Capricorn man and Virgo woman

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Im Virgo and there is this CAP man I've met.... Im not a hoe ive only been with 4 people and im 21 but yea I slept with him and don't really know him all that well. He was kind of a (help me forget about my 6 year relationship I just got out of) guy , that ended up spinning my head!!! So we slept together and things were great we were getting to know each other and I adored him then he quit talking to me and a month later we started talking again and then he quit AGAIN and NOW AGAIN we are talking well before the other day we had only slept together that once in the past 5 months and now he's fading on me again. He called me one night but I was with my x and wouldn't answer about a hour later I got a text from him that said sorry I bothered you I found out why your not answering me. after he found out I had been kind of talking to my x again (because he called my roommate) and he seams like he likes me and he didn't want me back with my x. But now he's slipping on me again not texting and I refuse to text him first every day I feel like a stalker or something!! IS THIS NORMAL OR IS HE USING ME JUST BEING A MAN!! Thing is im kinda on the edge of going back to my x but now I would rather talk to this Cap but not if he's only going to speak to me every other month!

I have a similar story to one above. I'm a Virgo woman who has been dating a cap man. When we first met I was crazy about him. I was especially physically attracted to him. Then I got to know him and found out that we were exactly alike and that he was an amazing person. I ended up falling in love with him and he told me he loved me and things were great. We were dating and everything was just amazing. Then I noticed something. Every time things would get good with us, he would stop talking to me. We haven't necessarily broken up but we might as well have. I'm always texting him first and he is always rue one to not text me back. He'll stop talking to me for a couple of weeks, sometimes even a month and it's hard to handle and its getting old. I do love him but I don't understand what's going on with him. I know I didn't do anything so what is the deal? Help please! I'm starting to get tired of waiting but I won't let him go because I don't want anyone else. is this normal? What does it mean and why? HELP!

I'm a Virgo and I really like a Capricorn boy. For some reason I just can't let him go. I just graduated from Elementary/middle school (from the eigth grade). That was where I met him in 4th grade. Every day he would tell me that he likes me and I should go out with him and every time I'd turn him down. I really regret it now. Like they say, you don't know what you've got 'till it's gone.

I agree with the 1st 2 ladies that's exactly what I've been going thru for 13yrs and about 4 or 5 months with the other 1 a on again off again relationship so 2 speak cause that's what it feel like except no commitment but I figured them (i have 2 Capricorn men) out you have to be patient with a Capricorn man but the ?????? is how long????

I'm facing the same story as well... at the beginning of the relation my Capricorn mate use to be so romantic. he call me up. whenever he use to get free time.... on the holiday we use to almost whole day...but things are changing slowly.. now he does not call me up.. for a week.. sometime behave rude.. some time very much aloof...then again someday he is back with all his emotions... I just wonder does all the Capricorn guy have the same characteristic !!!!

I'm a Virgo and I met this good looking cap! We only been talking for a couple of weeks but I am sooo liking this guy. When he talks its like I wanna know more about him...he so deep n sweet but he's a rough street guy. When I first met him he was quiet n didn't say 2 much unless we asked him something...I didn't say much either but out of all the girls he was attracted 2 me. Im already head over heels for him. LETS C IF THIS WRKS OUT!! :)

Personally I started seeing a CAP when I was having a crisis in my life. I found him on myspace and decided ya know this guy looks like a player so he won't mind that I want nothing from him. I went into the relationship with a "I don't want anything from you mentality just sex".. I refused to text him first because at this point in my life I had enough of men not caring about the woman they are with. I had this issue with the CAP I just told him look I don't need you in my life and I don't want you in my life. I do not deserve you talking to all these girls as if you are dating them also. We are still together and talking about marriage BUT once you do a Virgo wrong she never forgets and it's hard to get over it

Capricorn men will stop talking to a woman for awhile, but when they start talking to you say two months later, nothing has changed, they still feel the same way. So be patient, and trust that if we wants to talk to you he will. And just because he isn't talking to you, could just mean he has a lot going on. And besides they like to be desired, so they like that you message them all the time, and NOT get crazy when they don't reply. Unfortunately it's the Virgo insecurity behind this desire to always hear from him.

Me too ladies I can't keep this cap..... off my mind we been on and off for bout yr and a half. I hate to think he giving somebody else my lovin I just wanna be with him but he keeps so denial but a relationship I always. Call him first I want his time when he free I get it sometimes that's not enough for a lovin Virgo like me

I am a Capricorn man and I seem to like a Virgo woman but we went out and she broke up with me and she still flirts with me

Ive been with my cap for 3 months now, I have seen a bit of his working hard side of person, and when together alone as one he does great things! he is very occupied which in a sense as a Virgo I understand. we're both mature, hard workers, responsible and down to earth people. there are a few things I thought I grew to hate, but they were just things I could easily get use to. which was fine. we both understand each other and it is going well at the moment. the responds above about the Capricorn's on and off mode (not talking for a while-spending enough time to lovey-dovey and he's there in your face once again) I think its what they do.. I find my cap is a hard worker and very occupied with his work but I know deep inside he's thinking of me and our relationship. so I think that's what drives Virgo women to not understand this on and off side of a cap. although I might agree that Capricorn and Virgo are quite compatible. in the long run we eventually trust each other and loyal to one another. we grow to understanding the things we may hate/dislike of each other but it grows on us. because of the understanding part of one another, this possibly why these two signs are seen together in the long run.. its stable and it works.

I love these im dating a cap right now and yes everything that has been said about the matching has been true. its almost scary. he was my best friend and now he's my boyfriend I love it. I have never been able to talk to one guy that much and be able to be so flexible with him. I can be like u wanna hang and the next minute were of to some where. I love it its an amazing match :D

girl- Capricorn crush

okay so I started with being a classmate to a Capricorn classmate and now where like best friends he is actually one of my top friends in school so far. and a few days ago we had prom night and he was saying stuff who should I be coupled up with to dance on some songs but, before that he said that "my dress looked nice" and even before that he looked at me twice when we were waiting to get inside. what do I do about my crush on a Capricorn boy at school?

Hi this is a Capricorn man.. I like this Virgo woman.. who is cute and has good personality. I want to marry her.. but she says she is not ready yet or not prepared for marriage yet.. I am confused.. but I really love this woman and she is the one I want to get married too.. I don't know how she will agree to marriage. Hope she makes up her mind.. I cant wait to see her.

Cap man are so quite they always said they busy doing this and that and the answer will be a baby with someone else they just teasing you, if they said they love you serious

for all you Virgo ladies out there.. patience is the key with these men.. they are worth the wait, but they put u thru a lot to make sure tour genuine.. mostly because Virgo women tend to be too good to be true to them. well, if u don't have feeling you still have time to back out.. but if u do, don't fret because they will come around as long as you play your cards right!

great match though me and my first Capricorn aren't together anymore we are life long friends

kinda scary how accurate this is. I'm pretty much in love with a Capricorn man I've only known for about 4 months and we only really hang out on weekends and we only started hanging out two weeks ago because I broke up with my boyfriend just recently for him. He is exactly like how everyone describes him basically. When we're alone and together he acts like he likes me and is so sweet and knows what to say to make me feel so happy and he never stops at making me laugh. I love the way he kisses and he seems perfect for me. But at school he rarely talks to me and he told me he kinda liked another girl who is a cancer... He also told me he thought I was too good for him and that I was mint.. He also told me he was scared to get fucked over by me because I broke up with my ex for him and he's scared I'll do the same for him. I try to be patient and leave him a lone. But then when people asked him if he liked me he said no lol. And it only seems like he'll act like he likes me if I initiate it.... and aren't Capricorns suppose to be initiative... he confused me hard.. so how does a Virgo woman go about playing her cards right? lol

I met my CAP at a bar. He is 28 and I am 44. At first I didn't even want to go out with him because of the age difference but after spending an evening with him, it was instant love. We were inseparable from the very beginning and moved in together after only 2 weeks. In the beginning he was very attentive and the sex was amazing. We've been together for almost 3 years now. He runs hot and cold -- just as the other ladies have described. Sometimes he is very talkative, playful and sexually unsatisfiable but then we might go a month with just quiet nights, sparse conversation and no sex at all. I have found however that things always go better if I initiate or I make the plans. At times he is too laid back for me. I do get bored easily and even though I know he deeply loves me and thinks of me always, he doesn't show it. There is never any spontaneity on his part and there is never any gifts or surprises. When I was dating I received flowers at work on a regular basis from this guy or that and I grew very used to be showered with gifts and affection. I have had to learn to look past some of my learned expectations to see that this CAP man has been worth the time I've invested in our relationship. We are extremely close and although he runs hot and cold I always know that he will never leave me for another woman.

