts erasing all the qualities that made him perfect for you because either he has found someone else and he's computing her or his yes another woman or mans qualities that they want in a lover because he's about to quit you and once he does you will be left looking stupid and it will be all your fault because you didn't look harder into why this so called perfect man is so perfect the answer is HE IS FAKE he is not deep he is not genuine he is not sweet, well yeah he is, to get everything he wants out of you, he is not the perfect man because have you ever stop to think of this when he's trying to make a decision about something lets say choosing to buy the blue shirt or the green shirt one or both of these colors being his favirotes, why its so hard for him to choose then you say being so blinded by his fakeness says you should pick the blue shirt because you look so handsome and beautiful in that color that color highlights your features, then you see him smile and he picks the blue one making you feel great because he took your advice when truthfully he only likes for EVERYONE to think he's so attractive and beautiful and if everyone thinks he's beautiful then everyone will love him and when everyone loves the fake Libra is he truly happy....to all Scorpios Cancer and Pisces we are the first targets for Libra people because we are so loving and sweet and our emotions run so deep but guess what he is an air sign he is only as deep as he looks true story that beautiful face perfect teeth sweet tasting breath perfect muscular chiseled arms and big you know what between his legs and perfect way of living life attitude he has is only so he can be admired. after all what is the physical representation of a Libra a balancing scale what the hell is that and object that weighs things against each other its balancing each objects weight and the heavier object will be measured as low and needs to be thrown out and ALL SCORPIOS ARE HEAVY WITH OUR EMOTIONS, LOVE, AT WORK, AT SCHOOL 24/7 WE ARE HEAVY AND REAL SO ONCE HE REALIZES THIS HE WILL THROW AWAY ALL THE HARD WORK YOU PUT INTO HIM ALL THE GIFTS ALL OF YOUR LOVE AND THEN HE WILL THROW YOUR ASS AWAY leaving you feeling dumb and stupid so watch out all Scorpios eagles phoenix's and gray lizards when you deal with a Libra in any shape or form you will never fully be happy and will end up regretting your relationship with the Libra im a Scorpio with Sagittarius moon Scorpio mercury and Venus and Aquarius Mars I dumped that Libra before he ruined me and I suggest you do the same and he will beg and try to convince that you two are made for each other but the truth is he's NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. he's IN LOVE WITH THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HIM. AND TIME WILL OPEN YOUR EYES ITS UP TO YOU HOW MUCH TIME YOU GIVE HIS ASS

I'm 42 year old Scorpio female and have only had my heart broken twice in my life, both times by Libran men. Don't go there.

I am an Scorpio women & my boyfriend can act so iqonorent sometimes . he disgust me when he brinqs up old problems in our relationship . he's indecisive & acts like he does not know what he wants in life . he tells me we are going to qet married & be toqether forever but latley he catches his lil hissy fits &tells me its over which makes me think he isnt going to be there in the lonq run . :( but our sex is mind bllowinq & passionate & unforqetable . it seems like he's always askinq for more in the bedroom , I qet jelous when he qives other females the attention he used to qive me . my baby has his days but even if I wanted to leave I wouldnt have the strenqth to do it . its a force thats keepinq me from sayinq fuck yu & qet the hell out of my life when sometimes he pushes me to that limit to do so . im so in love but its killinq me at the same time . we've been toqether for 3 months now &im feelinq like I cant live without him . he tells me in beautiful & pretty & gorqeous every day but im feelinq like itss not coverinq up the faults .

can anybody P L E A S E help me

I must say that this stories hit even too close to home. I am a Scorpio woman and I`ve been dating this Libra man for 3 years. The first 2 years were wonderful, but now I`m not that happy with him as I used to be. I`ve known him since we were children and I allways wanted to be with him. He is focused on himself and doesn`t really know how to be with another person. He goes through all these mood swings and phases. I used to give him much attention, but lately I don`t feel like I want to try, because I`m exhausted from investing in this relationship and I think that he should try more. I`ve told him this, but he says that he is buisy with college and activities and does the best he can and he loves me. He is a good person and has helped me become more mature, but now I`m afraid that I might have outgrown him. I still love him, but I feel scared that my love will die if something doesn`t change soon. I am more cool towards him and less enthusiastic than before. In al l these negative stories I get the feeling that Libra men can be quite selfish and selforiented and when you jump around them, when you are smitten and when you give them attention, they love it, but then there isn`t any space left for the other person who needes appreciation as much as they do. So I don`t know what to do, because I ask my self is the cause of his behaviour his imaturity or his nature. I wish I had the magic stick to see my future with him and his future bahaviour so I could make the right decision in presence. I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR YOUR ADVICE IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL ME. THANKS FOR READING!

I am a Scorpio woman as well and I have been dating a Libra man (off and on of course) for about 5 months. He can't make up his mind; he is completely indecisive when it comes to anything relationship oriented. He won't commit or even talk to me about why he won't commit. All he will really admit to is that he doesn't know what he wants. I have read all of these stories and I do agree that he is taking the time to make sure it's right, but I am so impatient I am about ready to give up at this point.

The less attention I give him the more attention he gives me (I found this out the hard way). We work together so it was hard not to continue talking to him as I normally would have, but I overcame that urge. I stopped texting him and speaking to him all the time at work. This made him start chasing me. I don't know what to do about it now because the last thing I want to do is play games. I either want to be with him entirely, or walk. I mean, he never even called me his girlfriend and we were obviously exclusive... that means we are together to me!

Another thing that I dislike thusfar is that he already shows traits of being self involved, say it's "balance" all you want ladies, I just think he's sneaky as hell.

Yes, the sex is great (when HE wants it to be). We also connect intellectually and emotionally on a very deep level already. The attraction I feel toward him is almost megnetic, like I'm drawn to him. When I stare into his eyes I can see the joy he gets by being with me and that makes me feel so good I can hardly contain my happiness.

I just don't think he understand what it means to truly be with someone. When you are with someone, you need to be there with them, not dodging calls when it doesn't suit your mood. It hurts, but I'm logical enough to see when it's time to put my best foot foward. To all the ladies out there struggling with a similar dillema: Just weigh the pro's and con's of the situation carefully. Is sex and convorsation really worth a lack of TRUE intimacy? It may feel wonderful now, but if you have a Libra guy that dodges your calls/texts and only wants to see you when you are ignoring him or when HE feels like it, then you are probably going to wind up with a broken heart because your suspicious and jealous nature will arise at some point and become overwhelming for him. THen it will eventually end. I am just grateful I can see this coming before I crash and burn once more... take the time to really think about it ladies :)

I am a Scorpio female I met my librian guy when I was sweet 16 and he was 23. We clicked as soon as we met and I believe we met by fate. We've been through so much together, good and bad but we have come through all of that got three kids together and are getting married in a couple of months! he is in the army now and I miss him so much but when we do get to see each other its electric, energetic, sexual, and loving we have been together for 10 years and we still keep each other on our toes and its not boring at all. I think scorpios and libras are made for each other, it just takes time patience and a bit of effort and you will reap the rewards. Stick with it its worth it.... : )

Scorpio WOMAN VERSES Libra MAN!

