Aquarius man and Virgo woman

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I met an Aquarian man about a month ago. He Is 42 and I am 48 and aVirgo woman. He Is In a relationship with his girlfriend not married and theylive together. He has been after me since day one and makes me feel I am hisentire world.

We have been Intimate and he has been the only man that has evermade me feel completely satisfied as a woman. He Is a professional and so am I.I don't mind his other life and feel no jealousy as of yet. I believe he Is theone for me, He walked Into my life unexpectedly and I believe he was heavensent.

How should I handle this situation? How do I protect myself from heartbreak In the future? Is he for real or am I just an affair? I know hisgirlfriend Is not at his Intellectual level, I don't know how old she Is. I look40 years old and he and I look the same age I have never had a relationshipwith a man younger than me and It scares me. help please I'm very confused!!

It totally depends on Virgo's patience and understanding, try to bemore optimistic. Actually, there Is no way to change an Aquarius man. He reallycomes to you when he wants. If you are too sensitive, you might have troubles.But If you are strong enough to overcome such a time, calm down, and use yourmental advance to motivate yourself, then the sky Is bright again.

Sometimes, you feel you are neglected and want to run away, but another time, he suddenly contacts you, especially when he gets stuck In life, then you know your ownvalue. He appreciates that, don't think you are abused. He Is actually shy,scared of being lonely and need security Inside, that's why he rarely showsemotions, and has a lot of friends around. Be his best friend, make yourself asextraordinary and special as possible, you win his heart forever !

I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I would like to know If I could save It and make It work.

This story Is about my boyfriend who Is an Aquarius and myself a Virgo. Sorry my English Isn't good. When we met first time, everything was fine. We were so perfect for each other. Unfortunately from the beginning I knew, that If there was not a difference In our religion, everything would be fine, I just could not let religion to break us apart. It was not a good enough reason to split.

This man became everything to me. After 6 months he asked me to marry him. In the summer I took him back home to meet my parents and see my country.

But then he asked me If I will be happy to bring up our children under the Islamic religion. I took some time to think about this. It was a big decision to be made. I asked him to compromise. That we will bring your children In both religions, so when they will grow up they will choose. He said No. He also said No, when I asked him to move with me. It was again against his beliefs, but I understand this one. He was protecting me.

I started to talk to him again. I was not happy about this anymore. He was cool. He was allowed to marry me, because I was girl from a religion which follows the bible and I promised to raise our kids In Islam. I asked him If those 2 things were not meet If he would still be with me. He said probably not. And that he loves me beyond everything, that he would give his life for mine.

I was doing everything to save our relationship, but I started to think In double way. When I listened to my heart It said Yes, but my brain said "run girl run" I turned for help to my family and friends and they all said NO, It won't work.

When he and I talk about this he said to me do not worry, follow your heart, do not think. Just follow me blindly, trust me and everything will be fine.

I started loosing my weight; got grey hair ... I become different person. In the morning I wanted to marry him and In a couple hours I changed my mind. I changed my mind too many times and In the end I called off our wedding just 24 hours before. Now I feel really guilty for shame which I have put on his shoulders and his family. I can't believe, that In the and I let religion break our happiness, our true love.

I want to help him to understand why I have done what I have done. From my side I just felt that I am giving up everything and he nothing. I always thought that love Is supposed to be give and take.

I miss him so much and I am worried that I will never find such a loving man any more. I know that he will go back to Pakistan and he will marry who ever his family will choose for him. I still don't know If I did the right thing.. how would western women handle this?

This Is a Virgo woman Aquarius man question. Thank you

In my opinion, love Is about give and take! Its about compromise andthe only way to a successful relationship and especially marriage Is being ableto compromise!

I'm with an Aquarius man and I can say for certain they can be very selfish,their way or no way, however you should always stand firm In your beliefs soyou are not bullied because If given the chance they will do so!

I've learnt that they will try any tactic Intellectually; In order to get youto agree always with them, Aquarius are very Intelligent. try not to bemanipulated Into a decision you do not agree with!

Im a Virgo women and Im talking to an Aquarius man. I'm 22 and he's23, we have been talking for about 2 months and It's really hard tofigure him out.

He has a son but he's not with his son's mother. He tells me thathe wants to make me his girl one day but I feel like he will get back with hisson's mother. I don't know If It will work out because he really doesn't express hisfeelings much. I feel like he's only talking to me because he's not withthe other girl, but he tells me that he does like me. He just got out of arelationship so I don't know maybe It's me wanting too much too soon, but I needsome help what should I do?

Aquarius men are truly the most wonderful men. In a seriousrelationship, they do like to take things slow and not be rushed or pushed. Ifyou can understand this, and be patient and strong, you will win his heart.

He likes a woman who Is patient, understanding and has a truly good heart. :) Theyare sometimes a little hard to date because they need a lot of time forthemselves, but this Is so they can reflect on things. It's nothing personal.Its just how they are.

I have been with one for a year and a half. Im a Virgo,he's an Aquarius. Please be patient with him, be understanding, and don't takehis moods personally. :)

Go with the flow of things, because In reality, you cant force anyone Intoanything. Things will come naturally. Be positive and always hope for the best.:)

I'm a Virgo woman and I was seeing an Aquarius man for quite a fewmonths. He wanted to be serious but I didn't because I had only just got outof a relationship where I was cheated on, so I was trying to get over thatheartache. At first I was distant and he was after me for a long time. As soonas I started to feel the same for him and started treating him as he treatedme, he had no Interest In me.

I didn't speak to him In months, he seemed very stubborn and doesn't like to bethe first to get In contact. Though I did eventually get Into contact. He wasvery cold and distant but Invited me round his place. We ended up beingintimate even though when we were seeing each other we went no further thankissing (As I wasn't ready)

The next day he told me In an email he wasn't Interested In a relationship withme, he doesn't know why but he just Isn't. He wants to find someone else.

When I spent the night with him he told me lovely things, missing me andwanting me back. I was shocked to hear he didn't In fact want that. He saidmaybe he just needs time, and Its been a few days and I've not heard from him.

I am very upset but hiding It as I wouldn't want his ego to sky rocket, I feelhe tricked me Into bed. I've heard Aquarius's and Virgo's can be very hard workand I'm wondering If that's It, or If I probably wont see him again. Anythoughts? (When we were seeing each other, he told me he was In love with me)

I'm a Virgo woman and have been seeing an Aquarian man for 4 years. We haven't had any discussions about commitment -wouldn't even consider usboy-/girlfriend. But that's ok, because we are genuinely really good friends. He and I enjoy a wonderful Intellectual compatibility - we can talk on thephone for hours on just about anything. Because of this endless mentalattraction, our Intimacy Is nothing less than exciting, although our Intimacyis rare. He really enjoys his space and time, so much so that I rarely evenhear from him or see him. He travels a lot and has a lot of business venturesgoing on, that he rarely has time for personal pleasure. And then he justrandomly calls out of nowhere! I love his spontaneity. He Is extremelyexciting, stimulating, Intellectual and quite the entrepreneur - he has lots ofgreat Ideas and ACTS on them. This relationship Isn't the best that I've had,but the friendship that I have with him Is fulfilling, and It helps me growintellectually and think outside of the box. The strength between Aquariansand Virgos Is their fruitful and always growing relationship. They build oneanother up.

It Is true that Aquarian men don't like to be forced Into commitments, which Iswhy I have not even Initiated a conversation about It. They would rather dothe decision-making. I think that these men truly value a friendship, andwants to be secure In knowing that the woman he chooses will be their bestfriend. If they really value your friendship, they will coming running! Asweird as It sounds, act as though you are his girlfriend, listen to him, learnto flirt with him, accept his aloof and detached behavior, even talk aboutthings that he really enjoys talking about. But don't bring up a relationshipor your feelings about It. As time goes on and he feels comfortable with you,he will Initiate that conversation. Aquarian men also enjoy having many mutualfemale friends, so If you are a Virgo woman, this may leave you feelinginsecure about his feelings toward you. I would suggest not even thinkingabout It, and act as though It doesn't bother you. Aquarian men get turned offif they see you are Insecure and not strong enough to mentally deal with them. But no need to worry! Aquarians just like being around people whether male orfemale. He likes a mysterious woman. Keep your emotions to yourself - he'stoo aloof to emotionally connect. And If he hasn't responded to you In severaldays, be patient - he will respond eventually If he wants to pursue you.