Im 40 year old Virgo female and my cap partner is 41. After years of being with the wrong guy having doubts all the time I finally feel complete and secure with a guy I know I will be with forever.. we share everything good and bad and this for me is perfect in every way..

The key to dating a cap man is be an individual but let him know that he is the most important thing in your life. I am a Virgo woman with a cap man. Keep your head about you with this one. He is very independent and hardworking and appreciates being appreciated for it. I met mine thru a popular dating sight. From the first date, he stopped looking. Although I initiate most of the plans and calls (he is extremely busy) I don't mind. I love to plan prepare and mobilize. He loves the ride. I do not need the validation of a man always calling. I go after what I want. he will call if I don't though thinking that I am not interested (I am also extremely busy). Security is a must for these men and they will kill themselves working for it. Just kick back and enjoy and don't get too needy. They are worth the effort girls.

I'm a Capricorn man and I'm 18,i know I'm young and naive but the thing is love is never too old or young for anyone. What we dent do forget is that falling in love means your taking your chances with him or her but love blinds us all and we as human get selfish, what we need to do is that let love blind us but let your heart be the eyes and trust your heart. After all love can make anyone expose to one's stupidity even me. Relationship is built on trust, so trust him or her.

OMG that's exactly why I turned up at this site! Virgo fem friends with a Cap male... he's hot & cold ALL the time! I keep wondering if something I have said offends him as we text and then he disappears midway through a conversation yet texts back days later as if there is nothing wrong lol He's asked me out on a dinner date but I'm having second thoughts... and its because of this exact reason! lol Oh well... whatever will be will be... :)

I am a Virgo Woman who is married to a Cap Man. We have been together for 8 years now, 3 of which we have been married. He is by far the most loyal man I have ever met, and all his friends say he is still, to this day head of heals in love with me. He is very very respectful of our relationship and values his family above all else. We have two beautiful little girls together. I have never experienced the on again off again situation that other ladies have had with a cap man, all I have had is a very loyal, loving husband and daddy to our kids! He tells me he loves me about 10 times everyday, and compliments me continuously!

I'm in lust with a younger Capricorn man. We work in the same office and all of the above experiences are happening to me. He started by openly flirting and I liked it, now he kinda teases and doesn't flirt so much and I miss it. I hear that I have to be patient but its so frustrating. I'm trying not to change be the same I was when he first noticed me. We have been together alone but he made no advances or suggested a date. One time I think he thought I was going to kiss him and he pulled back which hurt my feelings as I wasn't going to kiss him and it made me think is all this a game to him.

It is Virgos who are the ones that will always be along because we find fault in everything someone does. We nitpick and we like everything right to go our way. We have to learn to let things flow and be. Everyone is different and wants there space. We want to be appreciated for everything and told everyday that we are love, not everyone is going to do that so we have to trust that our partners appreciate us even though they don't say it. Others can be happy but Virgo always have a problem. I'm a Virgo

Im a Virgo woman dating a Capricorn man for a little over a year. I agree with most of the comments above I thought he was bi polar until how'll! But all in all he is a great man and the good is very good. He drifts but he asked me not to over think things as we Virgo women do. He said he loves me and he shows it. As a Virgo woman I have to deal with that needing to have control issue. It has to be complete and make sense for me and if it don't it drives me crazy if I have no control over it. So with this man im learning to trust and let go. I have no doubt of how he feels about me and I am no longer insecure during the "drift" times. Ladies he really likes attention and he also likes quiet alone times he just needs you to understand and find the balance and not get bent out of shape thinking he wants out because that's not the case. Just relax and enjoy the relationship.

For the comment with the beautiful 8 year relationship, good job you got it right in the beginning that's why you have harmony. His "drift" times are probably mutual quiet times that you don't even notice, that's great!

Awee, I really like this cap and I know he likes me ( he told his mom and his mom told my mom :p) He's really cute and sweet. I don't know him that well but I can tell... He will come by ( his mom lives next door) like everyday then for like a couple months he wont. I like him so much then he leaves and so what am I do to? Wait around for some guy.... So I thought well he does have a life.. so ya. But now that I read all this, I see he might not change.. So I don't know if I should date him now since playing this game is not fun for me. He is going to ask em out when I turn 15, sept 13, in the last 2weeks he's been coming by everyday and trying to talk to me more and more.. & when I'm not home he asks my friends when I will be back. Then once I get home he just shows up at the same time! lol its cute but its hard to believe my friends that he was asking for me.. when he doesn't actually talk to me that much when I am home.. We are both pretty shy..

I've been with my cap for almost a yr. A yr is a short time but we are both so in love and falling every day. We are the best of friends before anything so it makes the relationship great. We are so alike and so different at the same time. We're great together.

I have known my cappy man for 4 weeks. I am 39, he is 43. The first day we met he interrogated me for 2 hours about my views on relationships. He keeps me laughing and smiling. He is the perfect gentleman, always respectful and full of compliments. He is very verbal about his feelings when texting me but we face to face he doesn't say much. He is extremely observant, he remembers every word I've said since the day I met him and I am so amazed at how well he knows me in such a short time. I have to initiate dates and phone calls but I think he likes me pursuing him. He told me we are only friends until he gets to know me but gets jealous easy. He is insecure, constantly wanting to know if I will stick around and where I plan to take our relationship. He has 2 jobs, a huge mortgage, 3 teenage daughters, a needy mother and is trying to start a few businesses, so his plate is very full. He makes time for me at the end of his busy day most of the time falling asleep, by accident, beside me on the couch. I saw the Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde come out when I tried to end the relationship because I didn't want to be last on his list. All in all we both have flaws and accept each other for who we are, I couldn't ask for a better man.