I was in a relationship with a Libra man for almost 13 years, and ended very badly. He cheated on me while he was a work while I was pregnant with his second child. Then attacked me out of the blue when I told him we don't belong together. The attack was severe. He cheated,always lied, very secretive,and now he thinks he's God's gift to women.Sleeping around everywhere POF, special!I took the children and ran for 3 years, now we are in contact, and all Hell is loose. He refuses to pay any child support for these children. Very selfish, he was always like that Me and I.One question how do you get a Libra Back For the damages he has caused! Revenge!

I am a Scorpio women in the process of getting to know and possibly date a libra, again! Don't know what to do really. The last Libra I dated I loved very much, but it didn't work out between us. Now I have this other Libra that is a great guy and a wonderful friend that wants to be with me as a couple and I want to, but I'm scared that it won't work out like the last Libra. After reading all these stories on here I can tell there is both positive and negitive things going on with Libra and Scorpio connections. However, is there more negative then positive or the other way around???

My husband is a Libra man who is in an affair with a Scorpio woman. We have been married for 22 years and we have two children. One day he just told me he did not love me anymore and took some of his stuff and left. This was just the beginning of October. The kids and I, we did not even have the chance to see him on his birthday as he spent it with this woman. After I found out he is having an affair with this woman who is 34 years old and he is 47. Everything was going fine in our life, so I thought, I had no warning signs at all. It is devostating. He always have been jealous, but we always somehow worked it out, as I have never given him the reason to be like that. On the other hand, even so, he would lie about it, I would find credit card bills with motel room charges on it, I would find him approaching women on the internet. SO some people above stated, they are sneaky, and that is right on. I am not sure if all Libra man are like that, but it is almost like st upid, they lie about just about everything, they will always say what you want to hear, they hate confrontation, so I am assuming that is why they lie. I am an Aquarian and I really thought we were soul mates. Of course, this is not over yet, and I am not sure what to do, just let them be, or start finding back. This woman is evil, and very calculative, and I am afraid, she will make our life miserable if I interfere. I have to look out for my children! He hurt us really bad, and I am not sure how we are going to get through this. It is terrifying to think that this woman wants a baby, and they already talking about marriage!!! Makes me ill!!! He can not even take care of us, as he does not make a lot of money, so I am not sure how he thinks he will be able to provide for 2 families! My daughter just started college, it breaks my heart that he does not even care!

I'm a Scorpio and I used to date a libra. All of these posts are so right on. It's great at the beginning but ONLY because of the sex and a realtionship needs to be built on more then just sex. Us scorpios are too intense, emontional, jealous, and confrontation where Libra men are just the opposite. Libra won't be able to give us the attention that we need to be happy so look for another more comptatible sign, like a Taurus and leave those libras behind. They are trouble!

best advice I can give being a Scorpio girl is my jealousy and paranoia has ruined a lot of good relationships and now ive learned to keep my emotions in check and don't let them get the best of me im talking to a Libra guy and he really calms me down.

hey I m a libra-scorpio cusp who really fell for this Scorpio girl at my school...1st she was mature and nice and she became the most egoistic,physcho girl I hav eva met.she pretends 2 be sweet on my face and the gets into the mean acts like bitching bout me 2 my frnz!!! and later I come 2 know that will I busy making things normal between us she was using that vindictive nature of her's 2 take some stupid revenge...!!!

libra-scorpio & especially libra-scorp cusp vid a scorp girl is big no...!!!

the get too bossy,controlling,manipulative and egositic 4 each other!!! dis all ends up bout a relation where you hav 2 play and win mind games!!!

From what I have read many of the stories seem to really touch on my feelings of my relationship with a male Libra. We were immediately attracted to each other initially and of course had amazing sexual chemistry. His smile and laid-back charm and flattery intrigued me and I couldnt quite figure him out which challenged me to want to know him better. He asked me out only a week after meeting, and we live 2 hours away so doing long distance is quite tricky. His lacking ability to have meaningful conversations with me when we're apart really takes a toll on me. I have a deep desire to feel emotionally close and I feel a lot of the times he is emotionally distant- even when we are together. He is very suspicous, jealous and controlling which doesn't sit well with me. I value my independance and freedom and he seems to want me all to himself. He won't go out drinking with me and rarely brings me around his friends...he claims to just perfer to spend the few days a week we h ave together alone, but my suspicious nature has me wondering if he's hiding something. He also has made a point to try and alienate me from all of my male friends I had before I even met him, which is so not cool esp because me and my group of guys from home have deep friendships and are like family. We've been dating 10 months and yes I do love him, however lately I've been wondering if we're compatible. I am frustrated at his inability to compromise or see my side of things..he always has to be right and somehow always turn the blame on me. When I try to get him to open up he shys away and usually remains quiet which frustrates me because I want to know his deep innerworkings and have more than a superficial connection. My intuition also has me unsure of him becuase I know he knows how to manipulate people with emotions to get what he wants (he turns on that sweetness and charm that is irresistable, or guilts you into something). I feel it is hard to let my guard down completely when I get such mixed signals from him. We are both stubborn as well and he cannot handle it if I "get an attitude" with him..which is hard for me to control.We both don't like conflict and tend to bottle things up..which is bad for the both of us because when we end up arguing it is competative and doesn't really solve anything- a big problem b.c atleast on my side I end up holding on to resentment. He tends to also "joke" around in a way that uses put-downs or criticisms and he thinks I overreact when I get offended by them, but I need to feel respected and it does hurt my feelings. I have strong feelings for him, but I'm really questioning our potential to last with so many negative traits in our relationship. I am willing to work to try and understand each others wants/needs better, but the worst part is when I tried to bring some of these issues up he told me I was crazy and had nothing to be unhappy about b.c our relationship is perfect! HAH! I will keep trying b.c I do care but I feel that ultimately we will reach our breaking point.