There's a lot to learn about Aquarian men - they are certainly not predictableor easy to understand. I've gone through the crazy emotions In the beginningbut learned to be patient. Patience with Aquarian men Is ABSOLUTE key! Also,Virgo woman, I recommend that you keep yourself busy with things that you enjoydoing so that you are not driven crazy by your pet peeves. If you want toimpress an Aquarian, strive to accomplish more than he has. He'll love you forthat! Remember the best relationships aren't perfect, but with an Aquarianyou'll know why this Is the case.

okay I've been w/ a guy for 7 years and we have a child together we werefresh out of high school I had the baby and everything and she Is now 3 we beenstaying together for 3 years In our own place but things started getting bumpylast year around this time so we broke up and I put him out cause I feel likewe needed our space......

so he been staying w/ his mom ever since.... So hebeen doing other girls I mean I don't like It but he Is not my man so I reallycant get mad but at the same time we are still having sex cause that's all Iknow he was my first love and he was my first sex partner you know and I havenot touched any one else I am 22 years old..... so we been on and off one minutewe talking about getting together n the next minute he talking about leaving mealone period...a nd the things are just getting confusing but I love him and Iknow he loves me....

It was about 2 weeks ago we were talking about trying toget together but we was gone take our time or whatever so he ends up fallingfor another female...she Is 23 she already has a baby and now she pregnantagain and she Is like 5 months.. and no Its not his baby but her baby daddy Isin jail and he gets out In less that 20 days.... so my baby daddy Is reallyattracted to her and he said he likes her and that If he could be with her hewould///which hurt my feelings cause I cant believe that he would fall for apregnant girl especially If It ain't his you know but they talk about gettingtogether all the time but I think she Is confused cause she wants to be withher baby daddy cause she Is holding his baby... So what's the best advice you cangive me cause I wanna be w/ him but I don't wanna wait around to see what's gonehappen between him and her...cause I really think she likes my baby daddy butshe just ain't ready to commit to It cause she wants to see how her and her babydaddy gone turn out and I don't want my baby daddy thinking he can run back justcause she left him for her baby...daddy.

Can someone give me advice on what Ishould do In this situation?

I have known this Aquarius guy for over a year. Trust me, I waspatient and never pushed him Into doing anything until I wanted clarity ofcourse. So we were In touch online and he was always the one who Initiatedcontact (only once a week) but we would generally flirt! When we would bumpinto each other at parties, It would always be the two of us hanging out and Ithought he might some day finally ask me out. He once asked me out to dinner"to make up" for something and unfortunately I went out of town so asked for araincheck. After that he never brought It up and we haven't been In touch forover a month now.

I hate It and have fallen for him so badly. I recently bumpedinto his brother who said he heard that me and his brother were In touch quitea lot, I said It wasn't that bad and I asked my brother (who of course told himwe would talk a lot) what he said. And he said the brother said "I don't getwhy he's doing that, he has a girlfriend". I was shocked and couldn't believeit; obviously I asked him If he had a girlfriend but he always told me hedidn't and no one knows he has one (except his brother just found out). I don'tknow what It all meant (I know for a fact that he wasn't just being nice) and Iwish he chose me. The worst part Is that I want an explanation for hisbehavior...

Choosing an Aquarius man Is biggest mistake for Virgo woman. TheAquarius Is very unpredictable In love and marriage. I went through Into manysurprises and troubles.

He Is pure Aquarius as his ascendant Is Aquarius as well. I am Virgo and Cancerascendant. We have a lot of argument though we both are Intellect. He wants todominate me all the time and gives me hard time. Having sex with him was notinteresting at all. I felt like a having sex machine at home. Nothing more thanthat. We now speak very few words a day. He Is not a talker anyway.

In addition to this, he has many secret love affairs, but keeps denying In ordernot to divorce me. All the money he makes Is just for him. He Is very dishonestman In many ways.

Despite all these problems, he Is a devoted good father, and he managesfinancial matter very well. At least he Is good to himself.

I am a 26 yr old Virgo woman and I am dating a 29 yr old Aquarianman or should I say God. I've been seeing him around him for about a yr. we metthrough mutual friends and often get together on weekends to go out clubbing.we have just been friends. He usually brings dates to these get togethers andas for me, I was In a relationship which Is completely over now so I'm usuallythe 5th wheel but I do not mind as I need time to reflect.

He usually has many different women friends that he usually brings along. Ihave many Aquarian male friends so I know how they keep close relationshipsw/female. I also know that they take sex as a casual thing and do not mindremaining friends w/ women they've slept with.

about 2 weeks ago he told me to come back to his place after a long night ofpartying w/ our other friends. Reluctantly I said yes and told him In front ofour other 2 friends who are dating that nothing Is to happen. He said he wouldbe a complete gentleman and he was.

It wasn't until we woke up that he made his move and It happened. If It wasn'tfor us running out of condoms we would have been at It all morning long! Iloved It and can't stop thinking about what a sexxy man he Is.

I hung out w/him last Friday and went home Saturday. He took me to dinner (itwas awesome) then we went by our mutual friends house. They are a couple. Theydo not know what happened and neither do I want them too. They are finding Itstrange how close we've gotten but have not asked yet. After a while we wentback to his place and was cuddling.

everything Is strange and awkward and I feel strange now. Before we were socool I kissed him a lot hugged him. Now It's as If I have to think about It foran hour to show some kind of emotion or affection.

While back at his place his ex girlfriend whom Is a mega psycho/stalker showedup crying b/c he was not answering her calls. so she decided to pop up whichreally stirred him up bad. we planned to stay In watch dvd's and cuddle.Instead he got up and we went to play pool then partied all night long asusual.

Ever heard of the term "drunken words are sober thoughts"? well the rest of ournight s consisted In plan making, decisions, agreements. I mean we spoke It allthat night. What he expected what I expected was all put In the table. Therewas a lot of eye contact and emotions when we looked. It was a group discussionbut he and I knew w/a simple glance we were Indirecting things to one another.To make a long story short It was great. a lot was revealed since we hadn't hadthe chance to speak about what went on between us. I felt a sense of securityfrom him.

Now my whole thing Is I can't stop thinking about him. I am so sexuallyattracted to him. I do not want to come off to strong. I do not want to turnout like his psycho ex. I've been a psycho ex myself before! I want him to knowthat I want to be as good of friends as we were before we decided to take Itthere and I also want him to know that I am crazy about how good the lovemaking was that I want It over and over again any chance I get. I also want himto respect me and not lead me on. I do not want him to make me his jump off orrebound chick. (Jump off means a casual sex friend) I know It may be too soonbut I am stressing b/c I see a lot of potential In him for me and I wonder Ifhe will feel the same or does he already. He said he does. But how do I makethis Aquarian realize what a woman he just encountered? He needs to know thathe Is In It for a good one If he just gives this whole rendezvous the time ofday.

Thanks In advance for your responses.

My mom Is an Aquarian woman and my dad Is a Virgo man. That hasbeen by far the worst relationship I have ever seen In my whole entire life.Literally!

I am a Virgo woman and have dated Aquarian men In the past. One thing I hadto learn the hard way Is that the way to their heart Is through friendship.

Since this Is anonymous I will say how many Aquarian men I dated. I've datedfour.

The first one I was head over heels for. Sexy creature w/ a wonderful sexualdrive. He ended up getting my so called best friend pregnant! Go figure. Ittook a lot for me to get passed this but he always showed me that If I take Iteasy he will always be my friend. I did and to this day him and I remain thebest of friends. I hang out w/him once In a while and sometimes still sleepw/him well b/c he's just so damn fine and b/c I am not committed or married.But we are the best of friends and I love him. We tend to loose contact w/ourbusy adult lives but we always manage to find one another. We also hang out toas friends w/o sex Involved.

The second one... well It was just a big sloppy mess. I only slept w/him b/c helooked like he had money and some more for me! I rapidly demanded too much andended up losing him as a man but as months went by and I found out how much hesleeps around I found out that this Is not the kind of man I want to give myheart to emotionally. we grew to be the best of friends though after a while weare both equally smart and ambitious and have a lot of Ideas In common we liketo have the same type of fun w/ all of our friends Involved. I told him I didnot want to have sex w/ him any more which brought a little uneasiness to thefriendship but he learned to adapt and now we are the best of friends and haveput all the sex thing In the back burner. I even met his wife whom he hidesfrom all his casualties! In a strange way he Is like a brother to me now.

The third one was this sexy chocolate deluxe. I met him at an agency I wastrying to work for. He flirted w/me and even helped me get the job there. Atfirst I was not at all attracted to him. I didn't even take notice of him underthe suit and tie. It wasn't until a few months of simple dating and lunchbreaks that I saw him shirtless fixing something In his car that I was likedyum! at The time I was soul searching and practicing abstinence In order tostrengthen up and stop having bad relationships so It was extremely hard forhim to get me Into bed. When we did It was very emotional. Maybe not the bestb/c It quickly changed for me. This man turned out to be a psycho stalker andwoman beater. He had a wife and It wasn't until the 9th month of us beingtogether that I found out. I was pregnant by his child. h e did a really goodjob hiding It as Aquarian men are charmers good liars and manipulators. You cannever beat them at an argument. They feel they are always right. Even when they're wrong they're right! His wife was an older Libran woman who didanything and everything just to have him love her. Even If It meant letting himbe w/other women. Me In the other hand being the Virgo woman that I am willnot allow anyone or any man at that toy w/my emotions and as a Virgo I am verybossy. I sent his cheating black ass packing and rapidly fell out of love andlust. The thought of sex w/him was disgusting. He wasn't even sexy to meanymore. The baby was miscarried thru all the pain and grief. I see him aroundbeing that he works near where I live and we still work for the same companydifferent sites. Although my heart skips when I see him and he sometimes hecalls this Is something that I strongly doubt would ever be rekindled. He was abully and a liar and he blamed me for the things he was doing on a sneakybasis.