SO, I am a Virgo lady, and am getting to know a Capricorn man. We met each other through a mutual friend. He saw my photo somewhere and tried to show me off to our friend like 'check out this beauty'. At which point, our friend said, 'hey that's my friend! I know her!' ... It was very amusing for the both of us. We talked for a few weeks, and formally met after 3 weeks of talking. From the start, I knew he was interested. At times he was distant but I couldn't blame him. Everyone needs their space and time. Over time, he's opened up to me, and for those moments I'm thankful. I think the thing that's helped us a lot is that from the start, we've both made a point to be open and honest. A month after we started seeing each other, he had to move away for work for the summer. I hadn't seen him in 2 months but we talked almost every day, just to wish each other a good day + see what we were up to. During this time apart, I had thought he was taking this thing between us light tly, and so I did the same. But this august long weekend, his family had told me so much! His brother told me he never tells them about his girlfriends but for some reason, he talks about me a lot! Since this cappy man was gone for the summer, I figured a way I could keep us connected was that I could bake him oatmeal choco chip cookies and send them to him. Well when I met his dad this weekend, he said that gesture in itself was the 'hook' that locked it all in for me! His mother told me that he had said I was a very special girl and that he's never said that for anyone before! I was sort of curious about meeting his family, I didn't know I would get such a good response and good wishes for our future! but I did. Our mutual friend had also told me that this cappy man was dumbfounded when he actually received my cookies in the mail and cappy man later told me he ate every single cookie.. Who would have figured a batch of cookies could take you so far with everyone! I had no idea he thought so highly of me, but I appreciate that. Knowing I'm just as special to him as he is to me! So far, I haven't been remotely disappointed in anything between us. He's made up for all his shortcomings one way or another. Every plan we've made has gone through, and there are so many things to look forward to between us. He's included me in a lot of his far off plans, including a possible trip to Germany during winter break! I've never dated a cappy man on this level before but I must admit I love it. we always know what the other desires at the moment by instinct. He never fails to give me the support when I need it. This weekend he was never too far away, usually right by my side, rubbing my back or leaning in for a kiss or two. And when we went to sleep each night we were together, we'd always hold each other and I'd wake up with him kissing my shoulder or my cheek. he's so crazy for me! I've decided I've made a right choice, that this one deserves ALL of my time and effort. I adore him.. :) for all of the Virgo's out there, my advice is to just go with it and let things happen as they do. play your cards right! don't worry so much because whatever is going to happen is going to happen. give cappy time and have patience. they'll appreciate it and give you so much love in return! if he disappears, then let him! he'll be back and like I said already, let things happen as they do. Go in with few expectations and you will come through with many great gifts if you can do the love dance right with cappy!

im just crazy about my cap man.. I don't think were typical in our signs, im totally disorganized but we both love to party.. apparently not typical. there's never a dull moment with us. its really new and im getting scared now as a 40 year old woman with a kid, he's a bit older with none, I getting scared as im getting really deep feelings for him. I keep thinking the bubble will burst.. its just too good and I don't want it to end. I keep thinking that he might want to find someone who is younger and give him kids.. every time were together which is just at the weekends we get closer and things get better and its only in the past few days ive been feeling like this. He makes me feel secure and texts me a lot and plans ahead for the weekends. I keep having the urge to tell him I love him but I don't want to push him away but I know my feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Any ideas should I wait till he tells me first and just enjoy the brilliant time we have. Iv e been so unlucky in love in the past and maybe im just waiting for it to all go pear shaped.. I always start feeling insecure when I get strong feelings and have thought about finishing it for no good reason other than the fear of getting my heart broken. He has no idea I feel like this as when were together its about fun and laughter, ive never met a guy who floats my boat like he does, he's gorgeous, funny and totally affectionate. forever telling me he's proud to be with me.. its just lovely but im scared any help would be appreciated.. thanks peeeps x

I'm a Capricorn male, and while I cannot speak for all my Capricorn brothers... I am very particular in the kind of woman I like and may be slower to open up, but if I express interest in a woman, text, call, set up a date, whatever... I am never playing. Woman who have been f*!#'d over seem to doubt everyone and everything, and I can understand this, but Capricorns take love and friendship seriously, we may move at a slower pace, but our energy is too precious to be wasted playing games. If it feels real.... maybe it is!

Capricorn man reporting in. First and foremost, sorry for any bad English. It's not my native language and I'm not very good at it.

Well... there's this Virgo girl I've met, two years now that we know each other. I have learnt a lot about myself, a lot about life and love, with her.

But the truth, the sad truth, is... we've never had a deeper relationship, we've never had any kisses, nothing. We've just been friends. The problem is... I've come to love her. In the beginning, I approached her just because she was so cute and lovely, but she'd never "let me in", she would never let me get closer to her, even getting to the point of being rude sometimes.

Although with time, she let me get closer to her, and soon we were finally friends. Now getting to learn more and more about her, I was really fascinated with her, with how perfect she was for me, how perfect she was to be the very one for me. Her traits, her values, everything about her made me feel like I could marry her.

So I tried to get closer and closer, and learn about her more and more, until eventually she wouldn't stand me anymore. She knew what I wanted, she knew I was in love for her, but she didn't want it, she didn't want me.

Then one day, much later, she asked me if I had managed to overcome (is this word used correctly here? ^^") my feelings about her. I answered I had kind of buried them somewhere deep within my heart, and soon we were close again.

Only this time, I normally treated her in this lovingly-kindly way, and she normally accepted it. This time I'm sure she likes me somehow, but I don't know... she's been rude with me, recently, as if I had overtly approached her again, but I've not been doing it...

And then we've been having these arguments, in one of which I said I love her... she told me she's still in love with an old ex, who left her for another girl but whom she can't let go of, and because of that (among other reasons) she can't return my love right now...

DAMN, anyway, she SEEMS to like me, at least a little bit! She admires things she calls qualities of mine. I like her, and admire her, and love her. If she gave me just a chance...

And now, since she's acting all cold with me, I don't know what to do, since it's been a few days since we last talked/had an argument... u_u

I just don't want to lose her, I want to be with her for as long as I can, for as long as I'm alive, and beyond, if there should be such a thing.

I am a Virgo woman and im starting to fall in love with a cap male!! ive bin at a course for a few week and the more I see im the more I fancy im!! but he drives me mad he stopped txtin for ages and then all of a sudden he's ringing but I feel like he's playing a game!! I really like im and will be patient but how patient can you possibly bee!!

umm yeah im a capicorn man and my girlfriends a Virgo women and well shes not a slut at all and I the 3rd week into our relationship we had sex and well I alsways talk to her I see her every single day and after I leave from her place we talk on the phone so I mean I guss some capicorns are different then othere in a way but I love my girlfriend so I mean an advice to you try to see wats up with the other capicorns but yeah me and my Virgo gurlfriend we get into some big fights sometimes but I cant never let her go and she fels the same so remmemebr its normal to fight in a relationship and make shure you know wats up with the capicorns in your life if you gaveing him not call you or nothing but I really belive capicorn and Virgo are a great match!

Well I'am a Virgo women. A Cappy guy met me online about 3 yrs back. He is from the same place, where I live. I am 48 and he is 36. It was he who literally chased me after a few chats and even said he loved me. I was wary of the age difference and told him it won't work.

But he persisted and slowly even I started liking him a lot as I knew he was speaking the truth. We used to chat a lot online and even on the phone but never met. He refused to meet me till I agreed to live-in with him, which I was not ready to do till I met him and got to know each other well. He thought I didn't trust him enough, which was not the case. So after about six months he gave me one last ultimatum and then went off but said to me, I will be there whenever you wish to speak. But of course he never once after that spoke to me.

I did try to sms him a few times...after some weeks. But he never replied. So I gave up and decided to go on my way, but I could not get him off my mind, analyzing..if I had done something wrong. Just when I was going to detach myself, I found that he would be there always in chat with the red light on, in fact he would always be there at the time I would be working online as I am a writer, in-fact even as I am typing this he is there.

It so unbelievable its like three years now, but he refuses to leave me and neither can I. Only once he sent me an sms to inform me of his father's death. He does keep tabs on me through common friends, but has never spoken a word. I did try to chat online a few times ... but he refuses to respond.

What should I make of this behavior, how can we break this unhealthy pattern. Heart of heart I know he loves me, but he had told me he cannot marry unless he makes something of his career. I had even told him, I will support him loyally but its to no avail.... Now life is so surreal. I can't even break free from him...and neither is he is breaking off. How long can this go on.