From what I have read many of the stories seem to really touch on my feelings of my relationship with a male Libra. We were immediately attracted to each other initially and of course had amazing sexual chemistry. His smile and laid-back charm and flattery intrigued me and I couldnt quite figure him out which challenged me to want to know him better. He asked me out only a week after meeting, and we live 2 hours away so doing long distance is quite tricky. His lacking ability to have meaningful conversations with me when we're apart really takes a toll on me. I have a deep desire to feel emotionally close and I feel a lot of the times he is emotionally distant- even when we are together. He is very suspicous, jealous, controlling, and hypocritical which doesn't sit well with me. I value my independance and freedom and he seems to want me all to himself while he can go and do whatever. He won't go out drinking with me and rarely brings me around his friends...he claims t o just perfer to spend the few days a week we have together alone, but my suspicious nature has me wondering if he's hiding something. He also has made a point to try and alienate me from all of my male friends I had before I even met him, which is so not cool esp because me and my group of guys from home have deep friendships and are like family. We've been dating 10 months and yes I do love him, however lately I've been wondering if we're compatible. I am frustrated at his inability to compromise or see my side of things..he always has to be right and somehow always turn the blame on me. When I try to get him to open up or talk about what's going on with him he shys away and usually remains quiet which frustrates me because I want to know his deep innerworkings and have more than a superficial connection. When I ask questions he usually just ignores them or gives one word explanations, however if I were to do the same he would be hounding me for answers. It drives me nuts! My intuition also has me unsure of him because I know he knows how to manipulate people with emotions to get what he wants (he turns on that sweetness and charm that is irresistable, or guilts you into something). I feel it is hard to let my guard down completely when I get such mixed signals from him. We are both stubborn as well and he cannot handle it if I "get an attitude" with him..which is hard for me to control.We both don't like conflict and tend to bottle things up..which is bad for the both of us because when we end up arguing it is competative and doesn't really solve anything- a big problem b.c atleast on my side I end up holding on to resentment. He tends to also "joke" around in a way that uses put-downs or criticisms and he thinks I overreact when I get offended by them, but I need to feel respected and it does hurt my feelings. I have strong feelings for him, but I'm really questioning our potential to last with so many negative traits in our relationship and his inability to even admit they exist. I am willing to work to try and understand each others wants/needs better, but the worst part is when I tried to bring some of these issues up he told me I was crazy and had nothing to be unhappy about b.c our relationship is perfect and he treats me better than anyone else could! HAH! I will keep trying b.c I do care but I feel that ultimately we will reach our breaking point.

I am a Scorpio! I am bookmarking this page to refer back to when I am feeling like leaving, feeling unsatisfied, feeling depressed, etc. All of your comments have been really helpful. I see now that some have it a lot worse, and some have it better. I can be thankful for what I have and focus on improving ME.

My Libra man and I have been reading your comments together. Some make us laugh and some make us cringe. It is good to know we are not alone! Just knowing that who we are is normal, and that what we are experiencing is normal makes it easier to push forward.

Thank you all!!

I'm 19 years old girl a Scorpio and I fall in love with a Libra man 20 years old. I fall in love with him at first sight. He was very kind, generous, honesty, loving and caring. I confessed to him. Well, correct me if I'm wrong. But when I fall in love or if lets say I love him. I will tell him directly. At first, he thought it was a joke. So he never did bother about it. But then when I told him I'm serious. Things change. He rarely text me. We rarely talk to each other. As time passed, I think we began to be like in normal relationship. So its like we were friends again. Honestly, I don't mind about it but.. however I am curious about his answer. Does he have same feeling for me? Well after all the past. He treating me very differently.. I cant really explain it. But I can say that. When I needed help he will be there instantly. No question asked. Sometimes he willing to do many things for me. Shockingly, he did background and personality research on me. I know th is because when we got into a fight. He always surrender himself. Then when asked. Why he never throw those anger back at me. After that, he said.. I'm used to it, after sometimes you'll cool down and act normal. Then he also complains to me that I was different to him. In chat, person and with other people I know. Its like he wants more of my kindness. Because in front all the people I know, I'm treating him like normal friends. But in person I'm more towards flirty, loving and caring. So my question is.. does he love me? If he does.. then why he never said it to me?

Hey 19 year old girl, I`m giving you advice and I`ll mix it with my story, so you can see how it works. You see Libra men usually don`t make the first step, they are romantic and hate conflicts, so that is why he wants you to be nice to him. I had a relationship with a Libra guy for 3 years, but I left him and before that we were friends. As children we were together and later once made out and allways had chemistry. I was attracted to him from the first minute, but being a Libra he allways pushed me away and probably allways will. They are afraid of Scorpios and think that Scorpios and Libras aren`t compatible. Maybe that is the way he thinks of you two. I don`t know if he loves you, hell I don`t know anymore if my guy ever loved me, because he is unpredictable and changes all the time. But if you want to be with him you`ll have to slowly break that wall between you. But if it developes too slowly, you`ll have to do something radical, like sit in his lap or confron t with him and tell him that you want to solve your undifined relationship that on your side doesn`t feel like a usual friendship (that worked for me). For your Libra guy it will seem like you are confused about your status and that the resolution is a question of justice, because it is wright that you know were you stand with him.;-)Be just a bit agressive towards him. At first he`ll run away, but if there are feelings, he won`t be able to stay away for long. Although I have to warn you, it isn`t easy to be with a Libra. It is great for some time, but eventually it can get ugly. And then it`s the saddest thing. Be careful if he likes to change too much or doesn`t know what he wants from life, because it`s hard to be with someone who is with time more and more unreliable. But we Scorpios usually listen to our hearts, because that`s the way to live and it is something thah Libras should learn, because although they are romantic, they tend to control their feelings to much. I hope I helped you and that everything will turn out as you want it to. Good luck!

Hello my Scorpio sisters. I've been in love with a Libra for 25 years I am now 43. up until the age 18 I thought that I was a Lesbian but the first time I saw this libra's face my space between my legs jumped and my heart leaped I WAS IN LOVE He was the first man that I was ever attracted to.

we didn't develop an intimate relationship until 11 years ago. I have struggled in this relationship. My pride has been compromised and my mind has been weakened. I have done things to and for this man that I have never ever dreamed that I would do for ANYONE. he has belittled me, made me feel like I was crazy, refused me sexually, abused me verbally and physically and still I am with him.

every time I said that I was leaving he convinced me to stay, the sex convinced me to stay, his presence , his smile his smell made me stay.

he hasn't physically abused me in 3 years but the verbal abuse and mind games is just as bad if not worse.

i tried telling him in the beginning that I am controlling, demanding , jealous and sometimes insecure and he will have to reassure me at times that I am loved and desired and he told me he would and then at times said that he didn't have to prove anything to me.

I lost myself , I am losing myself being with this man.. this libra. He is shallow, stuck on himself, vain and the biggest LIAR I have ever known! I love him and feel sick if i'm not near him or hear his voice.

I did try to leave him again earlier this year and I thought that I wouldn't breath but I manage to do so... just when I was able to feel like I was free from this Libra .. he called me and entangled me in his web again.

He just left for work and left me dazed and confused from the passionate sex we just had.

I am still trying to gain my strength to leave him I have to remember that I am a Scorpio and this bull shyt I just can't continue to tolerate.

i don't want this man, often times I hate this man. I know that libras are liars and users and soon enough he will rip my heart in 2. he wants to be the one to leave me first.. leave me broken.

i will leave this man I have to. I owe it to myself to stop acting like a fool.... remember that I do have pride and that there is someone out there who will love me and treat me like how I deserve to be treated.

i am reading how some Scorpio women are having successful relationships with libras but the only way we have successful relationships with these Libra men is if we lose ourselves, forget who we are and all of our desires and focus only on theirs.