The fourth I met thru mutual friends about a yr ago. always caught my eyes butnever my sexual attention b/c I knew he's an Aquarius and I run from those!About 2 weeks ago we took It to the next level. It was sudden but planned atthe same time b/c I knew when I saw him that night I wanted him bad. We havemutual friends that are dating so It was their birthdays and we both camew/dates. We were getting very frisky while our dates were not looking soonenough we sent our dates home and him and I went home together! It was awesome.

I am going to see If and how this one crumbles. I am going to use my pastexperience w/Aquarian men In the forefront and apply It to this one. I want himevery night but another thing about Aquarian men they do not like It when womencome off too strong. In the mean time I am going to go w/ the flow. Let him seethat he has a friend In me first and foremost. I don't want to lose what we hadjust b/c we had sex. I'm going to play It by ear but undoubtedly enjoy everyminute he gives me of that fine Incredibly large phallus God has blessed himwith! He's not taller than 5'8" and weighs about 110 lbs 20 lbs on his d*&#@Kalone!

Virgo women I hope my story will help you deal w/your Aquarian man.

I am a 42 year old Aquarius Man, and She's a 46 year old Virgowoman, and she basically fell In love with me, as I did with her, but she feltthat we weren't "forever", and she had specific Insecurities...

I think she was afraid of being In love with me, because both men before herwere like me, In that they were charismatic, and able to garner attention, butboth betrayed, which Is what I would never have done.

Then she says she's willing to play second fiddle to another woman's man,although she said that It wasn't fair for me to have feelings for her, knowingthat she wanted another...

She wanted It both ways, she wanted me to be totally In love with her, so thatI would literally worship her, while she was free to keep her options open, andwhen the better option came by, just close the door on me, like a worn out,used teddy bear...

Now I feel quite used, even though I never lied to her, hurt her, betrayed her,or even raised an argument with her...

But then she flip flops again, by saying that we can't be friends, because shewouldn't be able to keep her romantic and other feelings compartmentalized.

Either she's In love with me or not.

Either she's In love with me, and afraid of commitment, or she's simply asociopath personality who can only feel her own emotions, without empathy forothers.

...oh, yes, she did confess that I was a hot and steamy man, who made her heartrace, her cheeks flush, and whole body writhe with pleasure, and for that shewould always be grateful... (Translation, "Thanks for the ride...")

That makes me feel like I was used as a sexual surrogate. (The polite form ofman-whore.)

So I will no loner believe a woman who claims that all men are afraid ofcommitment, because two make a commitment

I am a Virgo woman 26yrs old and my boyfriend Is a 31yr old Aquarianman. We have been together for 7 years and we have a 5 year old son. I love himbut I don't want to be with him anymore. He moved In with me this summer and I ammiserable. We don't communicate , we argue every other day and when I tell himto leave he wont. Nothing I do seems to work to get him to leave me. I havetold him I cheated on him, I have plainly said I don't want a relationshipanymore, I have thrown his clothes out. He wont leave... I hate for my son tosee us argue all the time. It effects his days In school. Before he moved In meand my son were happy now even my son says "mommy when Is daddy going back towhere he was before?" I need help.

Aquarius man who was In a relationship with a Virgo woman.

I cannot begin to explain how much I dislike drama and how much persistentreminding can distance an Aquarius from the other partner.

Showing Affection. I am not one to focus on reminding someone on how much Ilove them, every second and even further being told to say It. I show my loveas It comes and In my own way not because someone feels that It should have tohappen this way. Sometimes It best to show It than to say It because In theend, words are just words but actions speak louder than any word could everhave meant.

Change. I like being me, not someone else In that partners past, so changingme Is the wrong approach. Wear this, do this, say this, etc. Is what distancesme away from a woman. I do not mind recommendations and will try to make mypartner feel happy and considered. But when I distance myself, then comes theclosing remarks to the relationship.

Distance Is the Aquarius cure all. Here beings the drama. Do you love me? Why have you changed? Your sexual drive Is not there? What Is wrong with you? All these questions come out and that creates more distance. Until the pointthat the cold withdrawn me kicks In and I travel back to my little space todrain from all the drama. But that distance creates more drama because theVirgo pushes her dominance and like a spoiled brat wants It her way. Well I amstubborn as well and really do not need all the drama and change In my life.

Closing. This Is my perspective. I have read all the messages posted here andagree with all of you ladies. Give me the space I desire, respect my views andideals, because by doing so you will get a man who Is totally devoted to youand will worship you like the Goddess you are.

Happiness, Success, Luck, and Blessings to all of you wonderful ladies.

An Aquarius Man.

I'm a Virgo and I think Im In love with an male Aquarius. I can'treally get Into any detail cause we don't see each other very often but I'vehad the longest crush on him forever. I really want to know how a female Virgocan please a male Aquarius?

okay I am dating an Aquarius and I am a Virgo I love him so mucheven though we have our petty fights but It never goes to far and he Is sowonderful his eyes are almost white and my eyes change colors every time I hearhis voice he thinks I am very exotic I thinks he Is wonderful and we bothcan't stay away from each other but he Is some times very Immature but healways ends up making me laugh even when I feel like hell froze over but Itis like he can better but he to shy he won't open up to me yet we have knowneach other since the beginning of august 2007 and 5 months ago he said he feltanother soul In the room soon we are going to have a baby boy and he Is reallyprotective over me I love a lot

I am a Virgo female I have been dating my boyfriend an Aquarian for a yearnow and live together.

we are so different from each other and have different out looks on life. Weboth have our own space and see our friends often. When we are at home he sitsin his chair and I wait on him, cooking dinner getting him drinks etc then Isit In my chair and watch TV. I do sometimes feel neglected as I would like tosit with him and cuddle him all day but If I did he would say I am smotheringhim.

He also has really bad mood swings and we argue. He punches the wall, doors anddamages everything. Once he was working early. I woke up before him and madehis sandwiches for work. Because I was noisy he stormed In the room grabbed theplate and threw across the room In his anger. We have nearly broken up lotswith me always going to leave. He always says he Is sorry and that I am thebest thing that has happened to him.

Some days I just wanna cry at how low I am feeling and how he talks to me. I dolove him and I know he loves me but It Is really hard.

I know what he Is like and try and to stay calm and not let It bother me but Iam sensitive as a Virgo Is and It does annoy me and he sees when I am upset.when we talk about It he gets angry and we argue.

I love or house I buy so much for It to make It lovely and welcoming. he hateswhen I buy things for the house without asking him first as It Is his house toobut he never buys anything. I Ignore him and do It anyway as my home Is mycastle and I will make It as lovely as possible with the little money I have.

We have great days and have a connection and have lots In common and enjoy hiscompany. I am lost when he Is not around and I know he Is when I am not here.

The only advice I can give to Virgo women Is that It Is hard to be with anAquarius man. If you love him you can only accept his ways. If you can notaccept him then you will never be happy.

I am a 27 year old Virgo woman who Is really Into a 26 year oldAquarian Man. We met 3 months ago and from my perspective sparks flew wildly.I'm guessing since It Is In a Virgo woman's nature 2 have big and loving heartsthat It could just be me who have fallen so suddenly. When we went out on ourfirst date we went back to his place and had such chemistry beyond what I haveever experienced. Intimately as well. I stayed with him for 2 days and 2 nightafter. He seemed to be happy I was there and didn't want me to go home but Inthe same instead he was very quiet, distant and aloof. I gave him his spaceassuming and reading that he had very heavy thoughts. however I did remember 2attend 2 him casually with affection letting him know I was enjoying everymoment of his company. After we stayed In contact texting every day I am a VERYbusy woman) but shortly after our encounter he had 2 leave for a new joblocation. now we are In different states and still keep In touch. I went to the state he was In as a get away and planned 2 hook up with himand we did. It was short but boy was It sweet. he seems like he's really Intome but In the same breath I can say that It seems as If he's not Interested atall. we did have a minor dispute prior to me visiting about rumors of agirlfriend and child that he denied exclaiming at the end of the convo that hereally did like me and thought I was a sweet person and hoped that those rumorsdidn't change how I felt about him. but the whole point Is... I just don't knowif I'm putting my heart In a dangerous place being that we are both Indifferent states those rumors could be true although he says It Isn't and hisdistant ways are over whelming. I sent him some pictures recently nothingX-rated but sweet lace. one of the things that he was attracted 2 and my fetish& It has been 4 hours and he has yet to respond. I thought I was beingspontaneous and exotic but I think I may have shattered the respect and picturehe had of me being different than what he was accustomed to

I'm an Aquarius man and just wanted to post a quick thank-you to those who have shared their stories here. I don't have one of my own yet as only just started dating a wonderful Virgo lady, who I'm here to understand better. But to those people who have posted I appreciate your sharing and I'm sure others do too. Best wishes to you all and thanks to the site owner for a very Informative and well designed resource

I am a Virgo woman married to an Aquarius man. I have known him for12 years (JUST friends for 5, dated 5 years, married 2)So stating they like totake their time Is an understatement. I eventually felt like I needed to leavea relationship that was not going to lead to marriage. I felt that In my gut. Iopenly explained this to him and we got married as he could not fathom livingwithout me.