Wish someone or somebody takes the initiative to sort this. But knowing him as a strong minded Capricorn, I doubt he will listen and only take action when he wants to and thinks time is right. But honestly speaking I have reached the end of my patience. Of course many may be wondering how come I have not moved away till now, call it karmic connection or whatever, whenever I have tried to move away he pulls me back.

He works for a radio station and plays songs on air which is directed at me. I know I am strong minded and my work keeps me busy and grounded and so I have been able to hold on to my sanity till now. As for the future I have left it all to Almighty.

I met a very hot Cap 5 years ago at a party. We danced and he kissed me that night and it was amazing. But we were both married and I'm not a homewrecker so I didn't pursue anything. Our families got together platonically a few times after that and we behaved ourselves. Then this summer hubby and I were having major problems (with HIS infidelity). An outdoor concert was near my house and I called his wife to see if they were interested in meeting and seeing the concert. We went and during the concert he and I went to get drinks. In the restaraunt I filled him in on my miserable marriage and out of the blue he lays this passionate kiss on me. I was so shocked. Next thing you know we are texting and for weeks he begged me to see him. So we finally sleep together and it was OK but I figured it was his guilt that made it just OK. I laid off and he was the one constantly pursuing me. I finally saw him a few more times and the sex was so hot, so awesome. 3 months later an d I'm in the middle of a divorce and emotionally fragile. I think about this guy so much and assumed it was just a crush. I thought it was just one-sided but tonight I saw him and he starts whispering in my ear he loves me! I am stunned and happy at the same time. I never knew he felt like that. I totally respect him and admire him he is very hard working and treats his wife and family so well. Not seeing the hot/cold thing I see others mentioning. I kept my feelings totally to myself. Even found myself feeling like I was falling really hard for him. It's way more than just a physical thing although this guy had the best body and such a gorgeous face. I really can't believe this super hot guy who I totally thought was out of my league thinks I'm hot! Tonight he said he wants to live with me and make love to me everyday. It's almost a force stronger than us. I never felt the such devotion and admiration from my Cancer husband of 15 years. This guy and I laugh tons in and out of bed. The sex is amazing and adventurous. I can really let my hair down around him. He loves my sense of humor and I loved it when he introduced me to a friend and told him I was the funniest chick he knew. I wished I had a crystal ball to see into the future with him but all I can say is I'm glad we took a chance and threw caution to the wind. I feel no regret so far but I do wish he were totally available. Curious to see what happens with him. I feel we're a very compatible match and I never have to explain myself to him or feel judged or ridiculed. In fact he lavishes on the compliments and makes me feel great, unlike my cheating Cancer spouse.

I am a Virgo woman who has been married to a Capricorn man for 11 years. We are a great match!! We just mesh very well. We are both in tune to each others feelings, and know how to lift each other up when needed. I am still very deeply in love with him after all this time, and have a perfect match!!

I am a Virgo woman very much in love with a Capricorn man. Although he is no longer with me today, he is still there in my memories and I would never dream of having any other man in my life as my husband. He left me saying that he found someone else whom he wanted to get married to. I have realized that nobody

I am a Virgo women with a Capricorn man. Its scary to me how much I relate to all your stories. We been together for 3 and 1/2 years. Like so many said its hot than cold. Out of now where he just stay away for a couple of days. When he dies come around everything is always the same as it was. We pick up right where we left off. I feel so happy when we are together. No other Guy ever made me feel this way. Simple things like watching TV together makes me happy. I can be myself around him and I feel like he accepts me no matter what. I am very lucky to have found him. He is all that I want in a man. Stong, confident and very sexy. I hope we last forever I feel we are a perfect match and our personality complement each other.

im a Capricorn man and I have been in love with a Virgo woman for about 5 years. its kind of a sad story. we dated when we first met and I thought it was way too good to be true.. and I was kind of a dick she basically thought I used her for sex... and she didn't speak to me for years but I kept trying to talk to her. I have never gotten over it I still try to talk to her sometimes and make her understand that im not really like that and I really liked her alot.. she talks to me sometimes then other times she says she would never want to talk to me. but I don't give up every time I am single my mind goes to her.

I am a 21 yr old Virgo woman in love with a 23yr old cappie. have been so much in love with him for over 2 yrs now. But all the time that I was seeing this guy, I couldnt spend much time with him because he's a commercial diver and is mostly offshore. The lack of communication started taking its roots between us(very much unlike how it used to be before we were in a relationship) and the distances kept growing. Ofcourse I cant blame his job but I kept getting insecure and since im kinda used to getting pampered(because thats what my ex used to do and now im just used to it which is bad!!) I ended up cheating on him with this other guy I met when my cappie wasnt around!! To this date I really really regret what i've done because I really really love this guy and will probably never be able to let go of him even in my dreams! So he and I still meet when he's in town. We made love lately and it was amazing!it was just as hot and passionate as it used to be when we were seeing each other! I love being held by him.I feel so amazingly secure in his arms. Its as if there is nothing else that I require. Its such a beautiful feeling! And I know somehow that he loves me too and that theres no one else who cares for him as much as I do but he's still taking his time to decide whether we should be together again or no. And I would have done the same thing if I were him but I just cant help the love growing within me for him each day. Its a beautiful feeling. Right now he's offshore and I miss him so much already. But its almost killing me to be without him because I still love him so much. I wish I could undo those few things that have happened but what's done is done. I guess its just worth the wait now because I know I wont love anyone the way I love him. And when he looks into my eyes I can see the love overflow and he hates going away but I don't know what's keeping him from being with me. Maybe he just wants to be very sure this time that i'd wait and be loyal just the way he is! but otherwise this man is full of surprises. he's extremely romantic and loves to please me in every way possible. And I just love the feeling of being with a cappie! And somehow I just know that he's my man!!

I am a Virgo female. I let go of the greatest guy (cap). I regret it everyday. he was so kind. we still talk, but I can tell I hurt him. I had left him for a Taurus male. things didn't work out. he is the only man who treated me the way any female would want to be treated. I know in my heart that he would always take care of me. he made my sad days quite happy. he'd to anything to protect me. I felt so appreciated for once in my life and I let him go... now he has met some1 knew. i'm not sure why he still talks to me to be honest... he sounds hurt each time. he still gives me the sweetest hugs. I can feel him. I just don't hear him. I dunno... Virgo ladies... don't lets your cap boys go!

I am a Virgo and in love with a Capricorn man. However, I am also in a relationship with someone else. Now I am in the process of leaving my current relationship. But my relationship with this cap guy has been quite different. He is exactly like everyone else described. Aloof, we got together the first time totally by surprise. I just wanted a fling but this cap grabbed my heart and I couldnt get it back! So I kept trying to talk to him. He was being very standoffish, not returning my messages, etc. I cant stand it! But I would occasionally check in just to let him know I was still thinking about him. Then one day out of the blue he responded and now we are closer than ever. It took 2 years! But I still think he was testing me to see if I had real feelings for him. Our sexual chemistry is out of this world, as there has not been a time I have seen him that it didn't lead to this! And I am very picky on who and when I bed!

I am a Virgo woman talking to a capicorn man and he seems very understanding. He is locked up and his friend told him about me and worte me out of no where. I told me that he can be very loyal and has a great sense of humor i'm the same way. I am starting to like him a lot I fall in love easily,I feel like he's the same way. I am going to stay abstinent until he gets out which is next year. It's not going to be easy but just as long if I stay focus,busy and keep in touch with him it shouldn't be that hard.