If I had it to do all over again I would've had sex with him and just walked away never looked back. I wasted so much time , energy and pride being with this libra.

Hello my Scorpio sisters. I've been in love with a Libra for 25 years I am now 43. up until the age 18 I thought that I was a Lesbian but the first time I saw this libra's face my space between my legs jumped and my heart leaped I WAS IN LOVE He was the first man that I was ever attracted to.

we didn't develop an intimate relationship until 11 years ago. I have struggled in this relationship. My pride has been compromised and my mind has been weakened. I have done things to and for this man that I have never ever dreamed that I would do for ANYONE. he has belittled me, made me feel like I was crazy, refused me sexually, abused me verbally and physically and still I am with him.

every time I said that I was leaving he convinced me to stay, the sex convinced me to stay, his presence , his smile his smell made me stay.

he hasn't physically abused me in 3 years but the verbal abuse and mind games is just as bad if not worse.

i tried telling him in the beginning that I am controlling, demanding , jealous and sometimes insecure and he will have to reassure me at times that I am loved and desired and he told me he would and then at times said that he didn't have to prove anything to me.

I lost myself , I am losing myself being with this man.. this libra. He is shallow, stuck on himself, vain and the biggest LIAR I have ever known! I love him and feel sick if i'm not near him or hear his voice.

I did try to leave him again earlier this year and I thought that I wouldn't breath but I manage to do so... just when I was able to feel like I was free from this Libra .. he called me and entangled me in his web again.

He just left for work and left me dazed and confused from the passionate sex we just had.

I am still trying to gain my strength to leave him I have to remember that I am a Scorpio and this bull shyt I just can't continue to tolerate.

i don't want this man, often times I hate this man. I know that libras are liars and users and soon enough he will rip my heart in 2. he wants to be the one to leave me first.. leave me broken.

i will leave this man I have to. I owe it to myself to stop acting like a fool.... remember that I do have pride and that there is someone out there who will love me and treat me like how I deserve to be treated.

i am reading how some Scorpio women are having successful relationships with libras but the only way we have successful relationships with these Libra men is if we lose ourselves, forget who we are and all of our desires and focus only on theirs.

If I had it to do all over again I would've had sex with him and just walked away never looked back. I wasted so much time , energy and pride being with this libra.

I don't know what to say Scorpio sisters... I understand the " Love-at-first-sight" thingy. Maybe it's just normal for Scorpios and Libras to have this instant physical attraction to each other. I mean, we (this Libra guy & I) have felt the same way when we've met. He was a co-worker and when our eyes first met, I swear I saw sparks flying all over! Then, he was so quick to ask details about me ( as they are the upfront type and we are the secretive type). Asked me out for a movie-date the next day and oh my when they smile! My heart would always leap everytime. Can't help but smile while typing this. lol! And girls, we all know they are the romantic type (at least they claimed to be). For sure, all guys would give us the attention we wanted the very first stage of the relationship but as time goes by, it's a sad fact that they either get too comfortable or they got tired of the relationship and things started to get sour.

The 1st thing which amazed me is how this Libra guy managed to bring out this fantastic patience in me. Believe me, I am never patient to any of my ex's before and this guy makes me feel calm. I don't know if I'm starting to lose myself but what I know is, I do things which I have never ever EVER thought I would do just for this guy. Sneaky: I can't really tell yet coz we're just going out for about 2 months now. THough we've fought already because of our differences and YES! I have seen how a Libra guy would lose their cool and would be very negative. They could easily accuse you of things that you haven't done and this makes me very upset. Being a TRUE scorpio, we resent LIES! So, as much as possible, we DO NOT LIE! I should also say, I am thinking of leaving this guy who btw told me to my face he can't marry me because of our MAJOR differences yet I am still with him. Because this stupid love I have for him convinced me of staying. Though I am getting tired of it, I know I f he continues being like this I would really hit the road and go. There are better guys out there and trust Fate to give you the best guy for you: Your REAL SOULMATE... =)

Female Scorpio here, and I'm 18. The situation I'm in right now is confusing me. My close friend (female) is a Libra. She used to date a Libra guy (which is also a friend of mine). Often she would tell me how sweet he is and all that lovey dovey stuff. The typical Scorpio that I am, I get jealous because she has her man while I'm here JUST listening to everything and all alone hoping the right man would come along. He would buy her things and she'd flaunt it to me. Which girl wouldn't be proud? He's an ideal guy and he's a great listener.

Then recently me and him went out with our other friends, without her because they broke up. I realized that throughout the whole time I was sticking to him. It's like a natural attraction. All of us spent the night together by the beach. So I took the opportunity to get to know him better. He laughed at my jokes, he told me about how difficult his childhood was, he listened to my complaints. I even got all emotional and he'd offered me a tissue (it was a sweet gesture though). All in one night. I even managed to find out why they broke up. The reason being- She was attracted to his friend (a Pisces). He had to let her go. He convinced me that he is not the type of guy who would only go for physical appearance.

I might have developed feelings for him because he's that ideal guy. Hardworking, gentleman, talented and matured. Yet I feel guilty if I were to tell that I have feelings for him because no matter what, I'd be backstabbing someone. I don't want that to happen. To make things worse, I don't know if he was just being a sweetheart that night (or flirtatious) or he's starting to have feelings for me. This is where I'm stuck.

I m a libran male of 20 and the girl I m in luv with is 18 scorpion. We have started our relationship as a friend, couple of months back. I m seducing her4 a date... She says she will, but wen d time ripens, she ignores me 4 a date.. I find really difficult in persuading her...our interaction is mainly on phone or thru sms...plz help!

"Hey 19 year old girl, I`m giving you advice and I`ll mix it with my story, so you can see how it works. You see Libra men usually don`t make the first step, they are romantic and hate conflicts, so that is why he wants you to be nice to him. I had a relationship with a Libra guy for 3 years, but I left him and before that we were friends. As children we were together and later once made out and allways had chemistry. I was attracted to him from the first minute, but being a Libra he allways pushed me away and probably allways will. They are afraid of Scorpios and think that Scorpios and Libras aren`t compatible. Maybe that is the way he thinks of you two. I don`t know if he loves you, hell I don`t know anymore if my guy ever loved me, because he is unpredictable and changes all the time. But if you want to be with him you`ll have to slowly break that wall between you. But if it developes too slowly, you`ll have to do something radical, like sit in his lap or confro and t with him and tell him that you want to solve your undifined relationship that on your side doesn`t feel like a usual friendship (that worked for me). For your Libra guy it will seem like you are confused about your status and that the resolution is a question of justice, because it is wright that you know were you stand with him.;-)Be just a bit agressive towards him. At first he`ll run away, but if there are feelings, he won`t be able to stay away for long. Although I have to warn you, it isn`t easy to be with a Libra. It is great for some time, but eventually it can get ugly. And then it`s the saddest thing. Be careful if he likes to change too much or doesn`t know what he wants from life, because it`s hard to be with someone who is with time more and more unreliable. But we Scorpios usually listen to our hearts, because that`s the way to live and it is something thah Libras should learn, because although they are romantic, they tend to control their feelings to much. I hope I helped you and that everything will turn out as you want it to. Good luck!"