Before that I dated an another Aquarius and It was very difficult. In fact Ihave found that at times they could both be Ice-men as It seemed, but at thesame time complete sweethearts, and romantics--and adventurous In bed.Sometimes, with both of them, being a sensitive Virgo, It felt like torture.Mainly because they do need time to themselves and they are very closed up whenit comes to emotions, like a fortress. I can't figure them out most of thetime. I would over analysis both of them all of the time when In reality Is wasnothing. But deep down they are just afraid of being hurt and I take things toopersonal, you shouldn't If you are going to date one and you are a Virgo.Bottom line It Is really frustrating (to this day) to deal with their quirks.Being friends with them Is truly wonderful, but dating them Is really hard,even when you have known them forever.

I am a 20yr old Virgo woman he Is a 27 yr old Aquarian. We met InMarch of 2010 at a Christian concert In a town away from where I live. We fellin love Instantly. Days later while helping at my church he walked In to helpas well. I couldn't believe It... He quickly walked over to me as we were both abit In shock. 2 days passed and I get a message on myspace from a female whomI didn't know, It was him using his sister-in-laws myspace because he didn't haveone (he thinks they are lame) so he gives me his number and asks me to playtennis or workout with him because he knew I was athletic. So the next day Icall him and Invite him to lunch he tells me he will pick me up so I tell himmy address and turns out he lives down my block! LOL we couldn't believeit...everything was great our families hangout we spent every night together, wewent to church together and 3 months later Im preg. (not so Christian I know!)so he takes me on a trip to see the yankees play becausee he knew I loved them and he proposed while we were on an Italian gondola In aharbor... It was beautiful. 4 months In to my preg he became and alcoholic,started lying, never came home...we split and only talk about once a weeksince... He Is back with his ex or so I've heard and everything Is just soconfusing because he goes back n forth...

He went from being the man of my dreams to hurting me more than any person evercould. I am 35 weeks now and ready to do this alone...Aquarians and Virgos don'tmix...Virgos require commitment, honesty and devotion...Aquarians want to befree, come and go as they please. You will only hurt yourself by pursuing anAquarian. Believe me Its not worth the compromise...u wont gain anything.

I am a 37 yr old Virgo woman who Is "dating" an Aquarius. This Is astrange union. Sexually he Is the best, very sensual. However he doesn't callenough or pay me enough attention, I think by doing so he thinks he Iscontrolling the emotional part trying to keep me at bay, but this actuallyintrigues me. It Is of no benefit to express It to him our moments are justthat "moments" I can not get close to him and find he gets angry when I assumeI am??

I have dated 2 previously, both were In love with me, Intrigued and never heldtheir emotions, I was the cool one. None were shy. They do hold grudges, theyare good lovers, they are productive, and detached emotionally. There Issomething there but pleeeaassee my Virgo ladies If you have to chose a mate whois not a good match Gemini Is better as they do not like conflict andcommunicate well although they are basically as good for us as an Aquarius.Plus they are also good lovers, everything Is basically the same they are justnot as stubborn and are more mentally flexible IF your point Is valid

I am a Virgo woman In love with an Aquarius man. see, that man Isirresistible! he's beautiful In every single way. he's very Intelligent, canhold a real conversation. street smart, book smart. a loving father. a realfamily man. he make me laugh, he's the person who I love waking up to. I wannaask him to marry me. at times when both our tempers are flaring, I really cantstand him (Virgo women,ya'll kno why). but aside from that, he's everything Iwant In a man. spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally and speaking onthat physical part, us together, wit all emotions flowing, maybe even angry sex,it's something beyond this earth. seriously!

Hi I'm a Virgo woman have recently met an Aquarian man, he has comeout of a three and a half year relationship, Its been almost 6 months now. Itended badly and he ended up really hurt. We have been friends and I have fallenfor him big time, I know he cares about me a lot, however he keeps saying thathe Is not ready and that he does not wish to ruin our friendship, we ended upsleeping together as the physical attraction Is tremendous, but then afterwardsthings get more and more awkward and he get even more guarded, he says he wantsto leave the sex and just focus on being friends. and feels like he still wantsto go out there meet new people and go on a few dates, he feels his not readyfor a commitment. I have never asked for one, my only thing from day one hasbeen for him to relax and not be so guarded and If we do have sex which Isinevitable then he should just relax and let It go with the flow, but he sayshe cant. And that he really valued me as a friendd and doesn't want to lose me. He wont drop his guard neither will he let mego. I tried breaking off our friendship, but he kept coming back, so In the endI decided that having him In my life was better than not having him. However,now his back he hasn't even spoken of what happened, and It seems we are atsquare one again with me waiting days for him to contact me. How can I dealwith him> I know his a good person, and I love him but his not knowing what hewants Is pushing me away and making me angry and Insecure. What can I do tobetter understand him? Thanks for your help.

im a 29 yr old Aquarius man and In love with a 28 yr old Virgo woman.we've been together for 5+ years now. I love her and I will always love her.

This Is the worst match ever. I'm a Virgo woman who Is 38 and wasseeing an Aquarius man at 52. We met through a website. He was the mostselfish being I've ever known. It was all about him. Very controlling. Seemsthat dominance was Important to him. Always got to be right. Our conversationswere mostly minimal. We argued a lot. And talk about a mooch! Veryunpredictable. I never knew how to take him. The sex was good, but I've hadbetter. Plus he was loud and tactless. He never gave thought to his wordsbefore he spoke. Oh and did I mention he was a stalker? (on the Internet) Hewould always question why I didn't pay more attention to him. Nothing I did,was never good enough for him. But I will say, he was quite Intelligent. Overall, I will never pursue another Aquarius male again! I'm sorry, but Iwant a man who Is good with communication, who Is giving, understanding and canbe open as well as honest with me. And you'd think I'd know better, because my mom Is an Aquarius and we butt heads at times! But Isn't It alwayslike a Virgo to give someone the benefit of the doubt, despite the odds? LOL

Aquarians like myself just want to be put first by our women, and Inthe same way we will put u first. But we are sensitive, so we do notice If weare neglected by our mate thus causing us to have noticeable odd behavior. Itsjust a call out for attention, and If you could see this, you would realize wemay need our space but when we act a fool for u or get In your face or argueits our way of saying we have enough space and we want u back. Unfortunately,most people wont be there when you need them at first call, but Its just a yellfor loving all that we need. And If we don't feel the love from the one wechoose we will no doubt go find It else where.

Agree, Aquarius men just need to feel wanted. Kind like children do,just give us 10 minutes of TOTAL attention and all runs smooth.

The worst possible thing you can do to harm us Is Ignoring us, does not matterhow silly are the things we are talking about, because we do like to entertainand amuse others. The presence of strangers will not stop us by the way, If wewant to do something for that one person we will do so, what others may thinkof It will not matter.

Being pushed and demanded constant explanation all the time, Is very VERYtiring for us. Persist on that and then Is when we will most likely lie, justto get you off our back. We will gladly explain If we see fit, does not matterif you are our mother, sister, wife, child, boss, whatever. We find It rude perse people not respecting you can not be forced to tell what you do not wantto.

Yes we see missed calls like everyone, yes we read text messages. Continuouslytrying to call us will only shut us more, making us think something like "yes,I hear you, just do not want to talk right now, I will contact you when I feelI should". 30 missed calls will not make a bigger point, just show howsmothering you can be, resulting In a longer period being Ignored. So If youreally want to talk, a text telling so, plain and simple, will be much moreeffective. And make sure you have something to say, small talk Is really notour thing, so do not waste our time.

All this Is often confused with selfishness and coldness, but we just need ourspace to be respected. Learn that and we will be the most loyal, friendly,loving men you will ever meet

I think It's nice that some of the post here work for the combo, butI have five planets In Virgo (moon, mercury, Venus) and he had five planets InVirgo (sun, moon etc) and It all blew up. Virgos know when people are tryingto pull a fast one and that's exactly what I found out. Ex chick came backinto the scene and through analysis and quiet calm examination, I confirmed hisaloofness. Aloofness....whata joke. I understand the poster above aboutVirgos giving the benefit of the doubt, but my Leo sun, said "forget thisguy".