Virgo woman here who has dated many and fell in love with a few Cappy men over the last 12 years. I have an Aries moon and the impulses cause my relationships to go downhill because once I have that loving feeling I instantly start planning and then painting to them a beautiful picture of a future together.

They tolerate it for a while but then my Aries moon goes deeper and hands out the ultimatum. As you may guess this does not go well and because they don't want to hurt me they disappear. I of course take this for my answer and accept that they don't want me. Then a month later they're calling me like nothing has happened. They never forget me but it's a merry go round. Keeps happening.

They must like it having not realized I haven't changed. This is only two of the Caps I've dated and my last Cap ex I feel he will do this merry go round thing as we broke up a month ago. I don't know how to get it right as I can't seem to control the impulse of wanting a commitment to a happy future.

When I try to give them up and date other horoscopes an onslaught of Cap men start trying to get to know me. I draw them, reel them in, but haven't figured out yet how to keep a hold of one.

I, too, think that Cap men are very controlling. I finally allowed him to break up with me (for the umpteenth time) about two months ago, and I feel free and happy everyday. I know that he will call again sometime, but everyday, I thank the Lord for the freedom, peace and calm I now experience without him. It is my opinion after reading these posts that Virgo woman's problem (I am Virgo-he is cap) with Cap man is that we are too nice and giving.

If you read these posts, it's the same theme: either Virgo woman is waiting waiting for Cap man to return (my story), but the posts from the Cap guys say that when Virgo ignores them...they love and miss her so much. Get tough girls and don't put up with their actions. Screw them. Don't even want them. They can be very sexy (but if they know you want them bad....then they don't put out)and they don't earn that much $$$$. signs like Taurus and Leo and Scorpio actually earn more and are very gentlemenly with Virgo woman. When you get through you will not even want them....and then it is they who will have lost, since everything is a game of win or lose to them. You simply must start the Cap-Virgo relationship....not wanting them so bad. It must be this way from the beginning. Explain that to yourself and believe me, it will be their loss for the rest of their lives (cap man's life). There are so many other men out there. Advice to Virgo Woman--please quit being a floo r mat to bossy Capricorn men and your life and self esteem will completely turn around.

My Capricorn story hurts. I was married when we met out dancing. He's a Taurus ascendent and me a Virgo with Scorpio rising--it's serious physical attraction. Anyway, we kissed on this first night and then went our separate ways for a month. I contacted him and then we met up and began an explosive sexual relationship. I have never felt such electricity with another human being. We are from such different worlds--me Christian, him Muslim. Me financially stable, he starving artist. Me married, him independent and free. I have separated from my husband now for a whole catalogue of other reasons. He blames himself. He worries he can't provide for me. He's talked to me at length of his expectations for a long-term relationship. He does all the typical Capricorn hot and cold stuff. I hope that we can meet again in another life where we can be soul mates together without all this worry and strife. He's constantly on my mind, a bittersweet tragedy.

ok so im a Virgo woman who has been seeing a cap guy. I really like him and I don't know if I want an actual relationship with him but I do want him to like me... we've only slept together twice and we see each other the time so I don't think its a physical thing but im not quite sure what it is. he is very reserved I cant read him at all. he always tells me to just let things be and thats what im going to do. he might not say he likes me but I know he does and our match is great that I know it will go for a long time. we have both been hurt in the past so we are just taking it slow and so far its amazing. I love waking up with a smile thinking of him. so relax Virgo girls you're cappy really does care. there isnt a better match for us =]

I am a Capricorn man very much in love with a Virgo female. I met her at a friends christmas party about a year ago, I thought she was the cutest thing ive ever seen. She had these beautiful brown eyes that could just take your breath away. We started dating casually for about a year, we are still dating, but I want to marry her. I just know she is the right girl for me, we are soulmates, I don't ever want to loose her. She is my supporter, my best friend, my adivsor, my lover, my SOULMATE. I am just so happy, I love Virgos :D

I am a Virgo woman& im 49&my cap is47 we met on the chhatline we talk for 2 weeks on the phone day&night I could hardly eat or use the bathroom.we even talk on the p hone while were at work.we finally decided it was time to meet.so I pick him up I guess from where he live.he comes out & I ask him could I come in &use the bathroom.he gave me some lame excuse he was moving & too many boxes was in the way so we went out to the bar.after drop him back off

I am a Virgo Woman in love with a Capi Man...I met him online..The strong chemistry is soooo different.I never had that kind of feelings with anyone else before or even to my present relationship..yes, im already in a relationship with a Leo man a super demanding, bossy and dominating Leo man w/o a plan for life...As being a virgo, its not easy to us to give up 1 relationship.But this capi man always hurt my feelings and always making me jealous.At the end, I cut my communication to him..I still love him tho, my Leo man?i dnt feel love for him anymore, just waiting time to get out from him.I cant live w/ him anymore.On the other side I am wishing to get my capi man.i guess I have no luck to love for real...:( I dnt know if someone will giving me that kind of intensity feelings again as I am too my first Capi...

Well, I am a Virgo woman and I have been with my lovely Capricorn for over a year now. Not as lovers, but as best friends. We share EVERYTHING together, he is very patient with me, he has never not been there for me and we have recently decided that we should take it to the next level, him making the suggestion. In all honesty, I probably have taken him for granted but I reaaaally am lucky to have him. I moved slow. Like, verrrrrrrrrrry slow, and things just keep getting better! Every day is a miracle with him by my side. I indeed love him, something I haven't known since before him. And to the gentleman that loves Virgos, you're awesome! Hahaha. I bet she is lucky to have you as well.

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Mine is also Same story, I am a Virgo Woman of 26 and fell in love with Capricorn Guy of 27 few months back we met.I started teasing him,i like to watch him all the times....He is soo smart and handsome that to really hardworking,caring person I never seen before.....i indirectly told him that I like him.....as usual he is busy and didn't give me any response.I year I am planning to get married I donn know how to ask him??His birthday is on 16th Jan I ordered a nice gift for him, let me see hw his response gonna be.........Really tough to understand him

Well I finally got to the bottom of the page after reading most all of the stories about Virgos and Capricorns. I noticed that many of the people who posted were all older and I am strange to say that I'm young. I'm a 15 year old Virgo girl (Can't say woman without criticism) with a 14 year old Capricorn boy. I have to say this is my first relationship, and other readers please understand- Just because I'm in high school doesn't mean I can't settle down a bit. I mean I get adults telling me all the time "you are far too young for a serious relationship". That may be true to some, but I can't control my heart like that and have a different boyfriend every month or so. I've had my little flirting times, where I will sort of be with someone as flirting, but never actually together. But I have to say, I prefer this. This amazing Capricorn I'm with. He is unsure of his feelings at times and he gets distracted easily. He is the most loving, caring, sweet person I've ever met. He may not be perfect, but he sure tries. He wants to join the Air Force and provide for our future family and he's okay that I want to go to college before we marry. He doesn't mind it at all! The way he talks to me is like I'm his angel and I understand his feelings very easily. Sometimes I feel that he doesn't understand my feelings but I think he's just quiet. I love him very very very much and I know some of you won't care about what I have to say here, but our one year anniversary is February 16th, 2011. I am so happy to have him in my life and I wouldn't change it for the world!