Lucky me someone reading my experience. Your right.. he did told me that we are not compatible. Which a very LOL to me after reading your comment. :D hahas!! So far I am breaking the wall. Anyway.. THANKS. :)

I am a Libra male married to a Scorpio for a long time. My advise to other Libra males is RUN, RUN, RUN away as fast as you can. The above posts paint us Libra males in a quite negative way. To get along with a Scorpio female you must yield completely. If it's OK for them to be them why can't I be me. They are the worst communicators ever. I find empathy is a foreign concept to them. Fairness! Ha...When it's good it's good. When it's bad it's bad. Libra males hold grudges and Scorpio females don't care...One of my favorite games at parties is to watch the look on peoples faces when Scorpios just blurt stuff out and have no clue that they just chopped that person legs off at the knees. Good stuff. I love mt Scorpio female but it's not easy.

I'm a Scoprio woman and I had a fling with a very flirtatious Libra man. It was exciting and amazing but I never would have dated this person. I knew from the moment that we started talking that it never would have worked out between us but it was fun and I won't ever forget it. Now I'm married to a Taurus and I'm extremely happy. We work together very well and we both understand each other.

Ok I have read every single post! And what I think is that all of these comments need to be made into a book! all I can say is WOW.

Oh yeah I'm a Scorpio was with a Libra man for 1 year TOO LONG! I wish that I could get that year back!

I know that sun signs are just two of the many signs that contribute to the harmony and/or discord of a relationship, and I do not profess to be able to predict compatibility based on sun signs. I only know what I know. I am a Scorpio sun with a Gemini moon. My partner is a Libra sun with a Capricorn moon. We have been together for a year and a half, and I can honestly say that although this has been the strongest love connection I've ever had, I would not recommend this sun sign combination to anyone. Ever. When you merge with someone who does not understand you and whom you do not understand-- in this case, a water sign with an air sign-- and who thinks and acts totally differently than you do (and vice versa), there will, inevitably, be problems. You cannot force, coerce, or convince another person to see things the way that you do, especially if they are inherently inclined to see things in the opposite way. It turns into an unending and painful battle, sometimes over the simplest things. It's not worth it-- life is too short.

The love between a Libra and Scorpio is profound, at first. But when the Scorpio needs to be fulfilled emotionally, the Libra questions the needs and will not fulfill them unless the Libra is convinced that the needs are reasonable and valid TO THEM.

The Scorpion, however, meets every need of the person the Scorpio loves, simply because that person means more to them than anything else in the world. Why wouldn't the Scorpio fulfill the needs of the Libra, then? OF COURSE the Scorpio will!

In short, the love between Libra and Scorpio is unbalanced. At first, the stars shine brighter than the sun for these two. But when push comes to shove, the Libra/Scorpio combination is extremely difficult-- to difficult, in my opinion, because like I said, life is too short. The two will never understand each other, and they will argue till they're blue in the face and still not come to a compromise. The union turns out to be completely unbalanced, with the Scorpio giving everything the Libra wants while the Libra argues about everything the Scorpio asks for.

It's sucked the life out of me, to be honest. And I think it's sucked the life out of my Libra, too.

Not worth it, Scorpions. Move on. And don't fall in love!! Life, as I said, is too short.

Scorpio woman met Libra man at gym. At first I thought he was obnoxious and loud. He would look up every time he did something to see who was watching him. Anyway, I fell for his flirty bullshit. I saw the red flags but I had this crazy attraction. We started working out together and he would say the rudest things and then say he was just kidding. He was like a jekyl & Hyde type. He wanted me to play like I was stupid and felt intimidated when I taught him things on exercising. He used to call me from his cell on his way home but never from home. He had baby momma drama said he couldn't see his daughter cause his girlfriend is a racist. I suspect he abandoned her and was of no use to her during her pregnancy so she was strong enough to leave his sorry ass. He's a narcissist passive/agressive asshole. He is a liar. He was disrespectful to me for the last time and we had a big angry match back. Cut him off. He never told me he was living with his girlfriend for the last 3 ye ars. He's a fucken loser. Lies about everything and its like second nature. He got his live-in girlfriend pregnant and doesn't know how it happenend. Really? Anyway, he was talking dirty with an ex in Virginia, she sends him naked photos. He is about to be a father again and just cause he can't get laid he looks for it anywhere and everywhere. He will say anything to get laid. Doesn't care if its a lie. He's missing teeth, is getting fat now and says he doesn't love his baby momma any more. So that makes 2 women who were stupid enough to give him a child and he doesn't want anything to do with them or take responsibility for the pain is is still causing. His first daughter stopped seeing him. I guess this last girlfriend will stay cause I'm pretty sure she has no self esteem at this point and he's probably made her feel worthless. He is an assclown. Raised wrong. I think his parents are related cause his father was 22 when he met his mother and she was twelve. His father said he was going to marry her at 15. He got her pregnant at 14. Libra was born to her at 15, his father was 27. Pedofile? Yeah, I'm thinking it. He's the son of a pedofile. His mother, a child herself raised him. They argued throughout his childhood which has effected him greatly. I think he thinks love means conflict, drama and arguements. So no wonder he's doubly screwed. A sick, demented, don't know how to treat women, probably has an odepus complex. Soon to be 40 and I doubt there is any hope for him. His character will be the same and karma has some eye opening events coming his way soon. Poor bastard, I tried to set him straight but nooooo, I think at this point he doesn't know truth from reality. I also think he is deep, deep, deep in the closet.

I'm a Scorpio woman and married to a Libra man it started as a fairytale story would. We both were so excited to have met, we hit it off from the first day. He was so charming, attentive and soft hearted. Six years later this is his personality..... argument, stubborn, holds grudges, easily puts blame on others. He has a need to prove a point even if he is wrong he becomes redundant to try to change your mind. In front of others he is charming and puts on a very helpful picture of himself. When he is at a positive stage he loves to buy me the better things in life. When we have arguments they are pretty bad. Communication was good at first now it's so.

this is a post from another girl this is exactly how I feel about my man he is violant and rude and its his way or the high way , but when around others he puts on this sweet helpfull act and acts soooo verry nice to me but once were in the car flames fly ... I know what you meen girls they're so missleading!