NEXT! Good bye, good riddens!

I've been In 2 relationships with Aquarius men (Virgo woman) I am tothe point where I feel like I keep getting Involved with Aquarians as some formof self torture. I have recently met a new man, who I am very Interested In, Inmany ways, but I am severely hesitant due to the fact that he too, Is anAquarian. (hell, the 3rd times a charm, right?)

My past experience with the 2 Aquarians proved them to be the same, selfish,shallow, and only looking for some girl who worshiped their every move.

This "Aquarians want a best friend" crap. Well that's news to me. In myexperience, Aquarians only want some naive, weak girl who they can use and shiton, who will always come back to them, regardless of how selfish andunfaithful they are.

Maybe I've had some dogs, and I hope so, because It seems like an Aquarian Issuppose to be a good man, too bad I have yet to have that experience. :(

This Aquarius man is driving me insane... He is probably the only man that I have trusted and let my guards down. He was so crazy in love with me... we talked about marriage, I quit my job for him. He promised to go back home to get some money and get ready for us, but it never happened! that bastard lied to me... We never gotten married, but in the past 5 years, he keeps going back and forth with me. He will send emails that he loves me, we will fight, then stop talking for very long months, even to a year, but he always start back with his love for me. I am not even sure that I love him. He is everything that I don't like. The worst was learning that he was separated all this years, but he failed to let me know that he was even married... A part of me still wants him around, and the other one wants to run far away from this looser...

Im 22 yr old and a Virgo woman, I have been seeing a Aquarius man for two months now. We have not been physical because he's older; he 35yr old. That kind of worries me because I don't have much experience in the relationship department; I know that he's been around the block. He is so sweet and makes me feel so important; he is so sexy and cute. I don't want to lose.

I'm a Virgo woman and I've been seeing an Aquarius man for a year and 4 months, our relationship is pretty serious, and we love each other very much. he is very committed to as I am to him. my problem is -I don't know if it's the right thing to call it- that I think we are very different, we don't share the same interests, also I'm a perfectionist and notice even the smallest details, but he is the opposite! which bothers me a lot sometimes. I hate it when he says "babe, you don't have to make a big deal out of it. it's nothing" what he sees as "nothing" could be very important to me. as much as I know how much he loves me deep inside, sometimes I need to feel more special, and sometimes I feel he's a bit distanced or perhaps "cold". he can be extremely sexy, he says the right things, touches and kisses the right way. he's passionate. I'm just worried about those differences, I even feel like he's bored of me sometimes but he says otherwise. what should I do and how can I understand him better? and can we really be together for the long term?

Virgo woman's Point of View- w/man in mind

... I am a Virgo that also shares Libra traits.

I am willing to admit that my Better Half & I do butt heads often.. However, We both realized that going to bed upset with each other is never the route to go. So often times our "debates" as we like to call it, last about 2 or 3 hrs until both of us are at rest with one another.

Us Virgo women are Very Critical & intelligent. We take the phrase "Use Facts to make an Opinion" to heart. So proving us wrong on most things is dang near impossible.

Saying that, as women we must realize that if we expect men to be sensitive to our feelings, don't you think they deserve some compassion as well? Just because we may disagree with their point of view on politics, way to wash the dishes, how to lace shoes.. Etc, doesn't mean their wrong. We must Respect them just as we feel we deserve.

Understand to accept the differences and a relationship with an Aquarius man is the Most amazing!

Their intelligence keeps us on our toes.

Their Great Family Guys.

Sexually Passionate & able to open us up.

They do need their space, as do we Virgo Women. Trust is huge to My Love and showing him trust, creates a happiness within him that's incomparable! He'll want to spend more time with you. Let him come to you & he will.

Show him effort in trying to be as patient with him, as he is with you.. & he won't leave your side.

Yes Aquarius men are stubborn and a little whimsical. Although they may not be 100% of the time Mr. Perfect, those moments he is.. Is worth the wait. <3

Advice to Aquarius Men..

Virgos enjoy the little things in life, so thinking up of small sweet things to do, is totally worth your 5 min. A random note on the mirror saying baby I love you will make our week. Hand picking flowers on your way home will be on display for a week. Bring us our fav ice cream when we don't feel good and you have our hearts. Small reassurances prevent break ups.. You should be awed by her complex, independent beauty everyday.

Advice to Virgo Women..

Let him call You! Seriously.. Do Not Overstep your bounds. Respect him. Make sure to have some formal routine & a splash of excitement. Take one random day a month to do something fun and try something together y'all have never done before. His easy going side will allow us to see the beauty life holds, in all aspects. Appreciate him and walk beside him. Remind yourself communication is key. Just because something makes complete logical sense to you, doesn't mean he's comprehending it.. Try to think before you talk.. Even though Aquarius men are Very Man-like .. It's shocking how sensitive their emotions are. Never ignore his tone.. & listen to him when he speaks. Compromise.

I hope this helped. :) my Aquarius Love & I are in our early 20s & have been together for 2 yrs. He & I are So Very different, yet our differences is what keeps us entertained with one another. Sometimes he has to remind me "No Worries Babe".. & sometimes I put my foot down when I'm really concerned about a certain topic. Remember there's a time and place for everything, ESP disputes..

Well I have a question I am a Virgo who is married and I have a major crush on a Aquarius man who is married. How does this work..

I am a Virgo woman and have been dating an Aquarian for over a year now. We are both in our late twenties and our relationship has been a roller coaster to say the least. We have great conversations and enjoy doing things together, but when we disagree on something it seems things are taken to extremes. Neither one of us wants to give in because we both believe we are right. I have come to realize that if I want to stay with this man I will have to become more docile, accomodating, and learn to let things go. This is something that I do not know if I can do!!! My patience is wearing thin and he nearly drives me crazy at times. Our relationship requires too much effort. at least on my part.

I am a Virgo woman with many Libra qualities. I have been seeing an Aquarius man who I have known for many years but recently started seeing. There are days when I love knowing him and being with him, then there are days when I just want to throw in the towel. Sexually he is great in bed, one of the best, and when I am with him he is totally into me. But then he goes off into his own little world, and I just let him. I have so many friends and such a huge social life, that fine whatever. When he does come back to earth from rotating the planets, he is the coolest guy to ever meet!

I am Virgo woman and I was and am happily married. I met this aqua guy and we had this amasing chemistry. He was the one to approach me and I tried to stop but nothing worked and we ended having sex. He is tooooo good physically but is never available when I need him. We had this amazing time which I couldn't forget (sexually and as friends). He has a girlfriend whom he loves a lot. I have tried everything to stop but nothing works. everytime I try to stay away from him he would come back and we are back to square one. I just want this to stop but don't know how. He make me feel miserable and pathetic. I just want to get out but am unable to. I feel like killing myself for not able to leave him. I would die if I don't get help

I am a 20 year old Virgo woman who has began seeing a 24 year old Aquarius man. I met him at work a year ago when I was in a 5 year relationship and we have been friends ever since. I broke up with my boyfriend in February and he asked me out on a date in July but then left for Europe two weeks later (pre planned). We kept in touch but his close friend told me he is just sleeping with me until he finds someone better, that he slept with everyone in Europe and that I was just a conquest to him. This really hurt me so I pulled away and I was really cold to him while he was overseas. The friend who told me this then broke up with his girlfriend and he told me that he liked me and that the guy I was seeing didn't deserve me and then told the guy I was seeing that I was still into my ex and to 'watch me'. I am 100% over my previous relationship and I really like my Aquarius but I am really scared that he will hurt me or be unfaithful. I know that we are not overly compat ible but when I'm with him it feels perfect, there is never a quiet moment and the sex is so passionate and amazing. He keeps telling me how he really likes me and go's on about my appearance (face, boobes, bum and body in general) a lot and how beautiful I am. I am worried that he is just in lust and will get bored of me quickly or if we do stay together he will be unfaithful. In saying that, he will spend hours and hours cuddling me and talking and he seems like he is genuinely interested. Are Aquarius men known for being unfaithful? I have heard they are charmers, is he just full of s**t? Do we have a chance of making this work based on our strong sexual attraction, our general interests (politics, both worked in advertising, both interested in music etc.) and our friendship?

I am an Virgo and he's a Aquarius man. I'm 16 and he's 15. I really like him but I just don't think he feels the same way about me. At first he was so into me but I never showed any affection. But when I did he became a different person. When I see him it's very nice but I barely do. I really wanted a serious relationship with him but he didn't see it. He has very bad trust issues and so do I but I try not too. I'm so very confused and I feel played. I want to stand out to him. I see him around but I always be the one to say hey not him. I understand that though because I did not speak to him one day when he spoke. If anyone has advice I would love to hear it.