This is scary cus all of the posts about Virgo women trying to understanding the off and on attention of a Capricorn Man are so true. I met my cap when were teens - we de-virginized each other and were together for almost 3 years. We didn't see each other again until 20 years later and are now dating again. As a Virgo you have a willingness to please your mate and be very affectionate while a Cap may seem to be loving and attentive one day then pull back and uninterested the next. I read one of the posts above which mentioned that a Virgo woman should be patient and she will see how this will result in a very beautiful bond. The Cap man has trust issues and probably believes the Virgo woman is too good to be true. However, the see-saw behavior can have a a Virgo second guessing a Cap man's loyalty, is he cheating, interested in someone else, now feeling me? Why is he so sometimey? But most of the time its just their way. I think deep inside they like to be chase d to feel that the Virgo really digs them.

I am a Virgo woman, and reading the above posts im getting kinda worried, haha....I have been with a Capricorn man for almost 6 months....he has not changed on me at all. I have never fallen sooo hard before in my life and I was married for 11 years previously to a Pisces. I seperated for 6 yrs and met my Capricorn man. I didn't think I could ever love that strong or hard again, and everyday it gets stronger and stronger. He calls me everyday, txts me at least 5 times a day before we talk at night for 2-3 hours, we never run out of things to say. We see each other every weekend and it gets sweeter and sweeter, he is affectionate, and listens. We are planning on moving in together in 5 months....now Im getting worried that if we move then he may get all weird and distant or something, which would not sit well with me. I guess time will tell wont it, but im enjoying every minute with him thus far!!!

I am a 19 year old Cap. I usually don't believe in this astrology stuff.... But I guess personality is a balance of things... just like life. I have this Virgo female friend. She is so beautiful. she makes me laugh and she laughs at my jokes. I think im falling in love with her.... I don't want to, Im afraid, from my previous relationship I got hurt so bad. Shes just broken up with her ex. I want to spend more time with her but im afriad the more I do the more I will fall for her and then find out she just wants to be friends or something. Everynight my heart aches with lonelyness and she is the few people I trust. When im around Her I just want to make her laugh and I can be myself. what do I do?! please help me!!!!!

Ok, so here is the thing, I met a Capricorn guy on a dating website around halloween of last year. He asked me out and in the beginning, and he pursued Me until I gave in and We had our first date after Thanksgiving. I was very surprised by not only how stunningly handsome he is but also by how much we had in common. We talked all night long and it was as if I had known him forever.I was totally taken by him! On a foot note I am a Virgo and My relationship with him was not only my first in about four or five years, it was probably the most serious relationship that I have ever had. I will admit that I know very little about the dating game. The only other thing I should add is that he had gotten out of a five year relationship about 9 months before we met. She left him, there was no cheating and He said that he was over her. We didn't celebrate the holidays together and thats ok because we were very new with each other when Christmas and new years came around. ever ything was ok. IT is true that he started not answer a text I sent him until a day or two later and it was about the same topic we were prevously talking about. That really irratated Me,for him to leave me hanging like that. anyways It was taking him longer and longer for him to text me and I was starting to feel like I was bugging him because I was always texting him first. We would have great conversations when He had time to talk but I felt like I had to keep pushing him to get anywhere. I got frusterated and decided to sit down and write him a letter and tell him exactly how I felt about him and asked him how he felt about me. He said that he liked me and to relax because everything was ok. I believed him and tried to relax however I didn't see him in person for a month exactly since the last date we had. The date was wonderful and he was even more charming and intoxicating than the last time I saw him. We continued to text, I still had to intiate,but it was ok. The first week of february of this year I got called out of work because of the huge snow storms.I was out of work for that whole week. I would text him every night of that week and being sneaky ask him in a million different ways if he wanted to go out or hang out or do anything. Keep in mind that I havent seen him in yet another month. Our dates were becoming a month to month thing. Every night of that week in february , I would ask him if he wanted to do anything and every night he would say nah im really tired, I had another bad day. I asked him if everything was ok with us and he again said that I was being silly and that everything was fine. he said that in one text message and then didn't text me for five days. I got tired of waiting and having my heart ache over him. so I sent him another letter, this letter told him exactly how much I really really really liked him and that although I can handle not talking to him every single day and even though we are still getting to know each other, I would like to see him more than once a month. I asked him to tell me how he feels and to send me a letter or a text with his answer even if he doesn't like me or want to see me anymore. That was two weeks ago and I still haven't heard anything from him. I know that I probably was a little bit clingy, and that was totally on accident, remember I don't know what I am supposed to and not supposed to do to keep him interested. I know I messed up bad and as hard as I try I can't stop thinking about him. I havent said a word to him since I sent that letter. What should I do? Will he ever respond to my letter? Can I fix this? Or should I try my hardest to move on? Help me!!!

After 8 months since I broke up with my capi man I never stop thinking of him...why is it so difficult for me to get him off of my mind???i don't understand this anymore...i was hard and easy to forget my past relationship and. Much more deeper than I had with capi..but this capi man is the one who conquered my heart and mind...i don't wanna talk to him or see him coz he always hurt my feelings yet there is somewhre in my heart that wanting him back...:(pls help...

After 8 months since I broke up with my capi man I never stop thinking of him...why is it so difficult for me to get him off of my mind???i don't understand this anymore...i was hard and easy to forget my past relationship and. Much more deeper than I had with capi..but this capi man is the one who conquered my heart and mind...i don't wanna talk to him or see him coz he always hurt my feelings yet there is somewhre in my heart that wanting him back...:(pls help...

I'm a Virgo women in college #19 my cappie is #21 I figured he was more mature and things would work out. Me and my cappie have been dating on and off since June 2010 it was on and off and he would always be the one to contact me first I never contacted him and I guess he like that because in November he told me he was getting feelings for me which was a shocker because he is so quiet and laid back he NEVER expresses his self, me I took that to the head I started getting clingy and calling and texting him all the time and I guess that pushed him away because now we never talk it suck because now im the one who has feelings for him so I will try to ignore him like I did in the beginning and see if those feelings he had for me returns they definately do NOT like clingy women give them space I learned the hard way I hope I get my baby back he took great care of me never wanted for anything, ughh wish me luck..

I'm a Virgo women in college #19 my cappie is #21 I figured he was more mature and things would work out. Me and my cappie have been dating on and off since June 2010 it was on and off and he would always be the one to contact me first I never contacted him and I guess he like that because in November he told me he was getting feelings for me which was a shocker because he is so quiet and laid back he NEVER expresses his self, me I took that to the head I started getting clingy and calling and texting him all the time and I guess that pushed him away because now we never talk it suck because now im the one who has feelings for him so I will try to ignore him like I did in the beginning and see if those feelings he had for me returns they definately do NOT like clingy women give them space I learned the hard way I hope I get my baby back he took great care of me never wanted for anything, ughh wish me luck..

hi im a Virgo and the man I meet in 2008 is a cap. we met when I was dating this other guy who was treating me right everyday he would tell me he can do me better. so I dumped the other guy and go with him he was shy and confident at the same time we grew love for each other . of course we had our ups and downs but I loved him and he loved me . and we keep our love alive and thts y now in 2011 we are married and going on a yr in two months your can work the question is how hard are yu gonna F I G H T ? Love a Virgo women

Hello everyone..I am a 26 year old Virgo female..and recently I have met this 20 year old cap. first off, from the first time I saw him, there was something about him..and soon after we ended up messing around, and I thought that it would be over soon because we didn't know each other, but I was wrong, because he continued to pursue me, and to me, it isnt about the sex, in this short amount of time, he has shown me things about myself, that I never took note of. he always tell me that he like everything about me, my personality the most. but he is always distant..but I found out that he has a girlfriend, and I immediately tried to break it off. but neither one of us can let go. what I am I supposed to do, because everytime I cuss him out and run him away, he will wait a lil while and come back. when I told him that I wanted to be with him, he had no response but he still keep pursuing me. I wanna let him go, but something seem so real between us. he will be around fo r a little while, then disappear, and come back, and we have been going through this since January, and my patience is running thin!!! Am I living in a fantasy feeling the way I do, or is there something very real between us, that we cant let go???? Please let me know someone on the outside..