It's nice to see there are many Scorpio women with Libra men who are having the same issues as me. The lack of compromise in the relationship, the hiding of issues, lack of communication... I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, and we've had some terrible fights. I'm only 20 and he's 27. I need help learning how to deal with the problems we have. I can't just tell him my problems and try to talk about them because he just stays quiet, like the problems will disappear by themselves. UGH, it's so frustrating.

Im a Scorpio women and the Libra man I was seeing was the best person who walked into my life at the time.I was going through my worst time in my life and he tried to help me in any way he could.I have dated a lot of disrespectful guys in the past.I was married to a Virgo who treated me like gold.My Libra man was too perfect at the begining.He came on strong but I loved it.He told me he wanted me attached,to be in a relationship,and wanted to share his life with me.I don't take people seriously when it sounds too perfect so soon.Out of nowhere he got insucure on me and I had to move an hour away from him and we stopped talking for weeks.I contacted him and opened the door back up.He would tell me how he never stops thinking about me,how much he misses me daily,and we continued to share our feelings with each other deeply.Then out of no where once again he stopped talking to me.I am a very attractive women and have a strong personality.He has low self esteem but is a very succesful person and I think it helps balance his ego.I always felt like maybe he was afraid I would hurt him in some way.So once again I reached out to him after weeks of not talking.This time I saw him and he now was telling me he felt like he was in love with me.Also he had feelings for me that don't go away and he thinks of me from the second he wakes up until he goes to sleep.As a Scorpio I don't give my heart to just anyone.Or I don't feel comfortable expressing my feelings so blunt or want to be naive.But when he said all of that too me I truely felt the same and told him so.Being close to him in person is very intense.I don't have that kind of connection with anyone.After going home we kept in contact with each other daily.He would tell me he loved me.Then a couple times I came to see him he wouldnt answer his phone.I was confused.My heart would panic becuase I was sick of this on and off thing we were setting ourselves up for.He told me he would never leave me again.He could never give me a answer why he blew me off.Finally the Scorpio came out. I simply wanted him to feel guilty for his actions.No one breaks my heart and gets away with it.Finally after more weeks of not talking I got him on the phone and he said he was seeing someone.I've never had someone tell me they loved me then stab me in the heart like that.Now theres nothing left between us,but he's stuck in my heart.I wont contact him again but I think about him everyday.One time he said we should get married.I don't understand why he would do that to me.My first and only Libra.I did have to sting him by letting him know I was seeing someone also!

I think the problems are more with the October born Libra men than with the September ones. That's been my experience anyway.

Scorpios and Libras -- a tough blend. I'm an air sign and I've experienced Libra men, so I know them very well. They are the coldest and most narcissistic men on the planet. They can be loyal if they choose to, but deep down, they lack empathy, they love no one but themselves and are rarely ever faithful. Only another air sign can handle/understand them. A mature Gemini, Libra or Aquarian woman can walk away seemingly unscathed from these men (even if it hurts deep down). They know how to play Libra's game as well, if not better, than him. Fire signs can handle them as well, but not as well as air.

Libras have a deep-rooted need to be loved and admired, and therefore gravitate towards the more emotional signs. It's not in an air or most fire signs' nature to completely lose themselves in anyone to the degree that Libra is seeking. Most Libra men are cheaters, even the ones who seem to be at home all the time and shower their wives with lots of attention. Sometimes all this attention is just to make up for their bad behavior. They say Geminis are fickle, that Scorpio is manipulative and Pisces are deceitful. A Libra has ALL of these traits and more. One partner is never enough for a Libra and they will never admit to their infidelities -- you have to catch them in the act.

Even if they don't physically cheat, they do it emotionally. In some form or another, Libras cheat. It's a rare one who doesn't. No matter how innocent a Libra seems, trust me, he isn't.

Libra's can be hard work for intuitive, emotion based Scorpios. I'm a female Scorpio dating a Libra and my best (male) friend is a Libra so I have some insight.

Libra men like two things - their ego being massaged and sex.

Scorpios find Libra males quite easy to seduce because we honey them up with words and our sexual magnetism catches their eye.

The problem lies in making things last long term...Scorpio's see things in black and white and sometimes can't understand why Librans disappear off into their own heads or other women's beds.

My best friend (the Libran male), cheated on his long term girlfriend when he was bored (things got too "stable") with a sexy ex - he then realised his mistake and became obsessed with the old long term gf.

Librans are social butterflies and if you're more a "stay at home" gal then there'll be trouble ahead. I know I sometimes have to force myself to go out when I just don't feel like it because my Libran *needs* social interaction.

If they don't get it - they get depressed and are also prone to bitching behind their gf's backs.

From my observations and experience the way to handle a Libran long term - maintain a "sexy" sex life, compliment them on their achievements (however small), don't be too clingy (-this one can be especially difficult for Scorpio women as we like to dominate and control) and lastly - renewal and change. Librans like change...it could be something as simple as wearing a dress instead of pants, changing how you wear your hair sometimes, arranging a trip, taking a class together.

It can be tough for a Scorpio because we like things our own way and can be stubborn. Be prepared to back down and try to be open to change.

As you can tell...it isn't easy for a female Scorpio to maintain a r'ship with a male Libra - we have the tools for it, but it's being able to pick up on and communicate our needs and desires to one another that can make us fall down and look elsewhere for fulfilment.

Scorpio, the master of manipulation, can just as easily stray if they don't have their needs met - communication is the fundamental key to this relationship. Be prepared to talk talk talk

Scorpio woman married to a Libra man. Let me start off by saying that, despite the zodiac sign to which that person is identified, every person is different. I have had no problems at all with my guy, I've dated a lot of different zodiac signs and most of them have been a disaster.

There only sign I have ever had a decent bond with is a Libra. Perhaps the problem with you Scorpio ladies is that you haven't done much adapting to him, you have to remember he's not going to find it easy to handle a Scorpio's whirlwind emotions and bitter jealousy.

Another thing to keep in mind are rising signs, which also add to the degree of compatibility.

"Another thing to keep in mind are rising signs, which also add to the degree of compatibility"

Not wanting to split hairs but the rising sign is less important than the moon, mars, Venus and numerous other factors in someones birth chart. Discussing sun signs like this is no substitute for a real astrology reading.

i'm a Scorpio woman and I fell in love with a Libra man and it's been a rollercoaster I love him with my all but him being him he didn't care and I was stressed out with the relationship and we would fight I mean BAD but when we maded up it was explosive but he lied so much just cheated and so uncaring so you know what when I got myself together and put my grown woman back on I gave him all the space he needed and then he had a nerve to get jealous and decide that he wants me back then he did something that he has never done he apologized and we talk a lot now he's growning and I see him so much better we're friends more than anythang if it gets too be more than i'll let GOD carry out his will and I won't fight it so for me it was love at first sight but I would'nt change a thang he brought out a change in me and he will always have a place in my heart even if it does'nt work out so I say let it go if it's not working but if you can and you want too make it work for you and you only but I do agree communication is the key to this duo but it's a ride just be safe i've never met a person like him before charming and undecisive moody ,beautiful smile ....im the opposite but we balance each other out emiem said it best it's like a torando meets a valcano..