I am deeply in love with an Aquarian man. He has shown me the greatest love that no other man has shown me. I have never met anyone that was strong minded and sensitive at the same time. I've been in relationships but never one where I love him so much that I will except his faults also. I'm no where near perfect but he excepts my faults also and we both agreed to help each other through them. He is my best friend as well as the best lover Ive ever had.

I am a 29 year old Aqaurius man, who has been dating a 21 year old Virgo woman casually for just about two months.

Now, no one is perfect...and I am not complaining about anything here, maybe I'm writing this moreso to get my feelings out. You see, she is in actuality a lot more aloof than I am, although she has a real excuse. She recently had a baby, about three weeks before we met, and gave her child up for adoption. I don't have any children, but one thing I do understand is loss.

I have ex whose entire family really damaged me emotionally and it's taken me several years to get over it. And I understand what it's like to feel neglected as a child as well (She herself was adopted, and I went through years of emotional abuse from my parents growing up)

So, I have always used art to expres myself and try to grow instead of hurting others and lashing out. I feel a closeness, a kinship with my Virgo. Not as strong of a connection in a like-minded emotional rollercoaster sense like I did with my ex (Who was a fellow aquarian)....but something more sedate, wise, and lowkey-comforting. We are both highly literate, and the sex is tender, full of love and playfulness in a relaxed way I'm just not used to. She makes me forget my troubles.

And I am trying to be a comfort to her, without bringing the magnifying glass over her recent loss. I like her...and trust her, but she has stated she's has problems with monogomy in the past. I keep a lot of distance, more for her...but yes as an Aquarian I need my space to brood to. In the begining we could just talk....but as she's become more emotionally attached she has been quieter.

I have abandoment issues and I am making myself give her space because it's for the best, but I wish we could spend a bit more time alone.

I want to know her...be her friend...and see if this continues to grow. I do love her romantically, we clicked so easily it was kind of silly. And she is a brilliant person, my equal.

But she is always going to miss her child, and I feel selfish even telling her I'm in love with her right now. She's not ready to hear it. So...I'm just trying to be there.

Hey an Aquarius male 26 been over a year since my Virgo girl. Can relate to a lot of what's on this page.

We went out for 5 years and lived together for two. The positives yes we where the best of friends, so important to an Aquarius male. Really clicked and had the best of times together.

But she smothered me and I ran, should have run earlier but didn't want to hurt the girl.

To the Virgo woman out there struggling with their Aquarian. Firstly sex and especially courting is a game to us Aquariuses. We love to be able to figure you and out and find those hidden depths. Tease us, don't always want, want ,want. I know you do but you got to play the game, deny us, tease us and withdraw things and you will have our interest. Come on too strong, demands, needs we'll either withdraw or run.

Well im a Virgo girl and I just started talking to this Aquarius boy not that long ago. We talked for a while and then he said he had a girlfriend and all I wasn't really hurt by it, just a little shocked. But im really shy so he wants to meet in the halls and stuff of my school. So I want to but I dont. I really like him a lot he's really nice , cute, and funny. It almost feels like a curse on me that I like guys like this but.. I have no idea how to deal with this whole "I have a girlfriend" situation. But I really need help on this I think im thinking way too much about how this is going to work out and his girlfriend and I know for sure that Aquarius guys and him period are very loyal. Please help me!

I am a Virgo woman and I'm being chased by an Aquarious man. He's married and honestly I have NO interest in him, because, he's married. He is a very sexy and a attractive man (SMILING!!!). If he wasn't "involved" it would be a possibility :o) It's been a month and I thought he would've givin up by now, but I see, he see's me as a challenge. Oh yeah, we work together!!! He's been with quite a few of the women at my job, but in my opinion being with a married man is beneth me. I've even tried being mean, but no cigar. Honestly I like the thrill of the chase from him to me.

I'm a Virgo woman and had a really good friendship with an Aquarian. We connected both mentally and I think, emotionally too. Not sure though if we were on the same boat because he is not verbal of his feelings. Too bad our friendship ended because of one night that changed everything. As a Virgo, we don't usually give ourselves easily to anyone unless we feel it is true. Too bad, Aquarians can just be casual about it. I ended up hurt and broken and he moved on. I miss our friendship but I do not think we can regain it back. We tried but it will just not work for me because he does not feel the same way.

I will just be torturing myself by being his "friend". Avoid this man if you want a real relationship but if you just want something "on the side", it might work.

I am a Virgo and the man I am "seeing/not seeing" is an Aquarius. This dating/friend thing with an Aquarius guy has me all up and down.

When we are together, it might be my own imagination, the communication/chemistry is awesome. We have a wonderful time together no matter what we are doing. The communication stinks the rest of the week! I was having a sleepless night "trying to figure him out" and finally said I don't care what time it is. I sent a text at 2 am expressing my thoughts about his crappy communication skills. He called the next day and we decided that we both needed to work on it. He said sometimes he doesn't want to text, he wants me to call him so he can hear my voice. I, on the other hand, don't want to talk. I just want to know I am being thought about.

Things were fine for about 2 months and then he just stopped texting, calling and coming into my work. I chalked it up to him seeing someone else, got over the sting of him not being man enough to let me know, decided to cherish the memories and went about doing what I normally do.

A month and a half later he sends me a text with only saying he was sorry and had a lot going on. Fair enough, but he needs to say a little more than that. I agreed to go to lunch with him and it was like he never stepped away. He senses when I am upset but doesn't say anything until I spill it all out later in a text message. Then he calls and we talk about it. (Yep, he did say I am reserved with my emotions and feelings just like he is. It is absolutely true.. this wall is heavily guarded) I didn't send a text this time.

I gave up trying to figure this guy out. I decided to just enjoy him and his company when he decides he wants to spend time with me. The tables have turned on him. I am not as "convenient" as I was months before. Now I am getting the texts wondering what is going on with me and how come I am not calling/texting him. I am not giving in to his sexual wants, even though it is probably killing me more than him. He now says I am not nice and a tease. Score a few points for this "reserved" Virgo. He is the reserved/old-fashioned one.

Best of luck to any Virgo woman who is crazy over an Aquarius man!

Well, I am a Virgo man who fell for an aqua man. Both closeted and very cautious. We had a great first 2 months and then problems started. As a Virgo I made one scene after the other. Not a whole lot of drama, but definitely some :-). Regardless, we had a great comnnection, great sex, hours of talks and laughs. Our relationship has been very meaningful and real, very fulfilling for both of us (at least from what we dsicussed). 5 months later the aqua guy decided he did not want to do this anymore. That followed several weeks of weird behavior, distancing himself from me etc etc. Now the question is: did he break up because he got scared we clicked together and he was not sure he wanted to stay together due to all the social and family issues such a decision could potentially bring up (since we would have to come out at some point) or he 's just not into me anymore?

Virgo and Aqua man Well, I am a Virgo man who fell for an aqua man. Both closeted and very cautious. We had a great first 2 months and then problems started. As a Virgo I made one scene after the other. Not a whole lot of drama, but definitely some :-). Regardless, we had a great comnnection, great sex, hours of talks and laughs. Our relationship has been very meaningful and real, very fulfilling for both of us (at least from what we dsicussed). 5 months later the aqua guy decided he did not want to do this anymore. That followed several weeks of weird behavior, distancing himself from me etc etc. Now the question is: did he break up because he got scared we clicked together and he was not sure he wanted to stay together due to all the social and family issues such a decision could potentially bring up (since we would have to come out at some point) or he 's just not into me anymore?

I'm an Aquarius man. I don't let on to people believe in stuff but so many qualities about me fit into the different relationships with every sign. But ive never been with most of my compatible signs. Sure I've slept with many woman and I'm sure they were those signs but I'm never stuck around long enough to find out or even care. In all the forums about Aquarius men it's sounds like we have so much to offer but were just not connected. In my case its true and it's caused me to loose some wonderful women. I did and still do care about the ones that I actually loved but couldn't express it cause it just wasnt natural as weird as it sounds.

Until I met a Virgo...fuck she messed me up like no other. I just came out of a 3 year relationship but we were very disconnected cause of me. I wasn't happy and felt like I was taking care of a sister (piscies). Lol. The Virgo also came out of a 3 or 4 year relationship. We worked together as I was one of her superiors. It didn't take long for us to hook up and decided to have no strings attached relationship. Typical...for some reason I'm some toy to women when I'm single and don't take me seriously in a relationship cause of my aloofness. I really liked her but decided to go along and still paint a picture of me being the big player and basically just to use her. But I really didn't want to treat someone I cared about for once like this. We talked on the phone a lot, plus every other if not every night for a few months at my house. I thought if I stuck it out she would see me for what I could do for her and how much she drove me crazy. I fell in love! Fuck the on e thing I never would do usually in these type of circumstances. My usual next step would be run! But I didn't...I loved her but couldn't tell her cause of our arrangement. It wasnt even about the sex which was good. I would just hold her kiss her. Im never like this usually and not for so long. I was almost 30 by the way.