Hi. I am a 40 year old virgo, in love with a 41 year old Capricorn man. Wow, I wish I would have read over these three weeks ago...then I would understand. We are both separated from our spouses for about 10 months now. We have so much in common, and strange that we even separated from our soon to be exes at the same time. We met on an online dating site. We corresponded for only a week via email before he asked to meet me. I am super particular as most Virgo ladies are, but I already felt a connection. We started dating and we were really into each other. We got intimate one night (after a month and a half) but no sex. It was after that that I noticed he was gently pulling away. Then, I got a little frustrated one night because he wanted to leave after a heavy make-out session. He pulled away a lot harder after that. I reacted and said I didn't want to see him anymore, I was pretty sure it was because he was not interested. He said he wasn't ready for anything mo re serious, but that he did like me and still wanted to see me. He obviously wasn't using me for sex, so I saw logic there. But, he continued his distant behavior for another week, and I reacted once again (darn us anaylyzing virgos!). Now he will not return my texts. I told him I was in love with him and that is why I was being so protective. He hasn't said it, but I know he loves me too...I can sense it. I just sent him a text (after reading this site) to tell him that I may have strong feelings, but I am not ready to be serious either and that I understand his need for space. I am not ready to let this guy go. I told him that someday if he wants to call or text me...I am patient and the door is open on this side. Here is hoping he responds...someday. LOL Thanks everyone.

Hello people, I have developed feelings for a 21 yr. old CAP. I met him about 3 months ago, and he didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, so we started messing around because I could tell that he really liked me. And I really liked him too. There was something so sweet in his nature that drew me to him. The whole time we was fooling around, it was back and forth, just like the others who are complaining about him not being available. Well I'm going to say this, bottom line is, he was back and forth because he basically had me on the side, and he didn't plan on ever taking me serious. He liked certain things about me, but was already sharing his life with someone else. So yesterday, I finally told him, just leave me alone, and I'm not laying up with him anymore, so I just checked his facebook page out of curiousity, and he had updated his status to married to his GIRLFRIEND. I am soo hurt right now, but it is his lost. A major lost, not mine..so to everyone who is going through the back and forth phases, let it go, unless you can handle it. I couldn't because I deserve so much more. I wish him the best because I can see him, and his sweet nature..so he will have to learn life lessons on his own..

Hey, I'm a Virgo lady that likes a Capricorn guy from work (he's not a coworker, he's a customer. I work as a cashier). Well, I've noticed him noticing me but he's failed to make a move this far. He tried cracking a joke but since of course I like him, I got nervous and shut him out accidentally "/... now, he comes to my job almost daily and I don't know how to go from long awkward silence to just normal communication!

Whenever I help him at the register I can't help but feel nervous and I automatically shutdown... how do I go about breaking the ice? I can tell he likes me.. I just don't know how or what to say to get a conversation going.. HEEELP! XP

his lack of emotion towards me, for hie lack to stand and fight the system in order to be together. yet the i's have been dotted and the t's crossed. we have one more chance and though he has stated that he wants wife for life unless he is willing to surrender as well all that he will be getting will be 100% his doing.

he has fully destroyed who I was and if he longs to remain he must re-court me.

in closing, if you want to just be fine with some one while awakening the monster with in you then stay with the cap until you can not bare it. keep in mind that the cap motto is( virgos are emotionally disturbed and drama queens, and if the virgos want to terminate they will be the ones doing the paper work and not the cap.

cap and Virgo will be the greatest test, the biggest challenged because in the end you are just facing a harrier you.

I'm a Virgo woman. Been dating a cap man for 4 months now. The chemistry is amazing betweem us. We haven't made things official yet. But he assures me I'm not wasting my time. We'll see. We txt or talk on the phone. Not every single day or abything (I feel that would be "stalkerish" so I'm glad he's not like that). We go a day or 2 in between talking at the most. We both work so we only see each other once a week. I'm falling for him hard but don't want him to know. Probably should let him know because he is completely honest with me in every way possible. He never keeps me guessing. And its true caps don't say how they feel but I go by actions rather than words anyway and he definitely shows how he feels everytime we're together. Haven't had sex yet. I'm conservative like that. Bit it seems he likes that. We both live in the sunshine state so it really couldn't get any better as far as our dates go. He has a kid but so do I. He told me he sees this going far! I fee l the same way. He definitely has trust issues and wants to make sure e everything is perfect before he jumps in. I'm hoping to teach him that life is about taking chances... Buuut in the meantime, he is more than I could ever dream of. He touches me all the right ways, listens to all my ramblings and actually comments and says all the right things at all the right times. I truly believe cap and Virgo r a great match. Just don't be clingy. Its not in my nature so o guess thayts why it doesn't bother me when I don't hear from him ffor a day or two. I know he still thinks of me.

Im a 29 Cap male and if I can give ladies some advice when trying to get a cap is you must be loyal, be patient, secure, be open with your feelings and think with your head not your heart. As a cap male I am a perfectionist by nature. and while we all know perfection is an unattainable goal caps pursue it dilgently so we often feel our work is never done. I find myself thinkin I am a husband, father, brother, son, grandson, uncle, friend, individual etc etc and sometimes I distant myself from everyone and everything just to put life as it currently is in perspective. So when your cap mate seems distant please please please please don't overanalyze it as some game or lack of desire to be with you. its our make-up and drive that makes us overwhelm ourselves and the distance is our way of rejuvenating. And keep in mind I believe in quality over quantity. I'd rather see my love for 3 fantastic days out of the week then 6 and one day is great 3 are so-so and 2 we are argu ing or whatever. I told my wife of 3 yrs (whose also the mother of my only 2 children) and ive been with 13 yrs altogether that if you truly love me don't tell me when things are good SHOW me when things are bad. So when he is distant text him, leave him a voicemail, email etc please trust me when I tell you it will be worth it. I say that because I think unlike other signs when a cap male says I love you once chances are (no matter what) he'll will love you forever.

I'm a Virgo woman (with a "past history) living with a cap for 7 years. I sometimes don't know whether I'm coming or going. I believe this man loves me dearly, but why is it so easy for him to hurt my feeling merely in order for him to say what's on his mind. Does he not take a minute to consider how this would affect me? I've asked him on m any occasions why he stays with me when he finds so much fault with me. I've considered leaving him many times but can't bear to be without him.How do I may this work , or shouldn't I! I feel I desire a bit more respect!

For quite some time,I have experienced strong feelings for a Virgo woman.I myself,am a Capricorn male & my question to the wonderful Virgo women out there is this: should I tell her how I feel?,& if so-what is the best way to approach her?The times I have tried to speak to her-I become really nervous,as I have come to realize that I have fallen in love with her.I would truly appreciate any advice from all of you Virgo ladies.My heart is in pain because she works close to where I live-it isn't easy seeing her&wanting her so much,and,yet not being able to express my true feelings to her.Can any of you beautiful,kind Virgo ladies tell me what I should do? P.S.each & everyday-I love her more&more.....Thank you 4 posting my comments.

For quite some time,I have experienced strong feelings for a Virgo woman.I myself,am a Capricorn male & my question to the wonderful Virgo women out there is this: should I tell her how I feel?,& if so-what is the best way to approach her?The times I have tried to speak to her-I become really nervous,as I have come to realize that I have fallen in love with her.I would truly appreciate any advice from all of you Virgo ladies.My heart is in pain because she works close to where I live-it isn't easy seeing her&wanting her so much,and,yet not being able to express my true feelings to her.Can any of you beautiful,kind Virgo ladies tell me what I should do? P.S.each & everyday-I love her more&more.....Thank you 4 posting my comments.