I'm a Libra and I have a question, do Scorpio women tend to be more attractive to the physical or mental side of a man?

And to answer some questions I have seen: I as a Libra love the mental connection, if my partner knows what I'm thinking at times and understands my motives for doing some stuff, that just turns me on. And yes, we do sometimes play hard to get, but it depends on the girl. If I know that I interest you, I would overwhelm you with affection then I would stop for a while. I tend to do this only when the girl does not seem to pay enough attention to me, so I give her a little taste of how it feels to not receive the affection we love to give in our own special way.

I am a Scorpio woman and I am dating a Libra man...If he is not "balanced" things are so terrible. I have dated a Libra before and it didn't work so I should have known better. he is very selfish and never puts me first. it is all about him. he does not care about anything that is going on with me or my opinions on things....but he wants but he never gives. he thinks it is okay for him to do things but tries to keep me restricted. there use to be passion in the beginning but his self centeredness has made everything fizzle out! I get so bored with him now after a year, because you get tired of people talking about themselves. I have never dealt with a more vain person in my life. he is far from a gentleman as well...not very romantic either, he spends hardly anytime with me and never does anything for me. I feel like we are complete opposite. I love him but I really don't see it lasting and I am very okay with it. I am looking forward to meeting someone th at can give me all the things that I have been missing!!! Scorpio and Libra are not a match...scorpios want your heart and soul and Libra just doesn't want to do anything in life unless it revolves around them....scorpio ladies keep it moving!!

I dated a Scorpio girl for a few months and being a Libra guy I will say there strong lovers, they are very smart and will do anything for you if your loyal in return to them but with blue skies above there comes the dark depth's of hell, the manipulative side I seen in this one was down right weird, there was a negative side of always somehow feeling innocent or never wrong not wanting to show any weakness nor communicate if there was a problem. Being a Libra I want to communicate and solve issues and create harmony but with the Scorp there would be responses of agreeing but then twisting it later somehow. Libra's ask for a very easy road with a relationship but somehow this Scorp was able to always go from hot or cold in emotions and never make me fully understand her. Controlling check that one off too, deep down there controlling always trying to be the master of this relationship another problem where Libra's ask for harmony once again and don't stand for one p erson being more dominating then the other, jealousy, check that one off too, they will deny there very existence that they are but deep down in there secret cave of emotions they are. What else here can I say I seen in this breed that I never seen in others, the ablity to somehow always never feel satisfied, always wanting more, thinking the world owes them more and more. I can say my Libra's natural ability to pick up on emotions well and lie's really picked this Scorp apart fast, never again, too hot too cold try another sign :>

I am a 32 yr old Scorpio woman and I was married to a Libra man for 13 years. I instantly fell in love with him. he was an all around man, he would fix things, save money provide like no other.in the begining I was jealous and insecure and he would at times look at me like im crazy because of that but he would have a wondering eye, a flirt and was always always sooo into himself he was way cocky and believed he was the it thang! he would put me down about my small weight gain after the birth of my two kids because other people would comment and say "your wife has a pretty face but she is overwight" so he would make me feel more insecure, critisize me whenever I eat and even when I eat infront of people. he would treat me like a child never like his wife. but I stayed with him for so long beacause I was so in love with him he had traits I loved like fixing things, making me dinner when I came home from work and kiss and greet me when I came home, he would clean the h ouse potty train my kids change the diapers. he basically took care of things. but he mentally hurt me and since scorpios are mental beings, everything else goes out the window we look at how we are treated. he was cheap very cheap he would hardley buy me gifts or go out a night, its not like im looking for things but once in a while or on an occasion would be nice!. he always cared what other people would think about him or upstaging other people by being a show off saying oh he has this and this (materialistic). I being hurt throughout the marriage and basically being bored with him. we got a divorce. I still miss him because I see no other guy out there that can provide for his family/himself like he did. he was and is a nice guy and we did get a long at times and he was very very patient especially with me, since I get mad and don't speak (i hold things in, which is a bad Scorpio trait) he would try and try to get me to talk and it could last all day and he would still try until eventually I did. I don't think no other person could be that patient and still love me after all the years together. but deep down I see him as only a friend a friend I love forever. and even 3 years after our divorce he still wants me back and says he will always love me.libra men are family men and they need that in their lives to function (i believe) I probably sound like im still in love with him and I am. but I cant be with a manipulative libra. at least not this one.

Scorpio woman dating a Libra man one month. Before I said yes to go on our first date, he chased me for almost 7 months before I said yes. First date, we didn't want to end. We went out every other day, for the last 3 weeks. During this time he is laying it on thick. Telling me that I am the most beautiful woman he has ever dated...Blah, blah, blah. Out of no where he stops taking my calls. I am confused, what just happened? No explanation just non-responsive. I'm not jealous as many other scorpios, so I don't immediately think that he's cheating, I'm thinking something terrible must have happened to him. Sudden illness, accident, etc. Yesterday I saw him getting on the interstate headed to work. For the few seconds of glimpse, he seemed to be perfectly fine. What I have read from many of these post, I should leave well enough alone and move on.

I am a 43 y.o. Scorpio woman met my 20 year my senior Libra (I can't even say man)3 years prior to me seeing him the past t,9 months. He sweep me off my feet I actually fell for him like most of the stories I read he turns me on and off according to his moods. Tells his bestfriend (who I met him through)that he loves me but hasn't answered my calls in two weeks. I'm sorry that we took things to another level he paid more attention to me before we started having sex. And now I will give him a taste of his own medicine,but I won't take him back.

Im a Libra male and dating a Scorpio for 3 years we have lived together for 1.5 years. Yes Libra men are very social and can come across as flirty. The Scorpio women have a lot pasion and want future plans with their partner. The Libra does also but at a slower time fram. The problem with this is the Scorpio women want marriage plans and to talk about them. The Libra has the same plans but is more reserved on talking about it and see's them as down the road.So what happend to me is the Scorpio women in my life has decided to leave me. I now tell her I had the same plan for our future but it was to late. So after 1 month of her and I trying to work things out I told her that I guess I should move on. She now is fighting for me to be back in her life. But I don't think I can ever trust her again... Scorpio women are very loyal when they are with you, but if it dosnt go their way they will sting you.