She was like me in the sense that she came across as very detached with her emotions. I know she cared, I would feel it. But I started to play little mind games and plant ideas in her head that people from work will find out. I only did this cause it was 8 months this was going on for. I was hoping she would just say something, that's all. I didn't want to say anything cause I just didn't want to get hurt. So, she did what I usually do...walked away and said nothing. Lol! That's karma for you! I know I went about things the wrong way but I just didn't want to get hurt. On the outside people think I'm some tough guy. But on the inside I'm not.

I did email her a week or two after. She responded a couple days later and tried to clear things up, but I had more questions. She got nervous people would find out at work so she ran. Lol! I left my job and retreated cause I couldn't work with her anymore.

I haven't had real contact since and when I have seen her it's like we never even knew other. Crazy a women got Me like this finally! And I couldn't even bring her in one date (which I usually didn't do). I couldn't have her, the one I finally fall for. I also started to act weird and erractic cause I didn't kniw how to communicate my feelings to her without getting hurt. Almost like planting a seed to our destruction but sub consciously. All I have to say that it's a curse to be an Aquarius male (at least for me), I promise you Virgo women if worked with us it would work wonderfully. You need patience and to reassure us and that's it, you will be happy trust me. It didn't work cause for us cause we both looked at each other In a different way cause our arrangement. I lost respect for her for doing this sort of thing. Just never would've thought she would've been that type of girl. Aquarians might act like players but we or at least me will loose respect for women I f they act like this. We would still have a relationship but not take emotions or feelings in it seriously. But even after that I still loved her. And I never use that word. Only woman to have me look past my petty ways and break my systems in dealing with women. I will always cherish the time we had together and miss her. She became a very good friend.

And to the Virgo...you now know how I felt.

In response to "I met an Aquarian man about a month ago. He Is 42 and I am 48 and a Virgo woman. He Is In a relationship with his girlfriend not married and they live together. He has been after me since day one and makes me feel I am his entire world."

If he's in a relationship... BUTT OUT! you have NO RIGHT to interfere in wahtever relationship he has with another. regardless of what it is. you ARE the other woman and if you continue this way will continue to be the other woman for the rest of your life!

No good will come out of this. Im sorry to sound so harsh but I hate that women actually think a man will leave the woman he's with for them. if you were truly that great he would have left already. I cannot stand cheaters.

He did it with you, He'll do it to you. Your not anything to him your just filling in what his girlfriend is lacking but I doubt he'll leave her for you. and if he does I doubt your relationship will be successful or that he will even stick around for long.

My ex did it to me insisting this new woman was better and NOW he realizes She cannot even compare to a fraction of what I have. Not only do you not have respect for yourself by doing this, but you also don't respect him. for if you did youd respect HER and youd respect whatever relationship they have together. How can you let him disrespect and degrade you like that? Please have more self respect and don't let someone use you like that!

--- From another Virgo Female

Why is it that the Aquarius man is able to flip from one thing to another? I am a Virgo and totally understand him but sometimes I don't see why he treats me like this. He tells me he loves me too then a week later it becomes I only said it to make you feel better. I find this happens whenever he is more stressed or in a negative mood. He seems to take it out on me. Now he thinks we should maintain a distance from each other as we are not a match. Even though that contradicts what he's said and also I believe he doesn't believe that deep down. Then few days later he feels the need to re-contact old flings saying things like when will we have a reunion! I don't understand that. Is it because they need to feel that they are independent and not rely on one person?

Everything between us is amazing, we understand each other completely and have the most magnetic connection mentally and physically. We have the foundations of friendship and our relationship developed in the most real way possible. We have had many ups and downs like this but this time I feel it is more real as he really is trying hard to have no physical contact with me and to create a distance. I understand and appreciate his need for space and distance, I've been through it many times. But now, I don't know how to handle this. Any ideas?

We are both very independent minded people, but it seems like we have found each other and enjoy being in each others' company all the time and we consider each other the other half of the other. But then he pulls moves like those which makes me think, why?

Is he not into me anymore. I am trying to pretend it doesn't affect me, but in reality it is really hurtful as I feel like I never meant anything to him.

hi there , I have read all the posts on here and I am quite surprised by the comments on a Aquarius men. I am a 31 yr old Virgo female dating a 32 yr old aquaries male we have been dating for 3 yrs now . we started off as very good friends, which I do agree the best way to an Aquarius man s heart is being his friend. they also like a women with confidence and no insercurities.i am a Virgo women whos cautious to committ coming out of a long 10 yr relationship with a past bf. as a Virgo women im stuck in my ways and sensitive which he has had a hard time dealing with . he is very protective of me , and shows tons of affection. i'm the one who has a hard time showing affection.he is very willing to compromise with his hard headed ways to please me. let me say that he is a very faithful man and would do anything for me. I am learning to deal with his straight forward words though he sometimes hurts my feelings with his words. I think an aquaries man is well worth the t ime and patience. best in bed that I have ever had!!!! always wants to please me not selfish in that department at all, but would like it 24/7 but I think thats a man thing lol.if he loves you then he loves you off, but they do need some alone time and virgo's need to learn not to take it personal.

To Virgo ladies: just free yourself from drama, have a variety of friends, be independent, have your own mystery and those men will be so handy. trust me Virgo, for aqua you have it all!! they are very communicating and friendly once you try to focus on your own life.

let him miss you from time to time ;)

I want to thank all the Aquarius men for posting on this site!! you have been really helpful. Please more aqua men posting to us Virgo girls! :)

I met an aqua man more than 5 years ago, we were both in marriages at that time that were pretty much dead, just not quite ended. We became friends first, had an insane connection on all levels, went out (separated from ex's) for about 6 months, and both decided to give our ex's another (one last) chance. Didn't see him for 4 years.

He found me again. He looked for me and wondered about me the whole time. He separated from his ex about a year before he found me again. I looked and wondered about him the whole time too, and being miserable yet loyal to my ex, he even called me and I told him to leave me alone. It killed me to hear his voice but I had to do the right thing.

He treats me VERRRRY good. Best I ever had. We've been together almost a year (since fiding each other again). There are times when I am more emotional about things and he hates crying, etc. which has been actually good because it forces me to deal with things on a more rational, mature level. We better each other in so many ways. And can be VERY sweet and thoughful in the small things. He just brought me red roses today for no reason. He tells me he loves me every day throughout the day. He spends time with me a lot and we go lots of places together. He is very funny, keeps me guessing, and is wild in bed.

Advice to virgos about aqua guys: Be VERY patient and don't get into nagging mode. Better to just hold your tongue and tell yourself everything is fine, on track, and focus yourself on your own independence and he will admire and love that about you (as he values that in himself above all else). Crowd his space, you will lose him easily. don't lose yourself either. Keep your committments and hobbies. Do your own thing, and ENJOY it. The sooner you learn to respect when he needs his space, the sooner his heart will come back to you in that loving way you know he can be.

If you're not comfortable with something he's asking you to do, it's ok to be stubborn a little. don't compromise yourself just because he is trying to get a certain answer from you. In the end, he will respect you more if you are strong and independent in who you are than if you compromise yourself to give him the answer you think he wants. :)

Above all, respect his space. Trust him, if you know he is trustworthy and faithful. Aqua men are usually very loyal. don't analyze everything down to the bone. Accept the skin of things and enjoy him for who he is. If you do not accept him for who he is, he will find someone who will. Be yourself, and don't be needy. If you need something he can't give you at that moment, either talk to a friend about it so you can feel better or wait until he is back in your world. Sometimes waiting for him makes you cherise what he gives so much more, and you will appreciate it more. Be patient!

Be loyal to him. Any slight reason to mistrust you will break your relationship easily! If you cant do that, you are not mature enough to be in a serious relationship. If you are just friends or want more from the aqua man in your life, enjoy that time together. He will always be a trusted and dedicated friend!! But if you are serious, be the loyal Virgo you are. do not give him any reason to doubt you. It is not hard, so don't say it's too hard. Be mature and respectful to your relationship, alone or in his presence.

Hopefully the things I have said will help you. I am 26 but have experienced lots of things people my age havent. I have one child and my aqua guy has two. Get your relationship steady and he will be a great dad to your kids too, as well as his own. Aquarius are great parents when they are mature people.