I am a Virgo woman completely and totally in love with a Capricorn man. We met in a store and it was love at first sight for us both. He is by the far the sexiest thing I have ever seen in my life...and I don't usually care too much for looks...but damn it, he's perfectly gorgeous! What's crazy is he thinks the same about me! We were completely drawn to each other from the moment we first locked eyes. I can agree with some of the traits previously listed because he was somewhat aloof in that he didn't say anything to me. But he did make his feelings known through subtle ways. While in the store, he kept ending up in the same aisle that I was in. He gave me eye contact and the most "naughty and nice" smile!!! Being the Virgo that I am, when I see something that I want and its made available to me....I reach out for it. So I spoke up and we've been inseparable ever since. We've been seriously dating for 5 months and we just moved in together, he asked me to marry him a and our wedding is in 7 months...yes, if you, fellow virgos and caps, have done the math like we are so notorious for...that means we will wed on our one year anniversary!!! NOW...enough of the mushy stuff...here's the real stuff.... while our relationship is heaven sent we've had our issues. Virgo women, you just have to be independent- they love this and need it....its ok to care and lavish them and worship them...they love and need this too, but they have to always desire you.... from the beginning!!!! Also loyalty is huge, not only can you not so much as appear to be unfaithful... if you have been unfaithful in your past...keep it to yourself!!!!! They are very, very deep thinkers!!! Lastly...this man will work himself to the very end, you will have to work around his career but he will always give you every other second he has if you make it a point to appreciate it. As far as the on and off again thing, I have only experienced this in terms of his emotions...I'm so unemotional!!!...so I am used to thinking that everyone else in this world is too emotional. I guess the on and off is more like highs and lows. Just don't pay that mess any mind!!! Acknowledge it, offer a kind word and leave it alone. Capricorn men are different because they will correct themselves, so if you have to correct them or explain to them a problem you have with them or something they've done...be logical, gentle and brief. They will apologize and you can move past it efficiently as long as you always keep your cool!! After I figured these things out...it's been smooth sailing. I have never ever experienced a love so strong. He always makes me feel beautiful and special....and yes, our sex life is ridiculously amazing!!! AMAZING!!! Keep in mind there are lots of other things that come into play in addition to your sun signs...if you're really considering your Cap man as a life partner, invest about $30 and have a natal chart compatibility report done!!! I did and it even said that we are soulmates!!!! WOW!! Hang in there, from my view...it soooooo worth it! The best ever!!! Keep your fingers crossed for me because if this should end, I'll probably end up in jail (just kidding-kinda!) ;)

I'm a Virgo women born at midnight between Virgo-Libra sun signs. I have fallen in love with a Cap who is 13 years younger than I am and who is married. I am single-my choice (after 3 failed marrages). When we first got together, I told him I could never love him...assuming I was not able to love - but after fighting it inside myself, I can now admit I'm in love - with this Cap. (Sounds like a confessing addict, doesn't it?) I don't mind if I don't get phone calls from him every day. I have a life, too. But he's always on my heart and mind. I don't know if I'm on his or not. He does think about me a lot, he says, when we're apart. The relationship deepens everytime we're together - for me...I can't speak for him. He has a life separate from me and I respect that - even like that. I've had one Cappy husband...and I didn't like it. We had a great business arrangement, but everyday life was a grind! I love freedom, and this Cap respects that which makes me love him more. Sex is the best I've ever had!!!and there's no drama - which I absolutely love. When we're together, we're focused on just us. No dredging up his marriage or my past. I'm patient with this man and he's feeling confident, trusting and opening up to me in his thoughts and heart. Caps take a lot of tender loving care...and they'll respond the same way if you're honest, sincere and really love them.

I'm 27 years old cap man,based on my own experiences the main reason Cap men will stop talking to a Virgo woman for a while is simply because he found something that he doesn't like personally from this woman, in my case I was really turned off when seen her being so flirty with other guy (jealousy)but at the same time I didn't want my self to be a possessive person. So I decided rather to be with my own-self or moving on..all we need in relationship is "COMMITMENT & LOYALTY" , hope this would help.. :)

OMG - I didn't know this about CAP men Virgo women. I met a Cap lat summer and was texting me 3 times a day then he moved and we tried the long distance thing and the texting slowed way down and I was the one always texting first. After 8 months he suddenly disappeared. His friend told me to hang in there and be patient because he was going through stuff with his ex wife so I did but after a while I sent him a text to see what was going on and he told me to move on so that is what I am doing but it was all so confusing. Now I see it's just their nature.

I am a Virgo woman who is currently in love with a Capricorn man..I met him in January by chance, and later on I found out that he had a girlfriend that he did not tell me about. Afterwards, he would lie and tell me that they was not together, so I have continued to fool around with him because my feelings are involved. Recently, we had a serious arguement, in which I had told him that we can squash this whole thing because all he had done was waste my time.. the next day he came over and told me that he really loved me and he is really trying to deal with his feelings because he has never felt this way in his life..a big part of me believes that he is being truthful, and another part of me is like, this boy is a liar and I really should let him go..but how do I let go when I am to picky to take a risk and meet someone else, and if I do meet someone else, how do I let go of these feelings..a part of me feels like he enjoy the make up and break up scene because of the passionate lovemaking..which he can do with anyone..I continue to pray and ask God to tell me what to do, and everytime I do that, he pops up out of the blue..very confusing, but no matter how much I love him, I love me more, and I have no problem letting him know this everytime he unnerves me..

I am a single mother and a virgo. I met this CAP guy a month ago and it was love at first sight for him and over time I also began admiring him. and finally we entered into a relationship. in fact when the relation began he once said he cant afford to come closer to me as his feeling for me are really strong and, at the point of seperation, that he cannot bear it if I told him that he was using me. and we did not contact after that for a while and I was left heart broken as we did not even meet for a date and this guy said this to me. in one way I thought he was a nice guy who just told the truth and left without hurting me. on the other hand I felt dejected and thought I never deserved any love.after a week I saw him online and I told him I cant forget him and that the past week was terrible. he said it was terrible for him too. I said I wanted to be atleast his friend. he confessed he wont be able to remain only as a friend and that he may cross limits with me and that he used to spend his nights just looking at my pictures and that he never had any girlfriends as he is always confused in relationships..or rather unsure. I think that is a typical character of being a CAP. I assured him I don't mind and that atleast I can try which made him say that then he would also try. and we got back together again. after that we just met once when we went for a drive for few minutes and he held my hand close to his heart all the while he was driving and kissed on my hand. I felt special. I have never felt that way before.and we kissed later. then we did not meet for a month considering our faith. we are muslims and it was the holy month of Ramadan. but we did chat and speak occasionally. then he said we should stop the communication for the time being until the end of the holy month as he feels distracted. I thought he is right as even I was feeling distracted.and then it was one sms in 5 days or one call a week. but sometimes he does not reply to my sms even when it is something important. I don't feel like calling him as I may disturb him. but I know he likes me but why this indifference.it looks as though im chasing him. what could exactly be his plan. is he taking his time to analyse the whole thing? or is this his way? I read above the characteristics of a CAP and that they are worth keeping. what should I do?will he break my heart? or is he taking his time?but I strongly feel for him and I wont be able to forget him.

I am a Virgo woman thats so glad to know its not me .... Because I to is is lost in love with a Capricorn male and I thought he loved me :(