To all Scorpio lady! I like to say thank you all for sharing your love experienced with Libra man. No matter if you are continue to try work on your relationship or end the pain. These experiences helps us to make your decision. I am Scorpio currently dating Libra man for more than two year. I had experienced these same feeling that our sister posted here. Yes, I feel I lost my self, my soul, unappreciated, unimportant, unlove. My pride hurt because I feel I settle for less, I must sacrify my standard and belief. I start confused about my self and who I am. Don't know if it's true that other post stated Libra man made us feel like it's our problem or issue. I really don't know but being with this man, I start exlored my inner deeply, I confront my own self and I see my true self clearly. I start practice meditation and planning to take one week retreat. IT'S NOT FOR HIM. IT IS FOR ME! I start admit my insecures, possesive, bossy, inflexible, tough tonge, alway want to win, too like libra. I start self awareness and lose it up little and I am ready to give my man his space with trust in me and in him. It just sad that we are in financially hardship and he's in big debts. We are hardly to stay in budget. I want to help him to focus on goals but he view my intentions as controlling and possessive which I now deep inside truly not. My current challenge is how to help us stay budget, help him focus payoff debts and our goal in future but still maintain the balance to let him social which require spending. My man want me to give him feed back, help him focus but always try to argue, defensive and accuse me. It hurt so much that I don't know what to do to help him, help us and save our relatioship. Don't want to scare you but after seeing my self clearly, I am start accepting my self and him as well others. I also accept my true power or abilities to save this relationship or not. If I am going to continue or end it, I will not regret. True Love is take patient, courage, tolerate and compassion but if it meant to be or not meant to be, everything happened to our live for reason. Your Life Soul Mate will come when the time is right. Have faith and Love your self. I know we tend to attach to our man but when we freely live without fear, we are FREEDOM. DON'T DO IT FOR HIM. DO IT FOR YOU! YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS WITH ANY MAN, ANY SIGN BECUASE HE HAS NO CONTROL OVER YOUR HAPPINESS AND YOU ARE NOT DEPEND ON HIM. LOVE YOU ALL & GOOD LUCK LADYS

Scorpio woman married to Libra man for 10 years. It was fireworks at first.We wers so much in love. Commiuntation was the key and we were Best friends. All that changed. He is a lier , have a bunch of female friends I don't know about sneaky and he have cheated once I founded out about. Not to long ago I founded out about another female he cheated with in his emails. He still didn't do anything wrong they were just friends. I love my husband but he have changed alot. So I had to as well. Because he was making me think I was crazy. With all the lies and women.Yes the sex is good. But thats not everything Respect means a lot to me.. I would hate to wake up and go to the doctor to find out I got H.I.V because he cant be faithful. Well listening to everyone story the good and the bad. Sounds so right. I cant take it anymore and im on the way out. I deserve better.

I am a Scorpio woman and I guess my life revolves around librans. At first I was having this guy in my office who was a Libra I instantly got connected to his charm, easy going nature and down to earth behaviour also he was so much well mannered than other man arouund .our chemistry hit together and we became friends talking to each other late at night , seeing each other , and his approach and karma matches so much what I think .... that it seems that he was somebody whom I was missing his charm, and flirtarious nature was obivous , and he was quite honest in revealing his past to me it seemed he too was attracted to me and wanted something serious... nevertheless fate has his own story I could not make up my mind because my sheer stupidity ... he approarched me indirectly as a nice friend let me tell you he was very patient and sensible with me . I started ignoring him after initial chemistry and wanted him to move on ... after he has moved on with somebody in his li fe I realized that I was in love with that person and I will not be able to forget him . My constant approach to talk with him failed as he did not respond ...i felt miserable, cursing ,myself why I did that ???? I stopped thinking about marriage and now I was getting away a new libran man entered in my life he instantly liked me and approached me ... but this time for an alliance (long-lasting) and I wonder how could he propose to me in such a short span of time ??? he wanted to talk to me , spend time with me but I avoided all of that only to test him but more I ignored him more he will come back to me (confusing) I wanted to run away from all of that as I don't want any of previous episode to be repeated suddenly my family liked the boy and since it was their approval I decided to went with him but when I made up my mind he said good-bye I cant wait more .... you are not interested it seems uliamtely I thought what has happened previoulsy it is kind of same story and god I thought has given me second chance (ofcourse first was more better) but I decided to go and persuade him until we got married. Let me tell you my union with libran man was bound to happen they have so much good qualities which Scorpio don't have , they are ultimate lovers, verbal, open minded, like finer things in life, balanced ,calm but are undecisive at most of the times but I can say I love them

I am a Scorpio Woman,who just started dating a Libra Male. Everything I read on here seems to be like the rest of the stories. Lack of affection,slightly self-absorbed and ability for sneakiness. But I am a Libra rising. So I can see the motivation and realize it is what it is. We both can appreciate the need for personal space. When I need and want affection from him. I will climb all over him like jungle gym and refused to be ignored. He gives in!!!!! He very sweet and solicitous of me. He's the serious one and I'm the fun one!! We also have a lot of things in common. Such as the history channel, music,art and common sense. My best advice for this match. Scorpio chill out and don't take things too personally. And communicate your needs. They are not mind readers like us! Libra's, alittle affection goes along way!! You don't communicate, we won't either!!

As I Libra man I find this somewhat hurtful. I've never cheated in my life and never felt the need too. I think you ladies met assholes not every guy is like that. I'm in love w/ a Scorpio and have been for close to a year. I think you all rushed into something because it is an instant attraction. You need to learn each other and the flame will never die.

As a male Libra I believe in balance. For every horror story there is a equally happy story. I'm in love w/ a female Scorpio we haven't rushed into things and are giving this magnetic love time to grow. It has been a love at first sight atleast on my part and i'm not about to let love go. Since meeting her i've become a better man she drives me and keeps me on course, her love and beauty is all I need. It sounds like a lot of people rushed into something and suffocated the love that was there. I can see how it's easy to do because the attraction is like a tidal wave, you just need to keep your balance.

For the record not all Libra men are jerks. I for one have never cheated. I've been used and abused over the years by the opposite sex and know what true love is. I found my true love in Scorpio and well never let her go. I wait religiously by the phone for her calls and txts every night whether or not they come( have been for 9 months). It takes patiance and putting your own ego a side. Men of all signs cheat virgos, cancers and whatever else it maybe.

I'm just saying that people are more likely to share there horror stories misery loves company. I'm sorry you folks met the right person at the wrong time or vice versa.

omg im soo scared to love my Libra now....i feel like im wasting my time....there was not one good story or up lifting one and my Libra has confessed to me that he's hit a girl befor but it was a long long time ago.....damn someone tell me that there relationship made it that there marragie is still live and great that there Libra isnt abusive...i mean no ones perfect but you guys still come to a agrement....the only thing that different about me and my Libra from all the other storys is that I told him straight up that im not having sex till were married I think that if you give any man sex to soon...i think thats like a dog that follows you around ony for the cookie in your back pocket but if you make him wait till he knows you and falls in love with you then when he's married to you then give him the cookie lol but yes I would like a lot of help please tell me theres a marrige out there that still happy...please no more negative post lol