Remember each relationship is different. Take the advice on here and anywhere else with a grain of salt. It does help a lot to understand your Aquarius significant other so do your research and adapt that to who you are and can be. Enjoy each other! :)

I'm a Virgo woman and have been dating an Aquarius man for 5+ years. He and I fit every single description in our compatibility: we are the very best friends, talk endlessly (yes even in bed... usually philosophy or politics...), share high ideals and commitment to serve others (I'm in medical school and he is in academia), and yes our love is platonic to the point that our friends think we're truly friends. Only we know how deeply the fire burns. It's the best relationship on earth -- long-lasting and improves with age. Here are a few tips for my fellow Virgo gals out there:

Be emotionally self-sufficient. Treat this as your base. Virgo girls tend to be self-doubting and insecure. My moon is Pisces, to make matters worse! But Virgos also have an eternal spring kept so deeply within that sometimes we are not aware of it ourselves. Dating emotional signs like Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio made me feel taken care of, wanted and needed, so much so that I did not need to do off-shore drilling into my own resources. Dating my Aquarius changed that. I felt I could trust his decency and high ideals more than any of the subjective water signs and pragmatic earth signs, and so I felt loved AND had space to become myself and do my own thing. I found his conceptual understanding and visionary ideas about society and human relations inspiring and stimulating. In fact, I gave up a cushy and secure career in order to pursue my childhood dream of becoming a doctor and a writer, which required huge changes and risks. I doubt that I would have ever undertaken such ch anges on my own or with an earth or a water sign. But with Aquarius, he understands and supports me all the way. He also has so many wonderfully weird ideas about how and where to get published!

Be intelligent and articulate your thoughts and beliefs. Virgo gals have no problem with this; we're studious and love reading and thinking on our own two feet! Since I have many water signs, Pisces in particular, I tend to be on the dreamy (read: loopy) side, with many ideas springing out of personal experiences. For instance, I cried my eyes out after seeing this old uninsured man sitting on the curb in front of a hospital, holding his head in his hands for some reason. That sealed my belief that I must become a doctor and open clinics for people like him. My Aquarius loved that and threw behind me his full support - emotional, financial, intellectual. More important, we spent many long hours talking about the systematic as well as specific causes of health disparities. He prodded me to take a more rational and big-picture approach to this issue, and he told me that I had helped him understand how such issues affect individuals. He said he had much to learn about really fee ling for other human beings, which struck me as funny because he seems so concerned with humanity in general. He started a nonprofit himself as a result, and told me this gave him a new purpose in life.

Be busy :) He and I both lead very busy, professional lives. We are both sociable but in different ways: he has so many friends of different shapes and sizes but I am his only close friend, i.e. someone who completely shares in his ideals and ideas (very important to this Aquarius). On the other hand, I am private and selective in whom I get close to even though I am outwardly easygoing and sociable... of course, most of my friends are sentimental watery Cancers and Scorpios. My friends and family give me all the daily caring that I need. My Aquarius makes my mind - where my soul resides - feel alive. To be honest, I don't miss his physical presence when we're apart because he is such an intelligent speaker and I get such a kick out of exchanging ideas with this amazing mind over the phone.

And on the long-distance: some people say Aquarius rule long-distance relationships, but I beg to differ. Why? Because we Virgo women are in a sense whole unto ourselves ;) As long as we seek out our own source of spiritual and emotional strength, with which I believe we are uniquely endowed, we are fine. And separation is always harder for the guy anyway; he misses my physical presence and all that comes with it. When we're apart, he calls me much more frequently than I call him. He sends gifts and makes little gifts by hand. These sweet gestures shocked his sisters and friends. So yes, Aquarius are really really sweet, they just require intellectual rapport in an equal! Which leads to the next point...

Do not get so busy as to ignore Aquarius! He will feel bummed out and, because he is stubborn, he will stay that way. It will take you a lot of coaxing and promising to draw him out. Also, reciprocate all his kindnesses because he plays it fair and has a right to expect the same.

At the end of the day, what I love the most about a relationship with an Aquarius is 1) intellectual companionship, 2) his creativity and sense of adventure, 3) his sense of justice and equality between partners -- no savior-victim or pseudo-mothering here, and 4) wonderful freedom to become your personal best. I hope this has been helpful and best of luck to all of you out there!

I am a Virgo women who has known this Aquarian man for 12+ yrs . Never even thought of him as more than a family friend. Rarely even talked to him. He was my my cousins best friend. Two yrs ago he came to my Halloween party and we started flirting alot!! A few months later we somehow started talking every day and we became really good friends. He and I both were in previous rough relationships and agreed we were not ready for anything serious.Now he has been sent overseas and the distance has only made it harder for me to express my feelings. We have seen each other when he comes home but, not enough. We talk alll the time and still flirt. Have tried dating other men to get my Aquarian man off my mind but, I always end it because no one compares to him. I have been patientnt because I know the last relationship he had ended being overseas in infidelity on his exs behalf. Only I wish he knew how trustworthy and committed I would be even being overseas. I don't wa not tomake him feel rushed or push him away wiuth my feelings because I have become aware how Aquarian men are scared of that....yet I want him to know I have thought of him as more. If he doesn't want to persue anything until he returned I would even wait for him. I got it bad! :( should I give up???

I'm in a relationship with an Aquarius man it seems as if he doesn't care about me.He is always irritable when I talk to him,his rude,we do not have a social life because his against spending unnecessary we do not even go to the mall for lunch,it's either he will stay in the car and say he is full or doesn't feel fine any more I should just go and grab something for myself and the worse we stay together after he never sees anything wrong or apologise.For he doesn't want to go with me to the mall because I will want to buy important house hold things.Every month end when it comes to the issues of budget he doesn't stick to it.He is diorganised,untidy,he is always complaining about his finacial state which is not true.He doesn't want routen,he refuses to change his behaviour.I do not know what to do.

I am a Virgo woman who has been on off for 9 years with Aquarius man, when I met him he had 1 child but now he has 3 more with same woman, I also have 2 children with him, he tells me he loves me and always wished he would be with me, am I a real fool or what, he had some problems and basically he is living with his wife again (they never divorced) am I just being an idiot believing that one day he'll be with me and do I just need to move on!!!

hey hi..I'm Virgo & the guy with whom i'm in love is Aquarius. We both study in same college. we were in r'ship from past 9months. And now at current stage he have broken up with me because of my insecurity, foolishness. And it has been 3 months after a break up. we did had a contact in between but he don't want to listen & want me to leave him alone.. But how much i'll have to wait. this is making crazy over here.I actually didn't understand him at first but after reading this profile I realized that I was wrong. please plz help me I seriously love this guy & I'm dying to get him back I tried everything & I guess these trials have pushed him far away from me. now you please guide me what to do Next? I want to apologize for what I've done. I'd been needy, texting him all around, drunk dialing etc.. & I know these were not intentionally but this created a big misunderstanding regarding me to him.. I genuinely love him.. And now that I've realized that what type of guy he's, I'm thinking to apologize him but don't know how to do & when..tell me what to do.. suggest me.. Awaiting for your reply..

I am a Virgo woman, 22 years old, he was 32 when we met, an aquarian. We were already friends when I was only 16 but lost in touch becuz he tried to devirginized and I was too young to handle that at the time. So we never communicated until last few months of 2009. I just had a fresh break up from my 3 year relationship that we finally got to text each other. He said he had not forgotten about me that I am his 'dream' and that he has been waiting for me...etc. So I believeD him. We got a long at first. In our third month he was trying to marry me but very interested in asking in detail about my pasts, about my sex experiences, my flings. We argued over these things bec he thought I slept with so many guys already at my age.. He even told me that he needs to know everything in order for him to accept me! So I had no choice but to tell him little by little, until we always end up fighting.. I lost respect of him, my love for him was also flailing. All he cared was my past..bec he needs to know that he's the best in bed! That his dick is the most satisfying above all! Well I told him yes but the truth? The sex was bad and it hurt! It's never passionate and it took so so so long for him reach the end! Plus he perspires too much, the bed was soaked in his pure perspiration! Anyway, he never learned how to stop talking, he was very talkative, and always wanted to know if he's great or what... He is just the most selfish guy and mammas boy in the world! In his addiction to his trust issues and to my ex and past, he ended up reading my 4 diaries including my highschool's. At first I didn't put much focus in it cause we were planning to get married. I have discovered a lot of bad attitudes in him.. So my fiance and I broke up, I got back to my sagittarian ex. I hope I did not get myself into that. It was a waste of time dealing with such arrogant, crazy, selfish and dishonest old man! So there's no doubt he will never ever be wanted for to be a husband!

I have come to like Aquarian men. They do have the shock factor. Haha. They can really feel STRONGLY about certain things. I can feel their admiration toward me, it's weird. It's weird because I don't feel this quite as strongly with other men. I don't know why this is but it's nice. As of late, one has openly told me his thoughts on things that I don't believe that they can be closed off. Maybe they close themselves off when they feel disrespected or smothered.

Thanks a lot Madame. I loved this article so much.. I'm really so impressed.. I'm an aquarian.. You know an Aquarian better than him.. Oh Jesus.. God Bless you both..

I am 42yrs Aquarius unmarried man and have a same age Virgo lady friend .she is seperated from her husband having 10 yrs son.i propossed her 2 times for marriage in last 10yrs .but she refuged.we have not a single time physical relation.she contact me only wnen she has some work like mkting, bank work, wine etc.presently I come to know she ha s also along affair witha doctor which still going on is she exploiting me? what should I do?